Comments on: On threesomes (TFT!!!)

By: Ruther

Ruther — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 20:30:57 +0000

Threesome are awesome :D

By: mags

mags — Tue, 01 Jun 2010 15:37:42 +0000

I LOVE threesome! With that said, those that have said they would rather have it “just” happen, I would say don’t. The best 3somes I’ve been involved in were always a bit planned. When you take the time before hand to chat and talk thru some things, the easier it is to remove the bad feelings from the situation. I don’t mean script out the whole night, but a few good conversations about what’s expected and what’s off limits just make everything so much more relaxed and enjoyable.

By: Sexie sadie

Sexie sadie — Tue, 01 Jun 2010 06:32:37 +0000

I think everyone has to be EXTREMELY secure in a threesome. One problem with threesomes is that it’s easy for two to get wrapped up in each other and “accidentally” forget the other person, at least that’s how it’s been in my experience, from both angles – as the person who has been left out and as the person who has done the “forgetting”.

Also, I am not personally into watching my Hubby have sex with another woman, so I have found that threesomes without him I enjoy much much more than those I’ve had with him. Less of those “feelings” to cloud things and more uninhibited, unbridled sex to have with someone I don’t have to live with :)

xo~Sadie

By: Semi-Celibate Man

Semi-Celibate Man — Fri, 14 May 2010 04:16:14 +0000

Hi Vixen.

I’m thinking of threesomes lately too. Hoping actually…MFM variety.

By: Emmy

Emmy — Wed, 12 May 2010 02:11:13 +0000

Open communication has always made our 3somes good. Without it, I doubt they would have gone as well.

By: Volet Vamp

Volet Vamp — Wed, 12 May 2010 02:05:54 +0000

Thanks for the great post! I’ve not had a 3some, and hubby has only had me. We talk about it alot, but like you I want it to just happen. So until we find the right woman, it makes for good fantasy talk.

By: hubman

hubman — Tue, 11 May 2010 23:17:49 +0000

Veronica and I kinda messed up our first 3some because of feelings. No wait, *I* messed it up. But through good communication we dealt with it and our 3somes (and more!) have been mostly positive experiences since then.

By: Ms Scarlett

Ms Scarlett — Tue, 11 May 2010 19:23:09 +0000

I’m going to have to do a post on this… I have so many thoughts and questions on the topic… you make a great point about the ‘feelings’ aspect though.

By: Crystal Girl

Crystal Girl — Tue, 11 May 2010 17:12:57 +0000

I’d love too, but as you say…I would be worried that feelings and emotions would just be too overwhelming and be hard on the heart. Maybe someday…. who knows… dreaming is always good.

xoxo, crystal

By: Vixen

Vixen — Tue, 11 May 2010 16:56:27 +0000

Os *ahem*
I have skills…mad skills. *giggle*

I have no idea what you are talking about…… ;)