Friday Favorites-

Coquitten….. From last week, one that caught my attention and I wanted to give notice to.

Arousal of the Minx.…. So soft and beautifully captured.

Elle…Kink Unleashed….. I know, I KNOW, I feature her quite a lot.  But her hnt’s are incredibly *stunning* and professional and always, always impress me.  So how can I *not* feature her?!  She inspires me. 

And one more-
Frenchies….  There really isn’t too much I can say except erotica at it’s very finest.  And it’s so well captured that it’s….ART.

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While I was waiting for spontaneous combustion visiting Roxy in sunny California , 102 seemed excessively hot.  But hell, that is what pools and air conditioning are for.  While I was away they enjoyed torrential downpour and flash flooding at home.  We live on a moutainside and what was left of our roadbase is now sitting at the bottom of our drive.  Great.  And since I’ve been home we have enjoyed balmy 50-60 degree weather, no sign of the sun and constant rain.  Awesome.  I’m really hoping to see the sun again sometime soon.  Friday would be nice.  I mean it would be super cool if the kids could spend a couple more days at the pool before it closes for the season.  Hey, on the bright side, for as long as I can remember, it’s NEVER been this green this time of year.  Pay offs baby, pay offs.  *sigh*

Meanwhile, the top is down on my Jeep.  I like driving around with my top down (*giggle*).  It’s a huge PITA to take it off/put it back up.  So I’ve just left it down.  On icky weather days I (try to) arrange my schedule in such a way that I can use PC’s Explorer. It doesn’t always work out and several times I and/or the kids, have been caught in rainstorms or cold temperatures.  Eh.  No biggie.  But so far this week I have picked LM up from summer camp in the rain, 3 out of the 5 days.  I guess a part of me is determined to think that if I put the top back up, I’m conceding.  Damnit, I want some decent weather, it’s summer for goodness sakes!  *stomps foot*

Ok.  No more bitching about the weather.  This time last year Roxy and her husband were here, as well as many other out of town/state friends and family members.  Getting ready for the wedding.  I seriously can’t believe it’s (almost) been a year!  A huge part of me wishes we were heading off to Hedonism III, Jamaica again in the next few days.  Sigh……

Have a kick ass weekend my friends!

(via wonderlandcode831)

~xo

Get your mind out of the gutter! I was talking about the drink!

1 part Vodka
1 part Sloe Gin
1 part Southern Comfort
Orange juice
Galliano

*giggle*

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HappyHNT!!!

~xo

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There’s a couple, Jim and Angela.  Both have been previously married.  Jim has two children with his ex wife, a boy and a girl (8 and 12).  Jim had a vasectomy after his divorce.  Fast forward, Jim met Angela and they got married two years ago.  They discussed the idea of children before they were married.  Jim is happy with the children he has.  He doesn’t want to start over from the beginning.  Angela doesn’t have any children and was hoping after they were married that Jim would change his mind and have a reversal of the vasectomy. 

Jim is still saying no, reversals have a 50% success rate (according to his research).  His children are out of the diaper/high maintenance stage.  He has a girl and a boy.  He’s *content*.  She is not so much.  And is now disappointed that he won’t jump on board with her baby dreams.  In the back of her mind she had her hopes up that she would be able to convince him to change his mind.

Isn’t this kind of a typical woman thing to do?  The ‘no means maybe’ mindset. 

There have been several times in my life that I have wanted something badly enough that I would have done whatever it took to make happen.  And believed if I wanted it badly enough a- ‘no’ would change to a maybe or even better, a YES.  Having my son saved me from the deep depression I’d fallen into following two devastating late term miscarriages.  Us *not*  having another baby wasn’t an option in my mind.  But there have also been times I’ve come to realize what I was fighting for wasn’t what we both wanted and no matter how badly I wanted it, it wasn’t enough….  While still married to my ex, I had my head wrapped around a 3rd baby.  I wanted nothing more.  Obsessed.  My ex was wishy washy.  One moment he was on board, the next he wasn’t.  In the end it was for the best that I wasn’t able to convince him bc babies don’t fix marriages.  And ours was broken beyond repair. 

Anyway.  What do you think?  I can see her side, can understand her believing she would be able to eventually convince him to change his mind.  Can understand and see how and why she would want a child/children with the man she is in love with and married.  Then being very disappointed and hurt when she realized she wasn’t able to convince him.  And I can see his side.  He said no.  He was clear before they were married that he was done.  I guess, whether it be bc I’m a female as well (who is remarried and has toyed with the idea of a baby numerous times myself) or I just ‘get’ her…… I do feel for her.

What is your opinion, I’m interested in both guys and girls answers, to see if they differ much.

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Happy HUMP Day!!!

(via realprincess)

~xo

I recently gave Fun Factory’s Angelo a whirl.  It’s a waterproof miniVibe advertised as also being ‘powerful and quiet’.  Cool!  As you all may know, all three are HUGE for me.

