TMI Tuesday (11-27-09)
posted by: Vixen
~Savage Style
TMI Dan Savage’s YouTube style…. Gotta love a guy that loves the word Fuck as much as I do! *smirk*
1. What are your thoughts on Polyamorous Relationships?
Whatever floats your boat. As long as it works for you in your relationship, more power to you. I’m open to it. If the opportunity presented itself to me, sure I’d dabble. Hell, I have dabbled…on numerous occasions. I do have to say though, it’s difficult to juggle everyone’s emotions and feelings.
2. What is on your list of relationship “deal breakers”?
Ok I LOVE what he calls it- The Price Of Admission. That’s fucking awesome. *giggle*
Still. Here are mine- Rude behavior. Close minded. Overly opinionated (and not willing to see anyone else’s side). Body hair. Talking too openly about your bodily functions (I. don’t. care!). Once I’m “in” though…I’m pretty much IN for the long haul and I’ll learn to deal with most things.
3. How long did it take you you to find the type “you are into” and/or accept it?
To find my type? I’m pretty sure it’s been determined that I don’t have a type. *LOL* Bc every time I think I have a type, it turns out I’m actually attracted to the opposite, or something different. I know what I like and am attracted to when I see her it (mostly) but it changes, it’s a case by case kinda thing with me.
Oh. And I’m still dealing with the fact that maybe, possibly, sort of I might be a bit attracted to (some!) guys.
ETA: Prof Fate insists everyone has a type. So I’ve thought about it. And my type is the drama-FREE, non-violent, non-controlling, treat me like a Princess and adore me type. Does that work? *wink*
4. What is your view on full disclosure about past relationships? (Lies of omission not lies of commission)
Funny. I’ve got a CQW qued up regarding this. If the information you might potentially be sharing is (going to be) hurtful or the knowledge would result in unneccessary arguing/issues, etc, why would you share this info? STD’s and murder of course don’t fall in this category.
5. Have you ever been in a situation where you were not comfortable complying with the adventurous request of a lover?
Surprisingly (or maybe not so much), I have. BUT that said, I can say 99.8% of the time I’m game. I’m pretty much willing to try anything once. I’m fairly adventurous and open minded sexually (duh, right? lol). The king of fetish and kink PC likes to test this fairly frequently though…. ~wink~
p.s. Hey, Prof Fate is always looking for some ideas/questions for TMI. If you have any, email him… prince[dot]hapnik[at]gmail[dot]com!.
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Vixen
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November 17th, 2009 at 1:50 am
1. I’m pretty open to it just as long as it doesn’t apply to me. I’m a one person kinda person. I have no problem with Vixen having more relations. I think she’s chicken though. Actually, she’s not really chicken. It’s hard to find good, quality playmates for her. Why don’t any of you step up?
2. Lack of appreciation of me would pretty much be it.
3. Umm… what type? I found my wife, lover, soul mate. But I don’t think of her as a type. Unless you mean as in female.
4. I don’t keep anything secret. My wife knows everything about me, including the bad stuff.
5. Well, there was that time my wife made me take her to a gay/lesbian club because her “date” got sick. That was pretty uncomfortable when some guy had his girl friend come up to me to see if I’d be open to stuff. Then I had to explain why I was non-gay, but in a gay bar. Can you say… “AWKWARD”?
Apart from that, I’m probably the one who has the most kinks. In fact, I know that’s the case.
ScintillectualNovember 17th, 2009 at 6:38 am
I fucking LOVED this! I reposted without the videos because I hadn’t watched them and now I totally regret it. I actually emailed the one about deal breakers to my boyfriend (lover, former HTB, whatever…I can’t figure it out). God, if I had watched this back when we were together we probably never would have broken up. And now I know why he stopped bitching about my tendency toward clutter…because it was his price of admission. I wish I had accepted my price of admission rather than demanding change on my behalf. I would have liked to ride that ride all the way to the end. Now, I hope I have a do-over. Sigh…I should have posted all this on my own blog. I think I’ll copy it and paste it. xo
Professor FateNovember 17th, 2009 at 7:03 am
The whole reason for this set was the “price of admission.” Then I had to find four others to pad it with (otherwise I’d be preachy).
I do think everyone has a type even if they don’t know what it is. It can be physical or emotional or attitudinal. If your type is something very common, it may not appear that you have a type. If the bubble isn’t too far from the center it doesn’t matter.
~KNovember 17th, 2009 at 12:05 pm
I fucking love this guy and what he has to say on relationships!! Thank you for sharing him with us!
Barefoot DreamingNovember 17th, 2009 at 7:55 pm
This weeks answers are fun funny and informative :)
VixenNovember 18th, 2009 at 12:24 am
PC- awkward yes but it was super funny and you handled yourself like a champ! ;)