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(Byny’s Blowjob Thread)

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Shay at The S Spot covered an interesting subject in a post “Blow, Blew, Blowing” that I wanted to bring up here.

She had a friend who felt it isn’t really a “BJ” if he doesn’t cum at the end…. “because it’s just not the same act anymore”.  She questioned if you could still call it ’sex’  if there’s penetration but nobody orgasms?  Her friend wasn’t sure.

So what do you think?  Is a BJ still a BJ if it’s incomplete?  Does it need a new term?
Is a hand job still a handjob if no one cums- or is it just feeling someone up?  Is masturbation still masturbation, or is it just playing with yourself?  Is sex still sex if no one cums????

In my opinion?  ABSOLUTELY.  I believe the names of those acts are exactly that….of the ACT.  I don’t think there is anything in a BJ or a handjob or fingering/banging or sex that implies the person has to cum in order for it to be called those things.  Sure, the pleasure (often) in giving or receiving one of these IS the O/cumming.  But, truth be told, that’s not always the case.  AND can be actually known as HEY, foreplay.  (~wink~)

A point in case might be to also say- if the sex isn’t enjoyable, is it still sex???  I’m pretty sure those many women out there who have gone through life with out ever experiencing an O will still say they have had sex.  I think the actual ‘act’ of having the big O and cumming IS it’s own identity.

Imagine this- “Did you cum?” can be asked at the end of a BJ/sex/handjob. 
Now how about this- “Did you BJ?”,  “Did you have sex” (how weird does *THAT* sound?! LOL)

So?  What do you think?

HappyHUMPday!!!!

Chimère Erotique
Bend Me Over

~xo

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Call me old- fashioned, but I believe in taking things slow. That’s why I never talk on the first date. Or on the second or third date, if I
can help it.
~David Alberts

There was a poll taken recently (IDK where, I heard this on my radio station), asking if it’s ok to discuss politics on the first date?

What about religion?

If not, after how many dates do you think it IS ok?

Ok.  So first off.  Two topics I abhor discussing above all others are politics and religion.  They are both topics that people can be or become very passionate about.  As well as quite opinionated.  I don’t love to debate matters.  I would suck in that type forum and generally try to avoid it like the plague…unless it is something I am VERY passionate, opinionated AND knowledgable on.  But there just aren’t very many things I feel that strongly about (ok, PC may disagree on this, lol….he likes to point out how I am one of the most opinionated women he’s ever met…~smirk~ …not sure if that is a good or bad thing….).

That said though.  I do think it’s probably ok to *discuss* either of these things.  The key word being “Discuss”.  Not debate, not try to convince the other person how they are wrong, or how you think your opinion is better but to discuss.  I think two people can form a relationship even if they have entirely different political or religious views/beliefs.  But they would have to be able to respect that about each other.

PC and I are a perfect example.  Religion and his faith are a very important part of who he is.  Me not so much.  I am NOT a religious person.  It is just not who I am…for various reasons I don’t want to get into here.  I have my opinions about religion itself.  As well as ones (fairly strong ones at that) about ‘church’ (*ahemcultsahem* …ducking…)  And I respect that fully about him.  I would never ask him to be any differently.  And he in turn doesn’t ask me to be either. 

Again with the politics.  We are not of the same party (well, that’s not completely true, he’s committed to one party and I am, uh not.  To any.).  He has strong political opinions and once upon a time was heavily active with politics. 

The important aspect is that while we’ll have conversations about these topics he never tries to force it down my throat.  He can be quite passionate about each.  As can I.  But at the end of the day we respect each others opinions whether they differ or are the same.  This is something we discussed and came into agreement on in the beginning of our friendship even.

I guess why I decided it would be an ok topic to discuss on a first date is bc I think how people are able to discuss sensitive topics/subjects says a lot about a person and would be a good indicator to how good of a fit they may be for you, or as relationship material.  Isn’t it better to have discovered this on the first date then later after you have invested time and energy into what you though might be a promising relationship???  IMHO.  Does that makes sense?

