Recap in pictures….

My sister and I as angels- her the fallen and me the ‘good’ (bwahaha..) and Hit Girl!  Ta-da!

Showing off our boobs (Hit Girl’s were DD’s to be exact *snort*)

How perfectly perfect!  Haha!

See how Angelic we look?!  *wicked grins*

It’s almost scary how good he is at Hit Girls signature smirk…

Probably the best costumes we’ve ever had.  We got SO many compliments and everyone wanted to get our picture taken with them.

I was nominated for the costume contest! …I totally didn’t win but still!

This picture cracks me up.  Her wings were taking everyone out all evening.  Her wing is going up my ass.  Doh!  (little bit cheeky, eh?!  I SWEAR I have on panties….er.)

Attitude!  Trying to hail a cab. 

My dream come true!  A huge ass shopping bag from one of my favorite stores!

Dancing in the promenade.

The ball got super insanely crowded, overwhelmingly so.  They only had one teeny tiny bathroom (I’m assuming bc I never was able to make it inside it bc the line to get into it had over a 45min wait to use it) and three Port-A-Potty’s in the alley.  Um…right.  Anyone wanna guess how difficult it is to fit in one of those with wings on, much less readjust your ‘business’ (panties, garters, tutu…) in one of those fucking things?!  Poor, poor planning.  NOT my favorite venue.

Nice.  Hands on ass cheeks.  I told you I wasn’t that boring, typical, innocent angel!

These guys were HILARIOUS.  Three of them- strutting around in tight leotards and stilettos.

Very little sleep, I think my head hit the pillow at 4am-ish?  Much beer, only one shot (of Crown- puke).  Excellent time with friends.  Met some awesome new people (one in fact you may be hearing a lot more about in the upcoming weeks…grinning….).  Did I mention there was a kissing booth too?  Oh.  MmmHmm….  *smirk*

*Thank Goodness* was functioning Sunday so I could finish packing for Vegas and take the kiddos Trick-or-Treating.  Yay me!

~ xo

Vixen

Over 200 nominations through comments, email, and Twitter! Everyone who was nominated should be proud!
PLEASE NOTE: No one listed here should be considered a supporter of Between My Sheets or this list. This is simply a list of sex bloggers I enjoy and want to promote.

And now, your 2010 Top 100 Sex Bloggers!

1. (Please see this post)
2. TBK from The Beautiful Kind
3. Iona and James from SapioSlut
4. Quizzical Pussy from Quizzical Pussy
5. Sadie from Sexie Sadie’s Stories of Seduction
6. Vixen from Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen
   (*GIDDY!!!*)
7. Adrian Colesberry from Adrian’s Blog
8. EA from Easily Aroused
9. Guy New York from Quickies in New York
10. Joan from Better Than I Ever Expected: Sex and Aging
11. 25 Things from 25 Things About My Sexuality
12. AAG from AAG Blog
13. Bad, Bad Girl from BBG Blog
14. Holden from Packing Vocals
15. The blogging team at Sex is Fun
16. Elle from Kink Unleashed
17. Rachel from Rabbit Write
18. Clarisse Thorn from Pro-Sex Outreach, Open-Minded Feminism
19. littlegirlyone from littlegirlyland
20. Remittance Girl from Remittance Girl
21. Mistress Arabella from Bombshells & Rockstars
22. Axe from Unspeakable Axe
23. Coke Talk from Dear Coke Talk
24. Jack from Writing Dirty
25. Kayar Silkenvoice from Silken on Sex 
26. The blogging team at Gentle Nibbles
27. Sinclair Sexsmith from Sugarbutch Chronicles
    
