I learned this weekend that Hedonism III in Jamaica closed last August.  I had no idea.  It saddens me.  Such a fun place to play.  I guess Super Clubs was going to revamp it a bit, and re-open it under a different name, with a few changes (premium liquors would no longer be inclusive, in place of the nude-only pool instead would be a small nude-only beach, plus shuttle service to/from the airport would no longer be offered).  From the reading around I did (me<—google queen), it sounded like they were going to turn it into a place I wouldn’t care much to visit again.  They actually must have gotten that same feedback from others bc it was supposed to reopen in October and never did….

But a new resort has taken over the adult only-clothing optional-all inclusive market, it’s called “N Resort”.
(blurb taken from their site)

This is going to be a sophisticated, classy, all-inclusive, adult only,
nude vacation resort  – - the perfect vacation resort.
Unique~ Classy~ All-Inclusive~ Adult Only~ All Nude

I think the main thing about this new resort, is it gets away from the ‘stigma’ attached to the Hedo resorts.  They are going for a ‘classier’ approach it seems.  I would certainly check it out if I were to go to Jamaica again! *wink*

A friend of mine (the same friend who informed me of Hedo and N…actually met him and his stunning wife AT HedoIII) also brought to my attention another resort.  This one in Cancun, called Desire Resort & Spa Riviera Maya (another clothing optional all inclusive adult only resort).

Desire Resort & Spa is a unique couples-only resort, the first and only of its kind in Mexico, that located on Cancun’s Riviera Maya will surround you with amazing landscaping and a deliciously erotic atmosphere to unleash your imagination and stimulate your senses. A place of freedom where fantasies become real, a place to abandon inhibitions and truly be you. Imagine sharing this paradise with like-minded couples who also seek a sensuous, clothing-optional upscale venue or an adventurous lifestyle experience. Desire Cancun features a deluxe, all inclusive formula with extraordinary amenities such as delightful, gourmet dining, fun, daily activities

I wanna go!!!

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This is seriously one of the hottest movie kissing scenes.  I tried to find a shorter clip, but the only high quality one that showed the make-out scene in all it’s delicious HOTNESS, is this one.  Watch the first 2minutes at least, you won’t regret it!
Mmm….. *swoon*

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It’s Monday….  Sweet.

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~ xo

Vixen

(vi.sualize.us)

(while watching Buffy The Vampire Slayer and Tara asks Willow to go a week with out magic)

PC:
…I want you to go a week with out porn.  For me.  Can you do it?

Vixen:
Yes!

PC:
No you can’t!

Vixen:
Yes I can! I did! 
*thinking*
That week we were in Jamaica! That was a week.

PC:
Honey!  Every day was porn!

Vixen:
Oh.

Hmm.

True.

Vixen:
Nevermind.

~ xo

Vixen

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Kink & Fetish

5 Kinky Toys from the Dollar Store

Alive in my Skin

Dacryphilia

Digitalized for Posterity

Eroti…ca

filthy…

He ripped a string of orgasms from me, and then ramped it up

Manual Dexterity

Nadia’s Surprise

Orgasms, Spoons Rests, and Fishnets! (The Play Party)

Punishment, humiliation and bondage

Schoolgirl in Saturday Detention

Steeling The Show

Water torture

Erotic Writing

A Little Night Music

Afternoon darkness

Crisp White Linens

dancing with (& then kinkily fucking) the dj

In the Mirror

Lope

Morning Sex

My First Anal Sex

September 1935

Shutter

Schoolgirl Part 1

Teenage Bukkake

Transition

You’re Gonna Keep My Soul

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

A Doggie Kind of Love

Ashamed?! Are You Kidding Me?

Giggles, Groans and Panting

I Can Imagine How You Feel

Sex As Love

6 Moves Men Need to Be Sex Gods in the Bedroom

Terminology Fundamentalism

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This Love

What I Want

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Porn, degradation, and Khan Tusion

Women With Two Vaginas

Kink, virginity and big-tittied whores

Friday Favorites-

Sinandseduction…..

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Suburbanslut…..

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The name of the game this week was *BREATHE* and try not to be consumed by my anxieties surrounding life changes that might be amidst. 

*sigh*

I woke up Thursday feeling completely and utterly overwhelmed.  There were some things on my plate that fell in categories such as- kept forgetting to take care of, needing to take care of, learned suddenly needed to be handled asap. 

