My theme song this week…

This week…gah. Stressful. Incredibly busy. Dramatic. Overwhelming. And where it’s left me is completely emotionally drained. I don’t ‘do’ stress very well and am easily overwhelmed, which left me a bit of a mess the latter part of this week.  The girl I love dearly, care about, hasn’t taken as much of a priority as I would have liked her to have.  Also causing me to be overly defensive when it came to matters with PC when all he needed was a shoulder to lean on and an ear to vent his frustrations and thoughts to.  (((PC)))  Yes, hello, it’s not solely the Vixen-show (thumps self in head)

So..no Friday Favorites. (I actually almost didn’t even do HNT this week)  No random weekly update other than- HOLY BUSY WEEK BATMAN combined with several anxiety raising stressers that I definitely could have lived with out.  *deep breaths*  But, I made it through the week.  It’s Friday, my Studmuffin friend arrives today for a long weekend visit and I plan on participating in a lot of much needed drinking and sex.  That should help, I’m sure of it.  And if nothing else, it will be fun! *wink*

Enjoy your weekend!

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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-
You know what to do….click the links if you haven’t already and show them some love!

Cheeky Minx…Love Hate Sex Cake…..

Sexy Sadie…Confessions From My Open Marriage…..

Emmy…Right Turn Without Signaling…..

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Over Christmas break PC turned me onto Buffy the Vampire Slayer (there is a bit of irony in this statement, I know….lol). They were having a marathon and we ended up recording a bunch of them, and well then spent the last few weeks catching up on them all. I remember Roxy watching the show way back when but never got into it myself. Anyway, so who knew over ten years later I would love the show. I mean Eliza Duschku was on it! HELLO, how did I miss that?! (ok she’s awful and evil, but STILL!)

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FYI:
Victoria’s Secret is having their semi-annual sale right now.  Vicky and I have had a fairly long term love affair, pretty huge fan of hers and am a total sale whore, so this is seriously one of the sales that must be taken advantage of!!!

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Alright alright…jetting off to Roxyville tomorrow morning.  She had something nasty accost her eye and has this serious….eye issue.  We were already prepared for heavy gossiping accompanied by drinking, so now I’m also going to help attempt to keep her mind off of that.  Be back Monday or, actually probably Tuesday.

TGIF and enjoy your weekend!

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~ xo

Vixen

Spent most of the day Thursday in bed feeling like death smeared on toast.  It kind of snuck up on me as the week progressed then laid me on my ass Wednesday night.  Nooooooooo……  Can I tell you how pissed that makes me?!  When someone (ME!) is sick for the greater part of the fall (two months is a looooooong time! *stomps foot*) you’d think that automatically gives them a ‘free pass’ for the rest of the winter.  *humpf*

It’s interesting the flu-induced dreams you can have though.  They were vivid, fucked up and just strange.  At one point PC, Ashton and I are at Roxy’s house (I told you- STRANGE!).  And everyone was talking like the ‘people’ do in that Sims computer game (know what I mean?? That ridiculous gibberish that no one can understand).  And I kept clearing my throat, to try to get real words to come out but no….only thing that would come out was the insane gibberish.  Later I find Roxy in her kitchen, making Bloody Mary’s. With fresh squashed tomatoes.  Oh yummmm…….NOT.  *puke* (lolol)

Later in the day I had to drag my sorry ass out of bed to hit the post office. I had some items that *had* to go out.  So I throw on the first pair of jeans I can find, paired with the VS sleep tee and Hollister sweatshirt I’d been sporting since the night before, a pair of flip flops (it’s been incredibly mild the last couple days) and finally throw my hair up into a messy bun with my bangs pinned to the side.  Classy. (not really) And hot….. (snort) After hitting the post office, still feeling crappy and cursing my sore throat, I decide to grab a Chai Latte from Starbucks.  While standing in line to order, I notice a man (cute…not my type mainly bc if you noticed- I refer to him as a man…not a boy *snort*, but definitely cute) stealing glances at me.  Here I stand feeling like death smeared on toast….it’s highly likely I look like that too.  Especially considering I never even glanced in a mirror before heading out of the house.

