Friday Favorites-

Cute But Evil…..  ALL MY FAVORITE THINGS IN ONE PHOTO!!!!  Rockin’ shoes.  A frilly skirt.  God I freakin’ *LOVE* this pic!

Sadie…..  She’s the bomb.  Seriously.  *swoon*

Thursday’s Child….. There were supposed to be pasties.  I guess they failed, but the upside is we get THIS pic!  Love the boa and perfect amount of lips in this crop.

Angel…A Secret Freak.….  Beautiful.  You must click the link and go see the other pic. It was awfully difficult to choose!

Biscuit…..  You know I loves her and her photos.  Very beautiful.

Betty Rocket..…  This is one awesome pic.  All sort of erotic and sensual.

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In TV news….. Season 5 of So You Think You Can Dance begins May 21.  I fucking *LOVE* this show.  LP and I look forward to it every year.  We actually went to see their season 2 live tour.  It was kick ass!  So insanely excited…..

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It’s the first day of May.  Which….*drum roll please*….means the beginning of National Masturbation Month.  In 1995 Good Vibrations began celebrating to raise awareness.  This began after the Surgeon General at the time (Dr. Joycelyn Elders) was fired for saying that masturbation should be discussed as part of young peoples’ sex education.

Why Masturbate? Why Masturbate-a-thon?

Despite great strides in sex-positive education, masturbation for many remains a taboo subject.

They believe:

• Masturbation is the safest sex.
• More masturbation means more sexual self-awareness.
• Masturbation with a partner can be educational and hot.

Myths about masturbation-

• Masturbation is something you do when you’re young, but then grow out of. (70-95% of adult men/women masturbate)
• Masturbation isn’t ‘real sex’; it’s only for people who can’t find a partner.
• Masturbation is something men have to do, but women don’t “need” to. (statistics do show that men do masturbate more than women.  BUT social attitudes towards female masturbation are a lot more negative)
• People in relationships don’t masturbate (basically every survey taken- whether that be Playboy or Redbook…say that way more married men masturbate than women, but a really high percentage (something like an average of 60% of women do)
• Too much masturbation is bad for you. (duh.  If it is a part of a balanced sexual and social life, it poses on specific risks)
• Only certain kinds of people masturbate. (ok, so survey research shows that whether you are 19 or 99, religious and conservative or secular and liberal, no matter who you are or what stage of life you are in…almost everyone has masturbated at some point in their lives!)

WHY Masturbate-

• Because masturbation is immensely pleasurable, invigorating, rejuvenating and fun.
• Because sexual pleasure is each person’s birthright.
• Because masturbation is the ultimate safe sex.
• Because masturbation is a joyous expression of self love.
• Because masturbation offers numerous health benefits including menstrual cramp relief, stress reduction, endorphin release, stronger pelvic muscles, reduction of prostate gland infection for men and resistance to yeast infections for women.
• Because masturbation is an excellent cardiovascular workout.
• Because each person is their own best lover.
• Because masturbation with a partner can be educational and hot.
• Because masturbation increases sexual awareness.

Masturbate-a-thon will be on May 2 this year, it’s their 9th annual.  They promise the event to be fun and easy place for participants to jack or jill off (~giggle~  ….yes, they actually say that…).

The event takes place every year in San Francisco.  You can buy a ticket to come (haha, pun intended) as a spectator.  Spectators and voyeurs are welcome.  But it struck me as interesting that it only costs $15 for females and transgenders BUT $40 for MEN (non-trans) who want to attend unaccompanied.  Huh.  Bummer if you are a man and not transgendered.  Never thought you would be penalized for that did ya?!  LOL

Anyways.  If you have nothing better to do tomorrow…..  ~wink~

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Have a completely stunning weekend!

(AnaSexy)

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Karen and Shane (names have been changed) have been together for almost a year.  It’s a good relationship, they are in love, things are going very well.  For their one year anniversary Shane tells Karen he is taking her out to someplace special to celebrate.  She gets dolled up, very excited for their special night out.

Until she discovers the restaurant he is taking her to is the exact same one he used to take his ex girlfriend to for special occasions.  She knows it used to be ‘their place’.  Karen is quite upset about this and they end up getting into a very nasty argument.  Her issue is she felt as if it were a recycled date.  That rather than put thought into taking her to a uniquely special place to THEM, he took her to the place him and his ex girlfriend liked to go together.

