A date.

From the restroom I send you a picture.

As I slide next to you into the booth…a sideways glance.  Into your eyes…  I slip my fingers seductively into your mouth. Leaning in to whisper…

I want to fuck you.

You move your hand up my leg.  I open my legs ever so slightly, your hand sliding up my thighs.  Realizing I’ve taken off my panties…  So you can feel me..how wet I am.  Your fingers melt in…. I try to refrain from gasping.  Hips lifting slightly to meet your hand…  Trying to nonchalantly take a sip from my glass of wine.

My hand moves to your thigh.  Edging up the seam of your jeans…slowly.  Teasing.  Finally…squeezing you.  A gasp escapes from you…as you clear your throat in an effort to disguise the sound.

I want to fuck you….

(psst…did you click???)

~ xo

Vixen

Do you remember….

Our first kiss….was unforgettable, passionate, brimming with desire…

The first time you lifted me up and threw me on the bed….

How every time you do my hips immediately rise to meet you…your mouth…your hips.

The first time we went out drinking together and I kissed you in the corner…

That time you couldn’t get up from the table…because you were so turned on.

Or the next morning…every morning…when I’d push myself into you…in the quiet darkness of the early morning, feeling your breath and lips against my neck, your hand on my hip…and your hardness pushing against..into me.

The first time we were laying together and I looked up into your eyes…smiled and whispered….hi. The adorable grin that came across your face.

Falling asleep naked…limbs intertwined.

The time in the nightclub you fingered me on the dance floor…in my little black dress.

You commented on how I notice the hot girls walking by almost! as much as you did.

How every time we went out at night…my panties somehow always seemed to be found in your pocket the next morning.

That time neither of us could nor wanted to sleep and we stayed up the entire night…until the sun began shining through the curtains…fucking…talking…exploring each others bodies, when you fucked my mouth…  How we couldn’t get enough of each other.

When you lifted me onto the counter, pushing my dress above my hips…my lace panties aside, fingers sliding inside…  Your lips against my ear, the whispers…the excitement.  …burying my face in your neck…gasping…biting… to muffle the moans as you pushed yourself deep inside.

Yeah…me too.

***As mentioned previously…many of my posts are not written in real time.  Although they are actual experiences.

~ xo

Vixen

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Say….you have been loosely dating two different people over a long-ish period of time (each of them on and off for six plus months).  And those two people start talking on Facebook, because they are mutual friends with you.  And they become FB friends.  You like one of the girls quite a lot but you are not in a committed relationship with either.

And then you find out that they are dating.  An ‘item’ now.

How do you feel?  And are you justified in feeling which ever way you do?

This happened on a reality show I watch called “The Real L Word” (yes, sigh…a real life show about lesbians, what isn’t there for me to like?!).  One of the girls, Whitney (the one that PC insists is just like me), had this happen to her.  She had actually just decided that she wanted to become more serious with one them when she discovered the two were now seeing each other. 

I guess…yeah.  I’d be hurt and upset.  But probably more than anything I’d be pissed at myself for missing out on the opportunity and letting the one I really wanted to be with get away.  She obviously had no ‘claims’ on either of them.  It is a bit ironic that they ended up together….mainly because Whitney couldn’t make a decision. 

Your thoughts?  Was any kind of ‘code’ broken???

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HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

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~ xo

Vixen

~ Mae West

Friday Favorites-

France…Sometimes The World Begins…..

Elle…Kink Unleashed…..


Mama Still Wears Gucci…..

Barefoot Dreamer (I didn’t catch her before she went out of town to give me her pic, so you just have to go check her out for yourself!)

Remember thumbnails are only teasers, if you haven’t done so already go over and show them some love. Go on now- SCOOT!

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As you might have noticed, I haven’t been mentioning AFF much (ok, at all).  I actually hadn’t been on AFF for quite some time (and then it was just to delete the email build up) and finally this week I disabled my account.  There’s a reason for this, I have no need or desire to continue looking.  I’m good.

