Humble Pie ~CQW
posted by: Vixen
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Say….you have been loosely dating two different people over a long-ish period of time (each of them on and off for six plus months). And those two people start talking on Facebook, because they are mutual friends with you. And they become FB friends. You like one of the girls quite a lot but you are not in a committed relationship with either.
And then you find out that they are dating. An ‘item’ now.
How do you feel? And are you justified in feeling which ever way you do?
This happened on a reality show I watch called “The Real L Word” (yes, sigh…a real life show about lesbians, what isn’t there for me to like?!). One of the girls, Whitney (the one that PC insists is just like me), had this happen to her. She had actually just decided that she wanted to become more serious with one them when she discovered the two were now seeing each other.
I guess…yeah. I’d be hurt and upset. But probably more than anything I’d be pissed at myself for missing out on the opportunity and letting the one I really wanted to be with get away. She obviously had no ‘claims’ on either of them. It is a bit ironic that they ended up together….mainly because Whitney couldn’t make a decision.
Your thoughts? Was any kind of ‘code’ broken???
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March 9th, 2011 at 12:14 am
you snooze you lose. maybe better than them (the two mutual friends) meeting at a party after she was dating one of them and they hooking up after a commitment was made.
I go with mad at myself for waiting
VixenMarch 9th, 2011 at 11:09 am
BFD- yeah…me too.
MediocrityMarch 9th, 2011 at 11:48 am
I don’t think any “codes” were broken either, but I would pissed at myself for missing the opportunity too. I guess I would just be left wondering what might have happened between us. Maybe there could be some hot 3way action???? :)
Prude and ConfusedMarch 9th, 2011 at 7:09 pm
I like the way Mediocrity is thinking! Def grounds for some hot 3 way action!!!