Finally he approaches me-
Him-  *smiles* 
You know it’s winter….  
*looking down at my feet -remember I’m wearing flip flops-* (at least I have well manicured toes year round!)

Me- *looking down too*
Yeah.
*then nodding towards the motorcycle helmet he’s holding*
….says the man riding a motorcycle in December
*smiling at him*

Him- *laughing*
Touche’

My order is called and I lean past him…smiling…  And tell him to have a have a great day.

Makes a sick girl feel good to know even while feeling like death smeared on toast I can get hit on.  Haha…..

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Anywho.  We have big, fancy plans this weekend that involve getting dolled up (I might let PC play along too *smirk*), adults and free liquor…YES, so you can imagine how this is something I do not want to miss out on!

~ xo

Vixen

Anyone watch Survivor? We’ve been catching up on Tivo’d shows and one of the girls made this comment. Haha…too funny.

Friday Favorites-
Because I didn’t do a Friday Favorite post last week, I’m including some that I loved from then.  Remember, thumbnails are just sneak previews.  If you haven’t already, go show them some love!

Cheeky Minx…Love Hate Sex Cake…..

Elle…Kink Unleashed…..


Sexy Sadie…..

Barefoot Dreamer…..

Jas…Evocative Abyss…..

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I went on a date with Johnny (the guy I’ve been writing about on the sly- if you’ve been paying attention you remember him….he can also be found over on TFT *grins*) Thursday night…brain is in other places and I really actually don’t have much to say (shocking…I know).  I guess I said it all on Monday (ha).  I see this around occasionally and I liked the questions this time around.

Naughty or nice…..

1. Had sex in a car older than a 1985 model?
Why yes….  Several in fact.  My first car was a 1971 VW Bug.  I *loved* that car. And yes!  Amazingly so, you can have sex in a car that small! (my most embarrassing moment E-V-E-R took place in this car….I’ve spoken of it a couple times, maybe I’ll have to share again- another time)  I also inherited my grandmothers Maverick, which was a 1970, in high school.  And that was well used as too….  A lot of my teenage sexual experiences took place in cars.  *ahem*

2. Played strip poker and lost?
Yes…  I’m probably a very fun person to play strip poker with because I always lose. (doh)

3. Name three celebrities you would like to bang the sh!tz out of.
Oh shit.  Only three???? Well….  Megan Fox, Channing Tatum and Kiera Knightley
*swoon*

4. Ever gone commando?
Um….have you met me?  LOLOLOL Panties are for special occasions.  Nuff said.

5.Open relationship?
Have you read my blog?  Are you new?  Well…that answers this question then…..  *wink*

6. You have been naughty what is your punishment?
Me naughty????  Pffbbttt….  *wicked grins*  Ok.  We all know that if I were to do something ‘wrong’, that PC would be punished for it with a riding crop.  That’s how it works in this household.

7. Ticklish?
I suppose my sides.  I really, really hate to be tickled though. 

8. Spit or swallow?
Neither
*ducking*  I told you….sigh  I really, really wish I could.  Oh well.

9. Is rear entry an option?
Depends on what you are going to enter with…  (ha!)  So my answer is possibly yes.

10. What would you do for a Klondike bar?
Eww.  Ice cream and chocolate= puke.  You’ve just combined two of my least favorite things, nah, no thanks.

11. Truth or Dare? (Truth have you ever been with more than 1 person in one day? or show a tasteful picture of cleavage/boobs or guys a boxer shot)
I never, ever take truth.  I actually really dislike this game. I’ve been traumatized by it.  Anyway…  So Truth- yes. I have.  Fun times my friends.  *grinning*

12. BDSM?
Yeah…no thanks.  Not my thing.

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14.You order a pizza…would you ever flash the delivery guy at the door?
Ha…I have!

