….sexual palate cleanser (rebound sex)
~Grey’s Anatomy

Well.  I’ve met someone.  I’ve slyly mentioned him here and there.  I’ve been holding off on talking much about him, until I knew how things were, where they were going.  I’m still not completely sure where they are going, but I know HOW they are…. *grins*

I haven’t spoken about Ashton in quite awhile.  I kind of left things up in the air regarding him and happenings between us…  I guess I got selfish about those feelings.  Him and I remain…close.  But as friends. 

He did set a very high bar though.  I’ve been on a dating spree.  Trying to find someone who compared even remotely to him.  Dating began feeling like an excruciating interview process (I told you, I could seriously write a book about my dating misadventures experiences).  I got to the point where I wasn’t sure if I should just give it a rest or persevere.  And then, completely out of the blue I was contacted by someone.  But….hemmed and hawed over meeting with him, for weeks…because several things were holding me back.  I was just unsure and reluctant.  Until I was encouraged to give him a chance.  What would it hurt?  So, I threw my reservations to the wind and contacted him.  Several completely unconventional dates (one of them being the exotic ball….) later plus a recent over-nighter (definitely fabulous)- and I’ve realized he may be the first guy I’ve met since Ashton that I like.  That I really, really like.  And am into.  And fits all the ‘criteria’ of what I am looking for.   And that I *CLICK* with….  (which is HUGE to me)  Compared to these others where even though all the pieces didn’t seem to fit, I’ve tried to ‘make them work’.  Because damnit, as I said, if Ashton didn’t set such a HIGH bar! (course if he hadn’t, it’s unlikely I might have even tried to continue dating boys and just been content sticking with the home team *wink*, with PC on the side, of course *smirk*)

So….stayed tuned.

Oh.  And enjoy your Monday!

~ xo

Vixen

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