Oh babe, I hate to go ~HNT
posted by: VixenAll my bags are packed
I’m ready to go
I’m standin here outside your door
I hate to wake you up to say goodbye…..
I am going to California to visit one of my bestest girlie friends for the next four days. I’m hand delivering her new baby to her (one of Mick and Daisy’s pups, she’s a Mini Texas Heeler). *GRINS* Her husband is away so it’s a girls only weekend. I’m stoked. But while reading a post of Barefoot Dreamer last week, something occurred to me…. The last time I went away by myself- meaning without kids and/or my spouse was twelve years ago. That’s craziness! And incidentally, it was to visit the same girlie friend, lol. But it has caused all this anxiety! Which is silly, I’m a grown woman in her mid thirties (it’s mid until you hit forty, right?!). Of course I will be fine traveling alone (ok I’ll have a puppy companion similar to dragging a baby along for the trip there) but it feels so weird to be leaving my family behind. And *of course* they will be ok. But I’m the MOM. My JOB is to take care of them all. I’ve stocked them up on groceries, written numerous lists (I’m a list maker!), done everything I could to try to ensure things go smoothly while I’m away. Part of being OCD is that I can be a control freak when it come to my kids, animals and household. *sigh*
Anyways. I will do my best to make it around to see everyone. It’s unlikely I will get a FF post up on Friday. If I do manage though, I will let everyone know. See you all on Monday!

~click~
(and excuse the massive bruise on my shin, gah, I *just* noticed it)
HappyHNT!!!
~xo























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July 22nd, 2009 at 9:14 pm
I so want your shoes…. They are a weakness of mine and you girlie have the cutest!!! (And damn, don’t get me started on the legs). Enjoy your time away!!
xo
ElleJuly 22nd, 2009 at 9:18 pm
Lovely as usual… Nice bruise :D I get them all the time, I bruise easy.
And OMG what a cute puppy!!!!
Have a good trip, enjoy your girlie time!
osbassoJuly 22nd, 2009 at 9:45 pm
I really love the first picture! So different than your norm, and says alot more!
that being said…I have a feeling that once you two get together, all that anxiety is going to disappear pretty quickly! Behave yourselves!!! (HA!)
DanaJuly 22nd, 2009 at 9:55 pm
Have a wonderful time and take lots of pictures … please??
I just adore that first photo …
Westcoast WeirdoJuly 22nd, 2009 at 9:57 pm
Ummm…that first picture makes me sad!! I can’t believe it’s been that long since you went somewhere by yourself. But then there’s me – the last time I flew alone was to your place for your first wedding! *SNORT*
hubmanJuly 22nd, 2009 at 9:59 pm
Have a good trip and enjoy the alone time!
Happy HNT!
Bad Bad GirlJuly 22nd, 2009 at 10:04 pm
Hope you have a great trip darlin!!! I LOVE those shoes!!
JobthingyJuly 22nd, 2009 at 10:20 pm
omg.. i just want to kiss that puppy on its cute little head!
what bruise? ;)
have an amazing time sweets.. you deserve it *hugs*
AnudebisJuly 22nd, 2009 at 10:20 pm
That is such a great photo. There is so much emotion in that pic and the light and shadow with the black and white just make it all the more compelling. Love it!! Happy HNT and enjoy your trip. :)
D&MJuly 22nd, 2009 at 10:41 pm
Go enjoy your time by yourself – it’s important to have that time.
TUGThat pup is too cute!
Great pics!
July 22nd, 2009 at 10:46 pm
The first picture reminds me of a postcard or a very old 1940s photo. It has a classic quality and I like it. Bummer you won’t be around this weekend, but we might still be on for next weekend ;)
CallieJuly 22nd, 2009 at 10:49 pm
Amazing 1st picture and sexy clickthru! HHNT, hope you have a great vacation! We all need a break every now and then.. I am LONG overdue myself.
SamJuly 22nd, 2009 at 10:52 pm
Ok … this is just fantastic. When a photo like the opening image tells a story (or stories) as strongly as this, you know you’ve painted with light and not just taken a snap (even if that’s all you did).
I know Westcoast says it is sad, but I see it more as a brief meditation to prep for the day. Or maybe it’s shaking off the sleep from not enough sack time. And the luggage almost overlooked is perfect.
To top it off, it has a simple sexiness that is seemingly unaffected.
Perfect.
Sam
13messagesJuly 22nd, 2009 at 10:57 pm
I wish you safe and fun travels. That photo is so moving.
sexie sadieJuly 22nd, 2009 at 11:28 pm
Oh, you will have a great time! I am happy for you! You look gorgeous as always, Vixen!
xo~Sadie
NY DivaJuly 23rd, 2009 at 4:34 am
Have fun, really enjoy the time for you!