So.  What do you think?  What is your opinion?

***BTW….the poll said that the ‘magic’ number for bringing up religion and politics was the third date.

beautifulanddepraved: Mirela Bratu
Chagrin

~xo

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This weeks TMI had some kick ass questions by Dana from Amid Life’s Crisis. One of the questions that got some incredibly varied answers but all very thought provoking was the one regarding cheating:

What is worse - physical, mental or cyber cheating?

Professor Fate left a comment that really piqued my curiosity, that I wanted to explore further.  He wrote:

“I read once that men would prefer that a women fall in love with someone rather than physically cheat and women would rather have their partner physically cheat than fall in love.”

I’m curious how true this is.  I’m hoping to get perspectives from both guys and girls.

I know for me. I believe this to be *wholeheartedly* true as a female.  I mean.  I would rather not have my partner cheat at all. Duh.  That aside though.  To find out they had cheated on me would be devastating, very upsetting and cause a lot of anger (gah…especially after what I went through with AH).  But to find out he had fallen in love with someone else would send me into a panic and truly break my heart.

Also, from my experience with AH.  For a long while he was pretty ok with the ‘me liking/wanting to be with girls’ situation. It was when I developed feelings/emotional bonds with someone else (a female) that he freaked.  So based off of this, I wonder if his reaction goes against that statement too.

Here are a couple things I came across in regards to men (but I think some of it can be applied to women too):

~Cheating generally means that you are not fully satisfied with your
current partner or you feel that something is missing in the
relationship. If you were completely in love and happy within your
relationship, then why would you jeopardize all that you have for a
five-minute fling with the girl next door?

~A lot of men who are in serious relationships usually end up cheating
after a couple of years. The reason is simple; men stuck in long-term
relationships feel they are missing out on something.

~When people are in a relationship for a long time, they can’t help but
start taking their significant other for granted. Sometimes they forget
just how great the person they have really is.

But so, I’m interested in perspectives here.  Not so much your feelings on cheating in general.  But on what Professor Fate said, about rather having your partner cheat physically vs emotionally and vice versa.

HappyHUMPday!!!

Erotic Garden: I want… 
Bendmeover.….

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I totally forgot to mention/remind- Today is the first day of October and the annual Boobiethon!  It’s a great cause, don’t forget to check it out and find out more about it.

~xo

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I had someone email me with a personal dilemma they are having and asked if I could use it for CQW so that they may get some advice as to what they should do.  I asked their permission to reprint their email directly……

“I have a friend whom I love dearly, and they constantly tell me I’m their best friend. However, while their words say one thing, their actions quite often say another. But, when called on it in even the smallest way, they get “hurt” and I end up feeling guilty. This friend asks for favors, and I always happily oblige, but there is not much in return. And yet this friend will tell me about things they do for other people.

I guess the question is, do you confront a person like this? Do you just walk away knowing that your heart will be broken and the friend will claim much pain and make you feel terrible? And how do you find the strength to do that?“

So.  IMHO.  I think you do approach the friend.  I think anytime you have a friend/person in your life/relationship where you feel you aren’t being treated how you wish you or something is really bothering you to such a degree as this is….you should approach them.  In a manner that feels as least threatening as possible to your friend and for you.  Whether that be you spill out your feelings in an email,  a letter, or a heart to heart.  I think it should be done however you feel the most comfortable sharing what you feel in your heart, what needs to be said.

If you feel you have done this.  I think you have to weigh your feelings, how they make you feel, how you will feel with out them.  *Maybe* you stepping back and feeling DONE will make this friend realize they can’t treat you the way they are.  BUT if they don’t understand or see how their behavior is making you feel…. then this won’t matter.

