Friday Favorites-

Cheeky Minx…..

Jas…..

Ruby…..

Scintillectual…..this is from last week and *somehow* I missed it ??? …I KNOW!!!

Don’t forget to hit the girls up!

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Thursday was insane.  It was LP’s birthday.  She’s officially eleven going on sixteen.  *sigh*  She’s an amazing little girl.  The most compassionate child I have ever met for sure.

The stork also delivered five puppies to our happy little homestead.  Ok, ok, Daisy did most of the work, with the help of her mid-wife (me).  Any plans I had away from home were thrown out the window so I could sit with her through out the day to help.  Both mommy and babies are doing fabulous.  And so far *fingers crossed* she’s doing a better job than last time (when I had to all but raise them myself bc she wanted so little to do with them) .  I did manage to bake two cakes and make LP’s favorite dinner despite the crazy, hectic day.

I AM feeling better-ish.  The cough is wrecking havoc on me still, as well as the voice is having a difficult time coming back.  But anything is an improvement over the beginning of this week.  PC says he wants his ‘other’ wife back.  The one that isn’t  (I believe his words were)  ‘fucked up and defective’.  *snort*  Meaning, he wants the non-sick, non-comatose, non-talking bc she isn’t able to speak above a hoarse whisper, FUN, flirty, bubbly wife back.  (HA! No shit! ME TOO!!!)  I’m working on it.  ~grins~

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Have a fabulous weekend!  Mine consists of a slumber party with giggling tween girls, nanny to a litter of puppies and more. rest (I refuse to relapse!).

~ xo

Vixen

Whirlwind of a weekend.  Some plans fell through.  Others popped up.  My sleeping habits are all mucked up (ie…. asleep at 9, up from midnight-4am, asleep 4ish-9am…hey I guess if you add it up, that’s 9 hours of sleep- impressive for me! Haha…).  I thank my allergies.  But overall a fabulous one.

Some random notes-

*** The other morning, in the midst of LP having yet another melt down (the 5th?  10?  ….idk I lost count) it struck me how fucking high strung she is.  She gets/feels stressed and her anxiety goes up and next thing you know she’s flustered and short and her voice goes up…..  Good lord girl, take a chill pill already! And it hit me.  HARD. 
OMG….she’s totally me.  PC refers to it as me being in “Daisy Mode”.  We have a very neurotic Mini Australian Shepherd, Daisy.  The poor thing HATES to get in trouble, HATES for voices to be raised, gets stressed out VERY easily- if everything is not feeling completely fabulous and peachy to her she becomes a mess.  I’ve referred to it before, but if you ever saw the movie The Golden Compass, they focus on everyone having a ‘daemon‘.  PC says Daisy is my daemon.  When I mentioned to PC how high strung LP is and that I thought she might have gotten it from me.  He stares at me incredulously and says…. “might?!”.

Oh.  Right.  Man….

*** We were out Friday night at our favorite brewery (good beer and endless vegetarian options= *SWOON*).  Sitting on a very crowded patio.  And I receive a text from Roxy.  A very um, NSFP (Not Safe For Public) picture.  Which…totally not shocking. *snort*  I didn’t open it with the most ‘care’ (I know, I know…my bad).  Doh.  I receive several more (Roxy!  LOLOLOL) and realize the five-top behind us has become increasingly more ‘interested’ in PC and mine conversation.  And the way in which I am sitting, anything I view on my BB is also viewable to some of them.  It’s a moment where you wonder if you should just invite them to sit with you because clearly they are more interested in what you have going on.  *shaking head*

I bring this up bc this is the third time in the last couple weeks I’ve been out and had the occupants of a table nearby so blatantly be eavesdropping.  I love to people watch as much as the next person but fucking A, at least I’m stealth (ok…’ish’…) about it.  Ashton (aka Yummy) and I were out last week and I admit, carrying on an increasingly more risque conversation.  I swear the woman at the table next to us was about to fall out of her chair she was so intrigued/interested in what we were talking about.  I felt like pulling a chair up and inviting her in. I mean, seriously…  Apparently conversation of raves, threesomes, and lesbians were far more interesting than whatever the three men she was with were talking about.  *snort*

*** Back to my Friday night.  We had a fabulous time.  Intermixed with boob and penis shots.  Never a dull moment in Vixen-land!  Did ponder something else while we were out this weekend….  What makes someone who is very clearly NOT a people person, take a job in a position that clearly requires you to BE a people person.  Such as waiting tables.  Things that make you go, hmm….

