Category: Fourth of July, HNT
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Let’s say you work as an executive assistant. And your boss’s wife has called several times to asking you if you think your boss is cheating on her. You know your boss takes long lunches several times a week and often closes the door to his office when his cell phone rings. And when you boss leaves for his long lunches, he instructs you to tell his wife that he’s with a client if she calls.
It feels an awful lot like you’re covering for your boss. Which makes you suspicious but…hey your salary comes from him so how much of it is of your concern? But you hate being caught in the middle.
Is it more important to be honest and let the concerned wife know her husband *might* be up to something? Or to make your boss happy to keep your job?
My opinion? HELLO! Your boss pays your bills. Your boss hired you to be his assistant The wife did not hire you to be her spy, her informant. You don’t even know for sure that he IS doing anything. It may feel suspicious and like you are covering for him…but you don’t know. And honestly, what business is it of yours anyway?! The wife of the boss is putting an outside party unnecessarily in a very uncomfortable position. I’ve on several occasions discussed how I feel about that. The ‘scorned wife’ needs to handle issues with her husband on her own. (and we don’t even know that she IS scorned!) Confront him. Try to catch him. Hire a private investigator. Whatever she feels necessary and wants to do. But involving an innocent bystander- especially one who depends on the paycheck of one of the parties is inconsiderate and in poor taste. You have no obligation to continue further conversation with the wife regarding this topic.
Thoughts?
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He comes up behind me in the kitchen. Gently placing his hand on my hip. I can feel his breath on the back of neck. Then his lips. Barely brushing my skin. Moving to my ear. Whispering. Sending chills through me.
His hand moves to my dress, gathering the fabric into his hand. I can feel it sliding up. Exposing my thigh. His fingers exploring. He realizes I’m not wearing panties. Not that he’s too surprised….he would have been more so to discover I was. Still he teasingly chastises me. I melt into his hand that has found it’s way between my thighs. His lips still against my cheek. My breathing increasing. Unable to focus on anything other than where his fingers are delving. As I melt further. My body tensing.
My hand grasps his. Pushing his fingers further into me. Leaning against him, as he stands solidly behind me. My entire body shuddering. Left gasping. Trying to catch my breathe…… As he kisses my cheek.
(psst….highly recommend always reading the tags to the post…it gives a lot more insight to what/who I’m writing about. Especially on Tuesdays. Just sayin….)
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~*~**~FOURTH OF JULY THEME~**~*~
I’d like to do a special post next week, featuring anything related to tits and the Fourth of July. I will be posting a bit early- ON July 4th (Sunday). Show you are proud to be an American! Let’s give the men and women out there serving our country a little something to look forward to! Pictures need to be in as early as possible bc I will be out of town for the holiday weekend.
But in the meantime, make your way there by clicking the button!
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Have a fabulous Tuesday!
~ xo
“I kinda flirt with everything and everyone, no matter if it’s a tree or a coffee cup. I can’t resist.”
The whole player thing…. (which jr so kindly provided a definition of -below- from the Urban Dictionary and that I am so totally NOT) When I mentioned it last week (you know, when PC called me out on it), I failed to mention it was entirely directed towards my interactions with females. I am so totally NOT a player (oh good lord…SO totally not….lololol) when it comes to boys (to clarify…PC doesn’t count…he’s an honorary girl ~winkgrins~). I mean…until this past year the very idea of me even liking one was ridiculous to me, and well anyone else who knows me well. I just wasn’t attracted to them. Not that that stopped me from flirting, or being friendly with one (many). I just wasn’t interested. Still find that to be pretty true. It’s much easier for me to feel an attraction to a female.
But. I am an equal opportunity flirter. I don’t discriminate. Girl…guy….cute….sexy….smoking hot…plain…not really my type…whatever. I WILL flirt with you. I’m not even sure of my ‘type’….bc for me, it’s all about whether that *CLICK* is felt. It surprises me sometimes in fact, when I feel it. Who it comes from. What caused it. When I’m asked my type, I shrug. I used to rattle off something…like I really knew. But it was pointed out to me (ahemPCahem), that no….that has nothing to do with anything really. I like to make people feel good about themselves. Make them smile. Put a lift in their step. I have a knack for it. I like that I have that ability to do that for someone. BUT please don’t get me wrong…. I have my sights set. My crushes, interests, while they may seem to include everyone...don’t.
Just because I flirt with someone, doesn’t mean I want to hook up with them. I am very flirtatious. It’s just who I am. PC and I work well, because he understands this about me. Not that he isn’t insanely flirtatious himself…. But he doesn’t feel threatened. Nor do I with him. Hell when guys have offered to buy me a drink when we are out, he is all for it. Saves him money! *smirk*
A past girlfriend was upset with me at one point, regarding my flirting- she wanted to feel *special*. But I mean, everyone wants to feel special to someone, right?! When I pay so much attention to… ‘everyone’….the person I’m into has a difficult time ‘knowing’ they are the one I’m lusting after, completely into. Well, gah, I guess that makes sense.
I guess I suck at that part. Because in my mind…I KNOW who I’m into. But I guess sometimes I get so consumed in my flirting that I fail to really devote my attention to the person(s) I am entirely interested in. PC has even complained about this occasionally. (I TOLD you…I suck sometimes)
I like to be liked. To feel special. And adored. And fawned over. Why wouldn’t they?
