Friday Favorites:

If you haven’t already, hit the girls up and show them some love!

BFD….. (and have you seen the greatest and latest news???  Hmm?!?!)

Raven…..

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My Studmuffin of a boyfriend is coming for the weekend.  It’s been six.long.weeks !!!

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*wicked grins* 
Look for the update come Monday (ish).

~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

Two this week!!!  Thumbnails are meant to be teasers, click on the links to visit the girls and show them some love!

Northern Lights and Sleepless Nights…..

Elle…..

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Sometimes…we are really…really……I don’t know..sad.  And our head space is just seriously fucked up.

And you hope…and pray…to find a place..a way…to not be so… sigh  fucked up.

And then…the stars align and make people happy.  Make things happen.  Numerous good things.  Happy things.  That make you feel less muddled.

And you can finally…sigh, happily.. with relief. 

My mother’s best friend of thirty plus years, committed suicide Thursday.  It’s…numbing to try to take in.

~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

If you haven’t already, hit the girls up and show them some love!

Elle Unrestricted…..

Changing Views…..

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He’s 8 today.  Can’t believe my baby is eight. years. old….  Seriously?!

~ xo

Vixen

I want to write…but I can’t.  I’d love to free my brain from…’the shit’…but I can’t.  So much has happened in the last few months and it’s laying very…very heavily on my mind.  My little girl Emma breaking her leg, the decisions required surrounding that, her surgery and the weeks of recovering following…then the heartbreak of her disappearance, drama with ex’s and life…repeatedly…  Friday afternoon coming home to find our pet goat, Chloe…of 6 years…that I bottled raised from 4weeks on… had been attacked by a stray neighbor dog.  Despite being rushed to one of the best teaching hospital in the US, and her seeming to have been stabilized… she still passed away the next morning…  I wish I could take away LP having to endure the trauma of finding Chloe.  (why on earth did I let her go in search of Chloe when my first immediate gut feeling when I saw the dog was that Chloe wasn’t ok… *guilt* …)

My laptop decided to up and die mid day Thursday.  It had been very well used and not super happy as of recent.  PC had been stoked to get a new 17″ Macbook Pro for himself and handing down his (which is how I was given my other recently deceased one)… much to his dismay my Mac’s untimely death caused a change of plans.  (and despite his joking…NO, I did not pour Coors Light over my laptop in an attempt to fry the motherboard…LOL!).  But…BUT…being the computer fucking genius he is, he amazingly restored everything from my laptop to my new one.  SWEET!!!!  *YAY!!!*

Yeah… I have a lot going on.  And fuck..no…I just can not seem to catch a break.  Do I get points for breathing in and out?  *sigh*

So because of the laptop issues Friday Favorites weren’t published but there were some really, really good ones so I definitely wanted to put them out and give them a shout out.  If you missed them last week, hit them up!

Gigi…..

Cheeky Minx…..

Emmy…..

His Pleasures & Pearls…..


Pocket Rocketz…..

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~ xo

Vixen

Maybe our favorite quotations say more about us than about the stories and people we’re quoting.
~John Green

As a complete quote whore, I can totally appreciate this one!

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Friday Favorites-

Cheeky Minx…Love, Sex, Hate, Cake.….

Barefoot Dreamer…..

If you haven’t done so already (which…duh!) go say hello and dote on their sexiness!!!

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Totally random other news….  Morning Star brought back their Veggie Corn Dogs!!!!  I have a serious ‘thing’ for corn dogs…it’s weird really.  (lol)  Hate Veggie Hot Dogs, they are utterly nasty *barf!* .  But Veggie Corn Dogs ….mmm…..  serious, weird obsession with them.  PC stocked up on them for me the other day.  *huge grins*

After some seriously funked up weather, we finally FINALLY!!!  had an incredibly nice day.  The dogs and I spent a good portion of the day Thursday outside soaking up the sunshine and reading.  Ok, they slept and I read.  But still…  *happiness*

Is chivalry dead?  How about some common fucking courtesy?? OR just human decency???  Like when you have an issue and are pulled over on the side of the road and not a single person pulls over to help you out, much less asks if you are ok and might possibly need help?!?!?! (((BFD)))

Tivo.  Fucking love it.  When. It. Works.  Three of my favorite (most favoritest!!!) shows were cut short half way through bc of ‘satellite connection issues’.  Seriously?  SERIOUSLY!?!?!?  Sigh….going to be watching two of them online in the near future I guess. (grumble, grumble)

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TGIF….enjoy your weekend!

