hubman

You read my comment to Janie so you know how I feel. But I have to add, why do you think of this as a “glitch” that you have to “make up for”?

  PC

You know what they say… “practice makes perfect”. We’ll just have to keep working at it Babe. Just think of it as cream cheese. That’s pretty veggie.

  Emmy

I’ve shared my story. It took me forever to mentally get my head wrapped around it. Before that, the mouth was a no-cum-zone. One day, the switch flipped – and I was able to do it. The mind is a funny thing.

But I have no doubt you make up for it! ;-)
xoxo
Emmy

  Vixen

Hubman…IDK. I guess bc I feel badly about it? And it’s less about feeling I *have* to compensate for it but just that I think I do, and that makes me feel better about it. You know…I won’t do A BUT hey, I’ll do B, C AND D for you!

  Vixen

Uh….hon. I think you have you and I confused again. There will be no ‘practicing’ to swallow on my part. I’ve come to terms with it and at this point I think you should too.

But you should definitely keep on practicing! :)

  Westcoast Weirdo

I’ve heard that certain foods the guy eats can make it sweet etc etc, but the texture would still get me to spew it all over them.
Even pre-cum will make me switch to a handjob. LOLOL

  Vixen

Roxy- I’ve heard the same thing. And I know the taste and consistency is different with different men (like know this from experience….lol). But for me it’s not the *taste* as much as that it’s hot, thick and being shot into the back of my throat. It triggers my gag reflex just *thinking* about it.

I don’t mind pre-cum ;)

  PC

“But you should definitely keep on practicing! ”

Huh?!? What do you mean “keep on”?

  Vixen

Well…you said Practice Makes Perfect. I assumed you were talking about yourself. No?

  PC

I was talking about “US”– not necessarily me. In the immortal words of Homey the Clown, “Homey don’t play dat!”. But it’s not because of anything you’re objecting to. It’d just be kinda gay. Know what I mean? And I’ve got an image to uphold. I know double standards suck and all. But you should keep working at it. Just sayin’. ;)

  Janie

I’m glad I’m not the only one! It is such a hot thought but is not going to happen. Thankfully I’ve never thrown up but I’ve definitely gagged *alot* more than I am comfortable with!

xoxox

  Vixen

Jr! Whoa whoa…I never said I sucked at them, lol. I have been complimented actually, specifically by PC and the YM. I just have to divert before the uh…finale. I tend to think my BJs are way better than my handjobs. I enjoy giving a BJ more at least…

Good to see you stopping by again ;)

  Vixen

Oh, and no pun intended there (lol)

  PC

Umm… Yeah… She rocks my world. Why do you think I want her to keep practicing?

:)

  Vixen

Well PC…don’t be holding your breath about me swallowing. I think I proved my point…that um, ‘one time’ (ahem).

Oh yeah, and there’s nothing about those double standards ‘sucking and all’. *giggle* (nice choice of words Babe ;)

  Barefoot Dreaming

I have always thought of cum like snot. Not kidding, I have even said – I would not suck on your nose and swallow your snot (what makes it much different????? ok, so this is not helping I know)

But, I just this year swallowed for the first time. I all out refused up to that point. For the first couple of times no problem- but then one time (tmi coming) it was too salty and tasted awful and honestly that did it for me (I think he was dehydrated). I can’t do it again.

I will let him cum in my mouth because he has stated that is sooooo sooo sooo soo sooo (you get the point) much better- but then will spit (tissue, sink, toilet, garbage -whatever is handy)

It works- I am sure he rather I swallowed – but a b.j. is a b.j. after all- and he get the feeling . that is my story and I am sticking to it

  Vixen

BD- I would even do that if I thought I could. For me it’s the initial shooting into the back of the throat that sets me off.

And I have heard the same thing from um…’someone’ about how much ‘better’ it is if I don’t pull away. I think that is what makes me feel so badly….

*sigh*

  Vixen

Jr- I think slamming a bottle of scotch or tequila is slightly differ than cum. Just sayin… ;)

  Danielle

I can swallow and until I just read all of these nice descriptions I actually liked it. You guys are tainting my views. :)

I will say that I need a chaser with some guys.

  Professor Fate

Why not keep (or make sure there is)something near the bed: a towel, a tshirt, or his underwear; to spit into if things go to far. That saves you from “killing the mood” by running away.

  Ronald10021

I’m posting this here and at Janie’s Blog (http://100waystobeperverse.wordpress.com/2010/05/31/not-something-i-think-a-sexblogger-should-admit/) and will probably post a blog about it as well.

I love cunnilingus, and my wife loves when I do it (which is as often as I can), but she hasn’t given me head in forever (I forget the last time).

It’s frustrating, but more so because she is so vanilla. What I love about this post (and Janie’s) is that both women are willing to explore other ways to satisfy their lover (and get off too), whether it be him cumming elsewhere, or their trying new things.

The post is really hot. It’s not about getting head. It’s about having great sex (and not just intercourse).

Bravo, and don’t feel bad about not swallowing.

  PC

Danielle? LMAO! Hold on, I’ll get you a chaser to go with that…

jr- she doesn’t need rags, t-shirts, napkins or underwear.

For the record, Vix does a wonderful job in this area. Sure, she doesn’t swallow. But you’d better be ready for what she does do. Believe it or not, she can be quite assertive at times.

:)

  Vixen

Ronald10021- vanilla IS frustrating….

Thanks so much for your comment though and what you said!

  Vixen

PC- *blush* …grins……..

  PC

See, that’s something Vix would do, if it didn’t have to hit her mouth first. ;)

  Bunny

I don’t mean to get technical, just being curious, if you’re able to deep throat, can you swallow then? I can only imagine you make up for it in lots of ways! x

  SuburbanHotwife

Vixen,
I have only recently been able to swallow, and it depends on the man. Taste has more to do with it for me, but the texture took some getting used to. I say if your lovers are happy with what you do, then keep up the good work!

  Jen

I love giving ~ and if I want to swallow I will but what I HATE is when they are about to finish and without asking they grab my head and shove it in their crotch. yea ~ that’s hot. NOT.

and PC ~ really cream cheese. you totally did not sell your point. *Shudder* barf. sorry.

eat some pineapple and we’re good. but otherwise. blah. it’s good for the skin my friend that’s all I’ll say. but there are times if *I* want to finish I will. but being forced to finish. SO NOT HOT>

  Ronald10021

Jen–No one should be forced to finish or swallow (unless the parties have decided beforehand that being forced is part of the sex act). Consensual sex involves more than intercourse.

  PC

Ronald- That’s not what Vixen believes, as long as she’s not the one being forced. She has no problem forcing others. ;)

  Ronald10021

I may have misunderstood the context and am now confused.

But I enjoy the discussions.

I wish I could get some head.

I’m happy to reciprocate.