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You put the car into park. Prepared to get out.

I lean in to kiss you.  Pulling your face to mine.  My hands on your cheeks. 

Gently. Then forcefully. Biting your lip playfully. You try to pull away. …I won’t allow you to.

I climb into your lap. Pulling my dress up around my hips. Pushing my bare heels under your thighs.

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My hands behind your neck. Pulling you closer.

Your hands on my ass. I can feel your thumb pressing into my ass cheek, fingers from your other hand against the thin lace of my panties.

I had momentarily considered taking them off earlier and decided not to. Because I had purposely wanted to feel your fingers against the lace.

I grind my weight into you.  Pushing against you.  Grinding. Feeling how you respond.  How incredibly hard you are.  Deliciously so.

I’m loving the power I feel over you.

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TFT is up!  Go check it out!  Many of your favorite bloggers are over there….just sayin.  *THANK YOU* everyone!

Would love to have you contribute  ANYONE can…just snap and Send!

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Have a fabulous Tuesday!

~ xo

Vixen

~Gray’s Anatomy

I can’t sleep when he’s not here.

No matter how ‘cuck’ our relationship may be.  What adventures and paths I may adventure down.  I want him next to me.  I came in from an incredibly hot (HOT) encounter with Abercrombie….  Cold.  Needy. Exhausted.  Spent.

I woke him from the other room…  I wanted to snuggle into him.  My body fitting exactly perfect within his. I needed his warmth.  His body to entangle within mine.

I needed comfort.  And that is what he gave me.  What he provides me with.

I love him, insanely, intensely so….because of this.  I need him.  To be mine.

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

~Eddie Veddar

Friday Favorites-

So for three and a half years now I’ve been doing my Friday Favorite feature (can you believe it’s seriously been that long…crazy!).  And as I’m sure you all have noticed, I always focus on only the ladies.  Yes, I’m sorry, I’m biased.  ~wink~  But.  There are a couple male bloggers out there right now that have seriously caught my attention.  They take incredible shots….thought provoking (usually naughty thoughts….grins…..), erotic, sexy as hell…..and consistently so.  I gotta give them a shout out and bring some well deserved attention to them.  If you haven’t already discovered these delicious men, you must go pay them a visit. 

JM… There is no spoon (he has an incredibly lovely mate too….you should absolutely not miss out on her site either!)

The Muffin Fan… One Man’s Love For Women 

Um….*swoon*

Ok.  So on with the girls.  A few of them.  Again, I provide you with only the thumbnails so that you will click them and proficiently gush over them.

Maeve…..

Ivey Lane…..

Lady Grinning Soul…..

Barefoot Dreamer…..

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I was emailing with another blogger Thursday morning and he mentioned how disappointed he’d been in the low amount of comments he’d been getting on his HNT’s.  I’ve noticed the same thing while visiting all the HNT posts recently.  Which is a bit odd for this time of year.  You expect comments to be on the low side through out the summer, over/near holidays, etc.  But when you see that over forty-five people are playing HNT but most blogs are getting an average of 5-15 comments…it makes you wonder.

And I almost hesitate to even bring this up bc the last thing I want to do is make blogging or playing HNT about the comments.  I know for me, it’s nice to get feedback/input/comments on my posts (most especially my HNTs) but it’s not WHY I blog.  It’s not what is most important to me.  But I do expect/hope that what I put into it, I will get out of it.  I try to be very active in the community and enjoy doing so. I think others feel the same way.  I know I am the anomaly in that I make it a point to visit *every* HNT that makes themselves known on Os’s site, as well as the others I stumble upon that don’t.  Not everyone is an internet whore like me has copious amounts of time on their hands.  And sometimes real life gasp! gets in the way and it’s not possible to do that….  *shrug*  No worries.

But I do understand his discouragement.

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I swear I keep my AFF profile (where I have my female for female profile) for entertainment value alone…  I received this message this past week from a guy who either didn’t care it was a F-F profile or more likely than not, just didn’t read it:

i am looking for fun if you want your pussy to get licked all night and want big hard cock seriously give me a message

I did not message him back. Shocking…I know.  *rolling eyes*  Lord.   …:::delete:::…

Now. I did also receive this one.  Again from a male, a much um…older gentleman.  I actually almost messaged him back just to say how much I appreciated his honesty and loved what he said!

