Sunday was the first day of May. Which means…. *drum roll please* ….the beginning of National Masturbation Month!!! In 1995 Good Vibrations began celebrating to raise awareness. This began after the Surgeon General at the time (Dr. Joycelyn Elders) was fired for saying that masturbation should be discussed as part of young peoples’ sex education.

Gotta say…I’m all about it. And wheeee…..an entire month dedicated to it! SIGN ME UP! *grins*

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~ xo

Vixen

When I come I want you to watch me…I want you to watch my fingers trailing down my stomach to my hip bone.

My hips reacting involuntarily…lifting, meeting.  Fingers delving further.

Gasping.

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TFT is up!

*THANKS* to all our contributors!  Please tell your friends, other bloggers, if you’ve considered participating- now is the perfect time!

Don’t forget to tell me how you would like to be credited and/or linked. You can even remain anonymous if you would like.  Just snap and Send!  (C’mon, you know who you are, you know you wanna!)

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~ xo

Vixen

(click the button for more info, email me if you have any great ideas for a topic, I’d love to hear from you!)

Percent of men who say they masturbate: 60% (the other 39% lied).

Percent of men who say they masturbate at least once a day: 54%.

Men are six times more likely than women to peruse sexually explicit material on the Internet

Say……you know your boyfriend utilizes visual aides for his….’happy time’ (ahemmasturbatingahem), such as videos and the internet to ‘help him’.  But then you discovered a DVD in the DVD player, that featured your boyfriend and an ex-girlfriend. 

Oh.  Um….

Are you upset?  Does this bother you?  Would it bother you enough to approach them about it?
(consider this applicable to both female and male….)

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HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

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~ xo

Vixen

I got an email the other morning.  The subject reads: Know what I want?

I’m intrigued. I open it.

I’d really love for you to put on that hot pink sweater and then masturbate.

Just thinking…

Oh.  OH! 
Like I’m going to turn him down. *wicked grins*

His response-

Good girl.

Mmmhmm….

~ xo

Vixen

It’s the first day of May. Which….*drum roll please*….means the beginning of National Masturbation Month. In 1995 Good Vibrations began celebrating to raise awareness. This began after the Surgeon General at the time (Dr. Joycelyn Elders) was fired for saying that masturbation should be discussed as part of young peoples’ sex education.

Why Masturbate? Why Masturbate-a-thon?

Despite great strides in sex-positive education, masturbation for many remains a taboo subject.  Masturbation is important! It’s safe, healthy, free, pleasurable and my number one reason for advocating it, is that it helps people get to know their bodies and their sexual responses.

It’s sex, not the Psychic Network-
“Like something? Don’t like something? The cat and your best friend
may be able to read your silent signals, but for a guy in the moment,
it’s not that easy. Just tell us please!”

AND there is almost nothing hotter than a guy/girl who knows how to get themselves off and can share it with their partner. Watching the person I am with take care of them self, share that level of intimacy with me is HOT. And having someone else watch ME is *omfg* highly erotic. Just sayin’…. ~wink~

They believe:

• Masturbation is the safest sex.
• More masturbation means more sexual self-awareness.
• Masturbation with a partner can be educational and hot.

(vi.sualize.us)

Myths about masturbation-

• Masturbation is something you do when you’re young, but then grow out of. (70-95% of adult men/women masturbate)
• Masturbation isn’t ‘real sex’; it’s only for people who can’t find a partner.
• Masturbation is something men have to do, but women don’t “need” to. (statistics do show that men do masturbate more than women. BUT social attitudes towards female masturbation are a lot more negative)
• People in relationships don’t masturbate (basically every survey taken- whether that be Playboy or Redbook…say that way more married men masturbate than women, but a really high percentage (something like an average of 60% of women do)
• Too much masturbation is bad for you. (duh. If it is a part of a balanced sexual and social life, it poses on specific risks)
• Only certain kinds of people masturbate. (ok, so survey research shows that whether you are 19 or 99, religious and conservative or secular and liberal, no matter who you are or what stage of life you are in…almost everyone has masturbated at some point in their lives!)