…:::breathe:::…

But.  By Thursday afternoon I had marked everything off my list.

A house/kiddo sitter is lined up for our trip to visit Roxy for her bday/St Paddy’s Bash. -CHECK

Important phone calls had been made.  -CHECK

One set of documents were found, copied and faxed -CHECK

Another set completed and notarized -CHECK

A trip to the post office -CHECK

….:::breathe:::…

There was another category gnawing at me.  The one that was causing those familiar, uncomfortable knots in my stomach, making it difficult to breath and concentrate…  The…  What’s the point?  If -A- were to happen, then what is the point in fucking with -B- and -C- or even -D-  ?!?!?!?!

PC, hearing the anxiety in my voice, the tell-tale rise in my tone…concentrate on the things I can control, he says.  To not allow myself to be overwhelmed by those I can not….   Tells me to look down.  Pull up my sleeve and read the words written on my arm.

BFD, as well, tells me to work on controlling what I can.  And to have faith about the rest.  To run.  (which I will have every day this week…despite my knees and hips screaming at me….there is some sanity to be found with a clear head)

Yes.  True.  They are right.  While I am neurotic and excessively obsessive…I don’t consider myself a control freak.  But the ‘unknowing’…  The flying by the seat of my pants.  *shaking head to clear it* 

I’m not very good at it. 

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….:::breathe:::…

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So it’s the weekend….enjoy!

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~ xo

Vixen

~Rihanna

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Happy HNT!!!

~ xo

Vixen

(click the button for more info, email me if you have any great ideas for a topic, I’d love to hear from you!)

This topic came up on my radio station…

Her husband has given her permission to cheat.  When they married she had been a virgin and was very young, he on the other hand is a bit older than her and had been with quite a few women previously.  She’s been finding herself fantasizing about other men quite a bit lately.  She loves her husband very much, has no intentions of leaving him, she wants to be married with him.  But is curious.  He has offered her a 7 day “Hall Pass”.  She’s not sure if she should do it or not.

I was completely taken aback by the responses on the radio station.  People were throwing out things like he’s probably cheating on her already so she should leave him.  That HE should leave her for having these feelings.  They should just divorce because they obviously don’t love each other. 
*shaking head*

I guess I’m just a lot more open minded to think this could possibly work.  But I also believe there is nothing wrong with open marriages, swinging, being polyarmorous, etc.  Society has grown and with it different relationship dynamics and types.  I mean, you don’t want to do that in your relationship?  Fine.  So don’t.  *shrug*  But to belittle, berate and attack someone else for wanting to try something in theirs?  Shut the fuck up.  Seriously.  (sorry, nothing strikes a nerve more with me than people who are narrow minded and judgmental of others)

Now the question of if she should do this or not….  That’s not something I think anyone can answer except for her husband and her.  Is it playing with fire?  Possibly.  I commend her husband for being confident and secure enough in himself, her and their marriage to encourage her to do this  She needs to delve into her feelings, the stability of their relationship, they need to be pretty open and honest with each other about expectations, how the other is feeling, etc.  I think a lot of communication needs to happen before she decides to take advantage of his offer.

Thoughts?

*****

HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

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~ xo

Vixen

Rabbit Write has declared Feb 22nd Lady Porn Day and has asked other bloggers to write their thoughts on porn for women.  She wants to get women across the globe talking and thinking about porn and masturbation in a healthy way.

Porn nor masturbation are very taboo to me, my blog, my friends…  But I suppose that is because I’m pretty open about those topics in my everything life.  What many might consider taboo, I talk openly about.  With….whomever. 

In the early years, I wasn’t a fan of porn.  Until I was turned on (haha….no pun intended) to a specific video by a close guy friend.  He worked in a video store.  Remember ‘back in the day’  when video stores had that ‘special back room’, usually behind a black curtain, sometimes even behind a door.  It was the ‘X Rated room’.  He would bring over videos (yes, before DVD’s…I’m totally dating myself here repeatedly, haha) for all of us to watch.  One video in particular made me realize I did actually enjoy watching it…when it was REAL.  The extremely scripted, ‘do me baby, harder harder’ scenes with the awful, super cheesy music were boring.  And lame and lost my interest.  Instead of deriving any pleasure or enjoyment from them, we would crack jokes and roll our eyes.

