Comments on: Home For The Holidays ~CQW http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/ Tue, 22 May 2012 21:47:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ms Scarlett http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-114347 Ms Scarlett Thu, 07 Jan 2010 20:59:51 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/#comment-114347 I think the most important point here is that they are a MARRIED couple... and her parents expect them to sleep separately? WTF kind of nonsense is that? Girlfriend needs to grow the hell up and take her husband's needs and feelings into account. I think the most important point here is that they are a MARRIED couple… and her parents expect them to sleep separately? WTF kind of nonsense is that?

Girlfriend needs to grow the hell up and take her husband’s needs and feelings into account.

]]> By: Barefoot Dreaming http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-114313 Barefoot Dreaming Thu, 07 Jan 2010 00:27:14 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/#comment-114313 I think they should give it a try - nothing has to be permanent. But, it is completely unfair to hubby to not listen and try to compromise. I think they should give it a try – nothing has to be permanent. But, it is completely unfair to hubby to not listen and try to compromise.

]]> By: NY Diva http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-114311 NY Diva Wed, 06 Jan 2010 22:54:31 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/#comment-114311 I've heard of similar situations and it seems so weird to me that people make such a fuss over having the entire family sleep in one house anyway. Why? Because you're all paying so much attention to each other while you're asleep? What's the harm in sleeping in a hotel room- for privacy and comfort's sake especially! They can spend all waking hours with the family, it shouldn't be that big of a deal. I’ve heard of similar situations and it seems so weird to me that people make such a fuss over having the entire family sleep in one house anyway. Why? Because you’re all paying so much attention to each other while you’re asleep? What’s the harm in sleeping in a hotel room- for privacy and comfort’s sake especially! They can spend all waking hours with the family, it shouldn’t be that big of a deal.

]]> By: Joker_SATX http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-114309 Joker_SATX Wed, 06 Jan 2010 19:55:55 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/#comment-114309 I would tell Jen's parents to stick it where the sun doesn't shine when the topic of Grandchilden come up. "Oh, you want Grandkids? So sorry...separate bedrooms you know." If it were me in Nate's place I would not only get myself a hotel room, I would tell Jen that she has to stay with her parents (house rules y'know)and I would go out drinkin for the night to see what kind of trouble I could get myself into.... But hey...that's just me. I would tell Jen’s parents to stick it where the sun doesn’t shine when the topic of Grandchilden come up.

“Oh, you want Grandkids? So sorry…separate bedrooms you know.”

If it were me in Nate’s place I would not only get myself a hotel room, I would tell Jen that she has to stay with her parents (house rules y’know)and I would go out drinkin for the night to see what kind of trouble I could get myself into….

But hey…that’s just me.

]]> By: Troll http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-114307 Troll Wed, 06 Jan 2010 18:22:46 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/#comment-114307 Totally and completely on Nate's side on this one. Vegetarian Throwdown Dish at TTR. Come to praise! Totally and completely on Nate’s side on this one.

Vegetarian Throwdown Dish at TTR. Come to praise!

]]> By: The Panserbjørne http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-114304 The Panserbjørne Wed, 06 Jan 2010 16:45:13 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/#comment-114304 Nate is bending over backwards for Jen by visiting her parents every year for Christmas and accepting their (incredibly outdated, old-fashioned, ridiculously restrictive) "requirements" about sleeping alone. He is not being unreasonable to want privacy of their own over the holiday. Jen is being stubborn and selfish. Although I think Nate would be justified in just saying "a hotel or I don't go", I think your own solution is perhaps less likely to ruffle feathers. Presented as a reasonable request with a "the hotel is a last option", her parents may be willing to unbend a little. Hell, it's only for a couple of days, it isn't the end of the world. Just my two thinks. I'm dating a girl whose parents are old-fashioned as well, so I don't get to sleep with her when we visit them. My parents, on the other hand, don't give a damn.... -- PB Nate is bending over backwards for Jen by visiting her parents every year for Christmas and accepting their (incredibly outdated, old-fashioned, ridiculously restrictive) “requirements” about sleeping alone. He is not being unreasonable to want privacy of their own over the holiday. Jen is being stubborn and selfish.

Although I think Nate would be justified in just saying “a hotel or I don’t go”, I think your own solution is perhaps less likely to ruffle feathers. Presented as a reasonable request with a “the hotel is a last option”, her parents may be willing to unbend a little. Hell, it’s only for a couple of days, it isn’t the end of the world.

Just my two thinks. I’m dating a girl whose parents are old-fashioned as well, so I don’t get to sleep with her when we visit them. My parents, on the other hand, don’t give a damn….

– PB

]]> By: Kara http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-114302 Kara Wed, 06 Jan 2010 16:06:46 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/#comment-114302 I have to agree with your opinion Vixen. Even my parents don't hassle Me & Jess when we sleep in the same bed together and we visit them at least once a month. They know we're living together and sleep in the same bed every night. Jess is my girlfriend and I would just tell them that have to deal with it if there was a problem. Kara XOXO I have to agree with your opinion Vixen. Even my parents don’t hassle Me & Jess when we sleep in the same bed together and we visit them at least once a month. They know we’re living together and sleep in the same bed every night. Jess is my girlfriend and I would just tell them that have to deal with it if there was a problem. Kara XOXO

]]> By: Westcoast Weirdo http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-114301 Westcoast Weirdo Wed, 06 Jan 2010 14:48:28 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/#comment-114301 I saw this somewhere...;) I think it's retarded. They are married. Parent's are being lame. I totally agree with K and PC. Chick shouldn't have gotten married if she wants to still act like a little girl. I saw this somewhere…;) I think it’s retarded. They are married. Parent’s are being lame. I totally agree with K and PC. Chick shouldn’t have gotten married if she wants to still act like a little girl.

]]> By: PC http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-114299 PC Wed, 06 Jan 2010 13:13:35 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/#comment-114299 Jen needs her head checked. They won't last much longer unless she changes. When she chose to accept that ring on her finger, she opted to leave her mother and father and be one with her husband. As for the parents... that's not even an old fashioned tradition. Talk about looney. Jen needs her head checked. They won’t last much longer unless she changes. When she chose to accept that ring on her finger, she opted to leave her mother and father and be one with her husband.

As for the parents… that’s not even an old fashioned tradition. Talk about looney.

]]> By: ~K http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/comment-page-1/#comment-114296 ~K Wed, 06 Jan 2010 09:23:20 +0000 http://blue-eyedvixen.com/2010/01/home-for-the-holidays-cqw/#comment-114296 Her parents are a married couple..do they sleep in separate beds when everyone is over? Do they not respect the institution of marriage, and so what if he just wants sex? Some women would die to be in her shoes where their husband still desires them. Furthermore, doesn't Nate have family? Yet every Christmas they go to HER family! I am sorry I must have missed it here...who is being selfish again? She is acting like a spoiled brat and there is NOTHING wrong with visiting relatives and staying in a hotel that is a perfectly reasonable compromise. Seriously, they should figure this one out or I don't see them making it to seven years. Her parents are a married couple..do they sleep in separate beds when everyone is over? Do they not respect the institution of marriage, and so what if he just wants sex? Some women would die to be in her shoes where their husband still desires them. Furthermore, doesn’t Nate have family? Yet every Christmas they go to HER family! I am sorry I must have missed it here…who is being selfish again? She is acting like a spoiled brat and there is NOTHING wrong with visiting relatives and staying in a hotel that is a perfectly reasonable compromise. Seriously, they should figure this one out or I don’t see them making it to seven years.

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