My Studmuffin of a boyfriend moved here 3months ago.  And while it’s been fucking fabulous having him less than 20min away (as opposed to across the US!)…we have both missed our weekend get aways like when he used to fly in monthly to visit.

So we are off for 3 days in the mountains….to one of the most fun and exciting mountain resorts.  The night life is exceptional.  They are known for their excellent cuisine.  I’m hoping we are able to tear ourselves away from our suite to actually enjoy some of the previously mentioned amenities.   *ahem*

And um…maybe we’ll remember to pull the camera out…
*wicked grins*

My weekend…

~ xo

Vixen

~ xo

Vixen

One of the random conversations PC and I had while watching an episode of Buffy…

PC:
You like Amy. (the girl on the show, above)

Vixen:
(laughing) Yeah, she’s hot.

PC: 
You like her because she’s naked.  And a girl.

You like them skinny.

You like them heavy.

You like them naked.

Do I have you pegged or what?

*smirk*  Yeah, he does….

Btw, here’s a better picture of her.

~ xo

Vixen

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We are in control of every day of our lives…..even if it is just
our attitude towards things. There is not a circumstance that denies
that. Control comes not only from the things we can do, but from the
attitude we have to what is going on around us.

So the other day….  I woke up happy.  Like.  HAPPY. 

I’m a fairly upbeat person.  With a ‘cup half full’ attitude.  I try to find the bright side in things.  I hate to dwell on the negative.  When PC asks if I’m happy- which he does often (with us, life, overall), I’m being truthful when I tell him- yes.  But I fall into funks… more easily than I would like.  I become overwhelmed by stresses, ‘things’, LIFE… more often than I care to admit.

The other morning I was driving in my car and I felt myself smiling.  My heart was light.  No worries were heavily weighing me down.  Not a single anxiety trying to creep it’s way in.  My cup felt…full.

I was happy.

I would have loved to have bottled that up, that feeling, in that moment.  Maybe take the lid off and breathe it in once in awhile when I’m faltering.

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Wouldn’t that be wonderful?

~ xo

Vixen

So a Slash fan I am NOT…but I do have a thing for Fergie. And goddamn if the chick isn’t hotter than hell in this video. Fucked up, yes (can you say s-t-a-l-k-e-r?!  …haha) but HOT!!!
*wink*

(next time I go to Vegas I so totally want her outfit *wicked grins*)

Just sayin’….

~ xo

Vixen

Some randomness for this Saturday morning…

1. Did you have sex today?
Actually, no.  But I’d like to!

2. Did you have an orgasm in the last 24 hours?
Yep.

3. Can you get off from a sexy text message?
Depends on who it’s from, but yes, I can get myself off from one.

4. I have a friend that can get horny watching the food network, what channel or show gets you off?
Hands down, The L Word.  I mean seriously people…

5. Blow job while in a moving vehicle with the blow-ee driving.
Oh yeah many times.

6. Longest you have gone without sex?
4 weeks?  After my kiddos were born.

7. Longest you have gone without toys of any kind?
Probably before I got my first one in my early twenties.  It’s been a long term love affair ever since.  *wink*

8. Most uncomfortable place you have had sex?
I’ve put a lot of thought into this and finally it occurred to me.  It wasn’t so much the place but the circumstance.  I had an awful sunburn on my back from a day at the beach and he was fucking me, while holding me up against the wall of a bathroom stall.  HOT scenario but can still remember vividly how it hurt like an SOB.

9. Are you loud in the bedroom?
Um….yes.

10. Do you like to be in control or have none?
I derive an incredible amount of pleasure from both.  Depends on my partner and my mood (key component!).

11. How do you feel about choking?
Huge huge huge turn on.  With the right partner….  *wicked grins*

12. Have you ever vajazzled?
Um hell no.  And I have no intentions of doing so.

13. Can you yoodle? (remember she said she was drunk)
I’m guessing Yodle?  And no.  I can’t.  Not really sure I’ve even ever tried though either.