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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites:

One this week.  I was in awe of her creativity, the raw beautiful-ness of the photo and of her.  If you haven’t been by to show her some love (what were you under a rock?!) scoot on over there!

Emmy…Right Turn Without Signaling…..

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Brain dump…

* I haven’t shared much of myself lately.  I guess for numerous reasons.  Complications in my life, shit going on, not wanting to really talk about it, paired with just also felt as if I had nothing to say about any of it.  Sometimes I feel the need to vent and get it all off my chest…and other times I internalize.  The noise is so fucking loud in my head but when I open my mouth…nothing comes out.  Ever have that feeling?

* LP got vibrant pink highlights in her hair this last week.  It probably doesn’t come as too much of a shock to learn that her favorite color is pink too… ~smirk~   It’s the second time she’s gotten this done.  Her hairlady and I were discussing that if this was the worst she wants to do to herself (ie piercings, etc) then hell yeah I’m going to support it.  (course….she does have a severe allergy to metal…so the idea of her ever running out to have her navel pierced are pretty much none…bwahaha….)

* Baby girl Emma….the pup that broke her leg, requiring immediate and serious decisions to be made regarding her future, then orthopedic surgery, followed by 8 weeks of recovery….  She disappeared Tuesday afternoon.  All efforts to find her have been futile.  Hours spent driving and calling, signs, ads placed, reports with humane societies made……  Everyone is absolutely, completely heartbroken.  Her big sister, Kiya, especially…she’s refusing to eat and remains incredibly depressed.  *sigh*

* Kiddos have 4 weeks left of school before summer break.  Eeek!  Guess it’s about time to purchase our pool passes and pull out the sunscreen.  They were absolute fish last summer…especially LM who discovered the diving boards!  Entire days spent in the sun…them swimming…me reading…can. not. wait.

* PC has sorted some things out and is working from home again….  Rewind 9 months ago and he’s back to feeling a lot less stressed….grins….
(yay!!!)

* My allergies have so far been kept at bay this year (…knock on wood).  Bit of an issue with my lungs (residual effects from the god awful respiratory infection I had for two months last fall) and some other allergy related symptoms…but NOTHING like last year.  Ohthankfuckinggod!!!

* My Studmuffin friend is (hopefully) coming for another visit in a few weeks.  Um…yeah…super excited about that. (!!!)

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Alrighty then….  Enjoy your weekend!

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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-
Two lovely ladies this week!  Please go check them out and show them some love if you haven’t done so already!

Sexie Sadie…Confessions From My Open Marriage…..Sadie’s book has been released and officially available or purchase!

Emmy…Right Turn Without Signaling…..

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And definitely not to be forgotten…..

Have a fantabulous weekend!!!

~ xo

Vixen

Favorite Buffy quote of the week-
Willow: Well, I just – can you always tell just – just by looking at someone?
Kennedy: No. No, of course not. That wouldn’t be any fun. The fun part is the process of, of getting to know a girl. It’s like, it’s like flirting in code. It’s using body language and laughing at the right jokes and, and looking into her eyes and knowing she’s still whispering to you, even when she’s not saying a word. And that sense that if you can just touch her, just once, everything will be okay for both of you. That’s how you can tell. Or if she’s really hot, you just get her drunk, see if she comes on to you.

Mmm….her and I have similar tactics.  *smirk*

Friday Favorites:

One this week and it’s a knock it out of the park awesome type…  If you haven’t done so already, hit her up and show her some love!!!

Eden…..

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Memorable convo of the week:

Vixen: Goodnight…I love you.

