Some random conversations from this weekend…

Conversation #1:
The kiddos and I were talking in the kitchen while I was cooking dinner. 

LM: How old were you when you kissed your first boy.

Vixen: Um, Kindergarten

LM: Kindergarten?!

Vixen: Wait…maybe it was 2nd grade.

PC (yelling from the other room): VIXEN! [Insert full...complete, long ass real name...]  COME.  HERE!

Vixen: what????

PC: Lets stick with telling the kids about my experiences…not yours.

*snort* I can’t help it if I’ve had an um, ‘adventurous’ past.

Conversation #2
After picking up LP from a sleep over with a friend…

LP: We had spaghetti last night for dinner

Vixen: Oh yeah?

LP: Yeah…but it was weird.  They put ground beef in their sauce?!?!

Vixen (laughing): Um, I think that is actually how a lot of people probably eat their spaghetti.

LP: Really???  I like yours way better
(the, uh, kind with out meat…)

And then when I tell PC about what she said…
PC: Our poor warped kids

*LOL*

Conversation #3:

PC: Hey LM would you turn on that fan over there?

*LM trying to figure out the switch*

Vixen to LM: Just flip it, it goes both ways.

PC under his breath: ….just like Mommy.

Vixen:  *shaking head* nice
……..
……….
…………..

LM several minutes later…. “What does that mean???”

Vixen: um, nothing…..

(doh!)

Sexploits-
Variation of one I’ve done before… I found it on France‘s site and stole it from her lovely self.

Kiss a girl
Have you met me?  *grins*  Yes…   

Have anal   
Yes.

Have a threesome   
Yeeesssss

Engage in group sex
Mmm….at what point is it considered ‘group sex’, I’m guessing that 4some in high school would probably qualify.    

Have phone sex    
Yeah.  I can think of one time that it was actually enjoyable *wickedgrinsPC* ….soooooo not a fan of the phone.

Masturbate    
Duh (did you read BFD’s post that one day??) *wink*

Use a vibrator    
My fish and I have a long standing love affair.

Use a sex toy on someone else    
MmmHmm…

Be tied up    
Yeah (not my favorite)

Tie someone up    
Yep (also not my favorite)

Have sex in a public space    
Ha….which time?  *wicked grins*
I have a ‘thing’ for public places/exhibitionism…if you haven’t noticed.

Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count)    
Hmm…oh wait!  Yes.  *ahemRoxysahem*

Sex in a car    
Oh yeah *wicked grins*

Sex at a drive-in    
*thinking* …..no, not sex.    (what do you know! I answered no to something! haha)

Mile-high club   
No.  I’m actually not sure this one will ever be accomplished. It’s not high on my ‘to do’ list

Sex with a stranger    
Um…what defines a stranger?  *LOL*  Had I met them that night?  Yes.  But doesn’t that technically not make them a stranger anymore?

One-night stand    
Yes

Married sex
*snort*  Yes. (duh)

Sex on a boat   
Yep.  Mid-day, out on the lake, been drinking through out the afternoon, pull the bikini bottoms to the side…..hope the ranger doesn’t come by.  Fun…  *wicked grins*

Sex in a body of water    
MmmHmm!  (hello…me….water fetish!)

Light spanking    
Yep

Read erotica    
I read many sex blogs, so, yeah

Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game   
Yeah….people love to play with me (*giggle* I mean the games silly) bc I suck at most of them.

Sex in the shower    
YES (please!!!)

Sex standing up against a wall    
Love it, yes.

Sex with no kissing   
I have…although it’s not my favorite.  HUGE fan of kissing.  It’s very important to me.  But occasionally a super hot and heavy fucking comes with out kissing.  And then it’s ok.

Sex in the pitch black    
YES!!!  (my other fetish)

Sex in the broad daylight    
Yes. 

Making out with no sex long after you’re no longer a virgin    
Yeah…. *sigh*  That’s fun too.

Sex in a tent in the wilderness    
Oh lord….yes.  For several years the only privacy my exH and I could get was if we went camping…and so we went every wkend.

Watch porn together    
With PC?  Yeah….I think maybe twice.  He’s not a fan.  And I think we ended up laughing and making fun of the girls technique the entire time.

Watch porn alone    
Yep, I have.  It’s not something I do often.  I’m not even sure where my Girls Gone Wild collection went (have I mentioned when my exH and I split, it was like the one thing we divied up?  Haha..).  There are some short videos on Tumblr (I’ve posted my favorites here in fact) that I love to watch.

Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms     
I am very multi-orgasmic.

Sex on the beach   
Yes!

Blindfolds    
Yeah.  Props aren’t really a favorite of mine.  I’m all about *US*.  (my fish excluded)

Using ice sexually    
Yes.  Popsicles too! 

Sexual role play    
Yeah…but not in a super long time.  I don’t role play very well.

Whipped cream    
Mmmm, oh yes…..looooooove whip cream

La Perla lingerie sex    
I have no idea what that is ????

Frederick’s of Hollywood lingerie sex    
*confused*  Are we talking about sex while wearing an item from here????  Then yes.

Sex with someone much older    
No…  I’m hardly attracted to people my own age (PC excluded….swoon), much less older than me.

Sex with someone younger (legal!) 
You read my site, right?  Well….that answers that then.

Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner    
Sex in another country- yes.  But they were not foreign.

A quickie in a skirt    
Yes!  Love it.  I’ve written about that several times.  Something so hot about a dress or skirt being lifted and fucked that way.

A longie in the rain   
Yes!

Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you    
*grins*  yeah…..

Feather ticklers    
Tried it.  Again…a ‘thing’, I don’t want props in my bedroom.  Call me party spoiler, but they just kill the mood for me.

Sex while “altered” whether by alcohol or something else    
Ahahahahaha……  Um.  Yeah.

Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone    
It could happen, yes.  It HAS happened.

Silent sex in a full house    
God…yes.  That thrill of possibly being caught, and of knowing so many other people around and you have to be super quiet.  Fucking hot.  Seriously.

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~ xo

Vixen

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Say….you have been loosely dating two different people over a long-ish period of time (each of them on and off for six plus months).  And those two people start talking on Facebook, because they are mutual friends with you.  And they become FB friends.  You like one of the girls quite a lot but you are not in a committed relationship with either.

And then you find out that they are dating.  An ‘item’ now.

How do you feel?  And are you justified in feeling which ever way you do?

This happened on a reality show I watch called “The Real L Word” (yes, sigh…a real life show about lesbians, what isn’t there for me to like?!).  One of the girls, Whitney (the one that PC insists is just like me), had this happen to her.  She had actually just decided that she wanted to become more serious with one them when she discovered the two were now seeing each other. 

I guess…yeah.  I’d be hurt and upset.  But probably more than anything I’d be pissed at myself for missing out on the opportunity and letting the one I really wanted to be with get away.  She obviously had no ‘claims’ on either of them.  It is a bit ironic that they ended up together….mainly because Whitney couldn’t make a decision. 

Your thoughts?  Was any kind of ‘code’ broken???

*****

HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

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~ xo

Vixen

(PG version….she says…haha)

1. How old are you?
From what I’ve been told much younger than I look.  Lets go with that….m’k?  Right…

2. What’s your favorite color?
PINK!  Duh….

3. First car you ever had sex in?
Pretty sure it was my yellow ’73 VW Bug.  Super fun times in that car.

4. Favorite rated R movie?
Jennifer’s Body maybe…  I dunno.  HUGE movie buff.  See a lot of movies, have a ton of favorites.  But I don’t pay enough attention to ratings I guess.

5. Favorite flavor of popsicle?
I don’t eat popsicles.  But maybe banana if I were to *have* to choose….

6. Banana or apple?
To eat?  (wait…that was super weird for me to even ask…lolol)  I love them both, they are my favorite fruits actually.

7. Favorite Jersey shore character?
I’ve never once watched the show, so I have no clue.

8. Are your nails painted and if so what color?
Always. Never, ever are they not.  And most always a shade of pink.

9. Favorite animal?
Difficult to choose, but I guess dogs.  I adore my horses, cats…but could never live with out a dog’s companionship.

10. If you could bang a disney character who would it be?
Tinker Bell is a Disney character, right????  I’d SO totally do her!  Oooo….or Jessica Rabbit …purrrr……..

11. What time is bed time?
2ish….am

12. Do you have kids?
Yep.  3 if you count PC’s son…

13. Last time you bought a toilet brush?
I have no clue.  I mean, I own one. But don’t know when it was bought.

14. Double penetration ( come on I had to get one in)
Yes…ish.  Never had two guys in that manner, if that’s what we’re talking about though.

15. Bubble bath or long hot shower?
Long hot shower. I love bubble baths.  When I’m sick, nothing beats one.  But adore showers.  HOT showers.