How your find the strength is probably most difficult.  It depends on how ‘fed up’ you are with the situation.  I had a very close friend from childhood that I finally had to walk away from last year.  I felt as if the friendship was very one sided.  It was always me making the efforts to see her, do things with her, I/we would try to invite her, as well as her husband to do things with us and she/they would constantly cancel or turn us down.  It got old, I felt as if I wasn’t as important to her as she was to me and I was the only one making the effort.  It got old and I became hurt and frustrated.  So I stepped back to give ‘us’ a break. 

She did call me five months after I ‘quit’, wondering what had happened.  Which slightly upset me, that apparently she wasn’t even aware there was a problem.  Which in hindsight, was my fault in not making her aware of the situation, of how I was feeling.  But I was done.  I really had thought I would approach her at some point, when I was less angry and hurt and explain to her what had led me to feel the way I had and make me want to take a break from our friendship.  A year has gone by though and I haven’t.  I think I came to the conclusion somewhere along the way that perhaps I was ok with leaving things alone.

Anyways.  Opinions?

HappyHUMPday!!!

tetris:
hxsxy:
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thetrembler

~xo

~Max O’Rell

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The power of flirting.

So.  I’m a fairly (*cough*) flirtatious person (please feign your shock here).  And I am an equal opportunity flirter. I like to make people feel good about themselves  and it’s a good way to get someone to smile or let their guard down a bit to break the ice or whatever.  I like to flirt. It’s who I am and what I do.  *shrug*

Recently I was browsing CL….which is something I rarely do but do find some of the ads entertaining.  Except one caught my eye. It easily could have been written by me.  A woman in her 30’s, happily married with children, bi leaning more towards the all girl side, looking for a ‘friend’ …..possibly more.  It piqued my curiousity enough to respond to her.  I was actually a little bit excited at the possibilites.   Until it fell flat very quickly after that.

She didn’t know how to flirt.  After the niceties of saying ‘hello’….if there isn’t any flirting, there is no place for it to go! 

I sent her a picture, per her request.  She responds:  I got the pic.  I’ll send mine shortly.
……..

Um.  Ok.  ?????  WTF?! 
Ok.  So it kind of crushed my ego a bit. I told PC what her reaction had been.  He asked to see what pic I sent her and nodded his head in agreement that it was a good choice (actually, more specifically he had gushed over it earlier in the week…. like I would send her an ugly one!  Who does that?!  …sends their worst picture  *snort*)

I was a bit perplexed.  But ok.  We had a few more exchanges. I tried different tactics to flirt.  Nothing.  So….that was the end of that.  Disappointingly so.

I had a similar experience happen several months back.  On AM.  Same thing.  The girl was intriguing enough at first. But couldn’t flirt and was very…boring, because of it.

If you can’t flirt with me there is no chance of us ever clicking.  And therefore….nothing.  Flirting is HUGE to me.

Isn’t flirting how people meet?  And engage each other?!  And I’m not just talking flirting with random others.  I flirt with my friends, lol!  PC and I flirt with each other all the time! I was reading a magazine where a girl had written in, saying her and her S/O had broken up, it had been a very long term relationship and she was asking for help bc she had ‘forgotten’ how to flirt and was looking for some tips.  Well, sheesh!  No wonder the relationship failed if you never flirted with him!  Doh.  Ok.  That was harsh.  But seriously, maybe that was partial cause?!?!

Am I on crack?  I understand that probably possibly I flirt way more than the average person.  I’m sure I most likely use more sexual innuendos and sexual references than the ‘average’ person too (ok, maybe not this particular blogging community, lol!).  Eh.  But that said, what happened to the art of flirting??? Do you flirt?  Do you think flirting is important???  How important?  Any experiences to share?!

C’mere.  Sit down and share with me people. ~wink~

Happy HUMP Day!!!

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~xo

~Fools Rush In

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So. There was this girl who was set up on a blind date by her friends. The guy she was going on the date with chose a fancy, nice place. They decided to meet each other there. It was evident that he planned to dump quite a bit of money on their first date. Upon meeting him at the table she *knew* that there was no way it would work. He wasn’t her type. There was no spark. She just felt it, that he was not the guy for her. At all. So she excused herself to bathroom but instead walked out the front door to valet, got her car and drove off. Her point was she knew it wasn’t a connection, why waste both or their time and why waste his money? Why know the entire date that she had no interest in him, there was no future for them and have him dump a bunch of money into her. *She* felt like she was doing them both a favor.

