Rabbit Write has declared Feb 22nd Lady Porn Day and has asked other bloggers to write their thoughts on porn for women. She wants to get women across the globe talking and thinking about porn and masturbation in a healthy way.
Porn nor masturbation are very taboo to me, my blog, my friends… But I suppose that is because I’m pretty open about those topics in my everything life. What many might consider taboo, I talk openly about. With….whomever.
In the early years, I wasn’t a fan of porn. Until I was turned on (haha….no pun intended) to a specific video by a close guy friend. He worked in a video store. Remember ‘back in the day’ when video stores had that ‘special back room’, usually behind a black curtain, sometimes even behind a door. It was the ‘X Rated room’. He would bring over videos (yes, before DVD’s…I’m totally dating myself here repeatedly, haha) for all of us to watch. One video in particular made me realize I did actually enjoy watching it…when it was REAL. The extremely scripted, ‘do me baby, harder harder’ scenes with the awful, super cheesy music were boring. And lame and lost my interest. Instead of deriving any pleasure or enjoyment from them, we would crack jokes and roll our eyes.
But this video, it was the self-taping of a real life man. Who propositioned REAL women to experiment with him or other women on tape. It was awesome. It hit on my voyeuristic side. Made me realize even more so how much being a voyeur turned me on. And then I discovered Girls Gone Wild! HOT! Yes, yes I know….it ended up getting a pretty shitty rap over time and some things that may or may not have happened behind scenes resulted in a somewhat bad image. And admittedly it got a bit….dumb. But in the beginning it was a brilliant idea really! To take a bus with a small camera crew and travel to Mardi Gras, Spring Break locations, etc and hit up real girls who allow themselves to be video taped while experimenting with themselves or other girls!?! BRILLIANT! Yes. I became an instant fan. (Me liking girl/girl porn…shocking, I know. *wink*) There is actually one in particular, featuring a specific girl. I loved to watch her most specifically. (I occasionally still have fantasies/dreams about her.)
I owned an insanely large collection (we’re talking boxes and boxes of GGW dvd’s). When my exH and I split, it was the one and only thing we divied up (doh!).
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Embarrassing moment #99:
One time (no, not at band camp) quite a few years back my exH and I had our sitter coming over to watch the kids (who were very young at the time). This sitter was our only sitter. Most parents will vouch that good sitters are few and far between and difficult to come by. Our sitter was also the young teenage daughter of LP’s preschool teacher. I was having an outpatient procedure and she was going to come very early in the morning. Because of this, I had picked up the house the night before, paying special attention to remove any ‘incriminating evidence’ (ie…adult DVD’s) from the TV stand/DVD player, etc.
Sitter comes. We leave. Come home later that morning. Pay sitter. She goes along her merry way. The oldest kiddo (LP) informs me that they tried to watch TV but the sitter couldn’t figure out how to switch the TV setting from the DVD player. Oh. Hmm. I turn on the TV, which immediately begins playing what is in the DVD player.
And…guess what it is???? A FUCKING GGW DVD!!!! Full girl on girl, getting it on all hot and heavy. It never occurred to me that my exH was going to participate in some ‘adult activities’ late that night after I went to bed and that I should re-check DVD player.
DOH!!!
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Bwahahaha….
At this point in my life, I’ve deviated from movies. PC isn’t such a huge fan of them. I think the couple times we watched one together we spent the entire time making fun of the girl’s technique. (and honestly, it was bad, she was smacking -hard- the other girls clit….um, WTF?!?!?! In what universe does that feel good????)
I guess I get my porn fix these days through the somewhat new blogging platform that Tumblr and vi.sualize.us offers. LOVE them both….I guess probably because I’m such a huge fan of erotic photography. That said. My final thought is the latest HOT short clip I came across recently.
(Omgomgomg….Hot!!!)
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Celebrating pornography and masturbation…
Rabbit Write will be writing about lady porn the entire week of the 21st-26th, be sure to check her out!
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Vixen
