Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen

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HappyHNT!!!

~xo

~Woody Allen

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Ok so I was talking with a friend the other day and he told me he had a good question for CQW.  He went on to tell me how lately his SO has been ‘directing’ him…giving him ‘advice’ on how to do certain things on/to her DURING the act (specifically going down on her).   Which ok.  Who hasn’t told their SO they like so and so or try this, harder, faster, whatever…  But here is his issue.  When he does it HIS way on her, she O’s fast and hard and well, he’s rockin’ it in the ‘blowing her fucking mind’ department.  When he tries it HER way it. takes. forfuckingever.

So.  Here is what he was wondering…
Is it possible for someone to know your body better than yourself?

Personally?  I know what PC would say and I’m just going to second that.  HELL YEAH he does.  LOLOL  I mean there are certain things that I can do better on myself (specifically…my fish/rabbit, I know WHERE it goes, HOW to do it and I love love love his help but let me man the machinery  *snort*).  But honestly, that is the only area.  He knows what I like.  How I like it.  And seriously there is no way in hell I would ever tell him how to go down on me bc that man ROCKS it in a serious O-M-F-G type of a way.  He is my fucking hero.  IDK how he does it or what exactly he does but there is a very good reason I crave and request that of him on a very regularly basis. ~wink~

Spill it people, what do you think?

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Happy HUMP Day!!!


(great thanks to ObsessionArt)
~xo

OMG….this is so right on it isn’t even funny! Hehe….

You Are a Fierce Femme

You have a wild side, and you aren’t afraid to bring it out when the time is right. But you also know when to hang back and keep your “crazy chick” persona in check. In fact, some of your friends may be surprised to find out how far you can take it… You may look mild mannered, but it’s all an act!

This weeks TMI is not my thing.  I’m a girly girl through and through and I am going to just use that as my out, lol.  So here is a meme spin off of last weeks TMI.  I believe I originally stole this from insanely hot Biscuit.

1. What was your high school decade?
The 80’s/early 90’s.  Graduated in ‘91. We had some kick ass hair in those days. Letmetellyou.  *snort*

2. Are you still friends with your high school friends?
Per se. I met Mojito when I was IN junior high, but not the same one.  And we are still friends.  I have a kindofsortof (I’m beyond pissed at him right now) friend from HS.  Besides that….no.

3. What was your favorite thing about high school?
God.  I’m not sure.  It was a weird era for me.  I was a straight A, perfect GPA student with a steady boyfriend whom I thought I would marry…with a naughty explorative side I hid pretty well….  I hit my Senior year and Senioritis HIT.  Drugs.  Drinking. Lying.  An old boyfriend and I reconnected and became a hot ‘thing’ (AH).  My mom kicked me out. 

But still I think I am going to say my Senior year.  It’s when I finally became ‘me’ (not that who I am is drinking/drugs/lying….lmao….but you see what I’m saying…I hope, right?!)

4. Your least favorite?
Gah.  My sophmore year.  It just wasn’t ‘me’ and lots of life changes and I was a total wall flower.  But at the same time…  I gave my all to HS boyfriend and I wished I had spent more time being ME.

5. Did you have a high school sweetheart? And how did that work out?
I did.  After almost 4 years together he decided he wanted to see what the grass was like on the other side of the fence.  While he did that I reconnected with a close friend/guy I had had an insane crush on since my freshman year (AH) and we hit it off at a party and the rest is history.  Of course the HS boyfriend decided THEN that I was truly who he wanted to be with. Yeah…sorry.  His loss. Right?

6. Would you do the whole high school thing again, or is it better left in the past?
OMG no.  OH NO NO NO NO.  No thankyou.  ROFL

Kiddos spent the night with their NN so PC and I took the opportunity to go on a date.    He took me to Benihanas…:::drool:::…  It’s really pretty hard to decide which I love more…  Their Colorado Rolls (tempura shrimp, avacado, cream cheese and jalepenos), salad, soup, fried rice or plum wine?  Hell.  I don’t have to decide. I had them all!  HA!  I think I am seriously addicted to wasabi and soy.  It’s all about the sauce baby….all. about. the. sauce.  Mmmm….