Player? Not so much. Equal opportunity flirter? Completely.
~ xo
Category: Crushing, Cuckhold, Dating, Flirting, Lesbians, Mondays, PC, Relationships, Tall Glass of Yummy
Product Description:
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- Super stretchy elastic, I would definitely agree that the OSFM- is accurate.
- Heart shaped front is large enough to provide just enough coverage (of your naughty bits ~wink~)
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- Wouldn’t be comfortable or practical to wear long term
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I would give this product 3 out of 5 stars
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~xo
Vixen
Category: Review, Sextoy.com
I read something recently that says you can predict how many partners (within one or two) someone has had by calculating this criteria (note: this was mainly geared towards females) :
3 points if your father was law enforcement or military.
1 point for every tattoo and piercing.
Add 5 if you were in a sorority/fraternity.
Add 10 points for every time you were in rehab.
If you don’t “groom your naughty bits” then subtract 3.
If you’ve been married subtract 6 points.
Subtract 2 points for every cat you have.
If you’re a smoker add 3.
If you listen to hard rock add 3.
Is this close or not even?
Me? Um… It’s complicated. I’m guessing this oh-so-scientific [insert sarcasm] calculation was geared towards heterosexual people. Bc for me it gets somewhat complicated. In our ever so evolving and changing society ‘alternate lifestyles’ are becoming….more acceptable. So I have to say, the number calculated was NOWHERE close to my actual number…. Unless we narrow results to male partners only and then well, ok no….not then either. But in a different direction. *wink*
~ xo
Photo courtesy of Janie
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Jun
If you always do what you’ve always done, then you’ll always get what you always got (Friday Favorites)
posted by: VixenFriday Favorites-
Topaz…Gemology…..
Petal…The Not So Secret Life of a Yummy Mummy…..
Beryl…Halfway Past the Point of No Return…..
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Thumbnails are only meant to serve as teasers!
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Can you seriously believe next week it will be July?!?!?! Gah!!! It was barely spring/warm weather…it was June and then *POOF* Sigh…. I can whole heartedly say though, that our summer weather has hit. As in….it has been in the high 90′s this past week. My sister and I were in Sun Goddess mode Monday and Tuesday, taking the six kiddos to the pool (hers and ours). Thursday I took the kiddos to the zoo and it was 99degrees….. Whoa. See why the pool always seems so appealing to me? Any days involving near triple digit temps should most definitely involve water as well. Just sayin….
(oh and another reminder- looking for July 4th themed TFT pics!!! Email me!)
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Farm life….
We don’t have the ‘best’ relationship with our neighbors to the south of us. They love to come and bitch about something we’ve done/they don’t like (a fence issue, dog issue, other animal issue….) and always when PC has conveniently just left. Gotta love tactics like that. So yes…things are relatively ‘strained’. Well, so the other night when a different (nicer) neighbor stopped by at 10pm-ish to let us know one of our horses was down on the road (again- we do have a annoying slight problem of our miniature horses slipping through the fence often)…imagine my um, opposite of chagrin delight to find out it wasn’t one of our horses, but rather the not-so-nice-neighbors horse (donkey…same difference-kind-of-not-really-but-you-get-the-idea, lol). *SMIRK*
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A week from today I’ll be in Roxy-ville (with PC in tow *grins*) getting my Roxy fix. It’s been too long…..various trips that fell through in June prevented us from getting together like we usually do. My happy meter tends to go down when we don’t get to see each other at least once a month somewhat regularly.
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So there you go. Randomness.
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Have a perfectly fabulous Friday!!!
(have to say…incredibly sexy pic, no?!?!)
~ xo
You’ll never live this moment again
~CLICK~
What I remind myself daily…sometimes numerous times a day. It’s my mantra. A different sort of HNT I guess…. Different can be good sometimes, right?
(oh. And btw, #8 of my tattoos)
HappyHNT!!!
~ xo
Vixen
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There’s this girl Laney. She’s had a crush on a guy at her work FOREVER. He’s amazing, they’ve been flirting for a long time and really seem to click. The problem (for her) is he always seems to have a girlfriend. She finally ‘gave up the dream’ that he’d ever be single and ask her out, so she started dating another guy. They’ve been dating about two months and things seem to be going really well so far.
Here’s the problem though. The guy she’s been crushing on forever finally asked her out. She’s ecstatic and wants to say yes…. She doesn’t know what to do. She would feel badly ditching the guy she’s seeing currently. What if she were to break it off with him, date her crush and realize it wasn’t what she hoped it would be? But at the same time worries, if she doesn’t see where things go with this other man she’ll always wonder ‘what if’???
Should she ruin a perfectly good relationship? Should she go for the crush or stay with who she is with now?
Um…. I tend to be the ‘play it safe’ girl. And I would probably stick with the guy I was dating and see where that goes. I know this from experience. That this is what I would do. I’m not huge on taking chances. I’ve become a lot more spontaneous over the years, but taking huge chances and changes…not so much. I guess honestly, it depends on how serious things are with the guy she’s dating and calling her boyfriend. If they were exclusive, then yeah, her accepting a date with someone else (with out his approval) would seem wrong. But again, I’m not the best person to give advice on this topic though, I don’t think….
Your thoughts/advice?
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