15. Are you horny?
Usually.  But I’ll tell you, it must be my old age *snort*….being tired has been recently trumping being horny.  WTF?!

16. Leather or lace?
Lace.  Although both together can be pretty fucking sexy too. 

17. Silk ties or hand cuffs?
I guess silk ties.  I can be super adventuresome but I just don’t love to be tied.

18. Thongs? Boy shorts? Grannie panties? lace?
Ultra low cut lace thongs are my all time favorite.  I have some lace tangas that I like to wear with dresses. I like those too…but never with jeans. 

19. Eyes open or closed?
What are we doing?  If we are kissing- CLOSE YOUR EYES!  That’s just going to creep me out!  Anything else we are doing?  Mmmm….eyes open is hot hot hot.

20. Romance or kink?
Romance beats out kink but I do enjoy the kink!

And lastly…

21. Would you rather take a bath in chocolate pudding or drive around the town naked in your car?
I’ve driven around town naked- BTDT.  I think taking a bath in chocolate pudding sounds fun!  Can I bring a friend??  (BFD…wanna come over?!  *WINK*)

Have a fantabulous weekend!!!
(oh, almost forgot- review going up this weekend too, check back!)

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~ xo

Vixen

-we’d preferred to know what curve balls are going to be thrown our way.
~Grey’s Anatomy

Friday Favorites-

Click the links and show the girls come love if you haven’t already!

Elle…Kink Unleashed…..


Frenchy…..

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 A Friday funny…

Two women walking home after a night out and needing to pee stop in a graveyard.  One woman cleans up with her underwear and tosses them.  The other woman uses a ribbon from a wreath close by. 

The next morning one husband calls the other.  “My wife came home with no panties!”

The other one says, “Yeah? Well, mine came home with a ribbon reading: ALL OF US AT THE FIREHOUSE WILL MISS YOU!“

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This week has been crazy busy.  Laundry, packing, lunch with Ashton….(sorry the details are mine)  *wicked grins*

Oh.  And PC…should be careful what he wishes for *smirk*

Have a fabulous weekend!!!

~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites:

Click the links and show the girls come love if you haven’t already!

The Secretive Writer.….


Elle…Kink Unleashed…..

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Adventures in dating….
I’ve decided I really should write a book on my recent dating experiences.  (Which until my mid thirties were actually fairly uneventful, haha)  The people I have encountered, the experiences….  Wow.  Just like…WOW.  Just got to shake my head a lot of the times.  *snort*

This week I was contacted by a fairly good looking guy in his early 30′s.  For whatever reason he decided what I really needed was a dominant male to tell me what to do, for me to be his ‘good slut’.  Um.  Yeah, that’s not how this Vixen plays.  Liking a male who can be a bit dominant (Ashton was dreamy in this department) is nice.  I like and am very domme with PC.  Which is exactly how I like our relationship to be *smirk*, it thrives on that dynamic.  So to be with someone else who likes to take a bit of the control…kind of fun.  To be bossed around and demanded of shit….oh hell no.  Completely wrong tactic with me, it has an adverse effect actually. I even explained this to him, trying to get him to back off a ton bit.  But it became apparent this wasn’t going to work.  See ya…

And Abercrombie completely blew it with me.  It was a tad bit weird annoying to not hear from him for 4 days, even when I tried to contact him.  Which ok, whatever.  But then when he did and I was past the point of irritated and responded a bit snarky to him.  He took this…attitude.  Turning it around on me.  Acting like I was being a clingy (which OMG I am the last thing from), head case just because I hadn’t heard from.  Then says “Oh yeah…I think I remember a text from you but forgot to respond.  My bad”.  Yes.  Yes my dear now scorned friend, YOUR BAD which equates to YOUR LOSS.  *humpf*  Needless to say he’s gotten the cold shoulder since.