Also spent the morning at the B&B, having our final meeting before the wedding.  It went really well.  Put our, ok ok….lol, MY mind at ease about many things. The menu is decided upon.  How the day will go is set.  We placed the order for the alcohol.  The man who runs the B&B seriously now knows what lushes I am we are.  Oh and our friends.  Seriously.  LOL!  PC’s son will be here in 8 days… Mojito and her hottie hubby in 9…  OMGOMGOMG….  T minus 12 days and counting.  Booyah baby!

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This weeks TFT is up and I love, love, love the girls (AND GUYS!!!) who continue to contribute to the site.  BUT most importantly, show their support for our troops.  Bc after all, that is what the site is about.  It doesn’t matter whether you support our current president (believe me…I get emails regarding that), whether you know someone in the military, whether you are related to anyone who has served or is in the military, whether YOU served in the military (btw, Dana from Amid Life’s Crisis *HAS*).  What it’s all about is wanting to show your/our support for the troops.  To boost their moral.  Bc we are Americans and really….who’s to say that’s not enough? 

~xo

BTW…there is a disclaimer of sorts in my initial paragraph, in the ‘About Me’.  It clearly states that everyone must play nice here. I don’t *do* drama.  I avoid confrontation.  I know there are people out there who thrive off of it.  But it is SO. NOT. ME.  And if you are going to come to my site and leave shitty, vulgar and/or inappropriate comments….then I am going to delete them.  I won’t tolerate that kind of bullshit.  This is my site.  If you don’t like what I have to say, or what I do….then don’t visit.  Simple and easy as that. Ok?  Ok.

MUTE MONDAY- Science

(Anyone care to guess what this is from?  Anyone???)

(seriously, this is *all* I could think of, lol)

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I totally forgot to mention that we took the kiddos to see Journey to the Center of the Earth
last wkend.  OMG it was so so so so awesome.  We all *loved* it.  Unfortunately we weren’t able to see the 3-D version (although after talking to my mom, who took my oldest niece, I’m afraid I would have been queasy afterwards if I had…).  They did SUCH a good job on it.

The main character chick was freaking hot.  And the entire movie I kept thinking -man she looked like someone!  But couldn’t put my finger on it…. 

(Anita Briem)

And then it hit me.
She totally reminds me of Mischa Barton!

Sunday we took the kiddos to the waterpark at Six Flags.  It was 99degrees here and made for a killer day to spend at the waterpark.  Sweet.  The only small catastrophe was this half pipe ride, where my little boy who on a good day DRIPPING WET (snort) weighs 30lbs, didn’t fair so well.  (((his little boney back)))  That ride had THE weirdest sensation of…nothingness. Erie.  *shaking head*

We also saw the new Batman movie. I won’t comment on it much bc I found it to be very slow and dark and…I just didn’t care for it much. …:::ducking:::… (I know, I know…many of you loooooooved it…)

I blew PC while on a business call.  While in a new sexy romper/nightie I had picked up, knowing full well it would drive him infuckingsane.  He dared me.  I usually pass up dares.  But wasn’t one to turn this one down.  Hehe….I love being naughty.

Got our pictures back from the other day.  O.M.F.G…they rock. I have NO idea how I will choose!  Out of like 50 pics, I might be able to narrow them down to 30.  DOH! I get full copyrights to them though.  So I promise to post some once I have the cd. 

Oh.  And Bunny gave me a hard time for going on and on about the doggies new hair cuts and then not posting pics.  Sorry!  So here is one.

Before-

After-

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Alrighty…  Happy Monday!!!

(by ObsessionArt)
~xo

Situations.  Some people.  Things.

Used and abused.  Taken advantage of and for granted.

I hate, hate, hate drama.

But.  Whatever.  Live and learn.

Just sayin’…..

Have a wicked ass Sunday.  ~wink~

To one of the spunkiest, hottest, most awesomely, fantastic giries I know…..

Love ya Babe!!!

*MUAH~*

~Peta Wilson

Friday Favorites-

SeaRabbit.….

Ms. Inconspicuous….The Seduction of Infidelity…..

Biscuit.….

Silken Bonds…Even The Tightest Bonds Are Sweetest Silk…..

Her….HNT Bliss…..


Philospher Mom…..

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Holy FUCK.  Seriously.  This week was insanely full and busy.  PC was
away on business half the week.  I had a full plate every. single. day
this week.  The good news is that next week is much less….just LESS. 
LOL!  The kiddos and I were able to spend time with my sister and her kiddos before they head out of town until almost August (her kids, not my sister).  I got even MORE wedding things taken care of.  I had my final dress fitting …:::happy sigh:::… 

PC and I had engagement pre-wedding photos taken with
our kick ass photographer.  He said I reminded him of Cameron Diaz and
referred to me as Ms. Diaz through out the afternoon.  And had PC climb
a tree.  *snort* I’m totally stoked to see how they turned
out.  (but apparently I blink.  A lot.  Like…a lot a lot.  Doh)  It
was a fun way to spend an afternoon together though.  *grin*

T minus 16 days!!!

Oh I got two of the furbabies groomed (the really furry ones ~wink~). 
I have held back on having the big girl shaved.  She is a Border
Collie/Golden Retriever mix….but looks just like a Newfoundland.  She
has SO much hair.  And loves to swim SO much.  And when she does, it
literally takes her almost the entire day to dry.  She smelled possibly worse than a swamp.  Ewww…  I left instructions for them to make her look as least stupid as possible.  *snort*  It worked.  She looks adorable and is SO MUCH HAPPIER. 

Enjoy your weekend.

~xo

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~xo

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I was talking with a friend the other day and she was talking about an argument her husband and her had gotten in.  She had made an off-handed/teasing/joking comment to him about him not being her ‘type’.  The comment struck a chord with him and he ended up dwelling on it (in girl terms, ‘obsessing’…lol).  Long story short, the end result was that they got into an argument over the topic.  He questioned her being with him, could she really be ‘in love with him’ if he wasn’t her type.

Her point was, the fact that she had fallen in love with him, despite him not being her type, was actually pretty huge.  She had been ‘WOWed’ by him enough for it not to matter that he wasn’t her usual ‘type’ she dated or was attracted to originally.  Which is a good point.

“Push past your type to see who might be a far better, longer lasting and happier match for you.”
Dating for Women - He’s Not “My” Type
By Ronnie Ann Ryan

And it got me thinking.  About my type.  Do I have a type?  I think about girls I’m attracted to….  Once upon a time I would have said someone like Jennifer Anniston…Jenna Jameson.  Slim, blonde, pretty, girly, feminine….  BUT then I think about every girl I’ve been attracted to or been in a relationship of sorts with in the last few years.  And uh…none of them fit that description.  LOL! (ok, one of them did, she was a short term summer ‘fling’)  What it comes down to is not my initial reaction or attraction (or lack there of, whatever the case may be).  They pursue me.  They wow me.  The girls who have pursued me, the dark, mysterious personalities that everyone else is falling head over heels for but they still chose ME.  THAT is who I’ve been with. 

Men.  I used to think I had a type.  But that in itself was difficult, bc as a general rule, I’m not attracted to men really.  But a cut bod.  Surfer type, guy used to do it for me.  Until I realized (as I matured, doh!)….no.  What does it for me is the guy that holds doors open for me.  Acts as if and treats me like I am the most beautiful creature in his presence, wants to take care of me and protect me…but at the same time help me grow, and let me be me.  THAT is a huge turn on.  And the more I got thinking about that….huh.  I found him.  AND he does have a cut bod to boot.  ~grins~

The Girl Next Door:

52% Sexy-Cute, 57% Dark-Light, 64% Artsy-Stylish

Cute, neither Dark nor Light, and neither Artsy nor Stylish. This sounds like a blah category, right? Oh, my, no. The Girl Next Door has been the subject of more dirty fantasies than you could possibly count. She’s so sweet, and innocent, and infinitely corruptible. Every morning you glance out your window hoping she’ll have forgotten to draw the blinds. You may feel bad about it, but you know you’ll be doing it again tomorrow.

