Friday Favorites-

Emmy…..

Sexy Sadie…..

Cheeky Minx.….

Scintillectual…..

Autumn…..


Path of Passion…..

Click on the links and go visit the lovely ladies! Show ‘em some love.

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So, the Bon Jovi concert.  I had assured my sister I could still have fun with us going out and me not drinking.  Very rarely am I the designated driver….. actually, can’t remember the last time I was.  Um…it’s been THAT long (doh!).  We always drag PC along and it’s his job that he quite willingly does.  I have to admit, it’s sometimes probably for the best to have him along to keep us….not so much in check, but ’safe’.  KWIM?  I’ve mentioned my sometimes lack of common sense when I drink (remember my ‘drunk girl, sometimes stupid’ post????).  Anyway.  I think she did worry at one point that while I had assured her I could have fun not drinking, when I turned down the round of Patron shots (I know…ME turn down Patron?!  *shaking head*) she wondered if SHE could have fun w/ me not drinking.  It all worked out though.

We did have a good time at the concert that we have affectionately dubbed- Cheesefest 2010.  I honestly do NOT remember him being as cheesy/corny as he was.  The spirit fingers, jazz hands, booty shaking, jumping jack-type-dance….was a bit much. *snort* Not to the mention the 50something crowd everfreakinwhere that were seriously *SWOONING* over him and his ridiculousness.  I only had beer spilt on me several times by the woman who danced and screamed the. entire. time.  I’m pretty sure she was his biggest fan.  That lucky Bon Jovi….  ~wink~

Eventually we left bc we were over him to beat traffic. I suggested we hit the dive bar near her house.  I have to say the FUNNIEST/HIGHLIGHT of the night was my VERY straight sister being kissed by a way overly drunk girl trying to bum a cigarette.  When I informed Drunk Girl that I didn’t smoke and therefore did not have a cigarette she could bribe off of me, she became all eyes for my sister.  The look on my sisters face and watching Drunk Girl try to redeem sexual favors for a stupid cigarette were….comical, to say the least.

And apparently neither of us were the brightest of bulbs that night…..   The cute bartender we were schmoozing with kept asking what our plans were after the bar closed (we were there until closing).  We both realized (after the fact!!!) that he’d actually been hoping we’d invite him to go someplace else with us after wards.  Oh.  Oh!  Uh.  Duh!  (maybe it was my lack of alcohol combined with the amount she’d had???  ….IDK…….) But again.  DUH!

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I requested my Web Bitch to do some work on my site.  Wanted to point out several new (ok one is new, one is fixed) features.  People have brought it to my attention *coughSagecough* that there is no way to follow comments on posts of interest.  The other being that you used to be able to click on my header and it brought you ‘home’….but after  PC re-vamped my header last fall (the one the totally awesome Roxy made for my last birthday *GRINS*) it quit working.  I kissed up asked nicely and PC made the changes for me.  I should mention, my site is not easy to work on. So let it be known the man seriously ROCKS, definitely a keeper.

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It’s come to my attention recently that I probably should give some more….information regarding PC and what he is gaining from my….extramarital affairs.  Quite a few of you are having a difficult time wrapping your head around what PC is getting out of it all.  Bc despite what he keeps saying about making my happiness #1, some have an even more difficult time wrapping their heads around THAT (remember though, we are firm believers that relationships are not quid pro quo). There has been expressed confusion, concern, curiosity, whatever about it and how he can be ‘OK’ with it.  I realize sometimes I’m very…..elusive, evasive about many some of the details I share.  It’s just how I am and what I am comfortable with.  PC is much more blatant about what he would share (which is evident in the few posts he’s written….that I’ve had to edit for my level of ‘okayness’, lol).  But that said, I think it is time to give a bit more insight so as not to come off as a selfish bitch in my marriage.  That post is coming.  It’s taking some processing and thinking on my part.

I also wanted to mention though, that while I’ve only just begun talking more openly about it here, as well as realizing I do find myself attracted to certain men…..  Our marriage has been open to me seeing/dating females since…well, the beginning.  So while certain aspects of ‘this’ are new-ish, the general concept isn’t.

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Have a perfectly fabulous weekend.  Mine is jam packed with fun stuff.

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

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I did end up having enough time to make rounds.  Two wow’ed me….

My Hot Raven…..

Roxy.….

