No clicks this week, just using up leftovers from last October. The rest of the series can be found on Flickr or HERE.

And i fall on my knees
Tell me how’s the way to be
Tell me how’s the way to go
Tell me all that i should know

And i fall on my knees
Tell me how’s the way to go
Tell me how’s the way to be
To evoke some empathy

Danger will follow me now
Everywhere i go
Angels will call on me
And take me to my home
Well this tired mind
Just wants to be lead home

And i fall on my knees
Tell me how’s the way to go
Tell me how’s the way to see
Show me all that i could be

And i fall on my knees
Tell me how’s the way to be yeah
Tell me how’s the way to go
Tell me why i feel so low

Angels will follow me now
Everywhere i go
Angels will call on me
And take me to my home
Well these tired eyes
Just want to remain closed

I don’t see clearly can’t feel nothing no
Can’t you hear me?

And i fall on my knees
And angels will call on me
Now everywhere i go
Angels will call on me
And take me to my home

And angel will fall on me
Everywhere i walk
Angels will call on me
And take me to my home

And angels will call on me
Now everywhere i go
Angels will follow me
Now lead me to my home

Happy HNT!!!

~ xo

Vixen

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On my radio station last week a guy called in seeking advice.  He met a woman through work, they’ve become close friends over the last three years.  He’s dated other women and none of them ever come close to comparing to his close friend. He believes he’s found the woman of his dreams and is truly in love with her.  The problem?  She’s married.  AND has no idea how he feels about her.

He’s not sure what he should do.  He *loves* her, is positive she is THE ONE.  He really cares about her though and is not wanting to turn her life upside down or ruin their friendship.

The majority of the people who called in to offer him advice agreed he should tell her.  Let her know how he feels.  That if he doesn’t, he’ll never know if she might feel the same way.  That “The heart wants what the heart wants” and there is no control over that.  What if this IS his ‘one true love’ and she feels the same way but because he never says anything….well….  So, what does he do???

Have you ever been in love with a married friend?  How did you deal with it?  Should he say anything to his friend??? 

This happened one time to me….’ish’.  In my early twenties.  I realized I had a huge crush on a close friend of my ‘then’ boyfriend (exH).  I kept it to myself.  One drunken night he revealed to me that he had fallen in love with me.  We both pretended the next day that he hadn’t admitted it. Finally, eventually, we talked about it and agreed our friendship with each other, his with my exH, and overall…not a good thing.  Everything else was more important than rocking the boat to find out ‘what if’.  But honestly, to this day, I wonder.  Obviously things with my exH went way south, and it’s hard not to think…well what if we *had* explored options????  But I don’t live my life by ‘woulda/shoulda/coulda’….regrets are a waste of time.  But I have to say, if I were him, I think he should try to broach the subject with her.  My humble opinion……

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HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

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~ xo

Vixen

He greeted me with a kiss when I arrived, pulling away only so that I could put down my things.  Wrapping his arms around my waist, there was small talk…catching up…with short intermissions to allow for our lips to meet again, kissing in between the chit chat.  He pulls away to offer me a beer.  I take a drink from it as it he pulls me back into his arms.  Kissing my neck, whispering appreciatively how much he likes the silk cami I am wearing. 

Walking slowly backwards, his lips meet mine…becoming increasingly more intense and demanding. 

I blindly place the beer on the counter top, our lips never parting, as we make our way into his bedroom.  Clothing coming off, hastily.

Naked. Him on his back.  Kneeling above him.  Laying kisses down his chest, his abs.  My tongue on his inner thigh.  He lifts my hair away from my face.

Mentioning how he wishes he had a camera…to capture that moment.  “So hot….” he murmurs

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~ xo

Vixen

1. (via Angel) Where is your most sensitive spot that you did not expect to be sensitive?
Hmmm…  Lets go with anyfuckingwhere…I’m very sensitive.  Maybe my neck?

2. Do you like oral sex?
YES!!!!  Definitely love to give.  Receive too…but has to be someone I’m comfortable with otherwise I can’t relax and enjoy it.

3. Have you ever tasted someone that tasted just of the nastiest nasty ever?
Female?  No (I’m considering myself very lucky in regards to this).  Male?  Doesn’t it ALL taste nasty!?  *gag* (sorry…my oddity…I try to make up for it in other areas)

4. Drunk text me right now!
IWTFU

5. How many partners have you had?
25…ish

6. Have you ever had your ass licked?
Yes.

7. Do you like anal sex?
Depends on the partner.  Depends on a lot of things actually, but I have enjoyed it a few times.

8. Girls will you have sex on your period? boys will you do it?
Yes, I have.  Not opposed to it.  Although thanks to my lovely surgery a year ago this is no longer a concern.  Not having to worry about and revolve/arrange my life around a period is THE. BEST. THING. EVER!!!