But this video, it was the self-taping of a real life man.  Who propositioned REAL women to experiment with him or other women on tape.  It was awesome.  It hit on my voyeuristic side.  Made me realize even more so how much being a voyeur turned me on.  And then I discovered Girls Gone Wild!  HOT!  Yes, yes I know….it ended up getting a pretty shitty rap over time and some things that may or may not have happened behind scenes resulted in a somewhat bad image.  And admittedly it got a bit….dumb.  But in the beginning it was a brilliant idea really!  To take a bus with a small camera crew and travel to Mardi Gras, Spring Break locations, etc and hit up real girls who allow themselves to be video taped while experimenting with themselves or other girls!?!  BRILLIANT!  Yes.  I became an instant fan.  (Me liking girl/girl porn…shocking, I know. *wink*)  There is actually one in particular, featuring a specific girl.  I loved to watch her most specifically.  (I occasionally still have fantasies/dreams about her.)

I owned an insanely large collection (we’re talking boxes and boxes of GGW dvd’s).  When my exH and I split, it was the one and only thing we divied up (doh!).

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Embarrassing moment #99:
One time (no, not at band camp) quite a few years back my exH and I had our sitter coming over to watch the kids (who were very young at the time).  This sitter was our only sitter.  Most parents will vouch that good sitters are few and far between and difficult to come by.  Our sitter was also the young teenage daughter of LP’s preschool teacher.  I was having an outpatient procedure and she was going to come very early in the morning.  Because of this, I had picked up the house the night before, paying special attention to remove any ‘incriminating evidence’ (ie…adult DVD’s) from the TV stand/DVD player, etc. 

Sitter comes.  We leave.  Come home later that morning.  Pay sitter.  She goes along her merry way.  The oldest kiddo (LP) informs me that they tried to watch TV but the sitter couldn’t figure out how to switch the TV setting from the DVD player.  Oh.  Hmm.  I turn on the TV, which immediately begins playing what is in the DVD player.

And…guess what it is????  A FUCKING GGW DVD!!!!  Full girl on girl, getting it on all hot and heavy.  It never occurred to me that my exH was going to participate in some ‘adult activities’ late that night after I went to bed and that I should re-check DVD player.

DOH!!!

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At this point in my life, I’ve deviated from movies.  PC isn’t such a huge fan of them. I think the couple times we watched one together we spent the entire time making fun of the girl’s technique. (and honestly, it was bad, she was smacking -hard- the other girls clit….um, WTF?!?!?!  In what universe does that feel good????)

I guess I get my porn fix these days through the somewhat new blogging platform that Tumblr and vi.sualize.us offers.  LOVE them both….I guess probably because I’m such a huge fan of erotic photography.  That said.  My final thought is the latest HOT short clip I came across recently.

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Rabbit Write  will be writing about lady porn the entire week of the 21st-26th, be sure to check her out!

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~ xo

Vixen

I don’t pay much attention to my stat counter, but it is funny/entertaining to occasionally browse the searches that bring people here….

*vixen good in bed?
I had no idea people were doing searches on how I was in bed.  Much less that that kind of information could be discovered on the net!

*lake mcconaughy nude beach
Nope. It’s not. I know. I’ve been enough times.  Maybe that was the confusion, they must have been there when my friends and I were.  (haha)

*laying on beach pulls my tit out sucking
*shaking head*  I don’t even know where to begin with this one….

*porn fuck me estes park
It’s actually a quaint little mountain town.  Not sure how much ‘porn’ is going on up there. (interestingly enough this is the *second time* this search has come up  ????)

*hotwife bar
I know of a lot of bars but not sure of this particular one.

*two naughty girls touching
I think the more appropriate search for this would be “VEGAS”…. *snicker*

*What does drunk texting look like
Give me your number, I’ll let you know next Friday night.

*mistress or fwb
Technically isn’t a mistress someone who is dating/fucking a married man???? Which I’m not.   IDK…if this were Facebook I’d say- “it’s complicated”

*hedonism resort dick sucking contest
This must be new.  They didn’t have this contest the several times I’ve been there.

*i’m a marine lets fuck
Well….I don’t fuck just any Marine.  It just happened to be that one.

*circumcised/uncircumcised
um…..very certain this is not something I’ve ever mentioned or debated here.  But man, they scoured my site looking for answers!

*dressed nude
doesn’t this seem a bit like an oxymoron????

*this coupon is good for one free bitch slap
Awesome.  I know several people I could use this on.