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I’m free! I’m free!!!  I begrudgingly drug my feet regarding jury duty this past week..  Many of you heard me complain.  I know it’s my civic duty, I should feel honored to get to help out in our wonderful judicious process, blah, blah, blah….  Here was the MAIN issue.  I LIKE being home.  I am responsible for a farm full of animals.  I have a 5mo old puppy that is only partially housebroken bc she is always in my lap or tagging close beside as I do chores.  Which means when I’m gone, she’s NOT even partially so (bc she hides under the bed from PC…don’t even ask why *shaking head*  ALTHOUGH, I do think they bonded a bit with me gone).  I do NOT like being away from home.  I do not like not being able to keep up with my house.  Or with my animals.  Or seeing my kiddos.  And not being able to keep PC in his happy place when his day gets stressful.  It was just difficult being away from my home for twelve hours a day,  especially for four whole days……
 
So as it turned out, most civil cases last a day.  And are usually painfully dull.  They cover minute things like broken contracts, small law suits, etc.  The trial I served on was a carry over from a criminal case, where the mother of the plaintiff thought the defendant had only received a slap on the wrist and wanted justice to be served.  For the defendant to truly understand what he did was wrong. Think….OJ Simpson.  Family didn’t feel justice was served in his criminal trial so they brought him to trial for punitive damages.  Same deal here.

Let’s just say….teens, sexting and fathers with guns….not a good combo.

Bc of this the trial was very long.  I missed my family. I missed my home.  My family missed me.  My house missed me (as was evident by how trashed it became w/o my typical upkeep, lol).  I am behind on everything…..blech.  BUT that said.  While the super early mornings sucked (I didn’t love having to be up by 5:00am in the morning I am a NIGHT person, nooooooooooooot a morning person.  The last time I got up that early was to make our flight for Vegas.  Yeah…having to wake up for a VACATION is way more fun than having to get up to drive an hour away to the court house. Blech) and the long days exhausting….now that it’s all over and done with it was a very enlightening experience.  Very valuable I think.  Interesting also in that I was the youngest juror and definitely the most….open minded and open EYED to teens, sex and our society.  I felt for both sides, very unfortunate situation but did find myself feeling some compassion for the plaintiff most of all.  The other, older jurors, who I will classify as ‘naive’, we didn’t really see eye to eye.  The case was shocking, upsetting and outrageous we all agreed, but in different aspects and for different reasons.

As I said, positive experience to have had and walk away from.

On the plus side, the case gave gave me several different ideas for CQW!  AND the highlight of my mornings was Starbucks drive through.  (Oh!  They have a new drink… Dark Cherry Mocha….YUM-MY!  And I don’t even LIKE Chocolate!)

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Have a fabulous weekend!

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

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Roxy…..

Scintillectually Yours…..

And then two more that I don’t have images for, you’ll have to follow the links to go check them out.

Barefoot Dreamer…..

Minority Report…..

Click on the links and go visit the lovely ladies! Show ‘em some love.

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So.  Hypothetically speaking.  If you were going on a date with someone new.  Would it be ok to bring a friend?  Or your husband?

You know.  Just sayin…..

TGIF baby.  ~grins~

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

Path of Passion…Kyria….

Petal…..

Kink Unleashed…Elle…..

Right Turn without Signaling…Emmy….

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PC was away all week on business.  Do you know what that means for me?  I stayed up waaaaaaaay too late the entire time.  Had to juggle kiddos and their activities more so than usual.  Entertained myself in odd ways since he wasn’t home to do it himself (get your mind out of the gutter….okay partially, lol) .  And have been jonsing for some serious REAL sex/intimacy.  Oh yeah….

Finally got some good runs in this week.  The trail I run on is slowly drying out.  Thursday I added more Lady Gaga to my playlist (fucking AWESOME music to run to…just sayin…..) and went on a 6mile run with the dogs.  It felt SO good to get out. I ran into snow eventually and had to cut it shorter than I would have liked to have gone. It was one of those days where I felt as if I could have gone forever.  *LOVE. THOSE. TIMES*

And I finally washed my nasty ass filthy Jeep.  We live off a dirt road, up a completely ridicolous 1/4mile drive.  The mud and muck is *insane*.  It has dried out enough that it wasn’t an issue any longer. 

So what does it do?  Snow.  I can’t catch a break!  My spring clothes and favorite stores are seriously calling my name and it just. continues. to. snow.  UGH!!!!!!!

On the bright side of things.  PC will be home by Friday morning AND I have a date this weekend.  *grins*  ….Sweet.  It’s the little things in life….  ~wink~

TGIF people!

~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

Sexpot…..

Lois…No Sympathy For The Devil…..


The Covert Lover…..

Ms. Scarlett…..

Emmy…..