9. Sex in a public place?
Oh lord…. *grinning wickedly*  YES YES YES (please!)

10. Are you lusting after someone right now?
Actually.  Yes….

11. Drunk text me again…
want u to slam me against the wall, pull my dress up n fuck me. hard. now. please.

12. One word to describe your sex style.
Passionate
My original answer was- Unique.  Ahaha….that doesn’t sound good does it?  Actually, Ashton and I were having a discussion about this exact topic, and me, a couple months ago.  I love to be totally dominated and ‘taken’ (mm…yes. and please) but at the same time, am quite dominate/aggressive.  I’m definitely not submissive (although I think I was for years and years…).  So.  If you can think of one word that describes all that, that’s what I am…and then decided to just steal Studmuffin’s answer, ha!

13. One word to describe your kissing style.
Seductive.
With a dash of…
Teasing.
(I know that’s more than one word….!!!)

14. Shaved, trimmed or full bush?
SHAVED.  Have been for as long as I can remember and have no intentions of ever going back.

15. Do you have a blogger crush?
Mmm…yes.  Have to say it’s definitely a lot more than a crush though.

16. Fantasy?
Yes. I have them.  They usually take place in a bathroom stall.  Or up against a wall.  Um, yeah…

17. How do you nurse your sore crotch after being used like a punching bag ;)
Ha…BTDT!  I don’t.  I adore being *deliciously sore*…I revel in it.

18. (Im grasping here running out of questions)….show a hot pic if you want.

(from a hot date PC and I had this past wkend…..have to tell you all how much I’ve fallen in love with Brazilian Shots…  YUM!!!!  And, and, AND PC, being the rock star he is, even did one with me.  *huge grins*)

19. What do you think about bondage?
It’s not my thing (much to PC’s dismay….sigh…which is why someday I will hire him a dominatrix to man handle him good and sufficiently…. *smirk*)

20. Talking dirty hot or not?
It totally can be!  It can really get me all hot and bothered.  But not ALL the time.  Everytime.  Then it becomes just as vanilla as well…vanilla sex. 

and…
21. Put a question you want to ask for next weeks 21 questions!
On a scale from 1-10, how kinky are you?

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Kiddos are on spring break this week.  I’m hoping for some super sun-shiney weather.  Please oh please don’t let this be the week that our decent 50/60degree temps plummet! 

Enjoy your Monday!

~ xo

Vixen

Photo Courtesy of Kitten’s Toys

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5 Kinky Toys from the Office Supply Store: If you’re a nerd like me, you find the idea of office supplies a little bit arousing already but Pet & I paid a recent visit with an even more focused purpose — finding the best pervertibles Staples had to offer.

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Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Barriers
Being a Slut
Bush. Confession #556
Effects of Effexor
Honesty and Courtesy
#LadyPornDay
Master and Slave?
My Experiences with Porn
Question Month: #1
Thoughts on Porn by Holden
What if His Is Much Larger Than Mine? – His & Hers Perspectives on Cock Size And Swinging
Wet Pussy

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Introducing the charity spanking anthology

Kink & Fetish

A Negotiated Spanking
Cuff Me to the Bed
Don’t Let Go
given
I Want In
Sexlopedia: Edge Play
Sex as a Tool
Sometimes
The cute checkout girl browsed my bare cleavage
Worth The Wait

Erotic Writing

Back to the scene of the crime
blood/lust [pt.one]
Deals
dirty me…
Hooray for Half Term
Honey, I’m Home
I Like Your Dream
Naughty Nurse Night At The Swingers Club
On Eating Pussy
Our Nectars
personal records
Returned
Short Dress. High Heels. Margaritas…
Sex With A Friend Part 1
Traditional Loving?
The fun of firsts
The Power of Seduction
We Begin With Talk Of Drink and Debauchery – Hazy Memories of Desire
Wet Wednesday

Friday Favorites-

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Cheeky Minx…Love, Hate, Sex, Cake…..

Barefoot Dreamer.….

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Highlights of my week…

* Talking on the phone with HER. Don’t get me wrong, we are in constant contact with each other on a daily basis (texts, FB, email, messaging, IMing…).  But once a week or so we *talk* and she has the sweetest, cutest whereshesfrom-accent.  Hearing it makes me smile.  Hugely.  And giggle…I giggle a lot when her and I talk.

* Despite the horrendous 75+mph winds the first part of the week (GAH!!!!) I have logged in 20miles this week.  Go me!

* The dogs missed. missed. missed me.  FINALLY come half way through the week I could adjust myself on the couch or move from one end of the kitchen to the other and not have all 5 of the 7 dogs hop up to freak out follow closely at my heels.  They are normally very clingy but this week has been insanely so!

* Two of the 4 cats have been the same way.  When I mentioned it to Roxy mid-week she texted me back “You’re complaining about pussy following you?!”  …haha…ok good point.  *wink*

* My Studmuffin friend is coming to town in a couple weeks.  *giddy*  I am super excited.

* Took Little Miss Emma (little broken baby girl dog)  in for her 5wk post op xrays and the vet was super pleased.  The break is healing fabulously, much better/faster than he anticipated.  She goes in next week to have the pin surgically removed.  (downside is she’ll have to be anesthetized and at the vet the entire day and then required to be on ‘crate rest’ for two weeks…but we’ve gotten this far!)