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Kiddos had most of the week off of school for parent/teacher conferences.  Leaving things quite busy and hectic on my end.  Luckily at least the weather has been decent so that a good amount of time could be spend outside.  Although I did find myself cursing the sun going down at 6:30 when I would have loved for the children to have spent another several hours OUT rather than cooped up IN.

I’ve become a SAHsurrogateM to five puppies who are now 5 weeks old and E.V.E.R.Y.W.H.E.R.E.  SO high maintenance.  SO much work.  Although not complaining, I adore every minute of it.  Ok…maybe less so the moments at 3am….  (yawn..lol)  But they grow up/develop so fast.  As much work as they are, I will surely miss them when they go off to their new homes.

The kiddos are spending a few days with their Grandma for some fun.  Which means an entire adult- fun filled weekend for PC and I to ourselves.   Oh the trouble me might find ourselves in….  *wicked grins*

Enjoy your weekend!!!  The countdown continues for the biggest night of the year (HALLOWEEN!!!!) 16 days to be exact and AND AND the big fabulous Vegas trip with Barefoot Dreamer- squeeeeeeel…..17 to be exact!  *soooogiddy*

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

~Eddie Veddar

Friday Favorites-

So for three and a half years now I’ve been doing my Friday Favorite feature (can you believe it’s seriously been that long…crazy!).  And as I’m sure you all have noticed, I always focus on only the ladies.  Yes, I’m sorry, I’m biased.  ~wink~  But.  There are a couple male bloggers out there right now that have seriously caught my attention.  They take incredible shots….thought provoking (usually naughty thoughts….grins…..), erotic, sexy as hell…..and consistently so.  I gotta give them a shout out and bring some well deserved attention to them.  If you haven’t already discovered these delicious men, you must go pay them a visit. 

JM… There is no spoon (he has an incredibly lovely mate too….you should absolutely not miss out on her site either!)

The Muffin Fan… One Man’s Love For Women 

Um….*swoon*

Ok.  So on with the girls.  A few of them.  Again, I provide you with only the thumbnails so that you will click them and proficiently gush over them.

Maeve…..

Ivey Lane…..

Lady Grinning Soul…..

Barefoot Dreamer…..

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I was emailing with another blogger Thursday morning and he mentioned how disappointed he’d been in the low amount of comments he’d been getting on his HNT’s.  I’ve noticed the same thing while visiting all the HNT posts recently.  Which is a bit odd for this time of year.  You expect comments to be on the low side through out the summer, over/near holidays, etc.  But when you see that over forty-five people are playing HNT but most blogs are getting an average of 5-15 comments…it makes you wonder.

And I almost hesitate to even bring this up bc the last thing I want to do is make blogging or playing HNT about the comments.  I know for me, it’s nice to get feedback/input/comments on my posts (most especially my HNTs) but it’s not WHY I blog.  It’s not what is most important to me.  But I do expect/hope that what I put into it, I will get out of it.  I try to be very active in the community and enjoy doing so. I think others feel the same way.  I know I am the anomaly in that I make it a point to visit *every* HNT that makes themselves known on Os’s site, as well as the others I stumble upon that don’t.  Not everyone is an internet whore like me has copious amounts of time on their hands.  And sometimes real life gasp! gets in the way and it’s not possible to do that….  *shrug*  No worries.

But I do understand his discouragement.

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I swear I keep my AFF profile (where I have my female for female profile) for entertainment value alone…  I received this message this past week from a guy who either didn’t care it was a F-F profile or more likely than not, just didn’t read it:

i am looking for fun if you want your pussy to get licked all night and want big hard cock seriously give me a message

I did not message him back. Shocking…I know.  *rolling eyes*  Lord.   …:::delete:::…

Now. I did also receive this one.  Again from a male, a much um…older gentleman.  I actually almost messaged him back just to say how much I appreciated his honesty and loved what he said!

