TMI Tuesday (8-10-09)
posted by: Vixen
1. How do you differentiate between love and lust?
Love is long term, something you feel with your heart. Lust is short term and something you feel with your libido. *ahem*
2. You are happily married, engaged, or committed in a relationship, yet you have a hot sexy dream about someone you have always wanted to do it with. Have you cheated at least in your mind?
*snort* Uh, no….. I mean. If that were the case, you might as well consider fantasizing about someone cheating. Which would be silly. I think ‘cheating’ is defined differently by different people’s relationship, but IMO, this isn’t cheating in any sense.
3. Do you trust your significant other?
190% if that is possible. Even when he does something that catches me off guard, that I don’t like or wish he hadn’t done (*ahemheknowswhati’mtalkingaboutahem*) it doesn’t waiver my trust in him. He is THE most trust worthy person I have ever met in my entire life. It is definitely one (of MANY) of his most admirable traits. I *heart* him….. <3
4. How important is your Husband or Wife wearing their Wedding bands?
Um… I’m thinking the wording is a bit jacked up here. I’m guessing they meant “How important TO your Husband is wearing your Wedding band”. I think it’s fairly important. I mean he paid a small fortune for it. And if it’s NOT on my hand he’s probably wondering WHY and whether it’s going to get lost bc it’s not where it belongs- safe and sound on my hand. *LOL* That is my guess anyways….
Is it important to you and why?
VERY! I *LOVE* that he wears his wedding band. It means a lot to me. My exH never wore his, not once. And the fact that PC loves to wear his and hates to take it off says a lot to me about him and us and how he feels about me. I know it’s only a ring. But it’s *important* to me, shows me that he takes our vows seriously and belongs to me. ~GRINS~
5. Do you feel that flirting is OK if you are taken?
Definitely. I’m a HUGE flirt, it’s what I do, part of who I am. And so is PC. It’s a major part of his personality and I find it very cute and endearing. So do many other people. I think people are put at ease bc of it. Flirting is innocent, propositioning is not (unless it’s a hot girl I dig ~wicked grin~).
Bonus (as in optional):If you were 100% guaranteed not to get caught having a one night stand with someone else, would you?
No. Bc if I wanted to do that I would let PC know. Why would I go behind his back and do something sneaky that would KILL me with guilt when I can just talk to him about it and he’d probably make it happen?! (and IMO, where cheating is concerned, it’s NEVER 100% guaranteed….)
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Lucy is my girl. 
She was the first born to a teen mom who was freaked and not intereseted in taking care of her. Daisy as a mom was one step above bottle feeding. I raised these babies, have been their second mommy for the last 11wks. I have this silly albeit special bond with her. It’s been a *very* difficult decision to place her. But I know in my heart it’s what is best for her. She *deserves* to have a family of her own, that she doesn’t have to share with a household full of other, older loved furbabies. Not that we don’t love her to absolute pieces….but she needs her own family, to herself. Lucy is SMART, she learned basic commands (sit, stay, down, come) in several days, is housebroken, knows her name and from her expressions, everything I say to her too. She’s a very special little girl. Today I’m flying (roundtrip) to Dallas to hand deliver her to her new family. A recently widowed mom and her two sons. They have been searching for a Mini Texas Heeler since last December, had recent tragedy in their life and looking to mend their hearts. They are over the moon to have Lucy become part of their family. I think it’s a good match for her forever home.
BTW, as ‘not great’ of a mom as she was (I’m being nice here, lol), Daisy *LOVES* Lucy. Lucy was by FAR her favorite. Maybe she’s making up for that first day when she all but abandoned Lucy for me to take care of. Daisy might not have been the best mommy in the world but she’s a good girl.
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Happy TMI!
(this is oddly hot….)
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August 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
That last picture is hot yet disgusting all at the same time.
barefootdreamingAugust 11th, 2009 at 6:20 am
Oh puppy love.
AmorousRockerAugust 11th, 2009 at 6:31 am
That picture IS oddly hot. Hmm…
Awww. I want a puppy. *Sigh*
Oops. I so forgot to send you another batch of pics for TFT! I suck. =)
I love your TMI answers! XoXo
PCAugust 11th, 2009 at 6:38 am
1. Love is sacrificial towards its object. Lust isn’t. Lust is self-serving.
2. Vixen is free to do what she wants with whomever she wants. The only cheating would be for her to physically do it without my knowledge.
3. Absolutely! (And I have no idea what you could possibly be talking about *wink*)
4. It’s very important to me that she wears hers and I too love wearing mine. I absolutely hate taking it off for Jiu-Jitsu. It’s the only time it ever comes off.
5. I hope so because we both flirt.
Bonus: No. I have no desire for it.
I miss Lucy already. She’s a sweetie.
BiscuitAugust 11th, 2009 at 8:30 am
I envy the openness you have in your marriage. Communicatively speaking. Not so sure I could handle the rest, but being able to talk about things without insecurities getting in the way would be nice.
Puppies pull at my heartstrings a little more these days. What a sweet baby.
That last picture…oy. *LOL*
Chef TrollAugust 11th, 2009 at 8:32 am
I did your Yes/No Meme instead.
NY DivaAugust 11th, 2009 at 4:39 pm
This makes me want to move somewhere that I can have a dog just so you’ll fly out to bring me one. :)
Westcoast WeirdoAugust 11th, 2009 at 6:17 pm
She is cute. I bet Mike would have picked her if we chose at this stage. I think you bred some smart dogs because Caedyn learns quickly too ;) I’m glad you ended up really liking the woman in person too. That helps.
BriAugust 11th, 2009 at 7:06 pm
Great answers and love the pup pics… sooooo adorable… :)
TUGAugust 14th, 2009 at 9:26 pm
Love the animal pics. And yes, the bottom one is oddly hot.
RMGAugust 27th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
Lucy is adorable!!! I am sure she was too hard part with.
You know, I glance at a blog now and again, and just so often little gems jump out and make me realize just how special some of my fellow bloggers are. You are indeed one of these. I like you!
Thanks for sharing so much fun stuff in your blog!