Does she have a valid point or is she blowing things out of proportion and making more of an issue out of it than there actually is?  How would you feel?  I’d love to hear from both sides.

Personally, I think she’s being ridiculous.  Shane can’t take her *anywhere* he took his ex???  What if he took his ex girlfriend to Cancun?  Would she mad if he took her there too?!  Depending on how many exes he has had and how long he was together with them, there may not be anywhere he could take her that he hasn’t taken someone else at some point.  And honestly, if a ritzy, nice restaurant is very romantic and awesome and has great food, of course he would want to take her.  PERFECT example.  My most favoritest, most romantic restaurant EVER is The Melting Pot.  There are three located here but one (the original) that puts the others to shame.  It’s located in a historic library, dimly lit, very private and the epitome of romance.  I love love love love going there.  And yes, my exH had taken me there on occasion.

Like I was NEVER going to want to go back!?  Or wouldn’t want to share such a fantasically wonderful place with PC?!  On like our second date PC took me there.  He’ll have to answer for himself, but as far as I know, it never occured to him to be upset that my exH and I had been there.  And now, it’s OUR place to go.  When we are celebrating a special occasion like an anniversary or birthday, it’s the first place we both think of to go.  We’ve made it *our* place.

I understand wanting things to be special but she’s dwelling on irrelevant details.  IMO.

Your thoughts?

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Happy HUMP Day!!!


(Sinnliches Erotica)

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1. Have you ever had angry sex?
I’m sure I have at some point.  There was a lot of anger in my last marriage. 

2. Pity sex?
Um.  I don’t think so.

3. “Oh well, I might as well” sex?
*snort*  Oh yeah.  Quite a few times.  I mean, hell, why not?!

4. One-of-you-knew-it-was-goodbye-and-the-other-didn’t sex?
*sigh*  Yeah.

5. Don’t-remember-having-it sex?
Yes.  Although I can’t really give you any of details, now can I?  Doh.

6. Regret-it-afterward sex?
YES.

7. Can’t-remember-his/her-name sex?
This I can say never to.  With a list as small as mine, it would be difficult to NOT remember their names, lol.  I mean I have short term memory but it’s not THAT short.

8. Never-knew-his/her-name sex?
Ditto to #7.

Bonus: What was the worst single sexual experience of your life?
(I’m going to skip the one I’ve mentioned before that I’m not interested in dwelling on/repeating.  So involuntary experiences aside…..)

There was this time while in the Florida Keys where I had an awful sunburn on my back.  My exH and I were having sex standing up in a shower stall of a public bathroom at a campground.  It was excruciatingly painful on my back.  Let’s just say, there was a misunderstanding when I said “I can’t do this” right before he was about to uh, ‘finish’.  HUGE fight and it was all over a very, VERY stupid misunderstanding.  I don’t know why that ONE sticks out in my head.  But getting in an argument and having the things he said to me be said WHILE having sex…..highly memorable and suck suck sucky.  *groan*

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Mute Monday- Clean!

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Man.  A super fun night spent in the hot tub Saturday night resulted in me staying up way too late.  And drinking way too much.  *groan*  So. flippin. tired.

I have a horrible shin splint that showed up Sunday. I have *NO* idea how I got it as I haven’t run since Friday morning.  *OUCH*

I have been hooked- HOOKED!!! -on the Twilight series.  I couldn’t pull myself away to put the books down, they have been SO SO SO awesome.  Until now.  I am near the end of the fourth and last book. I’ve been near the end for a week now.  I can’t seem to muddle my way through the end.  I think two things are preventing me from just fucking finishing it already.  The first being I will be seriously sad for it to be *over*.  I have loved these books and have gotten very caught up in them.  But the other is that things have really turned in this last book and I don’t love where they have taken them as much.  It IS the final one, so I understand the author needing to wind it up and take it somewhere that like ‘ends’.  *sigh*  Oh well. 

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Happy Monday!!!

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I guess I was really caught up in life last weekend bc it wasn’t until Tuesday that I realized I never posted a “Where’s Ronald”. Doh. I rooked you guys on random silliness! ;)

Ronald in his House of Lush (for those that can’t tell or don’t remember, the red thing on the right is a shot glass shaped like a boob, lol)

Even Ronald can’t resist the boob!