DON’T MISS THIS: I AM MARRIED! I am not going to make up a lot of bull
like most do here. (No, “Hey Baby, I am hung like an anaconda, 12 feet
tall, 300 lbs. of ripping muscle, and I will rock your world
sweetheart” from me). I just want a like-minded partner; one who
preferably wants to have a true, no strings, sexually based
relationship with a lot of laughs mixed in (No whining from me like a
sniveling, spoiled little boy about the other woman or whatever else
guys usually cry about. I don’t need to be coddled by my mommy). I
prefer a longer term relationship, but am open to anything from a one
time to longer term situation. I am a solid professional guy who knows
who and what he wants (Not endless emails, although a little flirting
is good for the soul). Straightforwardly, let’s have a boatload of fun,
find out what makes us each passionate, and get
reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal tingly together. My pic is real
and current. Not 50 pounds and 20 years ago.

Bwahahaha….  Kuddos to him for keeping it real, you know?!   *snort*  If he weren’t waaaaaaay out of my age bracket I’d totally give him a shot!  Ha!

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I’ve been seeing quiet a bit of Abercrombie guy lately.  We have great conversation and he’s really into me, wanting to see me as often as he can.  Which….is nice, to be made a priority, ya know?  He’s definitely the new boytoy.  *smirk*

I did hear back from Matt Damon and um, as I had mentioned, he pretty much confirmed that I had intimidated the hell out of him.  Doh. 

PC my sissy panty boy has been fairly compliant and well behaved.  We’ve been getting along amazing….  I could gush over how *amazing* (I keep saying that word huh?) we’ve been.  There’s a new found dominance I am embracing (and loving).  *HAPPY SIGH*

Anyway.  Happy Friday my loverlies.  I’m going to see what kind of  trouble I can get in this weekend…  Hopefully a super fun recap come Monday! *grins* 
Enjoy!

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~ xo

Vixen

…an irreversible regret, an unreachable dream, & an unforgettable love.

Friday Favorites-
Don’t forget to hit these lovely ladies up if you haven’t already!

Elle…Kink Unleashed…..

Sexie Sadie…..


Heather B…Satisfaction Through Califraction…..

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Good thing this isn’t an audio blog….my insanely sore throat decided to turn into a cough and by the time I woke up Thursday morning my voice had completely escaped me.  I’ve been battling with allergy-ish symptoms for over two weeks now.  Began wondering towards the middle of this week if the ridiculous soreness in my throat might actually be something more significant than allergies.  I think the laryngitis I am now experiencing is a pretty good indicator.  *sigh*

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Thank you all for your kind words and support the beginning of this week.  I’m doing much better emotionally.  The shock has subsided.  My head is in a better space and I’m thinking more clearly.

Well. I was until I decided to take some OTC meds to try help alleviate aforementioned symptoms.  Didn’t do much for my symptoms but made me loopier than hell and wide fucking awake and an ungodly hour.  Gah….  There is a very good reason I don’t do drugs.  So there you go.  That’s all I got.

Have a fabulous Labor Day weekend!

I can’t get this image out of my mind…..

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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

Topaz…..as I told her earlier, this causes my mind to reel.  The bit of long hair, the necklaces, the wisp of material covering, that ‘sweet’ spot her cleavage creates, ok yes, and the FRISKY ink….sensory overload.  And in a good way.

The Reluctant Princess…..wine.  bath.  bubbles.  She had me at hello, er um, her in the tub.  ~wink~

Barefoot Dreamer….. and NO it’s not just bc seeing her texts/IMs/FBmsgs, etc give me butterflies and draw up thoughts of pushing her back up against a wall in a dark corner and doing very bad things to her….her photography and pictures are amazing

If you haven’t done so already- hit the girls up!
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Who would have thought my kiddos going back to school would actually cause me to be busier than I was when they were out.  Good lord, the blur of craziness the last couple week have been for me!  I think I might catch a break the middle of next week and actually be able to breathe again.  Part of the issue is that the HUGE children consignment sale that comes twice a year happened to fall the week after school resumed.  I always consign/participate and it’s a ridiculous amount of work.  But thankfully, always pays off, making it worthwhile.  Add in the mix, two separate parent nights (one for each kiddo), a very pregnant Daisy dog, household upkeep, a self created To-Do list….  Honestly.  The last two weeks have been such a blur I don’t even know what day it is barely.

Anyway.  Speaking of parent night. I have mentioned my kids school PTA in previous posts.  We live in a tiny town.  They dynamics of our PTA is….um….well, reminds me of high school.  A group of cliquey, catty, snarky women.  There are those that are PTA moms and then those of us that ‘are not’.  And it’s a very clear line.  At first I tried to pretend it was in my head.  But uh, no.  I could give you scenario after scenario.  Whatever.  It’s a whatever.   *rolling eyes*  I just do my thing and pretend to play nicey nice to get by.  I enjoy volunteering at the school, in the classrooms and I’m not going to let wanna be high school girls trying to re-enact the movie Heathers fuck that up. 

So the first night went down drama free, with out incident (other than the usual BS).

The second night however…  Whoa. I have officially met the. biggest. asshat. EVER.  From the beginning of the evening the man (father of some poor child) was a complete ass- being belligerent, rude, highly inappropriate and quite obviously had a massive chip on his shoulder regarding….  teachers?  parents?  schools?  school systems in general?  the human race????  I couldn’t even begin to recount what took place but a mini-riot ensued.  Seriously.  It was insane.  I do not handle confrontation well at all and my anxiety was through the roof.  I pity not only the child of that person but also the poor, poor teacher that will have to deal with that parent for the entire school year.  Gah….

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So there you go.  It’s Friday!  Time to decompress and let loose.

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~ xo

Vixen

~Winston Churchill

Last week I was made aware of incredibly tragic, heartbreaking news. It has sat with me heavily.  Please click the button, it will take you to the original post providing more details about what has happened and how you can help out if you are so inclined.

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Friday Favorites-

Some new ones this week!  It’s always fun to see some awesome bloggers I haven’t featured before.  As always, if you haven’t already, hit them up.  Show them some love!

The Secretive Writer.….

Cande…Secret Diary of an Online Stripper…..

Scintillectual…..


Chris…Three Curious Monkeys….

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The kiddos go back to school next week.  I had fabulous plans of spending a few more days soaking up some sun before the pool closed (sun goddess—>ME), had promised them a day at the water park in Six Flags, the splash pad at the park….  All of which were thrown out the window when LP continued to spike a fever between 100-103 (plus…), wavering between the appearance of death smeared on toast and being backed over (several times) by a Mack truck.  The poor thing had been sick since the previous week.  Just when I thought she was perking up, her fever would spike and she’d visibly go down hill again.  A trip to the Dr…..she has pneumonia.  Hell of a way to spend your last hoorah before going back to school.  The ladies in the Dr’s office were perplexed to see things like the stomach flu and pneumonia during the summer months (both of which my children have been plagued with this summer).  So while one child was incredibly sick.  The other grew incredibly bored bouncing off the walls with more and more ants in his pants (which I can’t blame him, I don’t do well day in and day out sitting at home, I am my ‘best’ on the go with little down time).

Fun times my friends…..not.

We also had a fun filled weekend with friends that we’ve had to cancel. 

*POUT*

(Side note- I did just find out our pool is ‘extending their weekend hours through Sept 30′…that’s exciting news!  *giddy* Hey!  It’s the little things!)

Also. Is it too late to start counting down to my birthday weekend?  Or um…Vegas?  Don’t be surprised if you see a counter go up in my side bar.  Soon. I am that excited!

*remember…..free spirit….hate to be cooped up*

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Well.  Happy Friday!!!

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~ xo

Vixen