This is the first traditional vibrator I have tried by Fun Factory.  I have to say if nothing else, I’m really impressed with their packaging.  It comes in this neat little box with a magnetic closure, very sophisticated and ‘ooolalaaa’.  (LOL)   “Angelo” is smooth and flexible with a battery compartment that opens easily (for two AA batteries, which are not included).  The speeds are adjustable, major selling point for me!  It’s somewhat easy to adjust the speed but I did find you had to hold down the up or down buttons, rather than just press and release.  Not a huge biggie, I just needed to remember that while using it.

It’s cute, small, easy to use and….100% body and earth friendly silicone.  Booyah baby!  I liked the way it angled in correctly so that it hit the right ‘spots’.  It’s advertised that it can be used for vaginal or anal stimulation.  It’s not a size or shape or…well, anything that I would consider for anal use.  But it worked well for my favorite use- vaginal and clitoral stimulation.  I also liked how soft and pliable it was.

I think it’s a good bang for your buck (so to speak).  You can find it and other sex toys at the Vibrator.com site.

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TFT is up!  I’m not sure if I’ve not been feeling the questions lately or feeling tied down by my ‘rigid’ blogging routine…  But no TMI for me today.  Check back tonight/tomorrow for CQW.
~grins~

forhereyesonly:

(via realprincess)

~xo

I was sitting in the Phoenix airport waiting for my connecting flight home last night, hoping to not run into my ex husband (wouldn’t that be funny….*snort* NOT).  The irony is the airplane I was on, that brought me *there*, was a connecting flight to my airport.  Hey!  How come that wasn’t an option when we were buying tickets?!  Sheesh, seriously.

Anyway.  So I thought a cool way to kill time would be to update everyone with a trip recap.  Where I would insert cool, fun pictures of my fantastic girlie filled weekend.  But in order to do that I would have needed to be able to access my site and apparently it had been flagged as ‘sex related’ by the airport people.  Who?!?!  ME?!?!  Sexual!?  Pfffbbbt! ;)

So instead you had to wait until this morning.  We got home around 1:30am.  I was finally able to fall asleep (wired) around 3:30 and then got to get up with puppies at 6am.  Yeah……  *sigh*

If you all remember, one of the reasons for my little vacation was to deliver Little Miss Puppers (still remaining to be named, lol) to her new mommy.  I gave her a wee bit of a tranq to make our 7hour trip (including driving, flights and layovers) less stressful for her.  All 6 lbs of her did awesome.  I was so proud of her!

I seriously could have included about 8 more pictures of her bc that muffin is freaking CUTE. 

But I won’t bore you.  You can see she settled in quite nicely and loves her new home.

Her little dog Cerveza was pissed a bit put out with the new baby.  And decided he would make himself at home in my suitcase.  At least he didn’t pee in it (that I could tell anyways *lol*).

One slight issue with a girls only weekend, with out hubbies, is that you lose a cameraman.  And self timers don’t always work the way you hope they would.  *snort*

But we did finally get it to work alright.  (Sidenote- there was an even better pic of the two of us that I had and just before posting realized you could see both of our panties.  DOH!)

We had planned to hit up a casino/nightclub one of the nights.  They have cool live bands on weekend nights after a certain time.  As we were getting dolled up to go we looked up the live band they had scheduled that night.  A band called Soto.  Um….you really should click this link.  Needless to say, pretty much not at all in a hundred million years ‘our’ kind of music.  We certainly weren’t going to be DANCING to it.  So we bagged that idea and partied in the spa with friends and 3 bottles of Boones. 

We did go out the next night to a super cool brewery/restaurant.  Snagged ourselves a great place at the bar (after much stalking) and enjoyed ourselves.  The place is famous for having over 100 beers on tap.  It was pretty cool!  And would have probably been cooler if I had thought to like take a picture of all the taps before um, now.  Gah.
Girls on the town.

All the important things…..appetizers, yummy meals (we both had these exotic/glorified grilled cheese sandwiches with avocados that were so big you had to eat them with forks), beers and cell phones.  *LOL*

 
Do you like my Vanna White impression?

So.  When asked by two hot chicks “Can you do us a favor”, what is the first response that comes to your mind?  Well.  If you are the dude sitting outside the restaurant you respond with “Depends on what it is”.  Really?  REALLY?!  *shaking head*  THAT my friends, will get you nowhere fast.  Nowhere fun at least!  We were, incidentally, only asking him to take a picture!

But so I’m home. It was a mere 102 degrees with humidity down there.  *pant pant*  We spent daytime hours by the pool.  Got some killer shopping done at the outlets (I *totally* scored! WOOT).  Drank beer.  Didn’t have a hang over once (I used to think the sign of a good time was a good old fashioned hang over and in my old ~snort~ age, have decided against that theory) but drank enough for a good time.  It was an awesome weekend spent hanging with one of my very bestest friends, gossiping, venting and just chillin’.