Was she wrong? Or did she do the right thing?

I mean. First off. There are so many other ways to have handled the situation. But. Putting myself in her shoes, I can see how she might have a hard time being up front and honest and just saying she wasn’t interested and was leaving. That’s not something I could do. I’m sorry, you can say I suck.

But I guess my main thought is that HOW did she know that quickly that there was NO way there wasn’t a connection. I mean. It makes me feel like she was a somewhat shallow person. With out having at least a meal with him, over drinks, where they could talk and get to know each other, how does she know and be so sure, sure enough to leave him at the table (which I find pretty rude)?!?!?!

I have had it go both ways. I have met someone that I was swooning over on the inside, but then once I got to know the person better….eh. There was nothing. Either there wasn’t a connection or we didn’t hit it off, or I discovered qualities in that person that made me go “eww….”. At the same time, I have met people that maybe didn’t cause immediate sparks to fly for me, but upon learning more about them, spending more time with them, fell head over heels for. Or realized they really were someone I clicked with and THAT caused me to form an attraction.

I think first impressions are important. But not so important that someone ditch their date upon meeting them in the first 5minutes. IMO. What is yours? I’m interested in your perspective.

HappyHUMPday!!!

Baby one more times « Les Adultes terribles

~xo

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I was listening to my radio show the other day and there was a girl on who told a story of something that had happened to her. She came home one day from work and found her boyfriend in bed with their neighbor, who was a close friend of theirs. And a man. Her boyfriend and her ended up not being able to move past it, they broke up and three years have passed.

She’s had various other relationships over the year but not found ‘that special person’ yet. The ex boyfriend and her have recently reconnected on a friendship level. She is obsessing over him. She remembers being THE happiest she ever was with HIM. Of all the relationships she’s had in her adult life, theirs was the one she keeps remembering and coming back to. She’s finding herself wondering if she should give him another chance. But of course has many doubts and concerns. Blah, blah, blah. Right.

But the question(s) her story brought about, posed by the DJ’s were these:

Do people who are bisexual have twice the temptation? Twice the possibility of cheating and therefore a GREATER possibility of cheating.
If you are in a relationship with someone who is bi, does it pose a bigger threat in/to the relationship???

Hmmm…. I think my situation is somewhat unique and/or different in that ok, this is me, Ms.Mainly-I’m-A-Lesbian. If anything he feels less threatened bc he knows I’m not going to run off with some other man (uh, bc it wouldn’t be a man, lolol). And that I’m not *looking* for someone to be in a serious relationship with. I have that. I would never fuck with what him and I have. But…he is also ok with the idea that if another girl makes me happy….then well….ok. ~grins~ (I’m not sure how I got so lucky…:::happy sigh:::…)

Actually. He is ok with whatever I purpose as long as he gets to remain the one I’m madly in love with. (I think it helps that I help remind him of his ‘bitch’ status and he feels needed too…*giggle*…)

But personally, if I were with someone who was bi (and I have been with girls who were)….no. I’ve never felt ‘more threatened’ bc they were. If you are constantly worried about who is or isn’t threatening your relationship, I think honestly you have greater problems to deal with.

I ran across a blog and found something they wrote that I loved:

“Another stereotype is that bisexuals are more likely to be
unfaithful. If a person is going to play away, it says more about that
person’s views on relationships and respect than their sexual
orientation.

(which, isn’t that I pointed out a second ago?! hehe…SEE?!)

But, without a shadow of a doubt, the biggest misconception people
maintain about bisexuals is that it is just a stage, a journey of
self-exploration. This is society’s way of trying to justify someone’s
behaviour that doesn’t slot nicely into one of the morally approved
category’s assigned to us at birth. Only you will know if it is a
stage, or if this is truly who you are. Only you know yourself, and
anyone who tries to tell you different is the only confused person
taking part in the conversation.