28. Lilly from This Could Be Dangerous…
29. Kit from Blogging Dangerously
30. Mistress Lilyana from Mistress Lilyana
31. TitsMcScandal from The Blogging Slave
32. suggestivetongue from suggestivetongue
33. Library Vixen from Library Vixen
34. Oatmeal Girl from Submission & Metaphor
35. Riff Dog from Ashley and Me
36. Rockin’ with a Cock In from Light Switch
37. Dick and Jane from Dick-n-Jane
38. Shasta from Stiletto Diaries
39. Athol Kay from Married Man Sex Life
40. Padme and Anakin from Journey to the Darkside
41. PrettyPowerTools from Pretty Power Tools
42. Dark Gracie from Gracie’s Playground
43. Mollena from The Perverted Negress
44. The blogging team at Sex in the Public Square
45. The blogging team at Pop My Cherry Review
46. Emma and Maymay from Kink on Tap
47. Dave from Glimpses of Dave
48. Jake from Facts and Friction
49. Sylvanus and Mina from At Longing’s End
50. Lucy from Sexy Blogtime
51. Ms. Naughty from Ms. Naughty Porn for Women Blog
52. Wendy Blackheart from Heart Full of Black
53. Cin from Seeing My Own Reflection
54. Holly from The Pervocracy
55. Lady Pandorah from Lady Pandorah’s Sanctuary
56. Olga Wolstenholme at Cuntlove
57. Jiz Lee from Jiz Lee
58. Aubrey from Vagina Drum
59. Black Pearl from The Filthy Ramblings of a Dirty Girl on Lock
60. Dallas from Naughty Americans
61. Jerry Jones from Little Submissions
62. Sir Zoomer from Vanilla-Xtract
63. Chantelle from Chantelle Austin International
64. Gloria from Gloria’s Oversexed Mind
65. Insatiable Desire from Insatiable Desire
66. Spring Flower from A Girl’s Gotta Have Options
67. Epiphora from Hey Epiphora
68. Wilhemina from Heartbreak Nymphomania
69. Erin from Let’s Eat Cake
70. Autumn from The First Day of Autumn
71. Kyle from Butchtastic
72. Cheeky Minx from Love Hate Sex Cake
73. Diva from Debauched Domestic Diva
74. Scarlet Lotus St. Syr from Purveyor of Pleasure and Wanton Lotus
75. Janie from A Hundred Ways to be Perverse in the Library
76. The Secret Slut from The Secretive Slut
77. Curvaceous Dee from Curvaceous Dee
78. Jefferson from One Life, Take Two
79. Kris from Phone Courtesan and Experience Kris
80. Lila from ¡Qué sinvergüenza!
81. Essin’ Em from Essin’ Em
82. Shon Richards from Erotiterrorist
83. Violet Blue from Tiny Nibbles
84. Evey from Voyeur on Display
85. Miss Mia from Things You Can’t Ask Mom
86. Coy Pink from No Need to be Coy
87. Mistress Matisse from Mistress Matisse’s Journal
88. Audacia Ray from Waking Vixen
89. That Toy Chick from Desk Full of Dildos
90. Britni from Oh My God, That Britni’s Shameless
91. SSS and ♀ from Sweat Shop Sissy
92. Ferns from Domme Chronicles
93. Jerome Nichols from Let’s Talk About Sex
94. Dreamwalker from Dreamwalker Sadistic Poet
95. Dr. Petra from Dr. Petra Boynton’s Blog
96. Viemoira from Cavern of the Beast
97. Shirley from Reptillian Prostitute
98. Carrie Ann from A View from the Floor
99. Sophia St. James from Sophia St. James XXX
100. YOU! As always that last person on the list is you.
     

~ xo

Vixen

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Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

All Painted Up…
A Modest Proposal: Should Ginger & Cooper Fuck?
Happy Sexual Freedom Day
How Do You Explain
Life in spanking after 30: part 2

Erotic Writing

blindfold
Fantasy: Movie Night
Feeling Helpless
Gabrielle, Guest Star
Happy Anniversary…
History Lesson
I Still Don’t Know How You Taste
Monday Morning 2am
Metallic Seduction
Need
New Erotic Story For The Holidays – Tinsel Temptation
Putting the car into park
The Ordeal (Part Four)
The Sweetest Violation
The Young Mom
The Moment
The Soccer Mom
Timeless in a Window’s Light

Kink & Fetish

A space to hate and rage and be angry (photo story)
Beyond the Bedroom
Does liking Helmut Newton equal a fetish?
Happy Halloween: Light Me Up
I am all pins and needles
Kink and Fibromyalgia
Ownership and Monogamy
Punishing the servants
Pi
Switching It Up
The Cage
The Sacred Swinger Holiday: Halloween!
the most amazing night with HIM
The Pedicure
The Right Question
Wax on, wax off!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

All Roads Lead to Acceptance… I hope!
Crisis Averted
Dear boyfriend, I love you. And your cock.
Having Great Goddamned Expectations
If You Google it, I will Answer #9
I Don’t Know If I’ve Ever Been Really Loved By a Hand That’s Touched Me
How to Massage Man’s G-spot
My Coming Out Story
National Coming Out Day
Recovering From Anorexia
Role Reversal
Sadie’s Condom PSA

-we’d preferred to know what curve balls are going to be thrown our way.
~Grey’s Anatomy

Friday Favorites-

Click the links and show the girls come love if you haven’t already!

Elle…Kink Unleashed…..


Frenchy…..

*****

 A Friday funny…

Two women walking home after a night out and needing to pee stop in a graveyard.  One woman cleans up with her underwear and tosses them.  The other woman uses a ribbon from a wreath close by. 

The next morning one husband calls the other.  “My wife came home with no panties!”

