Comments on: “You like that baby, you like that?” ~CQW http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/ Tue, 22 May 2012 21:47:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Kara http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-113218 Kara Thu, 03 Dec 2009 05:04:15 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/#comment-113218 VERY HOT!!!!!!!! Kara XOXOXOXO VERY HOT!!!!!!!! Kara XOXOXOXO

]]> By: Westcoast Weirdo http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-113200 Westcoast Weirdo Wed, 02 Dec 2009 23:03:32 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/#comment-113200 I can't *stand* it when the chick (or sometimes dude himself) spits on the dick for 'lube'. So...unsexy. Gross! Or when a fly is hovering around. *snort* I can’t *stand* it when the chick (or sometimes dude himself) spits on the dick for ‘lube’. So…unsexy. Gross! Or when a fly is hovering around. *snort*

]]> By: The Panserbjørne http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-113199 The Panserbjørne Wed, 02 Dec 2009 22:28:24 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/#comment-113199 Interesting question. I look at porn as a quick-release kind of thing. I don't use it to get ideas, or to model my own behavior, and am saddened (but completely unsurprised) that a new generation of kids are in fact using it as reference points themselves. With the preponderance of free stuff that's available in a million ways, it's natural they're going to see it, but there ought to be some common sense involved that hey, these people are ACTING (even if they're acting really badly). For filmed sex, I tend to prefer amateur stuff nowadays. The performers may not be as pretty plastic perfect as the "professionals", but it's more REAL, with all the screwups and real heat that that entails. Oh well. The kids'll figure it out pretty quickly when they get involved with someone more experienced who'll go "get that weak shit OUT of here" and set them (hopefully) on the right path. :) -- PB Interesting question. I look at porn as a quick-release kind of thing. I don’t use it to get ideas, or to model my own behavior, and am saddened (but completely unsurprised) that a new generation of kids are in fact using it as reference points themselves. With the preponderance of free stuff that’s available in a million ways, it’s natural they’re going to see it, but there ought to be some common sense involved that hey, these people are ACTING (even if they’re acting really badly).

For filmed sex, I tend to prefer amateur stuff nowadays. The performers may not be as pretty plastic perfect as the “professionals”, but it’s more REAL, with all the screwups and real heat that that entails.

Oh well. The kids’ll figure it out pretty quickly when they get involved with someone more experienced who’ll go “get that weak shit OUT of here” and set them (hopefully) on the right path. :)

– PB

]]> By: Emmy http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-113185 Emmy Wed, 02 Dec 2009 17:10:17 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/#comment-113185 I just recently had this conversation with someone about this exact topic. We both agreed that porn is a bad example for everyone. Men who don't look like the guys feel inadequate. Men who are with women who don't look or act like it, feel either the women fall short or their skills. Overall - bad idea. I guess I'm thankful that I found my parents' copy of the Joy of Sex when I was a teenager so I had a pretty realistic view of sex. :) ~Emmy I just recently had this conversation with someone about this exact topic. We both agreed that porn is a bad example for everyone. Men who don’t look like the guys feel inadequate. Men who are with women who don’t look or act like it, feel either the women fall short or their skills. Overall – bad idea.

I guess I’m thankful that I found my parents’ copy of the Joy of Sex when I was a teenager so I had a pretty realistic view of sex. :)
~Emmy

]]> By: Vixen http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-113181 Vixen Wed, 02 Dec 2009 15:44:26 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/#comment-113181 BD- good analogy! LOL Prof Fate- <em>"I think the absurdity of the abstinence only eduction that has led tho the belief that oral and anal sex doesn’t cost a girl her virginity, is a more likely culprit."</em> You know, I think you brought up a very good point. I would have to agree with you on that one. BD- good analogy! LOL

Prof Fate-
“I think the absurdity of the abstinence only eduction that has led tho the belief that oral and anal sex doesn’t cost a girl her virginity, is a more likely culprit.”

You know, I think you brought up a very good point. I would have to agree with you on that one.

]]> By: Vixen http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-113180 Vixen Wed, 02 Dec 2009 15:42:21 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/#comment-113180 Chef Troll- uh yeah...the linked article, esp some direct quotes taken from some young people were HIGHLY disturbing! K- YEP. You are so so so right. On so many levels. :) Chef Troll- uh yeah…the linked article, esp some direct quotes taken from some young people were HIGHLY disturbing!