Click on the links and go visit the lovely ladies!  Show ‘em some love.

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Guess where I’m going this weekend?! 
Hehe….no, totally teasing.  Pretty sure my body couldn’t keep up with that kind of a schedule, lol.  Lord…..

It’s been a weird week. Maybe hopping to Vegas every other weekend does that to you? (lol)  Spent the first couple of days feeling quite agoraphobic. 
…We need groceries??? Wha?!  Noooo.  I’m not leaving the house.  We’re fine on…um, saltines and er, ketchup.

Doh.

Then Thursday I was climbing the walls to get out.  Craving a change of scenery.  A distraction.  Blech….  Retail therapy seemed to help some.  ~wink~ 

I think the fact that spring is so close I can practically *taste* it isn’t helping much either.  Saw the first calf of the season the other day and the excitement I felt over a baby cow was…goofy, really.  The snow has been different.  It snows, but meanwhile is warm(ish) and melts quickly.  It’s coooooming.  But still.  Just not quickly enough for me.  *SIGH*

PC went with a friend to see Theory of a Deadman.  He texted/emailed through out the night to tell me how hot the lead singer of Halestorm was, how much I would like her and promising to get her autograph.  Now that’s love people….  *grins*

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Have a kick ass Friday!



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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

Ivey Lane…..


Amy…More Sex Chocolate and Red Lipstick…..

Margaret…They Belong to Us…..

Minority Report.….

Click on the links and go visit the lovely ladies!  Show ‘em some love.

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So.  I must be crazy.  You won’t believe where I’m going this wkend with Lolita.  No. I’m serious.  You won’t believe it.

On a whim a couple days ago (I know…ME…doing anything on a ‘whim’?!) we booked the arrangements to go to Vegas for Saturday night.  *Squeal!*  I know I talked about ‘going big’ before, well….that was when we had four days.  We now are talking about one. night.  Twenty-four hours.  I’m thinking BIG is all there is!  *LOL*

Whoa….Vegas.  Look out. 

Stories to come on Monday….  *wicked grins*

Ok…probably pictures too, as we are both total picture whores….hehe.

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It’s the weekend bitches …..  Have a kick ass Friday!

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~ xo

Vixen

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Thanks everyone for all the great input last week regarding my ‘right clicking disabled’ dilemma.   Many of you brought up some great points.  One of them being how easy it is to take the pics anyways (although still difficult to maneuver links).  Which is true.  What I had decided though is if someone had decided to disable this on their site, then I would respect that.  In the future what I will be doing is featuring the thumbnails of the hnts I have previous permission and was able to attain their images.  And if not, links I suppose.

Petal.…. Damnnnnnnn girl!

Ms. Scarlett….. This is beautiful.  Very goddess like.


Margaret, They Belong To Us…..She’s doing a series and this has been one hellova one.


Elle, Kink Unleashed…..I’m in lust over her outfit. (sheesh…ok ok, her too, but still…*grins*)

Diana…..  You must-must-must go see the full pic for yourself.  She’s sexy as hell and he’s an outstanding photographer.  Don’t miss this one!

Southern Girl….. I only gave you a snippet, what are you waiting for?  Go check her out, she’s worth it.

Click on the links and go visit the girls!

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Sheesh.  Vegas was….an experience.  A totally, awesome, incredible one.  It was something I wasn’t sure would ever happen.  A surreal experience that me and my two bestest friends (who are also TOTAL party animals) would get to go to SIN CITY of all places (I think Mardi Gras is in our sights next ;).  Anyway. 

Since being back…..
I find my mind reeling so much so that I’m unable to sleep even though I feel *exhausted* all. the. time.

While out there I met a boy.  A completely adorable Marine boy.  I use the term boy bc the kid is uh, young…. (shaking head).  ME who isn’t even into men found myself attracted to and swept up in one.  It would have been a lot easier had it been a female.  So I’m dealing with those emotions/feelings as well (weird!).  Gotta tell ya though….flattered as HELL that some kid would be into me.  ~grins~ 

Since being back….
All I’ve wanted to do is spend time with PC, we’ve sat or laid in bed together talking for hours about my trip and us.  While I had an incredible time, I missed him.  We don’t do much apart.  He works from home, we see a lot of each other.  And rather than be sick to death of one another, it’s just who we are, what our relationship is.  It’s how we’re comfortable and happy and function.

