(vi.sualize.us)

Ok now.  Nothing new here when I say…I *love* Sadie.  Adore the girl.  *swoon* Um.  Yeah. Moving on.  My point to this uncomfortable display (lol) is that she wrote this post a bit ago that I so completely resonated with!

She referred to something called NRE- New Relationship Energy.  Described by Zhahai Stewart in the 80′s as this…..

“the heady rush of escalating emotional connection and the hot juiciness of a growing sexual attraction, with a person we are just beginning to know and want to know better, much better. It may be viewed as new lust, but it’s definitely a factor to reckon with.”

One of my frequent commenters, jr had asked awhile back for me to explain something I’d said in a post or two.  I’ve referred to something like this, had it on my mind for sometime now. But couldn’t really ‘explain it’ as well as I wanted to.  Until I read her post. “THIS”…what I’m doing outside my marriage, is intoxicating, addicting.  And this NRE is what I’m talking about.  It’s a fantastic high.  There is something completely exhilarating about being into someone new.  The flirting, the stimulating conversations as well as the random ones, the glances, the smiles, touches, kissing, the heart fluttering, and yes….the sex. The amazing sex.

Speaking of…..  Finally saw Yummy after having not seen him for something like 3wks (stupid surgery).  I admit it, I had missed him.  Text, IM….totally not the same.  I looked back, we’ve been seeing each other since like mid February, consistently.  Well. Being with him again was….I’m going to sound like such a girl….mmm, amazing?  Fun?   Fabulous?  Nice?  (What word fits best here???) We went to a movie.  Which was….eh.  Not as great as I hoped it would be or thought it would be.  Very violent and gory.  Well, I mean.  What I saw of it.   Bc I was kind of um, busy.  *ahem* Exhibitionism….you know I love it.  And what took place in that mostly empty movie theater was hot. hot. HOT.  Hands, mouths, clothing undone….  Passion.  Want.  Desire.  Is your imagination running rampant yet?  Wait.  I haven’t even mentioned the car ride home (where the topic of not being able to make it there with out pulling over came up…numerous times).  Or the hours after wards.  *wicked grins*

So yeah.
And PC says I glow.   Which is all sorts of….awesome.   ~grins~

~ xo

Vixen

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