The other one says, “Yeah? Well, mine came home with a ribbon reading: ALL OF US AT THE FIREHOUSE WILL MISS YOU!“

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This week has been crazy busy.  Laundry, packing, lunch with Ashton….(sorry the details are mine)  *wicked grins*

Oh.  And PC…should be careful what he wishes for *smirk*

Have a fabulous weekend!!!

~ xo

Vixen

Taking a break from the series with Roxy for a couple weeks as Halloween and my much anticipated Vegas trip are just around the bend. *giddy!*

A glimpse of what I’ll be wearing to the Exotic Ball we are attending on Saturday….

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So. You might want to check back on Halloween…just sayin’.      *wink*

HappyHNT!!!

~ xo

Vixen

(click the button for more info, email me if you have any great ideas for a topic, I’d love to hear from you!)

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Kate and Ben have been married for three years.  Recently, inadvertently, Kate found out that Ben ‘experimented’ with other men in college.  Ben had not meant for Kate to find out.  But once she did, he gave her all the details and has told her he was young and experimenting- that that’s what people do in college.  He’s tried to reassure her that he knows what he wants now, isn’t ‘confused’ and knows he wants to be with Kate…  He hadn’t told her before for the exact reason that is happening now. 

She’s pissed and unsure that she even wants to stay married to him.  She mainly doesn’t think she can trust him since he kept this from her.  Something she views as pretty huge.  She also feels that you can’t be with other men and not still be gay.  She says she loves him but can’t ‘risk having kids with a guy that could leave her for another guy‘.

What are your thoughts?  Whose side are you on?

My first thought is…  Ben totally fucked up by not telling her.  IN THE BEGINNING.  Keeping skeletons in your closet is always bad news.  They are going to eventually fall out.  Like in this case.  And yeah….the fact that he kept it a secret all this time, it makes it feel like it was this “super, deep dark secret”.  Had he been upfront and honest with her when they were dating, she might feel differently.  No one wants to feel they know the person they married and then realize they really don’t, that the person they trusted and loved were keeping ‘secrets’  from them.  It does make a person wonder- what else are they hiding????

AND maybe if he had told her up front….he might have seen how close-minded she was.  And maybe HE wouldn’t have wanted to marry her.

I am annoyed at the fact that she doesn’t feel she can have children with him… “because he might leave her for another guy”. 

*rolling eyes*  

Did he tell her he was a virgin before they were married?  (I’m thinking not…)  I mean, shouldn’t she be worried he might leave her for another woman too?!  Ridiculous.  He married HER.  He fell in love with HER.  It doesn’t matter who he was involved with or had sex with previously….he chose *her*.  Hmm, insecure much?

So I see both sides.  But I have to say mostly, I’m on his side.  Because I don’t do well with such judgmental/close-mindedness that she is displaying here.

*****

HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

We lay intertwined…naked.  In the dark.  My head on his chest.  His hand on my back, tracing my backbone.  As we talk.  About life, happenings….day to day stuff.  Our pasts.  Hopes and dreams. Very random. 

Almost inaudibly it escapes my lips- I’m into you.


Him- It’s apparent.


Me- ….Oh?  Apparent how? (feeling my cheeks burning…blushing)


Him- When we are together, the way you breathe when I hug you or roll over to find you in the morning


Me- Oh.  Right.  …I’m that transparent.  I guess I don’t really try to hide it.


Him- And you shouldn’t.  I also like to notice these things.


Me- Well…sometimes you make me melt.


Him- Melt is good.


Me- Yes.


Him- I’m glad i can do that for you…I do enjoy our time together

It was…nice.  Comfortable.  And.

Defining.

Our conversation came to a pause.  He put his hand on my chin, tilting my face up to his.  It was too dark to see his expression, his eyes.  He kisses me.  Gently at first.  Then increasingly more intense.  More demanding.

He turns so that he’s pressing into me.  I can feel him.

With out removing his lips from mine he rolls on top of me.  His weight an instant arousal.  He pulls away, his hand moving to the small of my back.  My hips ache to meet his.  Then.  That moment.  Of instant fullness, as he moves slowly…deeper…  Overwhelmed with extreme pleasure and desire for more.  A small gasp escapes from my lips….as I melt.

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TFT is up! Go check it out. The site is always looking for contributors. If you’ve thought about wanting to do it- there is no time like the present! If you have before but it’s been awhile- we miss you! All you have to do to help support our troops is EMAIL ME! Help boost some morale! It’s for a good cause!

**I will be out of town next week, TFT will go up at it’s usual time BUT if you are wanting to contribute, it must be submitted by Oct 29.  Anything submitted after that time will be used the following week.**

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Have a fabulous Tuesday!