14. What is the sexiest thing you own in your opinion?
Wow…how to choose????  Possibly the slipdress I’ve been featuring in my most recent HNT’s….  BUT I’m going to go with what Roxy calls my stripper boots.  The over the knee black heeled boots I wore in Vegas and in a few of my HNT pics (most recently the ones *with* the slipdress)

15. Favorite kind of alcohol that makes you horny?
There’s a specific kind?!?!  Pffbbttt……  (lush—->me)

16. Have you ever had sex on a full bladder?
Yes. It actually intensifies things in a good way…usually.

17. Biggest turn on in a man and biggest turn on in a woman?
Hmm….. *thinking*
I guess in a man- clean shaven, smooth everywhere (scruff is a different story….a long as it’s maintained).  I’m really not a fan of body hair. It’s a huge turn off.  I’m all about manscaping.
In a woman….it’s the small of her back and collarbone.  Drive me insane.  Wait.  One more thing, outgoing/outspoken/direct/ BOLDNESS= OH HOLY HOTNESS!

18. Do you like oral sex?
Yes.  *LOVE* to give it.  And pretty huge fan of receiving it, with a partner I’m comfortable with.  It feels like a very intimate act and if I don’t know the other person extremely well, I’m highly uncomfortable.

19. Do you think you could watch your partner/signif other be with someone else?
I could…  Under the right circumstances.  As BFD put it though, I don’t really want to sit in a chair and like *watch*.

20. Daisy was drunk, so she shared a picture… and dared us to share one as well… 

21. Have you ever tried ben-wa balls?
No….

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~ xo

Vixen

Friday Favorites-

Couple new ones that we haven’t seen much of!  Bella’s making a come back and damn….so glad she did! *wink*  If you haven’t already, click the links and show the girls some love!
Bella…..

Happy Swinger Chick….

Barefoot Dreamer…..

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This week began with me traveling most of Monday- after an awful bout of insomnia the night before (who drinks all day Sunday and then can’t sleep?!  Gah…). My incredibly sweet girlfriend husband greeted me at the airport (*sigh*  seriously. in. love….) and we headed home.  A home which, much to our chagrin, was with out water. 

Oh.  Fuck me. 

While melting snow on the stove the next morning so the kiddos could wash their faces and hands….  LM excitedly says- “It’s just like camping!”

Um, yeah….   Wheeee!  *groan*
Camping and I?  Not that close of friends (anymore).  There is a reason.  Let me explain.  This one time, at band camp.  *snort* …kidding…  Ok seriously, I am an experienced camper.  I know how to pitch a tent. Start a fire.  Cook whatever food is necessary.  I can even make a damn good cup of coffee on a propane cook stove OR campfire.  Once upon a time I could rock the camping scene.  And loved it.

In addition- My exH and I moved into our first home immediately out of high school.  We worked at a popular ski resort and lived in one of the coldest towns in the state.  In a house with out heat….except for the tiny wood stove that struggled at best to keep anything further than a 5′ radius warm.  We learned to deal with/try to prevent frozen pipes.  And literally froze our asses off for several winters…  Who knew thermals could be considered lingerie!

After a spell in Key West to thaw out, we bought our first house when we were barely twenty.  In the mountains.  In the middle of nowhere.  It was a far cry from our ‘dream home’ but it was on 5 acres and OURS.  It also lacked indoor plumbing and running water.  And our only source of heat was a wood burning stove.  It was ‘glorified camping’.  But we were young and adventurous and on our own and loving it.  It didn’t seem that bad.

At first. 
We lived that way for 6months before we finally had saved up enough money to have a well installed to provide water (for city folk who have no idea what I‘m talking about- many people who live outside of town in the mountains/country don’t have access to city provided water so each household has to have their own inground well dug/installed).  We lived in that house for 3 years before we were able to build our custom ‘dream home’ and move closer to town (closer as in ‘only’ 45min away from the teeny tiny town we lived near, as opposed to 1.5hours).

