The Last of ’09 Edition: I did the questions this week, don’t bag on ‘em too much. (LOL)

1. On a scale of 1-10, how good was your 2009?
8?  Started out um…rocky.  I’d say first half was a bit stressful, but definitely improved and we’re going out with a bang.  :)

2. What are your favorite/naughtiest/sexiest/most fun 2009 memories?
Roxy’s hot tub parties…..  Oh!  Roxy’s birthday wkend!  MY birthday party at Coyote Ugly! (WOOT!)
Hehe….we’re so bad.

3. What’s the one thing you thought you would never do, but did in 2009?
I’m sure it would be along the lines of something(s) I agreed to that I never thought I would.  *ahemPCknowswhatI’mtalkingaboutahem*

4. What do you want to change in 2010?
I’d like to find that special girl ‘friend’ *winkwink*
In all seriousness, it’s hard for me to try to focus on things I’d like to change.  I really try to roll with things, my favorite motto is “It is what it is”.  I’m not saying you shouldn’t strive for better, for improvement, OF COURSE you should.  But to dwell on what sucked, where does that get you?!

5. What is your all-time favorite gift (whether given or received by you)?
My engagement ring.  It was my dream come true and I was completely taken off guard. 
..::happy sigh::..

Bonus (as in optional): On special holidays- like birthdays, anniversaries, ringing in the New Year, -are you more inclined to do a sex act that you wouldn’t “normally” do? (things like fellatio/cunnilingus, anal sex, strap-ons/toys, videoing yourself/pictures, menage-a-trois/quatres, etc.)
Yes.  And I firmly belived everyone should have sex of some kind on their birthday!  I gave PC a nice surprise for his bday two years back involving a strap on.  *evil grins*

*snicker*  This is funnier than hell.

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TFT is up!  Go check it out.  It’s still the Holiday Season and I’ve added a bunch of new links suggesting ways you can help out over the holidays.  ‘Tis the Season to show our troops how much we care.  This is about giving back to those who give all.  Remembering our troops during the holidays can be critical for morale.

The site is always looking for contributors.  If you’ve thought about wanting to do it- there is no time like the present!  If you have before but it’s been awhile- we miss you!  All you have to do to help support our troops is EMAIL ME!  Help boost some morale!

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~ xo

Vixen

Some of these are kind of dorky, but sweet at the same time, so I thought I would post this.

1. Bubble bath and a coupon for a romantic bath for two



2. Glow in the dark stars and a coupon for picnic in bed.
3. Candles and a coupon for a candlelight dinner for two
4. Play money and a coupon for a striptease (think Santa Baby by Madonna)
5. Lotion and a coupon for a massage
6. Temporary tattoos and a coupon for him to put them in the place of his choice.
7. Small photo album and coupon for a private photo session
8. A trail of ribbon leading to me (him/her) tied with a bow and a coupon for “Anything goes- Redeem NOW”



9.  An ice cream scoop and coupon for a decadent banana split
10.  Pretend police badge set and a coupon for an evening of cops and robbers
11.  An audio cassette recorded with a special audio love letter a coupon for sweet nothings to be whispered LIVE
12. A pair of Christmas boxers with mistletoe pinned on them.

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TFT is up!

~*~**~Theme Alert~*~**~
For the next two weeks I will be collecting pictures for a special HOLIDAY/CHRISTMAS themed TFT. Use your imagination, get creative and festive! Then click and send. Many of our contributors rocked last year when I did this, so c’mon!

Of course, feel free to send me other boob/moob pics (holiday/Christmas themed or not!) in the meantime for the preceding weeks. We continue to have some great men and women each week. Some repeat contributors, others brand spankin’ new….every one of them super awesome. Don’t forget to tell me how you would like to be credited and/or linked. You can even remain anonymous if you would like.