Ronald takes a shot.

Tune in next weekend to find out where Ronald is next!

Have a fantabulous Sunday!

(like I would leave you with pictures of JUST Ronald.  ~wink~)

“Angel Wings”
(AnaSexy)

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Do you remember what you were like a year ago?
Yes….  Kind of an odd question, worded in an odd way.  This time last year was difficult emotionally. I had a falling out with someone I considered very close.  But it was a unhealthy relationship that needed to be cut off clean.

Who was the last person you cried in front of?
PC I’m sure.

Do you watch wrestling?
Eww.  NO.  I hate those kind of sports.

Have you ever played Twister?
YES!  It’s esp fun drunk!  Have you heard of strip Twister???  Hehe…..

What are four of your favorite comfort foods?
Hmm….beer.  Oh wait.  That probably doesn’t count.  I don’t *eat* when I need comfort.  Let’s go with McD’s french fries, homemade Mac&Cheese, Santiagos cheese and onion enchiladas……that is really all I can think of.  Unless I can go back to counting beer.  (lol)

Have you ever seen your best friend cry?
Yes.  :(

How do you know the last female you got a text message from?
Um.  We met through PC.

Do you remember the first time you kissed the last person you kissed?
LOL Let me wrap my mind around this wording…..  *thinking*  Yes.  Yes I do and it was magical and beautiful and still to this day gives me butterflies thinking about it. It was the type of old time movie kiss that you see where the girl lifts her one leg up while *swooning*.  Mmmm…..

Look behind you, what do you see?
A geriatric Siamese cat.  I wuves her.  ~grins~

Would you eat five spoonfuls of super hot salsa for $1,000?
Duh.  I LOVE salsa.  And for $1000?!  Pfffbbbttt, you bet I would!

Does it annoy you when the windows on the car you’re in are dirty?
The windows I need to like SEE, yes.  Otherwise I’m pretty used to it.  At any given time I have at least 2 doggies in the car with me, and when Mick (my Heeler furbaby) comes he mucks up the windows by pushing his wet nose against them.

Do you find yourself funny?
LOL, I guess so.

Could you go for a chicken sandwich and some waffle fries?
Um.  No.  I’ll take the waffle fries but you can’t pay that previously mentioned $1000 to eat a chickn sandwich. *barf*

What was the first cigarette you ever smoked?
I was prob…..14?  I was trying to fit in with my very cliquey group of friends.  It didn’t last very long.  Cigarettes are disgusting.

Do you like going to the dentist?
Seriously?  Does ANYONE like going to the dentist?!

Are you sarcastic?
*snort*  Oh yeah.

When was your last one night stand?
Never.  :)

Do you ever make shadow puppets with your hands?
No…..  Although the kiddos and I made shadow shapes with our bodies on the drive the other morning while waiting for the bus. ~giggle~

If you were kicked out of the place you’re currently living, where would you go first?
Um.  This is very difficult to hypothetically wrap my mind around. Bc who is going to kick me out of my house?!  *LOL*  Ok, but I’ll play along, I guess I would go to my sisters bc I’m sure I’d have the kiddos with me if I were ‘kicked out’.  (although again, ridiculous thought)


Do you have a fear of taking tests when you are not prepared?
I have a fear of taking tests period.  Even when I AM prepared.  Sends my anxiety through the roof.

Can you sleep without sheets or blankets covering you?
No. I’m naturally almost always cold.  I can sleep and sometimes do with a leg hanging out but I need my body covered to keep my core temperature snuggy and comfy.

If you could change your eye color to anything what would it be?
I’m very happy with blue.  I can’t see me with any other eye color.

Could you last an hour awake without talking?
I suppose but it would be very difficult to not converse with the furbabies that are always following me.  I’d feel badly they were feeling ignored.

What color is the last thing you drank out of?
It’s a coffee mug in shades of pink.

Have you ever burped in front of your significant other or the opposite sex?
NO.  He would seriously freak out if I did that, lol.  It would surprise the hell out of him.  *snort*

Do you hate it when people text back with one word?
Not neccessarily.  Unless I was *needing* more than a one word answer, then yes, that is frustrating.

Do you miss being a little kid?
Nope. 

Happy Saturday!!!