Be gay, be bi, be straight - don’t worry about labels, just be yourself.”

I am interested in people’s views on this topic and what you have to say, how you feel. So let’s hear it. :)

HappyHUMPDay my loverlies!!!

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~xo

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“Does sex education encourage sex? Many parents are afraid that talking about
sex with their teenagers will be taken as permission for the teen to
have sex. Nothing could be further from the truth. If anything, the
more children learn about sexuality from talking with their parents and
teachers and reading accurate books, the less they feel compelled to
find out for themselves.”
~BENJAMIN SPOCK

So I’m not going to beat a dead horse here (as an animal lover, I abhor that phrase, WTF?! lol). Quite a few of you brought up good points and gave your opinions on my Mute Monday topic, Sex Education. I just wanted to touch on few things, perhaps elaborate on others.

*U.S. researchers found Sex Education helped teenagers delay sex- Teenagers who have had formal sex education are far more likely to put off having sex, contradicting earlier studies on the effectiveness of such programs.

Statistics by the U.S. Center of Disease Control-
*Teenage boys who had sex education were 71% less likely to have intercourse before age 15.
*Teen girls were 59% less likely.
*Sex education also increased the likelihood that teen boys would use contraceptives the first time they had sex.

As I stated, of course we as parents should try to instill our values into our children (BOTH girls and boys). And absolutely both should be taught that the best form of birth control IS abstinence. It’s 100% effective. BUT the reality is that (abstinence) is not the choice that’s being made by many teens (…children, gasp!) right now. Planned Parenthood has made a similar statement. SO. I believe in conjunction with teaching them our values and the hard, cold facts of abstinence being *the best*…..that educating them is also very important.

SR and I were discussing this topic the other day and she brought up some absurd points. Like that there are teens/kids who think BJ’s are like holding hands these days. Or that anal sex isn’t actually sex. Or that they can’t get STD’s from BJ’s or anal sex. Seriously! These are things these young people are talking about and walking around thinking.

The last statement I want to make is someone brought up the fact that they don’t think it’s the school’s ‘right’ or ‘place’ to educate our kids. PC and I had an, um….’heated’ discussion about this as well. Absolutely it should start in the home. I do NOT think it’s the schools responsibility or job. The home and the parents should be the persons most involved in this.

I do, personally, think this is something the parents and the schools can work on together. After all, We trust them with our children’s education (at least I do. And if I didn’t I would be finding a different school or school system), which to me is a pretty BIG deal. Unless parents are doing their research to learn all the STD’s and the medical facts and exact reproductive language and percentages….. they don’t know this information as detailed as say a professional, or someone who has background in this.

“Parents aren’t sex education experts just because they are parents.”
~Pepper Schwartz (Ten Talks Parents Must Have With Their Children)

And as much as we’d like to think ALL parents are as perfect as ourselves (face it, any parents out there like to think they are), we aren’t all that way. A GOOD PORTION of parents WON’T be discussing ANY type of sex education much less human reproduction with their kids. This is where I think if the parents and the schools work together, you can have a really great system.

“Experts agree that parents, not school instructors are a child’s best role models of sexuality; they communicate with their children about sex and sexual values nonverbally. However, most adolescents report that they have never been given any advice about sex by either parent, even though a majority of teenagers prefer their parents and counselors as sources of sex information. While studies also indicate that both parents and their children believe that they should be talking about sexuality, parents are extremely uncomfortable doing so.”- Unmarried America

I’m all for schools teaching a parent approved syllabus in conjunction with what parents are teaching at home. For parents needing to give their permission for kids to attend these classes. But to me, the point is that kids are taught about their bodies and reproduction and sex and promoting to not have it. There are kids out there who become pregnant or wind up with STD’s for no other reason than they were misinformed or almost worse yet, NOT informed! …in walks the kid who thinks they can’t get an STD from oral sex. Or can’t get pregnant if the girls on top.

