TMI Tuesday (3-11-08)

posted by: Vixen


1.  Is sex hotter for you when it’s forbidden? Or do you get wracked with guilt and it’s not enjoyable?
It definitely can be!  Could I always have hot sex that way? ….No.  And yes, depending on a circumstance. I think eventually guilt would set in (if it were with a person that was taboo to be with)

2.  Are casual sexual encounters fulfilling to you? Do you need an emotional commitment from your partner for sex to be fulfilling?
Yes.  Short term.  Long term I would and do absolutely need “MORE”.

3.  Do you think that with all of the online dating sites that cater to every fetish and desire and places like craigslist that it’s more difficult to make a commitment and/or stay committed to your partner?

No.  I *do* think it gives people more options to explore their sexually.  What seems to be ‘in’ and the thing to do these days is dabble in BDSM, bi-sexuality….and I think that is stemmed by people becoming more comfortable with who they are sexually.  I see nothing wrong with that.  I also think people’s relationships are changing, in reflection of all of it.

4.  Have you ever joined or participated in an online dating site?  If not, would you ever consider it?  What about a fetish site, such as alt.com?
Nope, not personally.  I would consider it, yes.  ;)

5.  What is the weirdest fetish you’ve heard of?
Hmm….weird defined differently for everyone.  Personally, probably the baby/diaper whatever.  Just not my thing and I don’t get it.  But again, to each their own.  *shrug*


Bonus (as in optional):  The definition of ‘fetish’ is so vague. Do you think you have a fetish(s)?  If so, do you want to share what it is?
  ;)
Mmm….I suppose I do.  I share in many of PC’s.  And integrating them into our sex life has been hot.  I’ll leave it at that.  (lol)

HappyTMI!!!

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~xo

15 Responses to “TMI Tuesday (3-11-08)”

  1.   BunnyNo Gravatar Says:

    I never thought of PC as a fetish guy. Hmmmm. Now I’m insanely curious!

    Yeah, the diaper thing is weird. I don’t get it either.

    Happy TMI!

  2.   Mike YNo Gravatar Says:

    1. I don’t know how to handle this one. I can only have sex with one person. My sex life revolves around Vixen. So if something is forbidden, it’s still permitted because she’s the one who deems it okay. I’m not sure if that makes sense or not.

    2. Again, this is similar to number 1. I can only do things in the context of Vix being good with them. So, while something may be a chance encounter on one hand, it’s tied to my long term commitment to Vix on the other.

    3. Nope. I think there are some intriguing things out there and Vix and I have discussed some. But I don’t think it’s at all hard to stay committed to Vix.

    4. I have not participated in an online dating site. I have been known to peruse alt for some friends in the area. But again, it’s always a mutual thing for the two of us. I don’t have a separate friend life for myself.

    5. Personally, I don’t mind the baby/diaper thing. We start off that way and most will end up there in old age ;) Actually, I really don’t give much thought to it. The part that gets me is when folks will poop their drawers. The thought triggers all sorts of gag reflexes.

    I think the ones that really unnerve me are the ones that deliberately involve poop or pee. I’m too into clean for those. Blech!

    Bonus: I definitely have my fair share of fetishes. Before anyone gets all over me, I don’t necessarily participate in them. I just happen to find lots of things interesting. That’s all. I love the idea of experimenting and feeling free to express ones self.

    And again, I’m into pursuing Vixen’s interests.

  3.   bronxbtNo Gravatar Says:

    miss you V.
    think i’m jes gonna answer the bonus question.

    dunno wtf it is, but a lady, nekkid, wearing only leather boots. it’s not like i spend TIME on the boots or anything, but damned if for some reason i don’t find it hotter than HELL. put those in the air, baby… some fun’s gonna commence!

    ;)

  4.   Zoely/MascotaNo Gravatar Says:

    i’m loathe to admit it but apparently the longer something goes on, the less casual it becomes for me. I’m RESISTING THE TEMPTATION TO BACKSPACE THAT OUT.
    ack. must run now. come see me sometime, miss you!!

  5.   DNo Gravatar Says:

    come on, vixen. you put the question out there to us all and then you won’t even answer it. i want to know what vixen’s fetishes are! come on, give us one. :)

    great questions and all of your answers but one are good. ;)

  6.   VixenNo Gravatar Says:

    D- you wanna know one of my fetishes? …I like PC to be my bitch ;)

  7.   VixenNo Gravatar Says:

    Zoely- I think that is fairly common and just human nature. Some of us more so than others. But as I said, while I can do casual, it wouldn’t stay that way for long. I form emotional attachments too easily. xx

  8.   VixenNo Gravatar Says:

    Mike- yes…lots and lots and lots…..lmao! ;)
    *muah*

  9.   VixenNo Gravatar Says:

    Bunny- hahaha! If only you knew *wink*

  10.   HaaaaaaaNo Gravatar Says:

    This is an interesting TMI. I don’t usually do the question thing, but I’m going to pick this one up in my blog. Happy TMI!

  11.   Amorous RockerNo Gravatar Says:

    I *loved* your answers. On your answer to 3, I do believe that people are becoming more comfortable and open about sex and their own sexuality. I agree on bisexuality being more common but on that same note, a lot of younger girls just like to claim to be bisexual for attention because guys find it hot. I see that a lot at work. You see them kiss a female friend to look hot in front of some guys and both the girls look rather uneasy doing it but do it anyway. Being bi, I have nothing against it obviously, I just hate that some people do it for attention and cool points alone. Anyway.. enough rambling from me. Awesome answers and Happy TMI! =)

  12.   Mojito MojoNo Gravatar Says:

    AHAHAHA – So, I totally already knew that was one of your fetishes. Your answer to #6. That is what I was going to say to PC – that’s a fetish of his too – to be dominated that way. It all makes perfect sense once you ‘realize’ or ‘see’ that.
    ;D

  13.   KahunaNo Gravatar Says:

    Busy day there Vix but I finally got out here to read you.

    Thanks for the questions – very provocative!!!

    I said the same thing on Bunny’s site about the adult diaper thing LOL

    Take care dear and give Stealth all our best

    Kahuna and Babushka

  14.   KateNo Gravatar Says:

    When I’m older, I think I’ll think more long-term. Right now, I like casual.

  15.   mamatulipNo Gravatar Says:

    Yeah, the diaper thing is really strange to me. REALLY strange.

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