16. Can you speak a foreign language?
Not really.  I’m thinking the snippets I remember from Spanish and Latin don’t count…

17. Describe yourself in 2 words?
Girly. Obsessive.

18. How many tattoos do you have if any?
8

19. How do you like your eggs?
Fried over medium or very, VERY scrambled with CHEESE…..but I don’t eat them very often.  Not a fan of breakfast or breakfast foods.

20. How do you get rid of a hickey…I need to know
Cold spoon! 

and 21. Favorite color to wear.
I guess white/cream.  I wear a lot of it.  And brown.  And pink.  That’s pretty much my entire wardrobe.

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Hello Monday!

(Oh god…yes.  And please.  And NOW.  Scootch on up…waiting for you….*ahemBFDahem* ….DAMN)

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~ xo

Vixen

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This was being discussed recently on a radio station’s facebook page. I was searching for something and got caught up in the conversation.

Does it matter to you how many your partner has had?
Have you had any problems with someone once you revealed how many partners you’ve had?

It was interesting all the different takes.  People saying it had caused issues in past relationships, so they now practiced the “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy.  Another said, they didn’t think the number mattered unless it is more than before they entered into a committed relationship (doh…good one, haha). 

The double standard of how it’s ‘more ok’ for a guy to have a higher number than a girl, was mentioned and debated.

“I think the double standard can be explained like this.
A Key that fits alot of locks, is a master key. (Guy)
A Lock that fits alot of keys is a shitty Lock. (Girl)”

*shaking head* (NOT ok….)  I do think it’s become less of a double standard in today’s society.  But it’s still there, especially after reading that comment above.

I liked one girls comment of-

“I have been around the block several times and still making laps”

Gotta love her honesty!

Probably the best advice and my stance- “I don’t think it should matter, just wrap it before you tap it” 
*snort*

I think numbers are unimportant.  I do want to know about previous partners, but the number isn’t going to bother me nor am I going to judge them by it.  I’ve been with more females then men (over twice as many actually…).  I became common law married while practically still in high school and remained faithful to him (not to be confused with him to me  *AHEM*) for 15years before the relationship fell apart.  And then well, I realized boys are fun.  Definitely not trying to add notches on my bedpost but nothing wrong with being well versed in my opinion.  *wink*

Does a number matter to you????

*****

HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

(98% of what I write on Tuesdays are actual recounts, although rarely real time…  This particular one is a fantasy hoping to be played out at some point in the near please oh please future….)

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Several margaritas in…

Heavy flirting.

Short dress.

High heels.

Walking into the dimly lit street.  Unseasonably warm.

My hand in yours. Until you stop.  To kiss me.  Your mouth heavily on mine.  Tongue delving to find mine.

One hand on the small of my back.  The other on my neck.  Pulling our bodies closer.

Slowly moving backwards.  Until my back is against the wall….of the building behind us.

Grabbing my wrists, pulling them above my head. 

The intensity of your mouth against mine.

Your hand in my hair.  The feeling of want with each kiss.

Breathing harder.

The intensity of our kisses increasing.  My hips pushing into you, wanting to feel you against me.

Your lips moving down my neck, collarbone, to my exposed cleavage from my dress.

Pushing me, turning me… facing the wall. 

Your hand moving up my thigh…under my dress.  Realizing I’m with out panties.

Finding my soft, increasing wetness. 

Running your other hand up my side, over my breasts.  Pressing against me so that I can feel you between my thighs.  Hard.

I find myself melting into your hands.

Gasping.

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~ xo

Vixen

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This topic came up on my radio station…

Her husband has given her permission to cheat.  When they married she had been a virgin and was very young, he on the other hand is a bit older than her and had been with quite a few women previously.  She’s been finding herself fantasizing about other men quite a bit lately.  She loves her husband very much, has no intentions of leaving him, she wants to be married with him.  But is curious.  He has offered her a 7 day “Hall Pass”.  She’s not sure if she should do it or not.