LillyJuly 23rd, 2009 at 4:56 am
Aww you look kinda forlorn in the first pic!! Have fun, I know you will!
sweetcheeksJuly 23rd, 2009 at 5:14 am
Make the most of your time away…hopefully it won’t be another 12yrs before you get to do it again! lovely pic…absolutely gorgeous!
AmorousRockerJuly 23rd, 2009 at 5:30 am
OMG what a cute little puppy. Awwwww. =D
I’m glad you get some time away and get to see your awesome friend. 12 years? Damn woman!
I LOVE those shoes.
Be safe and have fun!
Red RiderJuly 23rd, 2009 at 6:43 am
Love the pics! Nothing sexier than hnt with those adorable shoes… hope you have a wonderful trip!
barefootdreamingJuly 23rd, 2009 at 7:02 am
Isn’t it amazing that all we want to do is get away, but when the reality hits us we suddenly wonder if we can actually do it.
It won’t take long for the stress to melt away and for the fun to take over.
Have fun….
DianaJuly 23rd, 2009 at 7:28 am
Fabulous photos as usual. They say so much.
Have a wonderful time. Enjoy.
lapis ruberJuly 23rd, 2009 at 8:54 am
Have a great time away – you have lots to look forward to when you come back :-) Happy HNT
angelJuly 23rd, 2009 at 8:56 am
So much emotion captured in the first pic! beautiful
THE SHOES made my toes curl up backwards I LOVE EM!
HHNT
AuroreJuly 23rd, 2009 at 10:07 am
The first pic is moving’ you’ve captured your feelings perfectly. Those shoes are so cute! HHNT!
the eternal listJuly 23rd, 2009 at 10:17 am
have a great time…great old-fashioned still, that first pic
hhnt
wifegonebadJuly 23rd, 2009 at 10:23 am
Great pics – great shoes!
~Emma
MyKeyJuly 23rd, 2009 at 10:30 am
Have fun sexy!
M
Nolens VolensJuly 23rd, 2009 at 10:34 am
(Sighs dreamily) HHNT!
JadeJuly 23rd, 2009 at 10:37 am
I really, really love that first picture–so incredibly poignant!
VicJuly 23rd, 2009 at 11:51 am
I leave Sunday for one night away from my house and family and I’m feeling the same way. Moms need to take breaks more often, but we just don’t. Safe travels and as always, beautiful pics. =)
Morning GloryJuly 23rd, 2009 at 12:10 pm
Absolutely lovely!
I hope you have a wonderful time with your friends and you have a safe trip there :)
Big KahunaJuly 23rd, 2009 at 12:43 pm
Have a great time Vix
BriJuly 23rd, 2009 at 1:19 pm
Well, I hope that you have a fabulous time…. love those shoes – very sexy!!!!!! Great photos as always… HHNT!
kyleJuly 23rd, 2009 at 2:00 pm
first, sexy pictures, of course :-)
You’re gonna have a great time, and you’re family will survive ;-)
Curvaceous DeeJuly 23rd, 2009 at 2:30 pm
Have a great time! And I’m envious of the bruise :)
xx Dee
vanimpJuly 23rd, 2009 at 5:00 pm
Awww that first image makes me wanna give you a big squishy hug! You will have so much fun but I know what its like re the OCD thing and lists and looking after your household (cause no one does it better than you)I am just as bad. Enjoy your holiday hun! xxx
MattJuly 23rd, 2009 at 5:53 pm
Great picture!
Big GeekJuly 23rd, 2009 at 6:11 pm
I am new to your blog… I like it a lot!
wow that first picture is quite powerfull. the click through however different sort of power… oooOOOooo.
Why are you apologizing about a bruise? Its not like a Freddi Curger gaping fleshwound that might have some people returning their lunch. Its not even noticeable given the rest of the composition. I had to go back twice to see what what you were referring to.
I would ask where in California but I suspect that is bad form. I have lived all over California at one time or another is the reason for my curiosity.
Have Fun in California with your girlie friend.
KimberlyJuly 23rd, 2009 at 8:10 pm
Gorgeous shots!!! Have a great trip!!
SageJuly 23rd, 2009 at 10:16 pm
Always sexy Vix. Love em both the first tho is my fave.
amberJuly 23rd, 2009 at 11:34 pm
oh wow, there’s a whole lot of feeling in that B&W!
ValeeraHHNT!
July 24th, 2009 at 2:21 am
HHNT! Awesome shoes Vixen! Have a great trip! I am away as well, and loving every minute of it. V
rageJuly 24th, 2009 at 7:47 pm
We are going to miss you. I am SO stealing those platforms from you!!!
BuddhaJuly 26th, 2009 at 2:10 pm
Twelve years? Wow…