DON’T MISS THIS: I AM MARRIED! I am not going to make up a lot of bull
like most do here. (No, “Hey Baby, I am hung like an anaconda, 12 feet
tall, 300 lbs. of ripping muscle, and I will rock your world
sweetheart” from me). I just want a like-minded partner; one who
preferably wants to have a true, no strings, sexually based
relationship with a lot of laughs mixed in (No whining from me like a
sniveling, spoiled little boy about the other woman or whatever else
guys usually cry about. I don’t need to be coddled by my mommy). I
prefer a longer term relationship, but am open to anything from a one
time to longer term situation. I am a solid professional guy who knows
who and what he wants (Not endless emails, although a little flirting
is good for the soul). Straightforwardly, let’s have a boatload of fun,
find out what makes us each passionate, and get
reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal tingly together. My pic is real
and current. Not 50 pounds and 20 years ago.

Bwahahaha….  Kuddos to him for keeping it real, you know?!   *snort*  If he weren’t waaaaaaay out of my age bracket I’d totally give him a shot!  Ha!

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I’ve been seeing quiet a bit of Abercrombie guy lately.  We have great conversation and he’s really into me, wanting to see me as often as he can.  Which….is nice, to be made a priority, ya know?  He’s definitely the new boytoy.  *smirk*

I did hear back from Matt Damon and um, as I had mentioned, he pretty much confirmed that I had intimidated the hell out of him.  Doh. 

PC my sissy panty boy has been fairly compliant and well behaved.  We’ve been getting along amazing….  I could gush over how *amazing* (I keep saying that word huh?) we’ve been.  There’s a new found dominance I am embracing (and loving).  *HAPPY SIGH*

Anyway.  Happy Friday my loverlies.  I’m going to see what kind of  trouble I can get in this weekend…  Hopefully a super fun recap come Monday! *grins* 
Enjoy!

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~ xo

Vixen

One of my ‘rules’ for dating is that the person I’m going to meet for the first time MUST be ‘google-able’.  If I can’t find you anywhere on the net, oh hell no am I going to meet with you.  I’m impressed by the person who corresponds with me using their *real name*, with a *real* email address.  Immediate brownie points are given for such trust and up front honesty.  I understand the need for being incognito, maintaining some anonymity, in the very beginning, but past that point, I need, no, I require a significant amount of ‘honesty’.

I was explaining this rule to Abercrombie (Roxy and I brainstormed and have decided this is what to call the new guy) a bit ago and it hit me….  I’m a total hypocrite (shut up, lol).  No really.  I am.  I respond to emails/ads, etc incognito/anonymously. I want to be *sure* of someone, comfortable with them…before I divulge my real name.  My real email address.  But as a female, I feel that is me being safe.  Taking precautions.  You know? 

The funny/ironic thing about this is my REAL name comes up with very little when you google it.  If I gave my *real* name to someone and they googled me, it would lead to a bunch of nothing.  Now.  If I give them my screen name….VIXEN.  Well now, up pops all sorts of fabulous things about me.  *LOL*  Hmm…maybe I need to start giving them my real name right off the bat and keep my screen name under hat until I get to know them better! *wink*

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Weekend ramblings….

We have had the most fabulous weather.  It’s definitely an Indian Summer and I am loving every moment of it.  *happy sigh*

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Friday night we enjoyed dinner on the outdoor patio at PF Chang’s after my renewed love of the place.  Teach PC to take me to one of his favorite places on New Years Day…after having thoroughly enjoying New Years Eve um, celebrations.  *groan*  Three years later I gave it another go and hey!  YUM!  Their Schezuan Asparagus is oh lord….drool worthy….

Saturday I went out with Matt Damon.  Well.  His look-alike.  I wore my new favorite flirty dress that PC bought for me.  We had a fabulous time but I got the distinct feeling that I intimidated the hell out of him.  Oh well….

PC aka PB- panty boy (haha) was on his best behavior.  Well.  Except for one instance, which required me to punish him for his acting out.  Tsk, tsk….  But after I took care of that little issue…  *evil grins*  He was otherwise perfect… driving me where I wanted him to, wearing what I required of him, taking care of the kiddos so I could have my fun.  When he behaves as he should, it’s my most favorite.  *GRINS*

Anywho.  Happy Monday!