K- YEP. You are so so so right. On so many levels. :)

]]> By: Vixen http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-113179 Vixen Wed, 02 Dec 2009 15:40:44 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/#comment-113179 Hubman- exactly, luckily as parents as open as you and ASM are you can help educate them better (KWIM???) :) PC- that's how long it's been since you've watched hetero porn. It's not been since the SEVENTIES that the men were uber hairy, LOLOLOLOL Now they are completely shaven and well greased from head to toe ;) *snort* Hubman- exactly, luckily as parents as open as you and ASM are you can help educate them better (KWIM???) :)

PC- that’s how long it’s been since you’ve watched hetero porn. It’s not been since the SEVENTIES that the men were uber hairy, LOLOLOLOL Now they are completely shaven and well greased from head to toe ;)
*snort*

]]> By: Vixen http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-113178 Vixen Wed, 02 Dec 2009 15:37:33 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/#comment-113178 OS- you scared me for a brief moment...I was relieved to find out you were only requesting a remake of the *photo*! ;) NY Diva- good for you for showing them the light! *LOL* Someone needs to tell them! Bobf- Oh, don't get me wrong, I'm not arguing *against* porn. I totally agree that it has helped aide society in loosening up some in regards to sexual open-ness and I think of that as a good thing. OS- you scared me for a brief moment…I was relieved to find out you were only requesting a remake of the *photo*! ;)

NY Diva- good for you for showing them the light! *LOL* Someone needs to tell them!

Bobf- Oh, don’t get me wrong, I’m not arguing *against* porn. I totally agree that it has helped aide society in loosening up some in regards to sexual open-ness and I think of that as a good thing.

]]> By: Professor Fate http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-113177 Professor Fate Wed, 02 Dec 2009 15:19:54 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/#comment-113177 <i>Has porn made (some) men bad at sex?</i> Yes. It has made those who think it is an instruction manual, bad at sex. No one should use a Vince Vaughn movie as a relationship instruction manual, but I am sure some have. No one should use <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120655/" rel="nofollow">Dogma</a> for theological/spiritual research, but I am sure some have. In my "post-divorce put my dick into anyone who would let me" phase, I had a six hour relationship with a girl who had watched too much porn, too much bad porn. She was the worse sexual partner of my life. I had another girl told me on out first meeting that it wouldn't work out because I needed "a wild girl and [she] don't even do anal." She proceed to give me a the names and numbers a couple of her friends. I had other experiences during that time that made very aware at how much the sexual landscape had changed during my 14 years of marriage. "Researchers" back in the mid-1990's blamed Bill Clinton's tryst with Monica Lewinski for a shift (maybe a perceived shift) of the "bases" among young adults. Blow jobs had allegedly replaced kissing and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rainbow_party_(sexuality" rel="nofollow">rainbow parties</a> sprang into existence. I think the absurdity of the abstinence only eduction that has led tho the belief that oral and anal sex doesn't cost a girl her virginity, is a more likely culprit. Has porn made (some) men bad at sex?
Yes. It has made those who think it is an instruction manual, bad at sex. No one should use a Vince Vaughn movie as a relationship instruction manual, but I am sure some have. No one should use Dogma for theological/spiritual research, but I am sure some have.

In my “post-divorce put my dick into anyone who would let me” phase, I had a six hour relationship with a girl who had watched too much porn, too much bad porn. She was the worse sexual partner of my life. I had another girl told me on out first meeting that it wouldn’t work out because I needed “a wild girl and [she] don’t even do anal.” She proceed to give me a the names and numbers a couple of her friends. I had other experiences during that time that made very aware at how much the sexual landscape had changed during my 14 years of marriage.

“Researchers” back in the mid-1990′s blamed Bill Clinton’s tryst with Monica Lewinski for a shift (maybe a perceived shift) of the “bases” among young adults. Blow jobs had allegedly replaced kissing and rainbow parties sprang into existence. I think the absurdity of the abstinence only eduction that has led tho the belief that oral and anal sex doesn’t cost a girl her virginity, is a more likely culprit.

]]> By: ~K http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-113173 ~K Wed, 02 Dec 2009 14:05:43 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2009/12/you-like-that-baby-you-like-that-cqw/#comment-113173 The problem is porn teaches you that the biggest sex organ is between the legs, and in truth its between the ears. If all great sex was a matter of friction then porn is PhD level material. However I believe great sex is so much more than just the act and you are never going to get that from a porn. Still it has its place in being titillating and every once in a whole you can get a new idea from porn. Kids stop watching porn!...it'll stunt your growth ...sounds silly I know, but when you are my age you will understand. The problem is porn teaches you that the biggest sex organ is between the legs, and in truth its between the ears. If all great sex was a matter of friction then porn is PhD level material. However I believe great sex is so much more than just the act and you are never going to get that from a porn. Still it has its place in being titillating and every once in a whole you can get a new idea from porn. Kids stop watching porn!…it’ll stunt your growth …sounds silly I know, but when you are my age you will understand.

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