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Vixen

1. Which is more important of the two in “chemistry,” physical attractiveness or emotional attractiveness?
At the end of the day, emotional attractiveness.  You can be drawn into a person physically, but what keeps you interested is the emotional aspect.  But you know, both are pretty nice.  I think I scored quite nicely.  ~wink~

2. On a scale from 1-10, how kinky are you?
7…8?  I used to think I was pretty kinky.  Um.  Until I met PC.  *LOL*  IDK.  It’s so objective.  I’m adventurous.  I know, not the same, but it helps. (smirk)

3. Sitting on Santa’s lap… fun or creepy?
As an adult?!  Creepy.  I have no desire to sit on some old rent-a-Santa’s lap.  Eww, no thanks.  The idea of his borrowed/used suit alone touches on many of my OCD issues.  *shudder*

4. Have you ever fallen asleep or passed out during sex?
*blush*   Yes, I have before.  But not since I’ve been with PC.  WHEW!

5. Do you wear socks to bed? Is that okay or totally unsexy?
No no no!  Totally unsexy.  Socks are not cool in bed.  The only time I would ever wear socks to sleep in is when we are camping and it’s a fucking requirement (I’ve camped when it’s so cold I’ve worn my coat and MITTENS in my sleeping bag).  Even then I hate it.  I only wear socks with my shoes.  Period.

Bonus: What is your greatest strength? Weakness?
Great.  Now the questions get hard. 
Strength- I can suck it up and deal with just about anything/everything thrown at me.  I have done things, lived through things, experienced things most people would never guess I was capable of.  Amazing what you can step up for.
Weakness- I suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck at stress/being under pressure.  I crack, anxiety goes into over drive, it’s so. not. good.  Which I guess is ironic considering what I listed as my strength.  Doh.

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TFT is up!

~*~**~Theme Alert~*~**~
For the next two weeks I will be collecting pictures for a special HOLIDAY/CHRISTMAS themed TFT. Use your imagination, get creative and festive! Then click and send. Many of our contributors rocked last year when I did this, so c’mon!

Of course, feel free to send me other boob/moob pics (holiday/Christmas themed or not!) in the meantime for the preceding weeks. We continue to have some great men and women each week. Some repeat contributors, others brand spankin’ new….every one of them super awesome. Don’t forget to tell me how you would like to be credited and/or linked. You can even remain anonymous if you would like.

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~ xo

Vixen

1. What are your feelings about traditional bachelor/bachelorette parties?
I think there is nothing wrong with them.  They’re a way to go out with friends and have some fun before ‘tying the knot’.  But the ridiculousness of ‘the last hoo-rah’ and having sexual encounters/sewing your oats before vowing the spend the rest of your life with the person you supposedly love is well….ridiculous.

2. Do you wear (or not wear) something special to bed/dress differently when you want to have sex?
I try.  I know PC likes it when I change out of my comfy VS flannel pj bottoms into a nightgown/slip/chemise/nothing (lol) before coming to bed.  Not just to dress differently when I go to bed, but to just NOT get stuck in the rut of the ‘comfy VS flannel pj bottoms’.  It’s more difficult in the winter. I am perpetually cold.  A cold Vixen is an unhappy camper- for everyone involved (unfortunately).  But as I said….I DO try.  I *prefer* to sleep naked or in one of my flimsier slips.  Which is why I prefer summer.  ~wink~

3. Do you ever fake orgasms?
No.  We’ve discussed this before.  I’m at the point in my life that *why* would I?!  It makes no sense.  Part of being a woman in this day and age, in my sexual prime, is being confident in myself and my partner.  There is just no point in faking.  *shrug*

4. Do you own any leather or rubber clothing?
Umm….yes.  I think????  I own a dress that zips up the front and back that I wore for Halloween last year when I dressed as a Dominatrix.  Trying to figure out what it’s made of…..
Oh.  And I do have my leather chaps that I’ve done several HNT’s in.

5. On a scale from 1-10, how willing are you to do something in bed you don’t want to just because you are asked?
9.5  I think I’m pretty willing to try just about anything.  Depending on my mood and time of month that number may get closer or further from 10.