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~ xo

Vixen

(vi.sualize.us)

Late at night.  As we made out. Hot and heavy.  In the car. Me in his lap.  Kissing.  Hands everywhere.  Mouths everywhere.  Breathing heavily.   Panties were off (I. was. so. wet.).  Because he asked…

He gestures to a wall.  In front of a building we are parked near.  Telling me he wants to take me.  There.

Yes.

My mind racing.  Of course.

Pulling my dress up over my hips and ass.  Behind me.  His hands on my waist.  Bent over.  Fucking me. 

Hard. 

Yes.

*thrilling*

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TFT is not going to make it up by midnight.  I tried uploading pictures all day and WordPress was being a pissy little bitch.  Look for it Tuesday morning instead. I’ll let you know when I’m finally able to post it.

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I lucked out.  TFT almost didn’t make it up tonight.  WordPress was being a pissy little bitch earlier.  *Thankfully* I finally got her to cooperate and upload pics.  *whew*  Don’t forget to check it out!  Many of your favorite bloggers are over there….just sayin.  *THANK YOU* everyone!

Would love to have you contribute  ANYONE can…just snap and send. Send.

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Have a fabulous Tuesday!

~ xo

Vixen

I’ve been chatting with YM somewhat frequently again.  He’s still serving in Afghanistan.  Apparently he’s been blown up so many times by IED’s that they’ve ‘benched’ him, he’s on permanent bed rest until the end of his deployment in October.  Lovely.  Heart plummets to hear that kind of news…..  He’s bored.  Ancy. Wants to be out doing something, back with his unit.  Which is understandable.  I think his family and friends, me included, are just happy he is in one piece!  He wants me to come visit him in his home town once he is released from his commitments from the Marine Corp next spring.  Hmm…right.  That’s not weird.  Me, in my mid-thirties [married], going to visit my twenty-two year old (he’ll have just turned) ‘friend’.  Yeah. I mean, we can share stories with his friends and girlfriend!  “This one time, in Vegas…..”  *shaking head*

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A bit ago I was telling Ashton about a night out with girlfriends drinking.  A drunken fun filled, can-only-remember-portions-of-the-evening (why I should not mix tequila and vodka!), night out.  I was giving him the highlights.  And he stops me.  To bring to my attention the irony of something I had said.  I recounted how I woke up the next morning completely surprised that I was wearing PJ’s.  His point was…only I would freak out over waking up wearing PJ’s.  Most people loose their shit to find out they have woken up naked.  But not me…  Doh.  (Haha)

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I’ve met several guys recently.  Both have proven to be ‘interesting’ experiences.  One guy, a 21 yro.  We’ll call him Airforce Guy (AF Guy).  Body to die for (as in a-m-a-z-i-n-g).  Great dresser.  Super cool Aviator type shades.  He’s hot, ok.  But oh man….he knows it.  He’s rather into himself.  At one point (as he’s been talking about himself for the last 30 min) I wonder if he realizes I’m there too.  Um yeah…  The other, a bit more mature, both in age and in mannerism (he’s 24).  We’ll call him Johnny, he reminds me of the kid in The Outsiders (not Ralph Macchio, but the character).  He’s got that lanky ‘bad boy’ look to him, good looking, he can carry an intelligent conversation, flirtatious, he likes to talk about more things than just himself (bonus- *snort*).  He’s really ‘nice’.  But.  He’s not Ashton….  *sigh*

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PC and I have been re-discussing our ‘playing rules’, leaving us on sturdier ground.  Rules that enable us to know what each others expectations are.  It makes it easier for me to not upset him inadvertently.  As well as when PC steps out of line, I can punish his ass and remind him that a good panty-boy doesn’t get to act out.  *smirk*  It’s fun to be me.

Anywho.  Just random boy-talk I had swimming in my head tonight…

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~ xo

Vixen

Ok.  So completely out of boredom and then what led to curiosity, late one night awhile back (insomnia…oh so much fun…) I signed up for an AFF account as an experiment.  As I’ve mentioned before, PC is the one who peruses the sites and likes to ‘shop’ for me.  99.5% of what he sends me to check out I have little interest in (Ashton made the .5% and damn was that a good decision…it just shows how much his ad clicked with me *wink*).  PC used ALT.com for quite awhile and that really wasn’t my scene.  From Bossy Becky who wanted to dominate PC and took the approach of telling me how it should be done…um…. FAIL.  To the couple that I really was interested in, that seemed like such a  perfect fit…he was deployed in the military and wanted his wife to have a playmate while he was gone.  Except she didn’t drink and didn’t think anyone else should either.  Bwahahaha…yeah, that’s not gonna fly.  There were many others, PC managed that account and all the emails and he was good at it, but nothing ever really worked out there. 