~ xo

Vixen

We all do what we do to get by, to make ourselves happy. And the ways in which we go about doing it may not be the same for each person.
*shrug*

It’s also amazing what we learn about ourselves as we go through life.

Good stuff.

 *****

Lets see….  Ironically, I went from having a handful of boys I was dating- seeing how things might pan out (ie…could call on them at any moment to go out) to nothing.  Nada.  No one.  Interesting turn of events.  Besides one individual in particular *ahemAshtonahem* (who if he would just stop being so busy, I wouldn’t even care about wasting my time with these other boys….humpf), it’s really all by choice.  Abercrombie shot himself in the foot, which really was probably for the best. I was trying to make the best of something that wasn’t entirely what I was wanting it to be.  New guy, Biff (I know I haven’t spoken of him here yet….I wasn’t sure if it would turn into something worth even talking about) pursued me so hard I was wary I had found myself a new stalker.  (I like to be chased…not stalked)  He went from Mr. In My Face 24/7 to …:::crickets:::…  Hmm….weird.  After blowing me off after we’d made plans to go on a date Saturday night I decided it was probably for the best.  I kind of almost think I was trying to talk myself into liking him.  He was the first guy I’ve dated that was near my own age (I mean, besides PC, lol).  And interestingly enough, what I found was that I was completely uncomfortable and not my usual flirty, fun, carefree self around him.  Doh…go figure.  For whatever reason, I’m a lot more comfortable being me around boys the much younger men I’ve encountered.

Anyway.  Despite being blown off, PC stepped in to wine and dine me.  Key words being Brazilian cuisine and Capriaskas….MMMmmmmm….  Gotta hand it to the love of my life, for being a sissy, he really knows how to show a gal a good time.  *grins*  Also got to wear the hot outfit I had planned for Mr. Stand Up Guy.  *tossing that guy to the side*  PC gushed appreciatively.  The night ended dominating his ass…exactly how I would have hoped.  *smirk*

*****

The giggle PC gave me Sunday while discussing something…

“Put your big girl panties on, ok wait, go put some panties on.”

*snort*

He says I need to be fucked.  I do.  Damnit.  I really do.

*****

Alrighty people.  Happy Monday…enjoy!

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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

Click the links and show the girls some love if you haven’t already!

Emmy…Right Turn Without Signaling…..

Cheeky Minx…Love Hate Sex Cake…..


Jas…Evocative Abyss…..

*****

Because it entertains me every week, I thought I would share once again the awesomeness that turned up in my AFF inbox.  I could actually make this a new feature.  Haha…

i would love to do for you what your husband cant we should get together and go find us another female to share what do you think i can even host

Well.  Hmm….  While I guess I kind of ok, not really at all appreciate him trying to address the whole cuckhold issue (…ish, bc honestly that direct propositioning turns me off), I’m pretty sure I never (EVER!) mentioned wanting to be hit up for a threesome.  But- OMG he can host!!!  [said in a super high pitched, valley girl-like voice while jumping up and down]  *rolling eyes*

I did get a hit from a woman….married, looking for similar things as I am.  Now if only she were  anywhere remotely near my age (again, I simply can not find myself attracted to someone near my mother’s age).

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On with the randomness I  seem to be full of come Friday…..

LM stayed home sick for the two days this week with Croup.  Poor kiddo.  And come late afternoon the second day he was home….poor Mommy.  Doh.  (seriously!)  Luckily by day 3 he was ready to go back to school and has been all sorts of energy since then.

Our weather has been phenomenal.  I can’t remember the last fall we had that was this mild and amazing.  I am *LOVING* it.  When the weather finally does change it will be a huge disappointment.  You might find me huddled in a corner rocking back and forth.  I *heart* Indian Summers.

School pictures are Friday.  I helped the kiddos pick out outfits.  LP was simple….she’s as girly as I am and has a fabulous wardrobe.  LM on the other hand….I suggested what I thought he should wear.  And he announces- I’ve been waiting for this moment all year long to wear my Tux!  *sigh*  Yeah…..my son is Alex P. Keaten.  He wears vests, bowties and tuxedos…..on a regular, every day basis.

Oh.  And have I mentioned he’s going to be Freddy Kruegar for Halloween?  Oh yeah….  Haha.  Seriously, he is so freakin’ cool.

Kiddos school carnival is Friday night.  It’s always pretty….interesting at these school functions.  I get along incredibly well with the teachers and staff and about so-so with the other parents (albeit a handful).  Fun fun fun!

TGIF….Happy Friday!

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~ xo

Vixen

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Check out more on Flickr then what is published here. *wink*

HappyHNT!!!

~ xo

Vixen