Bonus: Can men and women be “just friends?”
Sure they can.  Until they have sex.  *LOL*  At some point I truly think someone is going to become attracted to the other.  But that doesn’t change my opinion that men and women can be friends.  I’ve had close male friends.  PC’s had female friends.  All is well in Vixen-ville to date, so….

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TFT is up!

~*~**~Theme Alert~*~**~
For the next three weeks I will be collecting pictures for a special HOLIDAY/CHRISTMAS themed TFT. Use your imagination, get creative and festive! Then click and send. Many of our contributors rocked it on Halloween so I know they can do it for Christmas, especially bc I am giving more than a weeks notice this time. ;)

Of course, feel free to send me other boob/moob pics (holiday/Christmas themed or not!) in the meantime for the preceding weeks. We continue to have some great men and women each week. Some repeat contributors, others brand spankin’ new….every one of them super awesome. Don’t forget to tell me how you would like to be credited and/or linked. You can even remain anonymous if you would like.

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HappyTMI!!!

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~ xo

Vixen

Last year Rori over at Between My Sheets put together a list of Top 100 Sex Bloggers, as a way of recognizing sex bloggers who were courageous enough to put their lives, fantasies and/or opinions out there.  I was flattered to be included in it and felt it was a great way to introduce bloggers to one another, as well as maybe highlight/showcase blogs not neccessarily familiar to everyone.  It was such a success that she decided to to make it an annual event.  I had the pleasure of being able to help out this year with the judging.  There are some incredible bloggers that I think very highly of that made it on there.  I also am honored to have made the list again. I know Rori puts a lot of work into this, so a huge thank you goes out to her. 

And now, without further ado, the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009:

1. Coquitten (website)
2. Alexa (website)
3. AAG (website)
4. Bad, Bad Girl (website)
5. TBK (website)
6. Mistress Matisse (website)
7. Miss Mia (website)
8. Thursday’s Child (website)
9. Roger (website)
10. Sinclair (website)
11. Sylvanus…
12. and Mina (website)
13. Natt Nightly (website)
14. Jake (website)
15. Lyn (website)
16. Adriana Ravenlust (website)
17. Sexy Sadie (website)
18. Shay (website)
19. Lilly (website)
20. Nadia (website)
21. Joan Price (website)
22. Madison (website)
23. Anal Amy (website)
24. Z (website)
25. Essin Em (website)
26. Easily Aroused (website)
27. Blacksilk (website)
28. Sleeping Dreamer (website)
29. Melen…
30. and rayne…
31. and Master KKT…
32. and cinnamon (website)
33. That Toy Chick (website)
34. Red (website)
35. Tom Allen (website)
36. Vix (website)
37. Coy Pink (website)
38. Lady Pandorah (website)
39. BackseatBoohoo (website)
40. Epiphora (website)
41. Aurore (website)
42. Miss KissThis (website)
43. Storm (website)
44. Ron Jazz (website)
45. Josie Jacobs (website)
46. Distracted (website)
47. Deviant Dyke (website)
48. Joanna Cake (website)
49. Sapphire Jay (website)
50. Sarah (website)
51. Kimberly (website)
52. Duchess (website)
53. Figleaf (website)
54. The Caged Songbird (website)
55. Kaya (website)
56. Ms. Justine (website)
57. Luka (website)
58. Ang (website)
59. Perverted Negress (website)
60. Harlot (website)
61. Vixen (website)     <<<<———-ME ME ME!!!! *grins*
    
62. Anakan…
63. and Padme (website)
64. Wilhemina (website)
65. Axe (website)
66. Amber (website)
67. Lucy Vonne (website)
68. Rogue (website)
69. SSS (website)
70. Kyle (website)
71. Amorous Rocker (website)
72. Sera (website)
73. Lolita Wolf (website)
74. Elle (website)
75. Scarlet St Syr (website)
76. Charlotte Thorpe (website)
77. An Unassuming Girl (website)
78. Maymay (website)
79. True Pleasure (website)
80. Bad Influence Girl (website)
81. Diva (website)
82. Raven Quince (website)
83. Autumn (website)
84. Vanilla Impaired (website)
85. Wil (website)
86. Robin (website)
87. Panthera Pardus (website)
88. Ell (website)
89. Miss Communication…
90. and Captain Pants…
91. and A.E. (website)
92. Roxy (website)
93. Secretly Naughty (website)
94. Abby Williams (website)
95. Subheart (website)
96. Sequoia Redd (website)
97. Innocent Loveboy (website)
98. Liljgrrl…
99. and Nawa*G (website)
100. YOU! As always that last person on the list is you.