The GOOD news (for me) though is that I feel a lot more like *me* again.  For a bit I’ve felt as if I fell in this rut.  I’d lost my ‘groove’, my flirt….what makes me, ME.  And I’ve found it again.  The fun, flirty, playful me.  Which is who I prefer to like to be.  *happy sigh*

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Well, so it’s the weekend…..  Have a kick ass Friday!

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

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So.  I’ve run into a bit of a snag regarding my Friday Favorites.  It seems more and more blogs have disabled right clicking.  Which I get it.  Before I began copyrighting my stuff, I did the same thing.  …..Until I realized what a huge PITA it was for the readers ;)  Anyway, so I’m only including links this week bc I didn’t have the time to hunt down and ask everyone to send me their pics.

I’ve been doing FF since April of 2007.  And I’ve always asked permission before using pics and always *used* pics to do my FF.  I’m wondering if I need to make a change though considering things…  What do you guys think?

BTW, there were a TON of AWESOME ones this week!

Barefoot Dreamer

Emmy- Right Turn Without Signaling

Sexy Sadie

Bella

Frenchies

Phynix Bell

Redundant Bombshell

Click on the links and go visit the girls!

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After talking about taking this trip for over three years, trying to figure out a way to make it work out, we are finally on our way!  I remember when I thought the idea of us going away on a girls trip seemed so surreal.  I  know I keep talking about it but I’m that excited.  (hehe) I’ll be back home late Monday.  Hopefully I’ll have it in me to throw a small teaser up at least. 

Miss me! *winkgrins* And have yourselves a FANTABULOUS weekend!!!

~ xo

Vixen

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Coquitten…..

Elle…Kink Unleashed…..


Kimberly…The Errant Wife…..

Roxy…..  She’s baaaaaaaack.  Go check her out.  *grins*

If you haven’t done so already, don’t forget to go show these awesome girlies some love!  CLICK the links to visit them!

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Anyone watch the Grey’s Anatomy/The Practice cross over???  Anyone else annoyed by it?!?!  Grrr…..  I was mad and disappointed and hated everyone!  I hope the entire second half of this season isn’t like this!

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Where we live, ok in the state we live in, there is a season that is called Mud Season.  Swear to God.  We have Fall, where the colors are exquisite, beyond beautiful.  If you live here, you MUST experience fall in the mountains at least once.  Fall in the city is NOT the same as FALL in the mountains.  Then Ski Season.  Which is an experience in itself as well.  I spent a year out of high school working at a ski resort. It was a snow boarders dream come true!  And then….comes Mud Season.  The massive amount of snow begins to melt.  And all the ski towns that are inhabited by tourists and college students and whom ever else, leave.  And what you find is mud.  So. much. muck.  The ski towns become dead and mucky.  Eventually the snow all melts and the mud dries up and the grass and flowers appear and Summertime emerges (which is again, a season within itself) and with it the tourists and more temporary inhabitants.

As you can probably tell, I adore the state I live in.  I grew up in it, living it, loving it.  It’s an ‘experience’. Why do I bring this up in January?  Bc we have had *THE* oddest winter weather wise and this is exactly what it feels like right now.  I finally had to wash my Jeep the other day- despite the fact our driveway is a god-damned MESS, bc I couldn’t stand it anymore.  And *of course* I drove home and up our driveway and it was immediately covered (once again) with mud.  *SIGH*    But for 15min I felt happiness that my car was clean and I could see out my windows.  That’s brief satisfaction right there! ~wink~

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One week from today my lush girlfriends and I will be in VEGAS.  Would you believe the preparation involved for 3 fashion whores like us to go?!  *GIDDY GRIN*

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Have a kick ass wkend!

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

Each one with it’s very own design…special and unique in its own way~

Friday Favorites-

Coquitten…..


Sexie Sadie…..

Southern Girl…..

Minority Report…..

If you haven’t done so already, don’t forget to go show these awesome girlies some love!  CLICK the links to visit them!

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It’s been colder then hell.  JUST as the snow was beginning to melt enough so that we could see some spots of ground (and I was thinking I could go for a run), it began snowing.  Again.  Then, when the snow stopped, the temps dropped to below zero.  We woke to a balmy -11 degrees (-29 w/ the wind chill is what I head).  Totally awesome.  *sigh*

I know I gave the movie a BUNCH of shit when it came out…but anyone seen Jennifer’s Body?  Well.  You should.  Megan Fox doesn’t disappoint.  She goes both ways.  ~giggle~

Two weeks from today my two bestest girly friends and I will be in VEGAS baby.  WOOT WOOT!!!

*ahem*  Now back to our regularly scheduled programming….  ~grins~

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Have a kick ass wkend!

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen