Friday Favorites- BEST OF THE YEAR edition
It was a tough task, but I went through every Friday Favorite I’ve done in the last year and narrowed it down to the following.  It was super difficult! 

So enjoy! 

Emmy…Right Turn Without Signaling…..

Barefoot Dreamer… (her blog that this pic was posted on is no longer accessible…)

Minority Report…..

Elle…Kink Unleashed…..

Sexy Sadie…..

Sunshine…I’m No Angel…..

Jas…Evocative Abyss…..

Margaret…They Belong to Us…..

The Covert Lover…..

Roxy…..

Autumn…..

Babe Lincoln…..

Scintillectual…..

Heelsnstockings…..

Jobthingy…..

Petal…The Not So Secret Life of a Yummy Mummy…..

Chris…Three Curious Monkeys….

The Black Matrixx.….

Maeve…..

Lady Grinning Soul…..

The Secretive Writer.….

Cheeky Minx…Love Hate Sex Cake…..

Thanks so much to all the lovely ladies who have allowed me to use their HNT’s in my FF’s over the last year!

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Oooo New Years Eve…..ok ok it’s not Halloween *smirk*  BUT it is one of my other favorite nights of the year.  And and and…it’s on a FRIDAY night!  Mmmhmm!  Rockin’ slip dress (think short, sexy….somewhat see through), smokin’ hot 5″ heels (for me sillies, not PC), add reservations at my favorite restaurant including a 5 course dinner and a glass of wine…ok, right, you have me, glasses of wine.  Shit ok, a bottle.  Sheesh, this is me we’re talking about…hello!

Good times my friends….

Hope everyone has an awesome New Years Eve and starts the year off right. Here’s to another amazing year of Half Nekkidness!

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psst….check back New Years day…..  ~wink~

~ xo

Vixen

The task for the last HNT of 2010, is to pick *my* favorite HNT (of mine) from the past year.  And as always I can’t narrow it down to just one (so I chose three…), I suck at making decisions, I rock at IN-decision (haha).  Although this year was a bit easier than others because I had several series/HNT’s that I stood out for me.

(click on the links under each picture if you are interested in seeing more from each series)

I’m no Angel

Serenity…Tranquility

Turning up the heat

****I’ll be doing a special edition of “Friday Favorites”, including the all-time favorites of this entire year! So don’t forget to check back.

HappyHNT and have a totally fantabulous Happy New Year!!!

~ xo

Vixen

(click the button for more info, email me if you have any great ideas for a topic, I’d love to hear from you!)

He met a girl at a bar, they ended up going home together and having fabulous sex.  They exchanged numbers and have been texting with one another.

He really likes this girl and would like to pursue it further.

Here’s the snag.  He can’t remember her name.  (DOH)  He’s not really sure how to go about finding out her name.  Because they’ve been texting back and forth he feels like the time to ask her has past.  Really he feels like- there never was a good time to re-ask her what it was.  Whatever he says to her is going to very possibly make him sound like a schmuck… who she wouldn’t want to see again anyways.

What does he do????  Any ideas?

I’m hoping someone can help him out because I have no clue what advice to give him!  I hope to never be in this predicament! (snort)

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HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

~ xo

Vixen

It had been months since we’d been together.  Sure chatting.  Texts.  Emails.  Even lunches.  We’d become good friends.  But we had not been….together.  Intimately.

The last time we’d seen each other, to catch up (at lunch), as we were hugging goodbye, he’d taken me in tighter,  bringing his mouth close to my ear and whispered…

Soon.

It’s important to set expectations.  I’d lowered mine in regards to him and I.  Disappointment and I…not fans of each other.  I’d accepted where things had gone with us.  Was it what I wished?  No.  But for whatever reasons they had, I respected that.

Unexpectedly, we decided to get away with each other just before Christmas Eve.  Overnight.

Left deliciously sore and bruised.  The bruises are finally disappearing.  On our way out, after reuniting in over three months….he pointed out that I, my neck…collarbone, looked as if I’d stepped out of the remake for Eclipse. 

Oh.  *wicked grins*

He asked if I owned a turtleneck….  Why?  Because I look that bad?!

No.  Because he thought I would look good in one.  Mmm…right. 

It’s turtle neck season anyways!

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EDIT- ok it’s up.  Many (many) technical difficulties.

TFT is up! Last one of the year!

*THANKS* to everyone who contributed!

Lots of ways to help out this holiday season.  Hop on over to check it out.  And for those wanting to contribute- ANYONE can…just snap and Send!  (C’mon, you know who you are)

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~ xo

Vixen

“I revealed too much too soon. I was emotionally slutty.”
~Carrie Bradshaw- Sex and the City

This is so me…. (usually)  I have a tendency to share way too much.  Usually too soon.  And not always with people who want to even know (this much) such information.  Then later wish I could pull at least some of it back.  I saw a therapist off and on over the years.  I either had nothing to say or just dumped.  Like vomit.  About everything.  Relevant or not.  I’m pretty sure I did this to my sister the other day.  Completely unintentionally.  Despite my not meaning to.  But I think having to do with my recent lack of having/feeling an ‘off switch’….

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I’ve been feeling so detached lately.  Emotionally….stand off-ish and distant.  I just seem to be going through the day to day motions.  Some days I’m a weepy mess.  Am I depressed?  Possibly…  I don’t know why though.  (Having my kiddos gone for six days before Christmas I don’t think helped)  Don’t you have to feel something to be depressed???  PC asked if I was taking my meds.  Yes…I am.  Maybe I need to up them again? (he suggested)  I don’t know…

Everyone has noticed.  My sister.  Roxy.  BFD.  PC…  I had to try to explain to him, that it’s everyone I’m withdrawn from.  It has nothing to do with him specifically but everything to do with me.