* PC and I got along the best we possibly ever had on our last trip.  Which made for an amazingly relaxing and super fun trip.  (have I mentioned lately how much I *heart* him… *grins*)

* Spending the long wkend with Roxy made me realize (yet again…) how much I miss her when we’re not together.  …:::sigh:::…

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And….there you go.  Happy Friday!  Have a fantabulous weekend!!!

~ xo

Vixen

Totally raunchy song, but it’s one of my favorites to run to. Usually the last mile when I’m kicking it up a notch. Go ahead and click play… *wink*

~CLICK~

As always more can be found at Flickr…

Happy HNT!!!

~ xo

Vixen

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So a friend of mine is having ‘drama’ in her life.  Her boyfriend works with a girl that is ga-ga for him.  The girl has admitted to him she wants him and flirts like crazy with him.  It really bothers my friend and her boyfriend knows this.

Well, at a drunken work type function her boyfriend and the girl he works with ended up making out.  He told her about it that night when he came home feeling incredibly guilty.  He feels awful and promises that’s all that happened, nothing more.  She’s pissed at her boyfriend, they are dealing with that.  But she wants to write the girl, bitching her out and tell her to basically ‘back the fuck off her man and get her own’ (her words).

I gave her my opinion (I’ll tell you in a second what it is) but she wanted me to ask for other people’s opinions too.

MY opinion? NO-NO-NO-NO  She should not contact the girl.  That girl did not force her boyfriend to do anything he didn’t want to with that girl.  Whether drunk or not, he chose to hook up with her.  So the chicks a bitch for hooking up with a guy who has a girlfriend.  But the real person at fault is THE BOYFRIEND.  The issue needs to be with HIM, needs to be taken up with him.  Period. Involving that other girl is only going to cause more drama.  (And you all know how I feel about drama) 

I had a really good guy friend from High School that I had to end our friendship a few years back because despite us being only friends….his wife kept contacting me.  Voicing her ‘displeasure’ at our friendship, sure there must be something more (!!!).  Jealousy is not a characteristic I am a fan of.  I don’t get the mentality that having an issue with your significant other means you should take it up with an outside party.  How about you focus on the person you are trying to have a relationship with.  Duh!

But as I told her, I would bring it up with others.  To get a more rounded opinion than just mine.  So?

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HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

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~ xo

Vixen

1. Pink
My favorite color

2. Lolly pop
Cherry..and let me show you what I can do with it…  *wicked grins*

3. cherry on top
Pretty please

4. 3
Number of times I’ve burnt myself last week (doh)

5. entertainment center
Is dusty.  Downside of living in the country off a dirt road…everything is ALWAYS. DUSTY…

6. spoon
One of my favorite positions

7. Biology lab
Vet tech school

8. Wham Bam
Thank you ma’am

9. Dessert
No thanks

10. Rough
Yes.  Please.

11. Hot tub
Naked.

12. Sex Club
BTDT…they are fun.

13. Lips
Love to kiss them

14. floor
Take me on it

15. ice
Have some fun ideas on usage….  *grins*

16. naughty or nice
NAUGHTY (duh!)

17. table top
Throw me down, take me there too.

18. back
Nails?

19. Ryan Reynolds (yes had to get him in)
He’s super duper sexy

20. Tattoo
Want another one.  Know what it is….  now to arrange for it.

and
21. boobies
Huge fan of them.

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******

~ xo

Vixen

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After arriving in Roxyville later than anticipated due to ‘extreme overcast conditions’ that caused the airplane to circle and circle and circle….  Not my favorite anyways but definitely not the news a chick who got up at 4am and slammed a Venti coffee on the way to the airport and then several (free!!!) Bloody Mary’s while in the air wanted to hear.  What this chick wanted was a bathroom.  And badly.  *groan*

Ran some important errands….such as buying PC new sunglasses bc he had forgotten his in the car.  In the parking garage.  At the airport. (doh) And a new point and shoot camera bc somehow this camera whore forgot to throw one of her threefuckingcameras in her purse.  Don’t ask how that happens!  Then home to practice drinking before the festivities get ready!

Several Donnie shots, few beers…taxi arrives and off we go to meet friends at The Tilted Kilt!

Memorable moment #106-

Quicksilver (wearing this ridiculous golf hat) to me: Wanna feel my ball?

Vixen: *looks down at his crotch* Sure!

Quicksilver: Why ya gotta look down?  I was talking about my HAT!  Geez Vixen!  That’s the first place your mind goes?!  Ya perv!

(hello!  DUH! Haha!!!)

Memorable moment #123-
So one of (maaaaaaany) funny things from the evening is that our super cute/hot waitress was a dead ringer for the crazy/stalker chick Amy Adams plays in Wedding Crashers.  So when we tell her that, she quips “I’ll find you!”
Ahahaha…..funniest. thing. ever. She was an awesome sport! We *hearted* her. But damn, no matter how hard Roxy and I flirted with her, she was bound and determined to be straight.straight.straight. *DANG* Oh well…..no hurt in trying!
(the youtube video is embedding disabled…you will have to click *THIS LINK* to go watch it, it’s totally worth it…too freaking funny!)

Let the madness begin!

Oh. And just for the record…I could not tell you the last time I did that many shots, of that many different types….doh.

So so so much fun……

~ xo

Vixen