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In honor of Coquitten making #1 (I loves this girl *grins*), this weeks TMI is from her 100th post!~

1. I lost my virginity at 18, in the back of a car, on prom night. Where and when did you lose yours?
13.  To a girl.  MY basement of my mom’s house.  If we are getting ‘formal like’…..my exH’s basement in his parents house, on a water bed.  It was the summer before my sophomore year of high school. I was 15.  It wasn’t ‘magical’ by any means but I was ready and I knew I wanted to lose it to him, so…..

2. I think my ass is my best sexual feature. What is yours?
My waist/stomach.  Is that sexual?  It’s the one feature I’ve always been most proud of and happy with.

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3. A recurring theme in my fantasies is being slammed up against the wall. Do you have a recurring fantasy or a theme to your fantasies?
Sex in public places.  Like….the restroom of a club.  My all time FAVORITE movie scene that I imagine myself totally doing is from Derailed.  Where he pushes her up against the wall outside a small dive bar and she demands in his ear “Fuck me”. 

*swoon*

4. I love watching guys masturbate. Do you enjoy watching others (a partner or a stranger) masturbate?
Random ‘others’?  No…  My husband?  HELL FUCKING YES.  Hotter than hell.

5. I hate when guys are quiet in bed. I like to hear you moaning as you cum. Do you like you partners quiet?
I want my partner to be LOUD and vocal and I want to KNOW they are enjoying themselves.

Are you quiet?
Um…noooooooo.  Quite the opposite.  ~wink~

6. I love playing with nipples. Do you having your nipples played with?
They are probably one of my most heightened points of arousal.  I can be this. close. to an O and he touches (or my favorite- sucks) my nipples and OMFG.  Mmmm…..yes.

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7. My ‘number’ is between 15 and 25. What is your ‘number’?
With a male- 3.  With a female- less than 20 (I think….)

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Vixen

1) What are three mistakes someone could make on the first date with you that would automatically make you turn down a second date with them?

1. Being rude to me or anyone else we encounter on our date,  most especially wait staff.
2. I I I I I I….if you’re going to toot your own horn the entire time we’re together, I’m good.  We’re done.
3. Not being outgoing/talkative enough.  I am *not* a very talkative person, nor am I very outgoing.  And if both of us are that way…we are going nowhere fast.  Except maybe to uncomfortable-ville.

2) Pick an animal that best displays your personality. :)
I have to go with our Mini Aussie, Daisy.  Anyone see The Golden Compass?  PC is positive Daisy is my demon…..she is positively beyond neurotic and anxiety ridden.  *LOL*

3) If your S/O stopped having sex with you, how long would you stay?
Well….as  long as I was still getting everything else I needed emotionally, physically, psychologically, etc I’d stay forever.  The agreement is I can have sex with whomever I want and keep him as my bitch.  ~grins~

4) Are you more passive or aggressive when the relationship becomes physical?
I *can* be aggressive.  I think I’m fun when I’m that way.  But more often than not I’m the passive one.  Am I still considered passive when I tell him what to do????  I’m the passive aggressive Domme.  Seriously. Ask him.

5) Have you ever been INSIDE a store that sold adult themed toys and videos?
Yep.  Many a time.  Both crappy ones and really great ones.

Bonus (as in optional): What percentage of women do you think are capable of handling being in a “friends with benefits” relationship?
Less than 30%. I just think most women are incapable of having ‘emotion-free’ sex w/o developing attachments, wanting more.  Don’t get me wrong- their are women out there, I just think it’s a low percentage

How about men?
More.  I think most men are more capable but IDK how much more.

