Grief is like the ocean (Friday Favorites)

posted by: Vixen

…it comes on waves ebbing and flowing.  Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming.  All we can do is learn to swim.
~Vicki Harrison

Friday Favorites-

Emmy…Right Turn Without Signaling…..
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Vice of Bent And Vice…..
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Southern Girl…From There to Here…..
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Topaz…..
Strappy! HNT

Frenchies…..
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Minority Report…..
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If you haven’t already, don’t forget to CLICK on the links and visit these lovely ladies, go show them some love!!!

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I had to make an extremely difficult decision this week.  It’s made for an emotionally trying week…from making the initial decision and deciding it was the right thing to do, to following through with it. I know we did what was best for her.  But it doesn’t make it any easier.  Aleka lived a long, happy life.  She was exceptionally well behaved, tried to please all- never rocked the boat, wanted everyone to love her ….a very kind and sweet girl.  I remember last year near this time, she wasn’t doing well, we were afraid she wouldn’t make it through Christmas.  And miraculously she pepped up and got her second wind.  She was a tough girl.  But recently it’s become increasingly evident that she wasn’t doing well.  It’s such a tough call…knowing when her quality of life and happiness is still in tact and when it’s ‘time’.

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Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content…..

Rest in Peace Aleka….. 

~ xo

Vixen

16 Responses to “Grief is like the ocean (Friday Favorites)”

  1.   Emmy Says:

    Oh, honey, I’m so sorry about your loss! Even if it is the right thing, it doesn’t make it any easier losing a fur-baby, as a friend calls them. HUGS!!

    I’m so flattered to make your favorites list! Your other choices were my favs as well! Good pics this week!
    ~Emmy

  2.   MinorityReport Says:

    So sorry about Aleka. Sending some positive thoughts your way.

    Many thanks for including me in your list of favorites. :) I’m flattered.

  3.   NY Diva Says:

    Sorry, Vixen. :( My thoughts are with your entire family, especially the furry ones.

  4.   southerngirl Says:

    Our dog is such a part of the family – so sorry for your loss here…

    Thank you as well for the nod this week – and to be in such beautiful company, wow!

    HUGS!! XO

  5.   Westcoast Weirdo Says:

    She’s frolicking with Tejah :)

  6.   Chef Troll Says:

    Sorry for your loss.

  7.   Topaz Says:

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family the strength to get through this together.

    And thank you for selecting me! I love the others you chose as well, what great shots they’ve taken!

  8.   The Panserbjørne Says:

    The hell with the Friday favorites. I’m so terribly sorry to hear the news about your beloved dog. They take a piece of you when you go and it never really grows back all the way. You and yours have my sympathies and my compassion.

    – PB

  9.   Sage Says:

    I missed one! How’d that happen? I hit it now tho.
    great choices. Lotta good’ns this week.

  10.   Ms Scarlett Says:

    So sorry to hear about your loss, Vixen. It’s so hard to lose them!! Hugs!

  11.   Joker_SATX Says:

    My sincerest condolences for your loss….

  12.   hubman Says:

    I’m so sorry to hear about Aleka :-(

  13.   Barefoot Dreaming Says:

    I cried. Man. That had to be hard. Sorry hun.

    Thankfully I was able to scroll back up and look at the beauty at the top of the post and feel better again.

  14.   Elle Says:

    Awww, so sorry about Aleka. She kinda looks sad on the picture, too :(

  15.   Honey Says:

    I’m so sorry to hear about Aleka. My heart goes out to you and your family. {{hugs}}

  16.   viemoira Says:

    I’m sorry for your loss- my dogs are right up there with my kids and I know your pain. Maybe some “All Dogs Go to Heaven” watching is in order…

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