I was completely taken aback by the responses on the radio station.  People were throwing out things like he’s probably cheating on her already so she should leave him.  That HE should leave her for having these feelings.  They should just divorce because they obviously don’t love each other. 
*shaking head*

I guess I’m just a lot more open minded to think this could possibly work.  But I also believe there is nothing wrong with open marriages, swinging, being polyarmorous, etc.  Society has grown and with it different relationship dynamics and types.  I mean, you don’t want to do that in your relationship?  Fine.  So don’t.  *shrug*  But to belittle, berate and attack someone else for wanting to try something in theirs?  Shut the fuck up.  Seriously.  (sorry, nothing strikes a nerve more with me than people who are narrow minded and judgmental of others)

Now the question of if she should do this or not….  That’s not something I think anyone can answer except for her husband and her.  Is it playing with fire?  Possibly.  I commend her husband for being confident and secure enough in himself, her and their marriage to encourage her to do this  She needs to delve into her feelings, the stability of their relationship, they need to be pretty open and honest with each other about expectations, how the other is feeling, etc.  I think a lot of communication needs to happen before she decides to take advantage of his offer.

Thoughts?

*****

HAPPY HUMP DAY!!!

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~ xo

Vixen

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His mouth on hers.

Breathing heavily into her ear.

Biting her neck.

Gasping.

Hands forcibly held above her head.

Pinned down.

Yes…

Grinding against her.

Moaning.

Her back arched.

Hips aching to meet his.

In.  Deep, deeper, deepest.

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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-
Remember the thumbnails are only meant to be teasers.  If you haven’t done so already, hit them up and show some love!

Lady Grinning Soul…..

Daisy…..

And the most swoon-worthy in my opinion (yes, it’s quite possibly I’m highly a bit partial)…
Barefoot Dreamer…..

My girl went in for major surgery on Monday and has been recovering in the hospital. There is nothing more I wish then that I could be there with her.  One of the super sucky things about this whole long distance thing. 
*heavy sigh*

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1. Do you like your feet to touch when having sex?
Um….I’m not sure I’ve ever given this much thought.  I don’t have an aversion to feet.  Wanna play footsies with me?  *grins*

2. If your love life was a movie what would the title be?
Hmm….trying to think.  Not many movies accurately describe it.  Maybe a combo of Eyes Wide Shut/No Strings Attached/Love and Other Drugs/Cinderella/Enchanted??? 

3. Orgasm eyes open or closed?
CLOSED

4. Have you ever been to a sex club, swinger club or sex party?
Yep.

5. How many years difference is appropriate for having sex with someone…example is it appropriate for a 36 year old to be with a 20 year old?
Hey!  No digs at the over 35 crowd.  I pretty much have to say yes here (lol).  The youngest person I’ve had sex with was 19….  It 13 year difference.  Course I guess my Young Marine friend was 17 years younger than me so…  Honestly.  I only think it’s ‘inappropriate’ if the person is under age.  Beyond that, to each their own.  *shrug*

6. Does your partner know all your favorite positions?
I’m pretty sure

7. What would your porn star name be?
Vixen?  *wink*

8. Have you ever done a body shot?
Yes I have.  I’ve been the one taking the shot as well as the one giving the shot.  Favorite body shot memory ever though was in Vegas with a certain swoon-worthy gal (ahemBFDahem)

9. Kissed someone of the same sex?
Ha….yeah.  That’s pretty much a given, no?

10. Have you ever screamed out the wrong name during the heat of the moment?
Uh no!  But that’s not really a ‘me’ thing anyways…unless your name is God *wicked grins*

11. Are socks on during sex a turn on or off?
OFF!!!!  Unless those socks are thigh highs GET. THEM. OFF.  Huge turn off.  Something about socks on a naked body.  Not sexy at all.

12. How big is too big for penis size?
I’ll let you know if I ever find out.

13. THIS ONE IS FROM THE HUBMAN DO YOU THINK YOUR GRANDPARENTS STILL HAVE SEX?
Doubtful…..they’re all deceased. (doh)

14. Who usually initiates the foreplay in your relationship?
Pretty mutual.  I think I tend to initiate sex though.

15. Do you like to be teased?
Um, yes…. To a degree.  I don’t like to be frustrated though.

16. Do you like your hair pulled?
Mmm….yes. I. do.

17. How do you feel about long distance relationships and can they work?
*sigh*  Yes….they can work.  Although the distance is frustrating as hell.  I’m a girl that wants what she wants when she wants it.

18.How much money would it take to have sex with someone you were not attracted to?
Quite a lot.  I *really* NEED a ‘click’ to have sex with someone.

19. What would your SEX license plate say?
Yzplez

20. Does biting turn you on?
OH God yes…yeeeeeesssssssss
(I think the marks on my neck from the other night are probably a good indicator of this…  *ahem*)

21. Sex in a barn full of cows and horses or a outhouse at the county fair?
Ewww….sex in the barn FOR SURE.  BTDT actually (I grew up on a ranch and live on a farm….).  I don’t even want to USE an outhouse, much less get down and dirty in one!