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A special Halloween themed edition of TFT is up!  Go check it out.  The site is always looking for contributors.  If you’ve thought about wanting to do it- there is no time like the present!  If you have before but it’s been awhile- we miss you!  All you have to do to help support our troops is EMAIL ME!  Help boost some morale! It’s for a good cause! 

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Vixen

1. Which ONE do you wish you had more of in bed… romance, experimentation or foreplay?
Well, I guess this shouldn’t be too surprising, but….  None.  I have it all.  Lord knows we have enough experimentation (although I bet that is what PC votes for in his answers, lol).  Foreplay is great.  Romance is totally there.  We’ve been together 3 years and married one, I’d be worried if the romance was gone. Ha!  ~wink~

2. What is your worst habit?
You mean besides my severe OCD/anxiety/obsession issues?  I bite/chew on my lip.  When I’m bored, anxious, worried, nervous, upset….you get the idea.

3. Do you take compliments well?
Um.  Probably not really.  Better than I used to though, I think.

4. Do you think more about the past, present or future?
Present.  I try not to focus on the past.  There is no purpose, what has happened has happened and nothing can be changed.  I’d rather not be bitter or full of regret.  It gets you nowhere.  And the future?  Come what may.  I have enough anxiety issues, if I obsessed about the future I’d be a complete mess.

5. Do you feel everyone has a soulmate?
Hmm….such a difficult question.  I think everyone can have a soulmate.  The person we just *CLICK* with.  But I don’t think everyone has been born with ‘that one’ that they are just waiting to meet.

Bonus (as in optional): “Where Would You Wish To Wake Up?”
Naked. Entangled in sheets and PC in a hotel room in Jamaica at a Hedonism resort. 
[happy sigh]

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TFT is up!  Go check it out.  The site is always looking for contributors.  If you’ve thought about wanting to do it- there is no time like the present!  If you have before but it’s been awhile- we miss you!  All you have to do to help support our troops is EMAIL ME!  Help boost some morale!

Halloween is almost upon us.  Last year we had an *AWESOME* turn out. I’d love to do a Halloween themed week again.  You can check out last years HERE.  Pull out your costumes, snap a pic!  It’s for a good cause!  Be creative, be fun.  It’s for a good cause! 

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HappyTMI!!!

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

Like every anniversary show…. this TMI edition has clips of popular or thought provoking questions from the past.  I looked it up and I’ve been playing TMI since April ’06.  Holy cow!

1. On a scale of 1-10 (10 being the highest), how satisfied are you with your life?
9-  I’m pretty damn happy.  There are some things about my house I would like to be different (like that my roof didn’t leak or that my windows didn’t let in so much damn DUST), but over all, life is good.  ~grins~

1a. On a scale of 1-10 (10 being the highest), how satisfied are you with your sex life?
9.5-  I’m suffering from withdrawal this week…but that’s not PC’s fault (…sigh…)

2. What is the easiest way for you to reach orgasm?
My Blue Fish with help from PC. 

3. What are 3 inevitable things about you?

1. I will obsess.
2. My finger nails and toe nails will always be painted.
3. I’m going to flirt.

4. What is your favorite sexual position? (yes you have to narrow it to one)
Missionary. Seemingly boring I know.  Sure I love other fun ones but when it comes down to it, the feel of him on top, his mouth near my neck, mouth, ear… the smell of his body against mine…..  Did I mention I’m suffering from withdrawal?!  *ahem*

4a. What is you least favorite sexual position?
Doggy-style.  Many people love it. I hate it. I derive no pleasure from it.  It doesn’t do anything pleasurable for me, but instead slams against my cervix very uncomfortably bc I can’t control depth.  And, hello, I’m not a dog. I don’t want to have sex like one. 

Now let me clarify though.  Sex from behind, in a standing position….VERY. DIFFERENT.  (yum!)

5. Favorite body part/parts of the opposite (or same) sex?
On him… mouth/lips, chest, shoulders/arms.
On a female… lower back, neck, breasts and lower abs where they meet the hips.