PC: Even though I’m all fucked up?

Vixen: That’s my line

PC: What’s your line?

Vixen: …that I’m all fucked up!

PC: You’re not all fucked up, you’re just highly neurotic.
….But you’re still all girl.

Vixen: …ok, I think that last part is your line.

*giggling*

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My Studmuffin friend is coming into town for the weekend.  *huge grins*  I’m sure I’ll have more to say about that!  Have a super fabulous weekend!

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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

Thumbnails are teasers!  If you haven’t done so already, hit the girls up and show them some love!

BFD…..Um…her?  ….yes please.

Emmy…..boobs in a super hot outfit?  Sexy, long hair?  Yes please.

Autumn…..sexy outfit?  Killer shoes?  Yes. Please.

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Kiddos have been on spring break this past week.  Gotta admit, it began rough.  Boredom.  Arguing.  The bad weather didn’t help AT.ALL….  There were things I had hoped and planned to do this week that had to be benched because of high winds, snow, rain or just not that great of temps.  But we snuck in a movie, broke up days with exciting stuff like grocery shopping *gasp!!!* (haha), LP went to a good friends for a few days, LM and I spent some fun quality time together, he had a playdate, etc.  And *blink* it was Friday!  Yay….we survived!

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I was bored the other night and took this quiz on Ok Cupid-

Playful, kind, and well-loved, you are The Peach.

For such a warm-hearted, generous person, you’re surprisingly experienced in both love and sex. We credit your spontaneous side; you tend to live in the moment, and you don’t get bogged down by inhibitions like most women your age. If you see something wonderful, you confidently embrace it.

You are a fun flirt and an instant sweetheart, but our guess is you’re becoming more selective about long-term love. It’s getting tougher for you to become permanently attached; and a guy who’s in a different place emotionally might misunderstand your early enthusiasm. You can wreck someone simply by enjoying him.

Your ideal mate is adventurous and giving, like you. But not overly intense.

(ha…um….yeah…ok then…..)

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TGIF….enjoy your weekend!!!

Mmm… want…….

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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

Remember the thumbnails are only meant to be teasers.  If you haven’t done so already, hit them up and show some love!

Cheeky Minx…Love, Hate, Sex, Cake…..

Barefoot Dreamer.….

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Highlights of my week…

* Talking on the phone with HER. Don’t get me wrong, we are in constant contact with each other on a daily basis (texts, FB, email, messaging, IMing…).  But once a week or so we *talk* and she has the sweetest, cutest whereshesfrom-accent.  Hearing it makes me smile.  Hugely.  And giggle…I giggle a lot when her and I talk.

* Despite the horrendous 75+mph winds the first part of the week (GAH!!!!) I have logged in 20miles this week.  Go me!

* The dogs missed. missed. missed me.  FINALLY come half way through the week I could adjust myself on the couch or move from one end of the kitchen to the other and not have all 5 of the 7 dogs hop up to freak out follow closely at my heels.  They are normally very clingy but this week has been insanely so!

* Two of the 4 cats have been the same way.  When I mentioned it to Roxy mid-week she texted me back “You’re complaining about pussy following you?!”  …haha…ok good point.  *wink*

* My Studmuffin friend is coming to town in a couple weeks.  *giddy*  I am super excited.

* Took Little Miss Emma (little broken baby girl dog)  in for her 5wk post op xrays and the vet was super pleased.  The break is healing fabulously, much better/faster than he anticipated.  She goes in next week to have the pin surgically removed.  (downside is she’ll have to be anesthetized and at the vet the entire day and then required to be on ‘crate rest’ for two weeks…but we’ve gotten this far!)

* PC and I got along the best we possibly ever had on our last trip.  Which made for an amazingly relaxing and super fun trip.  (have I mentioned lately how much I *heart* him… *grins*)

* Spending the long wkend with Roxy made me realize (yet again…) how much I miss her when we’re not together.  …:::sigh:::…

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And….there you go.  Happy Friday!  Have a fantabulous weekend!!!

~ xo

Vixen