My profile was Female for Female (F4F), despite 4 years of searching, I hadn’t given up my search for that *one special girl*.  Then something happened.  Or rather SHE happened.  And Vegas with HER happened (*swoon*).   Pretty much since August I had kind of known I wasn’t searching anymore…  I wish she lived closer (desperately so) but she doesn’t (damnit)…..we both agree though that somehow we’ll make it work.  I’m just not someone who dates and ‘hooks up’ with random people, I never have been.  I’m not capable of it and I don’t enjoy it.  So while the distance is a bitch, I’m much too smitten with her to desire being with any other female.

On a different note.  I did actually meet a guy on AFF that I’ve been seeing regularly for the past 3 months.  Funny thing about having a F4F profile.  It doesn’t stop all guys from responding.  There are two camps of men who will respond to a F4F profile.  The dumbasses who don’t even read your profile and hit you up (usually crudely and distastefully so) and then the ones that actually have a tendency to catch my attention.  They are the particularly outgoing/adventurous ones who have the -“Hell, I’ll give it a shot” attitude (which I kind of admire, bc I think I possess this trait as well).  They notice it’s a F4F profile, and mention it in their initial email.  Along with some coercement (…I know this isn’t a word, add it to my list of made up words) of why I should consider giving them a chance to at least wine and dine me.

Which is how I met Johnny (not his real name- duh, not sure I’ll stick with it- he just happens to look a bit like Johnny from the original Karate Kid movie, according to PC).  I rarely respond to people on AFF.  It takes a lot to wow me with an email so that I feel even remotely like there could be a click.  And I sat on his for a quite awhile before responding.  When I finally did, we immediately clicked.  A bit like how Ashton and I did.  I knew after my initial correspondence with Ashton that there was a *significant* CLICK.  Similar feeling with Johnny.  This was back in October.  PC has met him and approves of him (he actually went out with PC, my sister and I to the Exotic Ball on Halloween).  He’s closer to my age (definitely for the best….the boys I was meeting -Ashton excluded- were killing me with their immaturity and games), is interested in the same type ‘thing/relationship’ I am (not a FB or complete NSA…which I’m mostly incapable of, much less desire), super funny, super cute and we really enjoy our time together.  Bonus all around.

Ashton and I remain in contact and I value our friendship tremendously.  He’s an amazing guy.  But his life is complicated and busy.

I couldn’t write all this without boasting/mentioning/gushing over the most important person in my life….PC.  The last month or so has been the best ever for us.  Some changes were made between us over the summer, not just between us, but personal ones as well.  We have been communicating better, getting along super well and just been over all incredibly balanced.  Which over all makes me super happy.  In a content …:::sigh happily:::… sort of a way.  There have been other stresses going on in our life, completely out of our control and he manages them amazingly well so that I, for the most part, don’t have to.  At the end of the day, he’s the one I come home to, am happy with and enjoy immensely the life we’ve built together.

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Ok.  Hope everyone has a fantabulous weekend!

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~ xo

Vixen

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Yeah.  My night was a little bit like this.  Ok.  Actually, it was exactly like this.

But not before this…..

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Sorry for the delay in posting.  As you can see, I was a bit um, busy.

*wicked grins*

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TFT is up as well.  Go check out lovely gals and guys who have contributed this week!

~ xo

Vixen

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Jenny was out on New Years Eve with her boyfriend at a bar.  She was hit on by another guy several times.  Her boyfriend didn’t take much notice or do anything about it- and it really bothered her.  When she mentioned it to him later, he brushed it off and told her he’s happy other guys think she’s hot.  She wanted him to defend her though, to let this guy know, other guys know, that she’s HIS.  She doesn’t think this is a lot to ask for.