(vi.sualize.us)

WHY Masturbate-

• Because masturbation is immensely pleasurable, invigorating, rejuvenating and fun.
• Because sexual pleasure is each person’s birthright.
• Because masturbation is the ultimate safe sex.
• Because masturbation is a joyous expression of self love.
• Because masturbation offers numerous health benefits including menstrual cramp relief, stress reduction, endorphin release, stronger pelvic muscles, reduction of prostate gland infection for men and resistance to yeast infections for women.
• Because masturbation is an excellent cardiovascular workout.
• Because each person is their own best lover.
• Because masturbation with a partner can be educational and hot.
• Because masturbation increases sexual awareness.

Masturbate-a-thon will be on May 2 this year, it’s their 10th annual. They promise the event to be fun and easy place for participants to jack or jill off (~giggle~ ….yes, they actually say that…).

The event takes place every year in San Francisco. You can buy a ticket to cum (haha, pun intended) as a spectator. Spectators and voyeurs are welcome. But it struck me as interesting that it only costs $15 for females and transgenders BUT $40 for MEN (non-trans) who want to attend unaccompanied. Huh. Bummer if you are a man and not transgendered. Never thought you would be penalized for that did ya?! LOL

Anyways. If you have nothing better to do tomorrow….. ~wink~

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Enjoy your Saturday.  Review goes up tomorrow!

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

I recently gave Fun Factory’s Angelo a whirl.  It’s a waterproof miniVibe advertised as also being ‘powerful and quiet’.  Cool!  As you all may know, all three are HUGE for me.

This is the first traditional vibrator I have tried by Fun Factory.  I have to say if nothing else, I’m really impressed with their packaging.  It comes in this neat little box with a magnetic closure, very sophisticated and ‘ooolalaaa’.  (LOL)   “Angelo” is smooth and flexible with a battery compartment that opens easily (for two AA batteries, which are not included).  The speeds are adjustable, major selling point for me!  It’s somewhat easy to adjust the speed but I did find you had to hold down the up or down buttons, rather than just press and release.  Not a huge biggie, I just needed to remember that while using it.

It’s cute, small, easy to use and….100% body and earth friendly silicone.  Booyah baby!  I liked the way it angled in correctly so that it hit the right ‘spots’.  It’s advertised that it can be used for vaginal or anal stimulation.  It’s not a size or shape or…well, anything that I would consider for anal use.  But it worked well for my favorite use- vaginal and clitoral stimulation.  I also liked how soft and pliable it was.

I think it’s a good bang for your buck (so to speak).  You can find it and other sex toys at the Vibrator.com site.

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TFT is up!  I’m not sure if I’ve not been feeling the questions lately or feeling tied down by my ‘rigid’ blogging routine…  But no TMI for me today.  Check back tonight/tomorrow for CQW.
~grins~

forhereyesonly:

(via realprincess)

~xo

1. Have you ever attended a group masturbation party? Same-sex or mixed?
Nope, can’t say that I have.  And actually, the idea doesn’t really appeal much to me either.

2. When masturbating, as you reach orgasm, do you continue to stimulate yourself without interruption, or do you stop and apply pressure until your spasms subside? Or?
Depends.  How’s that for an answer, eh? *LOL*  I can just ‘tell’ when I am, whether it’s going to feel better if I stop or continue.

3. Have you ever video’ed yourself while masturbating (solo)? Where are they now?
Um.  Noo…..  Pictures I have though!  I would video myself for someone else if that is what tickled their fancy.

4. Have you ever looked at porn online?
Not really, no.  I mean.  Do Erotic Photography sites count?  One of my favorite Tumblr sites is called “Art or Porn- You decide”.  So I guess it’s debatable.  Personally, I think no.

Have you ever posted at porn online?
Nope.  (I do NOT consider my HNT’s ‘porn’)

5. Do you send/recieve dirty email jokes and pictures?
No.  It’s not really my thing.  Occasionally Roxy will send me something, but it’s rare so when it does, it’s awesome.  ;)

Bonus: Have you ever told someone they were good in bed when they weren’t?
In my ‘vast’ experience (rolling eyes), no.  I would rather say nothing then flat out lie that they are something I don’t think they were.  But I’m also not out to hurt anyone’s feelings.  I guess let me put it this way- if it’s my husband/partner?  I’m going to tell them.  So that we can try to work on fixing it.  You know?  Bc I don’t want to have continuous bad sex!  If it’s someone random I’ve slept with (which is not only hypothetical but unrealistic) I might lie, tell them they are good and then avoid having sex with them again.   