*****

Ms. Emma is doing fabulous.  Probably a bit too fabulous.  Between being hopped up on pain meds and her peppy young age she’s a rearin’ to go.  It’s been a challenge keeping her activity even somewhat reduced.  But it’s so so so good to see her happy suneshiney self back.  She’s a resilient little girl.

*****

Kiddos have had the last five days off of school due to P/T conferences and the holiday.  They spent a good portion of it with family.  Which they loved and also left me with quite a bit of time to myself and with PC.  Which was…. nice and a bit welcomed.  PC worked from home most of last week, which enabled us to spend some quality time together before he went away on a business trip.  It was good for the mind and soul to have some ‘me’ time to cope with Emma, my emotions, life issues/changes…..  Changes are amidst.  I’ll share as I’m comfortable/able to/come to terms with.

And….Johnny and I were finally able to spend some time together again.  *swoon*  (I say ‘finally’ bc it felt as if it had been forever…even though it probably hadn’t been.  He’s been sneaking into my daily thoughts more and more….hmm) 

*****

Remember back in July when I finally got The Os Shirt in my possession?!  Oh the debauchery Roxy and I were determined to expose it to!  A better/full recap of its adventures are finally up on The Os Shirt site!  Fully encourage you to check it out.  *wicked grins*

*****
Ok, well so, enjoy your Monday!!!

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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

So…the girls this week….damn.  Here are this weeks favorites, if you haven’t done so already, click the links and hit them up. 

Janie… Hundred Ways To Be Perverse…..

Emmy…Right Turn With Out Signaling…..

My Hot Raven…..

*****

This week…man.  *shaking head*

I spent the first part of it a teensy (major understatement) bit overwhelmed. 

Our 5month old Texas Heeler puppy, Emma, had a fluke accident that resulted in a very serious injury (a sharp spiral fracture in her Tibia, the Fibula was broken as well). 

Requiring very difficult decisions to be made on very short notice.  Decisions and I.  Admittedly I’m not very good at them.  Decisions under pressure?  Even worse.  PC was incredibly sweet at remaining calm and standing behind me, offering support.  Several of my friends were there for me exactly when I needed them to be.  (thank you….)

I hadn’t been getting enough sleep.  I mean I never get much night time sleep but am usually able to compensate with a cat nap and/or one night a week where I just crash and can truly recharge.  I was lacking on the ‘recharging’.  Which meant I was running on empty more so than I’m able to function on (very well at least). 

I was mentally and physically exhausted.  And spent.

Unfortunately= me—> extremely emotional.  Which given the first few previous things…yeah.  Makes sense.

There have been several other stressers that have added to the ‘fun’ this week.

But. 

Emma came out of orthopedic surgery like a champ Wednesday afternoon, so much so they released her to me that night.  She/we have a long road of recovery ahead of us but she’s going to be ok.  ((((Babygirl)))

Our weather has been fabulous.  I’ve been able to run along my favorite trail system all week, getting in 25miles.  I saw a magnificent buck Elk less than 10′ from me on it’s way to get a drink from the river (one of the few times I wished I had my cell on me when running).  And on another day, a calf being born (spring is coming!!!).  When you get out there and stretch your legs, breathing in the fresh air, with the perfect playlist on your iPod….I feel as if I can run forever.  (Unfortunately my knees and hips haven’t been as pleased about this…  *oaff*)

I’ve since gotten a bit of much needed ‘catch up’ rest.  Have found a bit better head space.  Things are never perfect but they can at least be peachier.  And that they are.

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Oh. And um….  I’m thinking you might be (reeeaaally) interested in reading something SHE posted. 
*ahem*
Did you click?
(yeah)

Enjoy your uh, weekend.

~ xo

Vixen

“Passion,
it lies in all of us, sleeping… waiting… and though unwanted…
unbidden… it will stir… open its jaws and howl. It speaks to us…
guides us… passion rules us all, and we obey. What other choice do we
have? Passion is the source of our finest moments. The joy of love…
the clarity of hatred… and the ecstasy of grief. It hurts sometimes
more than we can bear. If we could live without passion maybe we’d know
some kind of peace… but we would be hollow… Empty rooms shuttered
and dank. Without passion we’d be truly dead.” ~Joss Whedon

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As always more from this series can be found at Flickr…

Happy HNT!!!

~ xo

Vixen