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Alrighty everyone, it’s the weekend.  Be naughty!

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~ xo

Vixen

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It had been several weeks….  The minute I walked in the door he met me, quickly taking me in greedily…with his eyes and then his arms yes….  My coat still on.  A carefully planned outfit underneath (short dress…slip…boots…).  Kissing me.  Hard. Intensely.  I feel his breathing quicken.  Mine catching as well. 

His hands on my breasts.  Then underneath my dress.  I could feel the pressure of his fingers against the lace of my panties…

Yes….

At the same moment… we realized my coat was still on, with his help it was peeled off not quickly enough.  Discarded at my feet.  He pulled my dress up, to unclasp my bra.  Making it clear he wanted it undone…but my dress left on.

Soon he was behind me, kissing my neck.  As I tilted it to the side. 

I could hear him undoing his belt.  Then his jeans falling to the floor…around his ankles.  With his mouth still on my neck, he pushed me forward.  Over the bed.  Shoving my dress up over my hips…  Pulling my lace panties aside with his hand, his mouth on me.  Tasting me.  Reveling in his hot breath in between my thighs, against ME.  Then he was inside me.  Fucking me.  Hard.  Determined.  Filling me.

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Vixen

Some randomness for this Saturday morning…

1. Did you have sex today?
Actually, no.  But I’d like to!

2. Did you have an orgasm in the last 24 hours?
Yep.

3. Can you get off from a sexy text message?
Depends on who it’s from, but yes, I can get myself off from one.

4. I have a friend that can get horny watching the food network, what channel or show gets you off?
Hands down, The L Word.  I mean seriously people…

5. Blow job while in a moving vehicle with the blow-ee driving.
Oh yeah many times.

6. Longest you have gone without sex?
4 weeks?  After my kiddos were born.

7. Longest you have gone without toys of any kind?
Probably before I got my first one in my early twenties.  It’s been a long term love affair ever since.  *wink*

8. Most uncomfortable place you have had sex?
I’ve put a lot of thought into this and finally it occurred to me.  It wasn’t so much the place but the circumstance.  I had an awful sunburn on my back from a day at the beach and he was fucking me, while holding me up against the wall of a bathroom stall.  HOT scenario but can still remember vividly how it hurt like an SOB.

9. Are you loud in the bedroom?
Um….yes.

10. Do you like to be in control or have none?
I derive an incredible amount of pleasure from both.  Depends on my partner and my mood (key component!).

11. How do you feel about choking?
Huge huge huge turn on.  With the right partner….  *wicked grins*

12. Have you ever vajazzled?
Um hell no.  And I have no intentions of doing so.

13. Can you yoodle? (remember she said she was drunk)
I’m guessing Yodle?  And no.  I can’t.  Not really sure I’ve even ever tried though either.

14. What is the sexiest thing you own in your opinion?
Wow…how to choose????  Possibly the slipdress I’ve been featuring in my most recent HNT’s….  BUT I’m going to go with what Roxy calls my stripper boots.  The over the knee black heeled boots I wore in Vegas and in a few of my HNT pics (most recently the ones *with* the slipdress)

15. Favorite kind of alcohol that makes you horny?
There’s a specific kind?!?!  Pffbbttt……  (lush—->me)

16. Have you ever had sex on a full bladder?
Yes. It actually intensifies things in a good way…usually.

17. Biggest turn on in a man and biggest turn on in a woman?
Hmm….. *thinking*
I guess in a man- clean shaven, smooth everywhere (scruff is a different story….a long as it’s maintained).  I’m really not a fan of body hair. It’s a huge turn off.  I’m all about manscaping.
In a woman….it’s the small of her back and collarbone.  Drive me insane.  Wait.  One more thing, outgoing/outspoken/direct/ BOLDNESS= OH HOLY HOTNESS!

18. Do you like oral sex?
Yes.  *LOVE* to give it.  And pretty huge fan of receiving it, with a partner I’m comfortable with.  It feels like a very intimate act and if I don’t know the other person extremely well, I’m highly uncomfortable.

19. Do you think you could watch your partner/signif other be with someone else?
I could…  Under the right circumstances.  As BFD put it though, I don’t really want to sit in a chair and like *watch*.

20. Daisy was drunk, so she shared a picture… and dared us to share one as well… 

21. Have you ever tried ben-wa balls?
No….

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~ xo

Vixen