My poor little dejected blog!

*blows off the dust*

I never posted any pictures from Halloween.  In fact, I never even mentionedt it!  Which…gah…HELLO…it’s only the most BESTEST holiday of the entire year!!!  Of course we went out!

“Abby” (does ANYONE watch NCIS??? …amazing how many people we ran into who didn’t know who she was! Duh!) and “Babydoll” (Sucker Punch)

(did you click by any chance???)

My sister totally rocked it as a clown!

Killer Medusa!

Winning! (*snort*)

Bigbird!

Ta-da! 

Ok…well, I’ll be back after New Years to show you holiday pics…  NOT!  Haha…I promise to try to be back a bit more.  I have some ideas for posts.  *wink*

~ xo

Vixen

“The problem with time, I’ve learned, whether it’s those first two weeks I got to spend with you, or the final two months I got to spend with him, eventually time always runs out…”
~Dear John, Savannah Curtis

Happy HNT!!!

~ xo

Vixen

My birthday is Monday… PC, BFD and I are headed to Vegas to celebrate in style.  Corsets, little black dresses, heels and bikinis are packed (you haven’t seen nothing until you see PC in a LBD and stilettos! *giggle*).

Vegas ’11 here we come! *wicked grins*

~ xo

Vixen

My theme song this week…

This week…gah. Stressful. Incredibly busy. Dramatic. Overwhelming. And where it’s left me is completely emotionally drained. I don’t ‘do’ stress very well and am easily overwhelmed, which left me a bit of a mess the latter part of this week.  The girl I love dearly, care about, hasn’t taken as much of a priority as I would have liked her to have.  Also causing me to be overly defensive when it came to matters with PC when all he needed was a shoulder to lean on and an ear to vent his frustrations and thoughts to.  (((PC)))  Yes, hello, it’s not solely the Vixen-show (thumps self in head)

So..no Friday Favorites. (I actually almost didn’t even do HNT this week)  No random weekly update other than- HOLY BUSY WEEK BATMAN combined with several anxiety raising stressers that I definitely could have lived with out.  *deep breaths*  But, I made it through the week.  It’s Friday, my Studmuffin friend arrives today for a long weekend visit and I plan on participating in a lot of much needed drinking and sex.  That should help, I’m sure of it.  And if nothing else, it will be fun! *wink*

Enjoy your weekend!

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~ xo

Vixen

Let’s see if I can put some of my thoughts into words.  Hmm…

Anyone seen these ads?  Magazines…TV?

I have one thing to say about this….a MAN thought up this ad campaign and product! 

No woman gives a flying fuck what the hell the product she’s about to stick up her vajayjay or use in her underwear looks like!  How comfortable it is?  How well it stays where is should??  How well it works???  Yes..yes..yes….all important.  But really?!  We have to start putting designs and “This season’s hottest colors” on feminine hygiene products??? 
*shaking head*

Had an fabulous Mothers Day weekend. As always, PC did an amazing job. Incredible dinner at my favorite restaurant Saturday night… Wine that came highly recommended by their on site wine expert.  He gave us 3 suggestions (tried all 3) that were hands down *the. best. wine* I’ve ever tasted. All three I swear were made exactly for me (I have a fairly specific taste I prefer in wine).  Mmm….wine…….  Woke up Sunday morning to LP having fed all the animals and Starbucks brought home by PC.  Day only got better…  Yes.  He rocked it.

This weeks is going to be one hell of a bitch.  The bi-annual huge children consignment sale that I always participate in is next weekend.  Which means a tremendous amount of work….  …:::sigh:::…  BUT  completely worthwhile when a nice check arrives in the mail a couple weeks later.  *wink*

Oh…and…three days until my Studmuffin friend arrives in town. (grins)  Just saying…..

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~ xo

Vixen

Favorite Buffy quote of the week-
Willow: Well, I just – can you always tell just – just by looking at someone?
Kennedy: No. No, of course not. That wouldn’t be any fun. The fun part is the process of, of getting to know a girl. It’s like, it’s like flirting in code. It’s using body language and laughing at the right jokes and, and looking into her eyes and knowing she’s still whispering to you, even when she’s not saying a word. And that sense that if you can just touch her, just once, everything will be okay for both of you. That’s how you can tell. Or if she’s really hot, you just get her drunk, see if she comes on to you.

Mmm….her and I have similar tactics.  *smirk*

Friday Favorites:

One this week and it’s a knock it out of the park awesome type…  If you haven’t done so already, hit her up and show her some love!!!

Eden…..

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Memorable convo of the week:

Vixen: Goodnight…I love you.

PC: Even though I’m all fucked up?

Vixen: That’s my line

PC: What’s your line?

Vixen: …that I’m all fucked up!