I have earned my dues.  I am well experienced with chopping and gathering wood, building fires and keeping them going so that your pipes don’t freeze and you don’t freeze your own ass off, getting the most ‘bang for your buck’ when it comes to water usage and water conservation.  Running water in the house (finally) did not mean running water outside.  So I am also well learned on the carrying of buckets upon buckets of water to outdoor livestock.

I know I am a better, stronger, more rounded and diversified person because of these life experiences.  I might be a total girly girl but a rugged, rough and tumble one at that.  I know how to pull my big girl panties on and suck it up when need be.  But so forgive me if the idea of camping makes me cringe.  Do I regret those early prehistoric, glorified camping days?  No way.  Would I want to relive those days?  NO FREAKIN WAY.

Thankfully the problem was pin pointed and a new pump for our well was installed Wednesday morning.  Three days with out water was livable.  I mean, I have skills baby!  But I was overjoyed to enjoy again the simple luxuries such as flushing, showers, laundry, etc that running water provides. (doh)

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Enjoy your weekend. I owe everyone some more pics from my Roxyville trip last weekend, promise they are coming!

~ xo

Vixen

One of my ‘rules’ for dating is that the person I’m going to meet for the first time MUST be ‘google-able’.  If I can’t find you anywhere on the net, oh hell no am I going to meet with you.  I’m impressed by the person who corresponds with me using their *real name*, with a *real* email address.  Immediate brownie points are given for such trust and up front honesty.  I understand the need for being incognito, maintaining some anonymity, in the very beginning, but past that point, I need, no, I require a significant amount of ‘honesty’.

I was explaining this rule to Abercrombie (Roxy and I brainstormed and have decided this is what to call the new guy) a bit ago and it hit me….  I’m a total hypocrite (shut up, lol).  No really.  I am.  I respond to emails/ads, etc incognito/anonymously. I want to be *sure* of someone, comfortable with them…before I divulge my real name.  My real email address.  But as a female, I feel that is me being safe.  Taking precautions.  You know? 

The funny/ironic thing about this is my REAL name comes up with very little when you google it.  If I gave my *real* name to someone and they googled me, it would lead to a bunch of nothing.  Now.  If I give them my screen name….VIXEN.  Well now, up pops all sorts of fabulous things about me.  *LOL*  Hmm…maybe I need to start giving them my real name right off the bat and keep my screen name under hat until I get to know them better! *wink*

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Weekend ramblings….

We have had the most fabulous weather.  It’s definitely an Indian Summer and I am loving every moment of it.  *happy sigh*

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Friday night we enjoyed dinner on the outdoor patio at PF Chang’s after my renewed love of the place.  Teach PC to take me to one of his favorite places on New Years Day…after having thoroughly enjoying New Years Eve um, celebrations.  *groan*  Three years later I gave it another go and hey!  YUM!  Their Schezuan Asparagus is oh lord….drool worthy….

Saturday I went out with Matt Damon.  Well.  His look-alike.  I wore my new favorite flirty dress that PC bought for me.  We had a fabulous time but I got the distinct feeling that I intimidated the hell out of him.  Oh well….

PC aka PB- panty boy (haha) was on his best behavior.  Well.  Except for one instance, which required me to punish him for his acting out.  Tsk, tsk….  But after I took care of that little issue…  *evil grins*  He was otherwise perfect… driving me where I wanted him to, wearing what I required of him, taking care of the kiddos so I could have my fun.  When he behaves as he should, it’s my most favorite.  *GRINS*

Anywho.  Happy Monday!

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~ xo

Vixen

Well.  We partied like Rockstars.

And we all had hang overs the next day that would rival a Rockstars as well… *groan*
(I’m sure not making it to bed until after 5:30 a.m. and only able to catch 3 hours sleep didn’t help much)

Full picture recap to come later Monday.  Hope everyone had a perfectly fabulous weekend!

~ xo

Vixen