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~Sex and the City

Friday Favorites-

Mina…At Longing’s End….. This angle is *yummy* and insanely sexy.  She has fantastic curves.

Dana…Amid Life’s Crises…..  Huge fan of subtly sexy.  And this is dead on.

Sienna…..I swear this looks like something you would see in a catalog/magazine for lingerie.  It’s *awesome*!

Vic…Saucy Wildcat….. It’s like looking through blinds, very voyeuristic! 

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It occurred to me after I had already put up my Mute Monday post that Monday was the 10 year anniversary (that seems such a wrong word for something like this) of Columbine.  A seriously tragic day where two teenage gunmen, both students of Columbine High School, embarked on a killing spree.  It made a HUGE impact on the community and our entire state.  I was pregnant with LP at the time and happened to be home from work bc of a snow day.  When the breaking news came over the tv mid day I remember being washed over with shock, sadness and then falling numb..  Twelve students and a teacher died that day.  23 others were wounded before the two teens committed suicide.  It was horrible, I had grown up near by this area.  It is, IMO, one of the worst tragedies our state has seen.  It is said to be the 4th deadliest school massacre in US history.

Horribly sad.  I just had wanted to take time to mention it since I failed to on Monday.

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Abercrombie & Fitch and Hollister have picked up a cousin affiliate. 

Gillyhicks offers some VERY kick ass lingerie/intimates/lounge wear that I am seriously coveting. Their stuff is sooooooooooo pretty!!!!!

But what cracked me up is their ad. It’s a very cheeky ad.

*ahem*

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Have a fantabulous weekend!!!

(I soooooooooo want these panties….coveting…..)

Photo by Paul Barbera (via sampler, yimmyayo)

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The headline:
Brides-to-be are becoming victims of the economy  Would be husbands are forgoing the diamond market to buy Cubic Zirconium.  Truthfully speaking, right now could be seen as a ridiculous time to go out and spend thousands of dollars on an engagement ring.  The general rule of thumb is to spend 3months pay, the recorded avg amount spent in NY is approximately $10,000.

Here are the two arguments-

Side A-

What if the would-be-husband says….

“Look there is no job for certain in this economy right now, let’s take this money and sock it away ‘just in case’  and then when the economy turns around buy a REAL ring, until then spend a significantly smaller amount for a CZ ring”.

Fact of the matter is that it may not even BE an option to spend that kind of money.  The money might not even be there at all.

Side B-

Women get married for two reasons, the ring and pageantry.   The other side argues that women will hold out on marriage/getting married until their fiancee can afford a ‘real’ diamond.  She won’t want to ‘make due’ with a CZ ring until a later date.

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What is your view?  As a man, would you spend the phenomenal amount of money on a “REAL” diamond in this economy?  Would you buy a CZ ring as a ‘place holder’ until things turn around or you can afford one?  OR would you hold off altogether on even asking the love of your life to marry you until you have the amount of money you see fit to spend on a ring?

And then that brings me to the women’s view.  ARE diamonds a girls best friend?  What would you like your man to do?  How important is ‘THE RING’ to you?  Does it have the same meaning whether it be a $10,000 diamond or a CZ that costs a 1/3 of that?

Something else they suggest in this article is that men might seek this alternative with out disclosing the information to their soon to be spouses.  How would you feel about this?  As a man, would you do this?  As a girl, would this bother you to find this out?

For me. I’m of the mind set that if you constantly wait for things to be ‘right’ or ‘perfect’…..it never will be.  As OCD and non-spontaneous as I can be….when it comes to things I *want*, I want them.  And I will do whatever it takes to make it happen.  I definitely want a ring to show off.  To proudly show “LOOK I BELONG TO HIM!” ….but how much it costs?  How big it is?  Quality/type/brand, etc.  *shrug*  I’m easy.  I admit to being spoiled, I have a beautiful ring that is all pretty and sparkly and I adore it ~happy sigh~  If I were to find out it’s CZ, I’m really not sure it would make a difference to me. 

I think if it were discussed as a couple-options, I’m probably in the band wagon that when/if he/we could afford it, replace it with a real and/or better one.  But seriously.  I’m not in it for the ring.  Marriages and relationships aren’t about rings or how much things cost.  They are about the people in them.  LOVE.

Happy HUMP Day!!!

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