PC: You’re not all fucked up, you’re just highly neurotic.
….But you’re still all girl.

Vixen: …ok, I think that last part is your line.

*giggling*

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My Studmuffin friend is coming into town for the weekend.  *huge grins*  I’m sure I’ll have more to say about that!  Have a super fabulous weekend!

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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

Remember the thumbnails are only meant to be teasers.  If you haven’t done so already, hit them up and show some love!

Cheeky Minx…Love, Hate, Sex, Cake…..

Barefoot Dreamer.….

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Highlights of my week…

* Talking on the phone with HER. Don’t get me wrong, we are in constant contact with each other on a daily basis (texts, FB, email, messaging, IMing…).  But once a week or so we *talk* and she has the sweetest, cutest whereshesfrom-accent.  Hearing it makes me smile.  Hugely.  And giggle…I giggle a lot when her and I talk.

* Despite the horrendous 75+mph winds the first part of the week (GAH!!!!) I have logged in 20miles this week.  Go me!

* The dogs missed. missed. missed me.  FINALLY come half way through the week I could adjust myself on the couch or move from one end of the kitchen to the other and not have all 5 of the 7 dogs hop up to freak out follow closely at my heels.  They are normally very clingy but this week has been insanely so!

* Two of the 4 cats have been the same way.  When I mentioned it to Roxy mid-week she texted me back “You’re complaining about pussy following you?!”  …haha…ok good point.  *wink*

* My Studmuffin friend is coming to town in a couple weeks.  *giddy*  I am super excited.

* Took Little Miss Emma (little broken baby girl dog)  in for her 5wk post op xrays and the vet was super pleased.  The break is healing fabulously, much better/faster than he anticipated.  She goes in next week to have the pin surgically removed.  (downside is she’ll have to be anesthetized and at the vet the entire day and then required to be on ‘crate rest’ for two weeks…but we’ve gotten this far!)

* PC and I got along the best we possibly ever had on our last trip.  Which made for an amazingly relaxing and super fun trip.  (have I mentioned lately how much I *heart* him… *grins*)

* Spending the long wkend with Roxy made me realize (yet again…) how much I miss her when we’re not together.  …:::sigh:::…

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And….there you go.  Happy Friday!  Have a fantabulous weekend!!!

~ xo

Vixen

Some random conversations from this weekend…

Conversation #1:
The kiddos and I were talking in the kitchen while I was cooking dinner. 

LM: How old were you when you kissed your first boy.

Vixen: Um, Kindergarten

LM: Kindergarten?!

Vixen: Wait…maybe it was 2nd grade.

PC (yelling from the other room): VIXEN! [Insert full...complete, long ass real name...]  COME.  HERE!

Vixen: what????

PC: Lets stick with telling the kids about my experiences…not yours.

*snort* I can’t help it if I’ve had an um, ‘adventurous’ past.

Conversation #2
After picking up LP from a sleep over with a friend…

LP: We had spaghetti last night for dinner

Vixen: Oh yeah?

LP: Yeah…but it was weird.  They put ground beef in their sauce?!?!

Vixen (laughing): Um, I think that is actually how a lot of people probably eat their spaghetti.

LP: Really???  I like yours way better
(the, uh, kind with out meat…)

And then when I tell PC about what she said…
PC: Our poor warped kids

*LOL*

Conversation #3:

PC: Hey LM would you turn on that fan over there?

*LM trying to figure out the switch*

Vixen to LM: Just flip it, it goes both ways.

PC under his breath: ….just like Mommy.

Vixen:  *shaking head* nice
……..
……….
…………..

LM several minutes later…. “What does that mean???”

Vixen: um, nothing…..

(doh!)

Sexploits-
Variation of one I’ve done before… I found it on France‘s site and stole it from her lovely self.

Kiss a girl
Have you met me?  *grins*  Yes…   

Have anal   
Yes.

Have a threesome   
Yeeesssss

Engage in group sex
Mmm….at what point is it considered ‘group sex’, I’m guessing that 4some in high school would probably qualify.    

Have phone sex    
Yeah.  I can think of one time that it was actually enjoyable *wickedgrinsPC* ….soooooo not a fan of the phone.

Masturbate    
Duh (did you read BFD’s post that one day??) *wink*

Use a vibrator    
My fish and I have a long standing love affair.

Use a sex toy on someone else    
MmmHmm…

Be tied up    
Yeah (not my favorite)

Tie someone up    
Yep (also not my favorite)

Have sex in a public space    
Ha….which time?  *wicked grins*
I have a ‘thing’ for public places/exhibitionism…if you haven’t noticed.

Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count)    
Hmm…oh wait!  Yes.  *ahemRoxysahem*

Sex in a car    
Oh yeah *wicked grins*

Sex at a drive-in    
*thinking* …..no, not sex.    (what do you know! I answered no to something! haha)

Mile-high club   
No.  I’m actually not sure this one will ever be accomplished. It’s not high on my ‘to do’ list

Sex with a stranger    
Um…what defines a stranger?  *LOL*  Had I met them that night?  Yes.  But doesn’t that technically not make them a stranger anymore?

One-night stand    
Yes

Married sex
*snort*  Yes. (duh)

Sex on a boat   
Yep.  Mid-day, out on the lake, been drinking through out the afternoon, pull the bikini bottoms to the side…..hope the ranger doesn’t come by.  Fun…  *wicked grins*

Sex in a body of water    
MmmHmm!  (hello…me….water fetish!)

Light spanking    
Yep

Read erotica    
I read many sex blogs, so, yeah

Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game   
Yeah….people love to play with me (*giggle* I mean the games silly) bc I suck at most of them.

Sex in the shower    
YES (please!!!)

Sex standing up against a wall    
Love it, yes.

Sex with no kissing   
I have…although it’s not my favorite.  HUGE fan of kissing.  It’s very important to me.  But occasionally a super hot and heavy fucking comes with out kissing.  And then it’s ok.

Sex in the pitch black    
YES!!!  (my other fetish)

Sex in the broad daylight    
Yes. 

Making out with no sex long after you’re no longer a virgin    
Yeah…. *sigh*  That’s fun too.

Sex in a tent in the wilderness    
Oh lord….yes.  For several years the only privacy my exH and I could get was if we went camping…and so we went every wkend.

Watch porn together    
With PC?  Yeah….I think maybe twice.  He’s not a fan.  And I think we ended up laughing and making fun of the girls technique the entire time.

Watch porn alone    
Yep, I have.  It’s not something I do often.  I’m not even sure where my Girls Gone Wild collection went (have I mentioned when my exH and I split, it was like the one thing we divied up?  Haha..).  There are some short videos on Tumblr (I’ve posted my favorites here in fact) that I love to watch.

Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms     
I am very multi-orgasmic.

Sex on the beach   
Yes!

Blindfolds    
Yeah.  Props aren’t really a favorite of mine.  I’m all about *US*.  (my fish excluded)

Using ice sexually    
Yes.  Popsicles too! 

Sexual role play    
Yeah…but not in a super long time.  I don’t role play very well.

Whipped cream    
Mmmm, oh yes…..looooooove whip cream

La Perla lingerie sex    
I have no idea what that is ????

Frederick’s of Hollywood lingerie sex    
*confused*  Are we talking about sex while wearing an item from here????  Then yes.

Sex with someone much older    
No…  I’m hardly attracted to people my own age (PC excluded….swoon), much less older than me.

Sex with someone younger (legal!) 
You read my site, right?  Well….that answers that then.

Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner    
Sex in another country- yes.  But they were not foreign.

A quickie in a skirt    
Yes!  Love it.  I’ve written about that several times.  Something so hot about a dress or skirt being lifted and fucked that way.

A longie in the rain   
Yes!

Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you    
*grins*  yeah…..

Feather ticklers    
Tried it.  Again…a ‘thing’, I don’t want props in my bedroom.  Call me party spoiler, but they just kill the mood for me.

Sex while “altered” whether by alcohol or something else    
Ahahahahaha……  Um.  Yeah.

Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone    
It could happen, yes.  It HAS happened.

Silent sex in a full house    
God…yes.  That thrill of possibly being caught, and of knowing so many other people around and you have to be super quiet.  Fucking hot.  Seriously.

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~ xo

Vixen

Several emails….  They decided to meet him for drinks.  Which led to dinner because things seemed to be flowing so well. Although…she’d probably drank too much.

On the drive home, all three in the car, they excitedly discussed expectations…’rules’, desires.

Isn’t this how they had intimately discussed such a circumstance so many times before?!?!

Her husband would sit in the same room.  While her lover had his way with her…his wife…in their bed.

He’d take her…his wife…in their bed.
And watch.

But yet…nothing would go as planned. ….the best laid plans often go awry.
I was uncomfortable….
I think he might have been more into PC then myself.
I changed my mind suddenly. Changing the rules with out warning. I broke the rules. At the last moment everything we had agreed upon I threw out the window.
Because why? ….I don’t know the answer to that. *sigh*
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~ xo

Vixen

One of the random conversations PC and I had while watching an episode of Buffy…

PC:
You like Amy. (the girl on the show, above)

Vixen:
(laughing) Yeah, she’s hot.

PC: 
You like her because she’s naked.  And a girl.

You like them skinny.

You like them heavy.

You like them naked.

Do I have you pegged or what?

*smirk*  Yeah, he does….

Btw, here’s a better picture of her.

~ xo

Vixen