PC, the kiddos and animals managed to survive with out me (I think the kids only called me 5-8x a day, hehe).  As PC was cleaning the day I came home he mentioned how amazing it was the amount of mess the kiddos and dogs could make in such a short period.  Ha…no kidding, right?!  I came home to a super clean house full of very excited animals.

*happy sigh*

Now off to unpack, catch up on laundry and my full inbox.  Weeeee……

~xo

All my bags are packed
I’m ready to go
I’m standin here outside your door
I hate to wake you up to say goodbye…..

I am going to California to visit one of my bestest girlie friends for the next four days.  I’m hand delivering her new baby to her (one of Mick and Daisy’s pups, she’s a Mini Texas Heeler).  *GRINS*  Her husband is away so it’s a girls only weekend.  I’m stoked.  But while reading a post of Barefoot Dreamer last week, something occurred to me….  The last time I went away by myself- meaning without kids and/or my spouse was twelve years ago.  That’s craziness!  And incidentally, it was to visit the same girlie friend, lol.  But it has caused all this anxiety! Which is silly, I’m a grown woman in her mid thirties (it’s mid until you hit forty, right?!).  Of course I will be fine traveling alone (ok I’ll have a puppy companion similar to dragging a baby along for the trip there) but it feels so weird to be leaving my family behind.  And *of course* they will be ok.  But I’m the MOM.  My JOB is to take care of them all.  I’ve stocked them up on groceries, written numerous lists (I’m a list maker!), done everything I could to try to ensure things go smoothly while I’m away.  Part of being OCD is that I can be a control freak when it come to my kids, animals and household.  *sigh*

Anyways.  I will do my best to make it around to see everyone.  It’s unlikely I will get a FF post up on Friday.  If I do manage though, I will let everyone know.  See you all on Monday!

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(and excuse the massive bruise on my shin, gah, I *just* noticed it)

HappyHNT!!!

~xo

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A reader emailed me, let’s call her Kate.  She has a long term boyfriend, they do not live together but have dated for years.  She graduated from college with honors, got on with a star company and is quickly working her way up the ladder to a high end job.  He did not graduate from HS but has his GED and he’s worked a blue collar job with a waste management company since receiving it.  He has good benefits, a secure position with the company and is content with where he is at.

Kate has high aspirations for herself….where she sees herself in five years, ten years, what she wants her life to be like.  She has high aspirations for her boyfriend too.  Him….not so much.  He’s *content*.  This bothers Kate, increasingly so as of late.  She feels as if they are reaching a point where they want different things.  She wants ‘MORE’…while he is content with ‘ENOUGH’.  She has come to the realization that she doesn’t want to marry him.  She won’t want to marry him.  BUT she does want to get married some day.  They don’t argue, they enjoy each others company, are otherwise happy.  So for the time being she has remained with him. 

Her friends have told her she needs to break up with him, that if she has no intentions of marrying him or carrying their long term relationship to the next level, yet does eventually *want* that for herself….she should end it.  Rather than continue to lead him on.  She isn’t ready to marry anyways and doesn’t think she’s doing anything wrong by staying with him.  (until something better comes along????)

What are your thoughts regarding this matter.  She is wanting honest opinions.  Her friends really like her boyfriend so she’s not sure if they are biased and wrong or if they are right.  Honestly it bothers me a bit that she feels he’s not ‘good enough’ for her. Just bc *she’s* not happy with his job doesn’t mean he should have to do something different.  No???  Bc he IS happy with his job, with what he’s doing in life. 

IDK.  Thoughts?

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Happy HUMP Day!!!


(via realprincess)

~xo

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Saturday I took LP and my oldest niece (they are a year and a half apart) to see The Veronica’s.  LP and I are both HUGE fans of them and when I found out they were coming to concert several months ago we were super excited.  The unfortunate part was the venue they played at wasn’t the greatest.  Their sound system sucked ass. It was like listening to your favorite song turned up too loud on a crappy stereo system.  Despite that, the girls and I had a really good time.  It was an enjoyable day.

PC also flew his son back home.  He had been staying with us for the last 6wks.  He normally comes in smaller intervals, several different times each summer.  But this summer we decided to try a longer time frame.  It went amazingly well and was a ton of fun to have him for so long.  There is this huge void with him gone.  *sigh*

The bestest news of all is that Mick is continuing to get better with each day.  It was awfully dicey last week and honestly, I was afraid to get my hopes up.  For so long he was so sick and it seemed everything we tried only made him marginally better.  And as he became this shell of a dog and remained that way, it was upsettingly easy to forget the little happy quirks that make me love him so much. That is until he’s slowly coming back to his old self….  How when he comes up onto the bed first thing in the morning, he lays across my chest to nuzzle my face.  The cute/weird positions he lays in, which we have dubbed his ‘hit-by-car- yogo moves’.  Or when he greets me with his ‘hugs’ by gently jumping up with his paws on my waist so I can scratch his ears and press my face to his.  He has been severely missed and having him ‘back’ reminds me of what I wasn’t allowing my heart to remember.

Hope everyone had a killer weekend.  Happy Monday! 

(via realprincess)

~xo

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