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TFT is up!  Go check it out.

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Happy TMI!

(via 69)

~xo

Friday Favorites-

Cute But Evil…..  ALL MY FAVORITE THINGS IN ONE PHOTO!!!!  Rockin’ shoes.  A frilly skirt.  God I freakin’ *LOVE* this pic!

Sadie…..  She’s the bomb.  Seriously.  *swoon*

Thursday’s Child….. There were supposed to be pasties.  I guess they failed, but the upside is we get THIS pic!  Love the boa and perfect amount of lips in this crop.

Angel…A Secret Freak.….  Beautiful.  You must click the link and go see the other pic. It was awfully difficult to choose!

Biscuit…..  You know I loves her and her photos.  Very beautiful.

Betty Rocket..…  This is one awesome pic.  All sort of erotic and sensual.

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In TV news….. Season 5 of So You Think You Can Dance begins May 21.  I fucking *LOVE* this show.  LP and I look forward to it every year.  We actually went to see their season 2 live tour.  It was kick ass!  So insanely excited…..

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It’s the first day of May.  Which….*drum roll please*….means the beginning of National Masturbation Month.  In 1995 Good Vibrations began celebrating to raise awareness.  This began after the Surgeon General at the time (Dr. Joycelyn Elders) was fired for saying that masturbation should be discussed as part of young peoples’ sex education.

Why Masturbate? Why Masturbate-a-thon?

Despite great strides in sex-positive education, masturbation for many remains a taboo subject.

They believe:

• Masturbation is the safest sex.
• More masturbation means more sexual self-awareness.
• Masturbation with a partner can be educational and hot.

Myths about masturbation-

• Masturbation is something you do when you’re young, but then grow out of. (70-95% of adult men/women masturbate)
• Masturbation isn’t ‘real sex’; it’s only for people who can’t find a partner.
• Masturbation is something men have to do, but women don’t “need” to. (statistics do show that men do masturbate more than women.  BUT social attitudes towards female masturbation are a lot more negative)
• People in relationships don’t masturbate (basically every survey taken- whether that be Playboy or Redbook…say that way more married men masturbate than women, but a really high percentage (something like an average of 60% of women do)
• Too much masturbation is bad for you. (duh.  If it is a part of a balanced sexual and social life, it poses on specific risks)
• Only certain kinds of people masturbate. (ok, so survey research shows that whether you are 19 or 99, religious and conservative or secular and liberal, no matter who you are or what stage of life you are in…almost everyone has masturbated at some point in their lives!)

WHY Masturbate-

• Because masturbation is immensely pleasurable, invigorating, rejuvenating and fun.
• Because sexual pleasure is each person’s birthright.
• Because masturbation is the ultimate safe sex.
• Because masturbation is a joyous expression of self love.
• Because masturbation offers numerous health benefits including menstrual cramp relief, stress reduction, endorphin release, stronger pelvic muscles, reduction of prostate gland infection for men and resistance to yeast infections for women.
• Because masturbation is an excellent cardiovascular workout.
• Because each person is their own best lover.
• Because masturbation with a partner can be educational and hot.
• Because masturbation increases sexual awareness.

Masturbate-a-thon will be on May 2 this year, it’s their 9th annual.  They promise the event to be fun and easy place for participants to jack or jill off (~giggle~  ….yes, they actually say that…).

The event takes place every year in San Francisco.  You can buy a ticket to come (haha, pun intended) as a spectator.  Spectators and voyeurs are welcome.  But it struck me as interesting that it only costs $15 for females and transgenders BUT $40 for MEN (non-trans) who want to attend unaccompanied.  Huh.  Bummer if you are a man and not transgendered.  Never thought you would be penalized for that did ya?!  LOL

Anyways.  If you have nothing better to do tomorrow…..  ~wink~

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Have a completely stunning weekend!