My opinion?  I think she’s being ridiculous. Coming from a past relationship where if another person even looked in my direction he would go ape shit and start a fight with them (verbal and/or physical) then turn around and blame *me* for prompting the attention by what I was wearing/how I was standing/the way I breathed [insert anything completely ridiculous]…..  I think Jenny is on crack.  What it sounds like to me is that she wishes she HAD a jealous boyfriend (?!?!?).  I’m pretty sure I’ve never heard of someone wishing for this.  Possibly I should hook her up with one of my ex’s!  Ok, in all seriousness, I have been on the opposite end of this situation.  I think she should feel extremely lucky that she has found a guy who is secure enough with himself and their relationship that it doesn’t bother him to have someone hit on her.  I personally find jealous behavior a huge, huge turn off.  If the guy were *bugging* her and wouldn’t leave her alone after she’d made it clear she wanted him to- then yes, that is a different situation and he should come to her aide.  (BFD had to do this for me one night in Vegas at Coyote Ugly…*grins*….)

What do you think?  Do you have advice for her?  Should be upset about this???

*****

HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

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~ xo

Vixen

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While at a game last week with his brother in law, Todd was introduced to a friend of his sisters (another guy).  They hit it off, he’s a hair stylist and gave his new friend his cell number.  Since meeting him last week he’s been receiving text messages, picture messages and the new friend has stopped in for a hair cut.

He thinks this guy is hitting on him.  And while he finds this new friend attractive….this guy- he’s since discovered- has a wife and baby.  The wife of this new friend is actually good friends with his sister.  He’s not sure if he should cut off contact with him, tell his sister what has been going on so she can warn her friend of what her husband has been up to….  He’s just completely confused.

Advice?

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HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

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~ xo

Vixen

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Very short dress.

Over the knee socks.  Tall boots.

Several martinis….the most delicious I’ve tasted.

Flirtatious conversation.

Teasing.

Barely through the door before I jumped into his arms.  Legs wrapping around him.

My mouth on his neck.  Breathing hard.  His lips on my breasts. 

Dress pulled up.  Panties off.  Boots still on.  My legs around his waist.

Hands, mouths….everywhere.

Fucking…….

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TFT is up!

~*~**~Theme Alert~*~**~
For the next two weeks I will be collecting pictures for a special HOLIDAY/CHRISTMAS themed TFT. Use your imagination, get creative and festive! Then click and send. Many of our contributors rocked last year when I did this, so c’mon!

Of course, feel free to send me other boob/moob pics (holiday/Christmas themed or not!) in the meantime as well. We continue to have some great men and women each week. Some repeat contributors, others brand spankin’ new….every one of them super awesome. Don’t forget to tell me how you would like to be credited and/or linked. You can even remain anonymous if you would like.

*THANKS* to everyone who contributed!

Lots of ways to help out this holiday season.  Hop on over to check it out.  And for those wanting to contribute- ANYONE can…just snap and Send!  (C’mon, you know who you are)

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~ xo

Vixen

Anyone watch Survivor? We’ve been catching up on Tivo’d shows and one of the girls made this comment. Haha…too funny.

Friday Favorites-
Because I didn’t do a Friday Favorite post last week, I’m including some that I loved from then.  Remember, thumbnails are just sneak previews.  If you haven’t already, go show them some love!

Cheeky Minx…Love Hate Sex Cake…..

Elle…Kink Unleashed…..


Sexy Sadie…..

Barefoot Dreamer…..

Jas…Evocative Abyss…..

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I went on a date with Johnny (the guy I’ve been writing about on the sly- if you’ve been paying attention you remember him….he can also be found over on TFT *grins*) Thursday night…brain is in other places and I really actually don’t have much to say (shocking…I know).  I guess I said it all on Monday (ha).  I see this around occasionally and I liked the questions this time around.

Naughty or nice…..