6. Would you rather have you significant other (this can be a hypothetical SO) have sex with someone else or fall in love with someone else? [You have to pick one.]
I did a CQW (or two…) on this topic.  I would rather him have sex with someone else.  Sex is sex.  Or can be ‘just sex’.  Falling in love with someone else?  That involves emotion and feelings.  That would be very upsetting to me.  For him to form an emotional bond with someone else would hurt much more deeply then him having sex with someone else.  Although, I can’t lie.  I KNOW him…. and this isn’t really possible for him.  With him I’d be damned either way bc it would be the same thing for him.

7. When you have a “toe-curling” orgasm, do your does curl up, or down?
Hmm…. *thinking* Down.

8. Name three words that:
a) get you excited
I want you.
b) make you squirm
I want you.
c) make you laugh
His witty quips.

Bonus (as in optional): What is you most embarrassing sexual moment?
Ever heard the term ‘queef’?  Yeah.  Ok.  Or that time I’ve mentioned several times involving us being in a car, in an ‘empty’ parking lot, so rudely interupted by the um…police.  *groan*

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TFT is up!  Go check it out.  The site is always looking for contributors.  If you’ve thought about wanting to do it- there is no time like the present!  If you have before but it’s been awhile- we miss you!  All you have to do to help support our troops is EMAIL ME!  Help boost some morale!

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HappyTMI!!!

(vi.sualize.us)

~ xo

Vixen

1. Have you used put anything edible on (or in) your partner’s body and then eaten it?
Whipped cream.  Chocolate sauce.  Caramel.  In then eaten?  Nope.  Surprised?  ~wink~

***OMG I just remembered something!  Yes, yes I have.  POPSICLES!  And my most favoritest of all time- TOOTSIE ROLL POPS!!!!  (hehe)
*ahem* Carry on…..

2. Have you ever had an AIDS test due to reasonable suspicion or hyperactive imagination?
Nope.  Not saying I haven’t *had* an AIDS test (every time I was pregnant) but that’s been it. 

3. Have you ever fantasized about someone else other than your partner while you were engaged in sex, oral sex, or mutual masturbation?
We’ve discussed this.  No.  I can’t.  If I try to think of anything of anything other than having an O, there is no O to be had by me (lol).  I’d much rather think about what is going on and who I’m with.

4. Have you ever engaged in sex, oral sex, or mutual masturbation while in a moving car?
OH yes.  Many. many times.

A car being driven by someone not engaged in the sex, oral sex, or mutual masturbation?
No….but there was the time on a road trip with friends that we were engaged in (and driving) and the other car passengers were sleeping (or maybe “sleeping” LOL!).  Does that count?

5. Have you ever had sex so many times or for so long that one or both people involved runs dry?
I’m sure.

Bonus (as in optional): Name 5 things an unplanned (or planned) visitor would find in your bedroom?

1. A drawer full of sex toys/lubes.
2. Several boxes of sex toys waiting for reviews (doh)
3. A cat under the bed
4. SHOES. everywhere (under the bed, on shelves, covering the entire closet floor, under my dresser…you get the idea, ha!)
5. PC’s side of the bed has numerous computer ‘stuff’ (cords, flashdrives, etc)
6. A super sexy, awesome Betsey Johnson red dress waiting to be altered.

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October is Breast Cancer Awareness month.  And it’s right around the corner!  If you notice in my sidebar there is a cool new button. The first week of October kicks off the 8th ANNUAL Boobie-Thon.  They are currently taking submissions for photos, as well as accepting volunteers.  You should definitely go check it out!  See what you can do to help out.  Educate yourself.  Help out.  It’s a really cool idea, I support it every year and I encourage you to do the same!

Anyway…..TFT is up!  Go check it out.  The site is always looking for contributors.  If you’ve thought about wanting to do it- there is no time like the present!  If you have before but it’s been awhile- we miss you!  All you have to do to help support our troops is EMAIL ME!  Help boost some morale!

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HappyTMI!!!

(Blue-Eyed Vixen)

~ xo

Vixen