*** It was 94 Saturday.  And 99 degrees on Sunday.  Scorching hot.  Luckily I was able to get the kiddos to the pool one of those days.  I hear there is a huge change in weather coming soon.  Noooo……

*** I have an insane crush on Hit Girl.  Yes. It’s wrong.  Very wrong.  She’s um….ok. I’m not even going to tell you her age.  But damn….  *fans self*  Let’s just pretend she’s like, um, twenty-one!  Yes, yes, that’s a fine and legal age.  Mmmhmm.  (um yeah….)

*** Jennifer Anniston and Justin Bateman had mad chemistry in The Switch.  Sweet, funny, heart wrenching…..very good movie.  AND there are a ton of awesome chick flicks movies coming out in the next few months!  Yay for PC…  *snort*  (I’ve seen enough action/shot them up/alien/macho movies that panty boy of mine can suck up five a chick flick every so often ~wink~)

So there you go.  It’s Monday.  Enjoy it.  I hear that with enough coffee I could rule the world.  I will be testing this theory….

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

After six days of being pent up in the house with poor sick LP (who is finally FINALLY starting to feel better)- I got out.  (We *heart* our sitter)  And had fun.  PC and I saw a movie (where I blurted out -rather loudly- just as the movie was starting “Oh you just shut up panty boy” after PC had teased me about something *snort*  Still giggling about that one…..).  And tried out a new brewery for dinner.  Excellent food.  Not so excellent beer (I’ve never been to a brewery where I couldn’t find something I liked….weird).  But excellently priced Vodka/Cranberry’s.  Had a friend join us.  We flirted like crazy.  Teased playfully. Laughed.  Talked.  Drank.  Had a fabulous time.  Then we all headed back home to enjoy hot tub.  Where we had an even more fabulous time.  *wink*

I’ve been following Sabrina Daco’s photostream on Flickr for quite a few years now. She has one of the sexiest, most provocative and seductive photo streams I’ve ever encountered.  HOT… Anyway. I encountered her photo on Tumblr.  I know a lot of photos end up over there that were ripped off.  So I just wanted to make sure she got a proper call out for her photography and pics.

~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

So….Wp and I aren’t getting along tonight.  Pissy little bitch!  I rarely have issues with Wp (I mean hell, I’m like her biggest fan, what’s up with *that*?!) but tonight of all nights I do.  Unable to upload pics.  So instead you get links by their lonesome. 

(btw, this might also effect when TFT gets posted, my intention was to post on Sunday but with this little set back….you have been forewarned)

Minority Report

Kink Unleashed

Southern Girl

Obviously this week especially- click the links, hit the girls up.  Leave a comment and gush if you haven’t already.  They are so totally worth it!!!

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PC spent the entire week traveling.  It seems there are some major, life changing decisions to be made in our future….  *sigh*  His son went home Monday.  It’s amazing how quickly the time went by.  The kiddos loved being together again.  They really enjoyed each other and it was sad to see him go home so soon.

Had a bizarre/uncomfortable/intimate/TMI experience with the check out girl at Walgreens Thursday afternoon.  Will spare you the details but um…yeah.  While I appreciate overtly flirtatious (HELLO!)….maybe not so much in ‘this’ situation.  Right.