I did try out Ashley Madison briefly but become bored with that very early on.  It felt complicated and so many hoops to jump through just to like TALK to anyone.  AND, they were mostly all married people hoping to have an illicit, discrete affair (yeah, yeah I know it’s what the site is all about, I mean after all their slogan is “Life is short.  Have an affair”).  Bleah….I’m not dying to enter into an affair where drama is likely to erupt.  Me and drama….not on the same team.

And we all know my luck on CL, again, PC is the one who enjoys browsing there the most.  It’s just easier that way, let him weed through and then I’ll reject the ads he sends me.  Ha!

Ok.  So back to AFF.  It’s been….eye opening to say the least.  I know there are women on there looking for a good fuck and nothing more.  And there is nothing wrong with that, it’s just not ME.  Or what I am looking for/interested in.  I’m not that girl that fucks every person she meets.  Nothing wrong with those girls.  Just I’M not one of them.

Anyway though. It got me thinking because somethings really bugged me and I figured I would give some pointers, for the men mostly-

*STOP with the dick picture as your profile shot. I don’t care what your DICK looks like.  What it does now….that’s a different story, lol.  But sending me an email with you holding your cock?  Lost me before Hello. (want to clarify, dick pics among *other* shots- fine….I mean, I’m a sucker for a guy with a hot bod)

*Sending an email to a girl and the first thing you say is what you would like to DO with your dick.  Again.  Really?!  That is your ‘pick up line’?!  Would you come up to a girl in a bar and tell them what you would like to do to them with your 10foot dick?  Idon’tfuckingthinkso.  You’d get a drink in your face if not wallopped up side the head.  When you send an email to a chick (at least THIS chick), for gods sake try to at least WOO me, will ya?!

*Have something to say.  Telling me “Hi, I liked your profile.”  Period. Nothing more. ….isn’t going to cut it!  I’m not a guy (no shit, right?  *lol*) -although I’ve heard there are much, more more men on on AFF then women- so I don’t know their side.  But females get hundreds of emails a day.  You have to have something that is going to draw a girl in!  (and NO that’s not your dick picture *snort*) One of the bitches I’ve had about the girls I’ve tried chatting with on CL…their lack of interest.  Or their response is some one liner and I’m thinking…wait a minute.  YOU had the ad. I emailed YOU and you respond with “Cool.  You’re pretty”.  Um…. huh?

*Lastly, my profile stated that I was mostly only attracted to men younger than me (if at all, it takes a lot for me to be interested in someone else, especially a guy).  Most certainly men who appear young looking.  So that said- Grandpa! STOP SENDING ME EMAILS.  Ya perv, I’m NOT INTERESTED.  I’m barely attracted to men my own age (PC, hon, you are totally discluded here…but you should know that considering people think you are 10 yrs younger than you are, *grins*), I’m most certainly NOT going to be attracted to someone my DAD’S age.  *shudder* (no offense to my more advanced readers…just being honest about *MY* interests/likes)

So.  All this said.  I only had my profile listed as ‘interested in men also’ (rather than just females) for all of a week before I changed it back to female for female.  The funny thing is, I still got numerous emails a day from men (they’ve died down since I’m completely inactive on there now).  But um...psst…did ya read my profile, m’k?  Right.  Add that to the list too.  Ok then.

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Hope everyone has a great Labor Day!

(found HERE)

~ xo

Vixen

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.…

Just be sure to add the Vodka too.  ~wink~

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So.  What weekend, where? 

*blink blink* 

Weekend started out a bit um, rough.  “Stuff”.  As well as had beyond imaginable bad service at a restaurant Friday night.  Will not be going back there again.  For food.  It will be tempting to go back for their great drink prices though….