The Your Type of Girl Test

Action movie star:

You scored 55% masculine, 52% athletic, 54% exotic, and 56% refined!

You love a manly man and you don’t have time for boys. You like someone who looks exotic and who takes care of his body and hygiene. That is a good idea in case you are trying to eat jello shooters off of his beautiful 6 pack. Someone like…..Jean-Claude Van Damme, Belgium’s hottest export. But let’s face it, the whole point of this was to look at a bunch of hot guys.

(seriously….I do NOT care for *this* particular man, barf, LMAO!)
The What type of MAN turns you on Test

What is YOUR type?  Not just what the silly test says, lol.  But what you think is your type?  And would you consider the person you are with now (if you are), ‘your type’?

Happy HUMP Day!!!

(compliments of ObsessionArt)

1. What were you known as in HS (Jock, Princess, Geek)
Um…  None of the above.  I wasn’t in the uber popular (uber stuck up) crowd, but I definitely wouldn’t have been considered a geek.  I was me. I was friends with geeks, popular people, jocks.  Most of my friends were graduated and at least a year above me (age wise).

2. What were you really?
What I just said.  LOL See above.

3. If you could go back and tell your 16 year old self one thing, what would it be?
STAY AWAY FROM THE SKATER DUDE.
No, lol. I’m kidding.  With out him I wouldn’t have my kiddos and they are pretty close to my everything, and I honestly don’t regret my relationship with him, just certain things *about* the relationship. 

Ok.  Something different.  I was this straight A, don’t drink, don’t smoke, don’t break rules (notice I am refraining from using ’straight laced’ though….*SNORT!*) teen my sophomore/junior years.  When I became a senior and broke up with the boyfriend I had been spending ALL my time with since my freshmen year…. I went into serious party mode.  Parties every night, drinking, drugs, lying, sneaking around…  It caused a serious riff bwtn my mom and I.  So much so that she kicked me out the month before I graduated.  Luckily I had been so insanely studious the previous years that I had the capability to skate through my senior year classes with out issue, in spite of my partying.

4. If you could erase one moment from your school days what would it be?
I kept a group of friends (girls) that treated me like shit. I wished I would have caught on sooner than I did and ditched them.  They were totally shitty to me.  Which is why I kept mainly guy friends after I got rid of them.

5. Who did you not date (or more) that you wish you did?
IDK.  I had two serious relationships.  I had several best friends who were guys.  I sometimes wonder what it would have been like if I dated them.  I’ll say….Jeff.  We had a serious attraction to each other.  He once confessed his undying love for me while we were drunk and I pretended the next day that I didn’t remember to save him feeling badly or stupid.

Bonus (as in optional): If you went to prom, describe your outfit.
Which prom?  LOL I went to my boyfriends Junior prom (I was a sophomore), my junior prom and my senior prom.  The dresses I wore to the first two were utterly hideous (think Vegas showgirl for one…LORD! lmao).  *puke* But my senior prom dress was princess-y and I felt beautiful in it.  It was light pink, had corset lacing up the front of it, feminine spaghetti straps.  I loved that one. 

But unfortunately my senior prom sucked the most.  AH ruined it for me.  *sigh*  Oh well.

HappyTMI!!!

~xo

BTW…. TFT will be up soon.  Thanks for everyone’s continued support.  There have been so many girls who have wanted to help and it’s awesome.  If you would like to contribute, email me here or here.  Be sure to include how (if at all) you would like to be credited/linked.