The other day LP and I had just left the house, rounding the lake in my Jeep and passed PC on his way up back home.  I blew him a kiss as he drove by.  LP ironically asked when I thought PC would be home.  Um….did you not just see us pass him and me blow him a kiss?  Yes.  She saw me blow the kiss.  No.  She did not see him per se.  Really!?  You just think I blow kisses to random strangers that drive by?!  Wait.  Never mind.  Don’t answer that.  (doh)

PC, the little Princess Dog (aka Phoebe) and I are flying out early Friday morning for Roxy-ville (aka California).  I haven’t mentioned it but I have a secret in my possession.  Something I have longed for, yearned for….begged for.  For YEARS it feels like (ok, it really has been years, lol). THE OS SHIRT is mine, all miiiiine!!!  Bwahahaha!!!  Ok, ok, fine, you know for the next week or so. *snort* The Os shirt will be coming to Cali with me.  Roxy and I have been plotting for over a week now.  Oh the naughty things I am going to subject to it.  We’re going to corrupt it for sure.  ~wicked grins~ 
(fuck, and you know, it just occurred to me that I should have TOTALLY taken pics of Ashton- aka Yummy…keep up with me people, I know it seems confusing- in it/with it the other night when I had him over for a sleep over.  Damnit!  Apparently my brain turns to mush around the adorableness of that boy…..)

Definitely look for a special post Sunday.  I’ll be back Monday.  Have a fabulous holiday weekend!

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~ xo

Vixen

(click the button for more info, email me if you have any great ideas for a topic, I’d love tho hear from you!)

My topic today is about finding true love vs settling for second best.  Which ironically I had qued for this week before this weeks TMI questions.  ‘Jane’ was in love with a man that from the moment she met him, she knew he was ‘THE ONE’.  There were sparks, amazing sex, she loved him with all her heart.  Their relationship took some strange turns and they ended up parting ways.  That was five years ago.  She has since met another man and is now engaged.  He is a wonderful, supportive man that she knows loves her and will provide her with a great life.  But…..she doesn’t feel the sparks that she did with the other man.  She was struggling with whether she should stay with him despite the lack of ‘sparks’, knowing that he is a really great man who will treat her well.  What she feels would be settling but thinks many women do.  Or break it off and continue looking for sparks and someone who feels more like ‘THE ONE’.  Possibly even try to get back together with the man from five years ago that she did feel those sparks with, that felt like ‘THE ONE’. 

Before you form your opinion anymore than it has, there is more.  She did decide to break up with her fiancee.  In the end she felt she was being unfair to him.  That he should have someone who loves him as much as he loves her. BUT, the kicker is he is very upset.  Not for the reasons you might think though.  He isn’t upset that she doesn’t love him as much as she felt she should, or that she felt as if she were unfairly (to both of them) settling.  He is upset that she didn’t give him a chance.  He continues to try to get her back, he wants them to stay together to try to work it out.  He thinks she will grow to love him.  So now she is very torn as to what to do.

What do you think she should do????

(credit:  I bring a lot of topics from the afternoon show of my radio station to CQW.  Many of the issues they bring up have an
interesting response from their callers but usually what is said here in my comments is much more intriguing)

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Ten years ago today (how did *that* happen!?) a beautiful, smart, incredibly caring little girl came into my life.   Six weeks earlier than her due date I had a scheduled induction due to health issues.  She has brought so much joy to my life.  I’ve thought for days what I wanted to say or to post for her birthday….  And it came to me.

This was taken two weeks before LM was born.  I was 32wks pregnant and treasuring LP and mine last days together.  I have quite a few pics from this shoot framed through out my house and they are definitely some of my most favorites.

We spent the evening before baking homemade Strawberry cupcakes for her class.  I’m going to bring her a special lunch (she chose Subway) to enjoy with her at school.  Then after an early day of school (Weds is early dismissal) she has chosen to go race Go Carts.  My girly-girl who enjoys to keep one foot in the tomboy pool. *LOL*  I think afterwards we are treating her to dinner, somewhere undecided yet. It’s up to her.  I guess we will be ‘surprised’, which is not all that surprising considering it’s her.  ~wink~

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Happy HUMP Day!!!

(via Blue-Eyed Vixen)

~ xo

Vixen