“Sex education is a broad term used to describe education about human sexual anatomy, sexual reproduction, sexual intercourse, reproductive health, emotional relations, reproductive rights and responsibilities, and other aspects of human sexual behavior. Common avenues for sex education are parents or caregivers, school programs, and public health campaigns”

But really, most importantly, all I’m advocating is sex education. I think it’s important. Where it comes from can be open to debate but that’s not what I’m debating. Which I felt like some people misinterpreted the other day. I’m not promoting we hand out condoms during Trick or Treating on Halloween! But that we EDUCATE our children.

That’s all.

HappyHUMPday!!!

~xo

To forewarn you all, pictures were not allowed in some areas and honestly, I forgot. Also some of my favorite pics contain people I’m not sure want their faces plastered on my site. We spent so much time during the day in the pool, we didn’t really think about the camera. So all pictures are night time related. Deal. ;)

The first day we realized most everyone was in the nude pool.

(there are 3 pools)
Nude- pic taken from the Hedonism III site

Quad- our room was above the quad pool, as was most of the people we made friends with.

*snort* anyone see the ‘floaty’ in the pool….

And prude- pic taken from Hedo site

Also this totally wicked slide, that was so fun it even made me put aside my claustrophobia issues to go down:

And hey, who wants to vacation alone?! So we headed over there and stripped naked. YES, PC included. I have to say the guy went along with everything I wanted to and surprised me on numerous occasions in what he was willing to go along with, never complaining once. He has come such a long ways in my training of him. ~wink~

That is the day I realized how beneficial it might have been to do a bit of ‘prepping’ my white hiney. Or at least not forgetting to apply sunscreen to it. You can imagine I don’t get much opportunity to sun those nether regions at the MILF pool I take the kiddos to. So. That is the day I burnt my ass red. Nice.

That is also the day PC engaged in public sex for the first time. In the pool. During the day. Hey, don’t get too carried away and let your minds wander. It was with ME! (hehe) The pool also had this cool little ‘grotto’ area…..mmmhmm…. Very cool. *grinning coyly*

This is the pool where the naughtiness goes on. They had all sorts of fun games to participate in. Such as truth or dare, sex trivia, etc. I had my boobs kissed during one guys dare. And watched with everyone else in the pool as 2 guys got BJ’s for other dares. Hehe…

On the second day, the quad (clothing optional) pool was more lively and we met a very cool (ok, and HOT) couple near our age, also on their honeymoon, who had kiddos as well and we hit it off famously. We had a ton in common and ended up spending the rest of the week with them.

Daytime for the rest of the week was spent at the quad pool where you could find full on nekkidness, to partially nekkid, to others (ahemPCahem) who chose to wear their suits. After burning my ass that first day, I opted to keep my bikini bottoms on…a burnt hiney is really not much fun. But I did go topless the rest of the week. Apparently I am much better as applying sunscreen to my boobs than I am my ass! I think I’ve taken notes on PC’s sunscreen application techniques. Doh! LOLOL (TEASING him of course!) ~wink~

After lunch they always had shows/games, etc…some kind of entertainment. Two of the days my new friend (the girl half of the couple) and I were roped into participating. Once for the ‘how to wear your toga’ demonstration and another for Hedonism’s version of a wet t-shirt contest. Which was really a ‘top’ made from a sheet, lol. Sadly, the camera battery died during the competition. But thanks to our friends who sent me some of the pics, I have some to offer you. Lucky ducky you guys. *snort*

I’ve not given that many lap dances or shoved my boobs in so many girls/guys faces….that I can ever remember at least, ok so not in one day. PC was a judge. He got a lot of action that day. …wink….wink….

Dining in the evenings you had the choice of one of the two ‘nicer’ restaurants requiring reservations or buffet style in the main terrace where breakfast and lunch were served as well. One restaurant was NMS. Although it was called Pastafari (mmm….pasta….), the only thing I was inclined to try was salmon. And while I don’t mind raw salmon in my sushi…..not my favorite as the main course. *barf*

The other place was a Japanese style restaurant, a lot like Benihana’s. It was yummy…. Although disappointingly, no Plum Wine. What is sushi and Japanese food with PLUM WINE!?