Kiddos were kidnapped by their aunt for part of the weekend.  Which freed up an evening to do adult activities.  Girls night out!  PC included, as he is an honorary girl after all.  He was on his bestest behavior (brownie points for him!).  I however, was not.  *evil grins* 

We went to our new favorite place that has a super fun rooftop patio.  The night is somewhat of a blur as the shots and beers continued through the night.  So much for telling PC I would be sticking to beer only, and definitely not more than one shot.  (says the girl who drank three plus shots….one of which contained a concoction of Crown, Peach Schnapps and Red Bull- all three of which are on my ‘no-way-no-thank-you-no-no-no’ list….)

I do remember my (SMOKING HOT) friend being hit on by some guy and me climbing into her lap seductively and informing him she was with me, followed by a fitful of giggles from her and I.  Once he realized we weren’t going to allow him to play with us, he left.  *snort*

Another interesting tidbit was an older gentleman who kept hitting on the three of us, while at the same time trying to hook one of us up with his sons.  Um…hmmm…..alrighty then, but no thanks.

So um PC….whatcha got going on down there?  Bwahahaha….. 

Super fun night.  Super late night….  Had to pick up the kiddos at what had seemed a reasonable time when I originally agreed, although came waaaaaaaaaaaay too early the next morning.  (doh)  Thank God for Starbucks!

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My sister and I have fabulous costumes planned for Halloween, doing the same theme as each other.  We’ve begun searching out the items we’ll need.  The most important and intricate part of the costume is being researched.  PC has already ordered his (custom ordered/made so no Cindy Brady this year, haha!).  It’s going to rock.  Can. not. wait!  *giddy*

I’m rather brain dead in a tequila fog sort of a way so that is about all I have.  Date night with Ashton (aka Yummy) so this will be posting early. 

Happy Monday!

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~ xo

Vixen

I’ve been thinking quite a bit about what it would be like to experience a positive M/F/M threesome.  You know, as opposed to the experience I had that sucked (no pun intended) and I swore I would never participate in such an activity again…..  I actually used to be fairly turned off by the idea of threesomes in general.  So many emotions and feelings involved, someone inevitably feels left out, which causes issues.  Which can lead to drama.  You all know how I feel about drama! But I’ve had more positive experiences that have led to a more positive position (again, ha, no pun intended) on the idea.  It can work.  It can be drama free.  It can be A LOT of fun.  With the right people.

Part of our cuckhold talk for numerous years between PC and I have involved the idea of a M/F/M scenario.  Fun to talk about in bed, in the heat of the moment, as a ‘turn on’ tool…but to actually go through with?  Yeah, very different.  And I have been….reluctant to proceed.  But as of late, the idea is intriguing me more and more. 

I am becoming much more open to the idea, let’s just say.

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TFT is up!

ANYONE can contribute. Girl, guy, couple, hell, your entire fraternity/bachelorette party… Snap. Send. It’s all cool. Be as simple, artsy, or whatever…as you’d like. It doesn’t have to be anything special! Or make it be. Hey, my point is, whatever you feel comfortable doing- I’ll take it and put up. ALSO, you can contribute anonymously if your little heart so desires. OR let me know how you would like to be linked/titled.

I’ll make it even easier. You want to become a regular contributor? You can send me one picture at a time. Or bunches. I’ll start a file and pull a picture from it each week. I’m easy people (I keep telling you all that! *grins*)!

Email me HERE or even HERE….

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Have a fabulous Tuesday!!!

~ xo

Vixen

After six days of being pent up in the house with poor sick LP (who is finally FINALLY starting to feel better)- I got out.  (We *heart* our sitter)  And had fun.  PC and I saw a movie (where I blurted out -rather loudly- just as the movie was starting “Oh you just shut up panty boy” after PC had teased me about something *snort*  Still giggling about that one…..).  And tried out a new brewery for dinner.  Excellent food.  Not so excellent beer (I’ve never been to a brewery where I couldn’t find something I liked….weird).  But excellently priced Vodka/Cranberry’s.  Had a friend join us.  We flirted like crazy.  Teased playfully. Laughed.  Talked.  Drank.  Had a fabulous time.  Then we all headed back home to enjoy hot tub.  Where we had an even more fabulous time.  *wink*

I’ve been following Sabrina Daco’s photostream on Flickr for quite a few years now. She has one of the sexiest, most provocative and seductive photo streams I’ve ever encountered.  HOT… Anyway. I encountered her photo on Tumblr.  I know a lot of photos end up over there that were ripped off.  So I just wanted to make sure she got a proper call out for her photography and pics.

~ xo

Vixen