(AnaSexy)

~xo

~Grey’s Anatomy

Friday Favorites-

Elle…Kink Unleashed…..

Naughty-I…..
Her blog is private but she says if you email her she might consider letting you in to play *grins*


Krazy…My Irresistible Desire…..

Hamlet and Lorali’s Pornotopia…..

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It was colder than fuck Thursday.  Which, yes, it’s the middle of November, I understand it’s like winter.  But damnit if it hadn’t been in the high 70′s all week, making a sudden 30 plus degree drop over night seem horribly drastic. Brrr…….

ANTM ended this week.  I adore that show, it’s so easy to get sucked into.  But this season was fairly…blah.  And the girl that ended up winning was suuuuuuuuuch a mega bitch.  Her smile was more like a half sneer.  Whatever.

I have had THE. MOST. FUCKED. UP. dreams recently.  PC and I were snuggling this morning before he got out of bed (well, ok I had gotten up to let doggies out and came back into the room at 5ish to find him up and getting ready to go work on his laptop and I made him get back in bed with me, lol) and he started to tell me about a dream he had had.  I asked him if in his dream he had a young child trying to attack him with scissors.  He looked at me like I was crazy said no and recapped his dream. Oh.  He says my dreams are due to/from anxiety. Idk…but yeah. (fucked.up. ????)

Well, so have a kick ass weekend!

madisonsweet:eroticana:futashika:sampler:kiela:yamadataro: Cyril Nesmon – C’EST CHIC agency
Bend Me Over

~xo

~Jessica Rabbit

So….  I received a rather scrumptious email a week ago.  With an offer.  Now I get emails from people/companies all the time asking to exchange links.  And most of them I decline, occasionally I accept.  But this particular offer was NOT one I could refuse.  I was offered a FREE rabbit vibrator.  Oh no, you read that right.  In an effort get the word out about their newly launched rabbit vibrator website, they offered to send me any one of my choice (BOOYAH BABY!).

Okay, and who am I to pass up a free vibe?!?!  I have a Rabbit that PC bought for me last spring and I have to say it is stiff competition (haha) for my Fish.  Definitely one of this girls best friends ~wink~

So my task was to pick one that I would like to try out.  Not an easy job, let me tell you.  But I finally decided upon this one:

The Hop’n Rabbit Stroker Vibrator

Let’s just say…I was not disappointed.  Um, at all.  Oh lord. 
Selling points definitely worth mentioning-

* It has a spring shaft that moves up and down
* It’s dual-multi speed.  Not just the clitoral stimulator, but the intensity of the movement of the spring shaft
* And the VERY BEST FEATURE (IMO) is this multi-function LCD control panel that causes this Rabbit to be my rabbit come true ~grins~.  It moves in various, unpredictable directions with different intensities.  It has a mind of it’s own (it’s a bit like being with a partner, lol) and tempts and teases which brings you to a point of such insane intensity.

Only slight downside are two things-

* It did not come with an instruction manual. Now duh, it’s a vibrator, who needs a manual for a freaking vibrator, right?  LOL  But seriously, this one has so many buttons and options (which were all awesome!), it would be nice to know *exactly* what each one does.
* It caused a slight bit of frustration when I did get to a point where I was right. there…..SO close to THE O and needed it to stay .THERE.  But bc it didn’t come with any type of direction on the purpose of each buttons function, I couldn’t figure out how to make it stay RIGHT. THERE.  It worked itself out though and threw me over the edge causing an absolutely intense, mind blowing O.

And while those are slight hiccups, they weren’t a huge deal.  I mean, I will definitely be using it again (and again….hehe) and it will give me ample opportunity to learn and sample the different functions.  Like I said, one of the features I loved the most was not being able to anticipate what it might do next.  It absolutely aided in the intensity of the BIG O and how enjoyable the experience was. 

…:::happy sigh:::…

By Perry Gallagher (via chagrin and odinindustries)
Beautiful and depraved

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Sorry.  No TMI today after all.  My laptop/internet/something was being a pissy little bitch last night and by a small miracle I was able to get TFT up at 2something a/m (so go check it out!!!).  So….no TMI for me today.  Check back tonight/tomorrow for CQW.
~grins~

~xo