The buffet was hit or miss. I think there was only one day for lunch and one evening where I was kind of at a loss as to what I would be able to eat. My favorite E-V-E-R was the night they had the pasta bar. OMG….delicious!

Our little neighbor friend.

After dinner each night there was the evening entertainment. One night a fashion show of every night’s ‘themes’, put on by the staff.

Another a ‘best Toga contest’.

Probably the best was the Jamaican culture night. There was a Jamaican dance class then contest (PC tried to volunteer me but I would only do it if he would as well and uh, that was a positively, absolute NO GO and I can safely say we both were happy with that choice after we say how awesome most of the dancers were! Gah!). Then an authentic Jamaican performance which included tribal dancing and drums. Very cool.

Oh. There was other entertainment too. The week we were there was the “GOT ASS” assapolooza. Which…IDK. I’m not sure how legit that whole thing was. From best I can tell after being around the girls and the coordinators, and then looking around their website…..it’s a new found thing. First year in the making. This was their first annual “Got Ass” contest.

It basically seems to me that some guy(s) who had money to throw around, devised this scheme/business plan. I guess it’s a good idea. It’s just kind of hokey. Some of the girls were very nice and very hot. Others…eh, not so much. I was bummed bc we left before the actual final contest of who would win “Ms. Got Ass”. I’m dying to find out who won. After seeing them all week it was annoying to leave the night before they found out. Doh.

After the entertainment was over each night, the club opened. I was in Jamaica ten years ago and what I remember most was the WARM beer. I was pleasantly surprised to find their Red Stripe beer was COLD. *whew* And as finicky as I am about beer, it actually wasn’t all that bad. Not to say I didn’t enjoy my share of Strawberry Daiquiris with Banana Rum though….. Mmm….
I mentioned that each night was themed.

Pajama/Lingerie night……

Fetish night….

Toga night….

The club stayed going until 5 a/m. We never made it that long. LOL! Usually at a certain point in the night, 2…3…a/m, many would make their way to the hot tub located at the nude pool. The nice thing about that hot tub/pool area is that the bar stayed open until 5a/m. (During the day the grill at that pool served some super wicked nachos too, btw….. yuuuuummmmy)
Many fun times had there as well.
~naughty grin~

Some other random pictures:

Managment was really sweet and sent up a fruit platter and champagne.

Did I mention the ceilings in the room and shower were mirrored?
*giggle*

Our last day. …:::sigh:::…

The End. :)

Oh, OH!!!! And I forgot to mention, my other bag (with all my clothes) came in the very next afternoon after we got back. WOOT!!!!

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NEXT week CQW will return. I’m always looking for suggestions on topics to delve into, so if you have something please email me.

HappyHUMPDay!!!

(Image by award-winning photographer Rodrigo Nunez)

~xo

Don’t ask me how, I still am reeling wondering… But I was invited by the exceedingly smart and sexy Catalina to participate in a community project that is a compilation of the best sex bloggers and photography on the net. I’m beyond flattered. And I know, I know….I hardly think of myself as much of a sex blogger, much less someone who would fall under ‘the best of’. But bc of my efforts with the TFT site and this one, I was invited. And seriously, who am I to pass down an invite to participate with some of the BEST sex bloggers there are out there?!!?

So. Go read what the site is about. Catalina has been awesome and I’ve been blown away by all her and others hard work. The site already is insanely awesome and very promising. I mean, hey! THE BEST OF THE BEST!!! Bookmark. Promise to check back often. Steal the button to post…(there will be more to come). I will make sure to let you know when I post over there. You don’t want to miss it! It’s going to be hot hot hot and beyond awesome.

Click the button to check it out!!!

Woot!

Happy Hump Day!!!

~xo