Writing a post feels like work.  Because it means having to evoke emotion.  *Think*  And I just…can’t.  Why??? 

I need to try to figure out what is going on with me.  And fix it.  *sigh*  Sometimes finally voicing it, talking about it…helps.  I guess we’ll see.  I just want to feel like myself again.  Hell. I just want to feel anything again.

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All of this aside though.  We, I, had a really good Christmas.  My dad and I used to be quite close, then became distant many, many years ago, completely losing any sort of a relationship (for reasons I don’t want to go into here) and over the last year things have turned around.  My sister, dad and I really enjoyed the day together. 

Later that night, LP and I sang karaoke.  Singing Hinders “Lips of an Angel” over and over again…because that’s what she was best at and enjoyed singing the most.  PC and I enjoyed an evening laying in bed, watching TV together (who cares that it was some ridiculous scary movie that we both rolled our eyes, laughing at)….

Anyway.  I’m going to keep trying to work on the ‘normal’ stuff.  To try to get back to feeling again.

~ xo

Vixen

~Eric Sevareid

I’ve put this up previous years and it’s one of those posts that are fun to recycle.  *grins*

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Barbie
c/o Mattel, Inc.
El Segundo, CA 90245

Yours truly,
Barbie

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So. My kiddos have been gone for 6 days and we finally get them back Christmas Eve.  It was a long ass time to be with out them.  But I busied myself with Christmas shopping, lusting after BFD, wrapping presents, drinking heavily, several date nights with PC (swoon), suffering from insomnia (2:00am and I have become very dear friends), dinner with friends, watching favorite movies repeatedly (gotta love HBO’s rerun of movies late at night), quite a few really great runs in our awesome mild weather, hot hot sex and a date (maybe more to come about that…). 

A special post will go up tomorrow.  Don’t forget to stop back by when you get a chance!  In the meantime, have a great Christmas Eve!

~ xo

Vixen

To your enemy, forgiveness. To an opponent, tolerance. To a friend, your heart. To a customer, service. To all, charity.  To every child, a good example. To yourself, respect.
~Oren Arnold

The theme of this week’s HNT is called “Three Wishes”, you are to choose 3 fellow HNTers to gift to.  It’s something I’ve been obsessing over thinking about for several weeks now…. (surprising, I know….haha)

CLICK on the presents

My first gift goes to JM (There is no spoon) and his lovely wife Jas.  I love both of their blogs as well as their photography (you’ve heard me gush about him several times before).  Very sensual, sexy people.  They have a blended family as well as a brand new baby boy.  I admire them both bunches.  It’s not easy maintaining a healthy sexual relationship and taking care of a newborn.  So…

And knowing them.  Maybe they can involve her in a little fun too….  *wink*

My second gift…  Well. I broke the rules (yes it’s like that- HA!) and I am giving to someone close to me.  Os’s main reason for not wanting you to gift to a friend is that more likely than not you could give them it directly.  Well.  This isn’t the case.  I actually considered giving a plane ticket. Here.  To see me.  But then decided that wasn’t exactly what I wanted to give because it wasn’t enough.
So to Barefoot Dreamer-

Next door.  To me.

My third goes to Maggie from Today Did Not Suck…  I seriously considered a gift certificate to Glamour Shots and some over the top cutesy outfit…because I know how much she loves that crap (SNORT…you have to read her regularly to know I’m totally kidding here…lolol). But really, she found THE most fabulous belt (I’m having belt envy, lol) but it ended up being too small.  So to her-

And finally a gift to everyone.  Because I’m all generous like that… *grins*

Because of the nature of this weeks HNT no Friday Favorites this week. But do check back….. ~grins~

Happy Holidays and HNT!!!

~ xo

Ok seriously.

OMFG.

HOT.

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~ xo

Vixen

(vi.sualize.us)

Been up all night
Staring at you
Wondering what’s on your mind
I’ve been this way
With so many before
But this feels like the first time
You want the sunrise
To go back to bed
I want to make you laugh
Mess up my bed with me

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Kick off the covers
I’m waiting
Every word you say I think
I should write down
I don’t want to forget
Come daylight
Happy to lay here

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Just happy to be here
I’m happy to know you
Play me a song
Your newest one
Please leave your taste on my tongue
Paperweight on my back
Cover me like a blanket
Mess up my bed with me
Kick off the covers
I’m waiting
Every word you say I think
I should write down
I don’t to forget
Come daylight

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And no need to worry
That’s wastin time
And no need to wonder
What’s been on my mind
It’s you

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It’s you
Every word you say I think
I should write down
Don’t want to forget
Come daylight
And I give up
I let you win
You win ’cause I’m not counting
You made it back
To sleep again
Wonder what you’re dreaming

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TFT is up!  Go check it out.  It’s the Holiday Season and I’ve added a bunch of new links suggesting ways you can help out over the holidays.  ‘Tis the Season to show our troops how much we care.  This is about giving back to those who give all.  Remembering our troops during the holidays can be critical for morale.

The site is always looking for contributors.  If you’ve thought about wanting to do it- there is no time like the present!  If you have before but it’s been awhile- we miss you!  All you have to do to help support our troops is EMAIL ME!  Help boost some morale!

~ xo

Vixen