1. Had sex in a car older than a 1985 model?
Why yes….  Several in fact.  My first car was a 1971 VW Bug.  I *loved* that car. And yes!  Amazingly so, you can have sex in a car that small! (my most embarrassing moment E-V-E-R took place in this car….I’ve spoken of it a couple times, maybe I’ll have to share again- another time)  I also inherited my grandmothers Maverick, which was a 1970, in high school.  And that was well used as too….  A lot of my teenage sexual experiences took place in cars.  *ahem*

2. Played strip poker and lost?
Yes…  I’m probably a very fun person to play strip poker with because I always lose. (doh)

3. Name three celebrities you would like to bang the sh!tz out of.
Oh shit.  Only three???? Well….  Megan Fox, Channing Tatum and Kiera Knightley
*swoon*

4. Ever gone commando?
Um….have you met me?  LOLOLOL Panties are for special occasions.  Nuff said.

5.Open relationship?
Have you read my blog?  Are you new?  Well…that answers this question then…..  *wink*

6. You have been naughty what is your punishment?
Me naughty????  Pffbbttt….  *wicked grins*  Ok.  We all know that if I were to do something ‘wrong’, that PC would be punished for it with a riding crop.  That’s how it works in this household.

7. Ticklish?
I suppose my sides.  I really, really hate to be tickled though. 

8. Spit or swallow?
Neither
*ducking*  I told you….sigh  I really, really wish I could.  Oh well.

9. Is rear entry an option?
Depends on what you are going to enter with…  (ha!)  So my answer is possibly yes.

10. What would you do for a Klondike bar?
Eww.  Ice cream and chocolate= puke.  You’ve just combined two of my least favorite things, nah, no thanks.

11. Truth or Dare? (Truth have you ever been with more than 1 person in one day? or show a tasteful picture of cleavage/boobs or guys a boxer shot)
I never, ever take truth.  I actually really dislike this game. I’ve been traumatized by it.  Anyway…  So Truth- yes. I have.  Fun times my friends.  *grinning*

12. BDSM?
Yeah…no thanks.  Not my thing.

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14.You order a pizza…would you ever flash the delivery guy at the door?
Ha…I have!

15. Are you horny?
Usually.  But I’ll tell you, it must be my old age *snort*….being tired has been recently trumping being horny.  WTF?!

16. Leather or lace?
Lace.  Although both together can be pretty fucking sexy too. 

17. Silk ties or hand cuffs?
I guess silk ties.  I can be super adventuresome but I just don’t love to be tied.

18. Thongs? Boy shorts? Grannie panties? lace?
Ultra low cut lace thongs are my all time favorite.  I have some lace tangas that I like to wear with dresses. I like those too…but never with jeans. 

19. Eyes open or closed?
What are we doing?  If we are kissing- CLOSE YOUR EYES!  That’s just going to creep me out!  Anything else we are doing?  Mmmm….eyes open is hot hot hot.

20. Romance or kink?
Romance beats out kink but I do enjoy the kink!

And lastly…

21. Would you rather take a bath in chocolate pudding or drive around the town naked in your car?
I’ve driven around town naked- BTDT.  I think taking a bath in chocolate pudding sounds fun!  Can I bring a friend??  (BFD…wanna come over?!  *WINK*)

Have a fantabulous weekend!!!
(oh, almost forgot- review going up this weekend too, check back!)

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~ xo

Vixen

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(vi.sualize.us)

I get this type of email fairly often.  Variations of course, but always the same type question from both men and women.

The latest email I received was something like this-

Over the last month he’s been dating a girl, they’ve been on several dates.  The dates have been good…but nothing special and he’s not really feeling a click.  Last weekend he met several of her friends.  One in particular he is really attracted to and she is much more his type.  He’s wondering if there is anyway to ‘transition’ (his wording) from her to one of her friends.  And how should he handle it?  Should he ask her permission? 

Basically- Is it ok if you’ve only dated a guy/girl a few times for her/him to go after one of your friends?

In my opinion…..  It’s a potentially sticky situation that needs to be handled carefully.  I think it depends on the girl.  I also think it depends on how much the girl liked the guy.  Another factor is the type of friendship the girls have with each other.  First things first though- he should break things off with the one girl.  Let things settle a bit, then contact the friend.  Talk with the friend about things, tell her where you stand.  That you would really like to take her out on a date, is really attracted to her.  See what she thinks. 

As far as wanting to date a guy’s friend.  I think they care less about these things. But I may be off base.  Hopefully some guys will chime in on this….

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HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

(omg…HOT!!!)

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~ xo

Vixen