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Come take a walk with me (no TMI today)

posted by: Vixen

OMG….this is so right on it isn’t even funny! Hehe….


You Are a Fierce Femme


You have a wild side, and you aren’t afraid to bring it out when the time is right.

But you also know when to hang back and keep your “crazy chick” persona in check.

In fact, some of your friends may be surprised to find out how far you can take it…

You may look mild mannered, but it’s all an act!

This weeks TMI is not my thing.  I’m a girly girl through and through and I am going to just use that as my out, lol.  So here is a meme spin off of last weeks TMI.  I believe I originally stole this from insanely hot Biscuit.

1. What was your high school decade?
The 80’s/early 90’s.  Graduated in ‘91. We had some kick ass hair in those days. Letmetellyou.  *snort*

2. Are you still friends with your high school friends?
Per se. I met Mojito when I was IN junior high, but not the same one.  And we are still friends.  I have a kindofsortof (I’m beyond pissed at him right now) friend from HS.  Besides that….no.

3. What was your favorite thing about high school?

God.  I’m not sure.  It was a weird era for me.  I was a straight A, perfect GPA student with a steady boyfriend whom I thought I would marry…with a naughty explorative side I hid pretty well….  I hit my Senior year and Senioritis HIT.  Drugs.  Drinking. Lying.  An old boyfriend and I reconnected and became a hot ‘thing’ (AH).  My mom kicked me out. 

But still I think I am going to say my Senior year.  It’s when I finally became ‘me’ (not that who I am is drinking/drugs/lying….lmao….but you see what I’m saying…I hope, right?!)

4. Your least favorite?
Gah.  My sophmore year.  It just wasn’t ‘me’ and lots of life changes and I was a total wall flower.  But at the same time…  I gave my all to HS boyfriend and I wished I had spent more time being ME.

5. Did you have a high school sweetheart? And how did that work out?

I did.  After almost 4 years together he decided he wanted to see what the grass was like on the other side of the fence.  While he did that I reconnected with a close friend/guy I had had an insane crush on since my freshman year (AH) and we hit it off at a party and the rest is history.  Of course the HS boyfriend decided THEN that I was truly who he wanted to be with. Yeah…sorry.  His loss. Right? ;)

6. Would you do the whole high school thing again, or is it better left in the past?
OMG no.  OH NO NO NO NO.  No thankyou.  ROFL

Kiddos spent the night with their NN so PC and I took the opportunity to go on a date.    He took me to Benihanas…:::drool:::…  It’s really pretty hard to decide which I love more…  Their Colorado Rolls (tempura shrimp, avacado, cream cheese and jalepenos), salad, soup, fried rice or plum wine?  Hell.  I don’t have to decide. I had them all!  HA!  I think I am seriously addicted to wasabi and soy.  It’s all about the sauce baby….all. about. the. sauce.  Mmmm….

Also spent the morning at the B&B, having our final meeting before the wedding.  It went really well.  Put our, ok ok….lol, MY mind at ease about many things. The menu is decided upon.  How the day will go is set.  We placed the order for the alcohol.  The man who runs the B&B seriously now knows what lushes I am we are.  Oh and our friends.  Seriously.  LOL!  PC’s son will be here in 8 days… Mojito and her hottie hubby in 9…  OMGOMGOMG….  T minus 12 days and counting.  Booyah baby!

******

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This weeks TFT is up and I love, love, love the girls (AND GUYS!!!) who continue to contribute to the site.  BUT most importantly, show their support for our troops.  Bc after all, that is what the site is about.  It doesn’t matter whether you support our current president (believe me…I get emails regarding that), whether you know someone in the military, whether you are related to anyone who has served or is in the military, whether YOU served in the military (btw, Dana from Amid Life’s Crisis *HAS*).  What it’s all about is wanting to show your/our support for the troops.  To boost their moral.  Bc we are Americans and really….who’s to say that’s not enough? 

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~xo

BTW…there is a disclaimer of sorts in my initial paragraph, in the ‘About Me’.  It clearly states that everyone must play nice here. I don’t *do* drama.  I avoid confrontation.  I know there are people out there who thrive off of it.  But it is SO. NOT. ME.  And if you are going to come to my site and leave shitty, vulgar and/or inappropriate comments….then I am going to delete them.  I won’t tolerate that kind of bullshit.  This is my site.  If you don’t like what I have to say, or what I do….then don’t visit.  Simple and easy as that. Ok?  Ok.

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Love is a matter of chemistry, but sex is a matter of physics

posted by: Vixen

~Author Unknown

Mute Monday- Energy

“Everything that you are attracted to in your environment is connected to your sexual energy. Your sexual energy is connected to all of your other sensory systems - your hearing, your seeing, your sense of smell, taste and touch. It is connected to your nervous system and how you define reality. That is all connected to your sexual energy. So everything that you are attracted to is through one or another form of sexual energy.”

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******

The lovely Evening tagged me a ridiculously long time ago (sorry!!!).  And I’m just now finally
brilliant enough to do it.  Oh no, not that it was that
hard to come up with them.  But bc it was that hard to narrow it down.  DOH!

1. Link the person(s) who tagged you

2. Mention the rules on your blog

3. Tell about 6 unspectacular quirks of yours…

4. Tag 6 following bloggers by linking them…

5. Leave a comment on each of the tagged blogger’s blogs letting them know they’ve been tagged.

So….here goes.  :)

1) Hot drinks/foods have to be VERY hot.  Cold things must be VERY cold.

2) It’s all about the sauce baby. Food is just a vehicle for sauce.

3) I’m so OCD my issues have issues.

4) I really hate to talk on the phone.  I never answer my phone.  The
only two people I actually ‘talk’ to on a regular basis and for any
length of time is my sister and PC.  Having to talk on the phone,
making phone calls seriously causes me anxiety.    Obviously my calling
is not as a telemarketer…or phone sex operator.  (LOL!)

5) Things I’m insanely afraid of are: heights, claustrophobia and elevators.  I can be in high up places *as long as I feel safe*.  Weird, possibly, I know.  It takes everything with in me to get on an elevator.  It’s a childhood fear and I have worked really, really, REALLY hard to suppress my anxieties so that I can get on one when I have to.  But before entering one I always ‘assess’ it’s safety (and if anything remotely sets off my inner alarms….ok, more than normal, lol) and then practice deep breathing techniques the entire time I’m in it.

6) I’m the anti-girl when it comes to chocolate and ice cream.  I don’t
care for either and I could totally go through life with out having
either ever again.  (although I did finally try DQ’s Thin Mint Blizzard last night, after Os and TUG talked it up so much I wanted to try it, I had my five bites and was good.  But it was yummy, lol….  The Thin Mints sold me!)

Hmm….6 people.  Some people hate to be tagged, some people really look forward to it.  This went around a bit ago, I don’t even remember anymore who did it and who hadn’t.  Anyways, I choose 4 that I would like to see their answers, anyone else, free for all, just let me know you played so I can see how quirky you are:

TUG
Mojito (she’ll be home soon from her big IDAHO trip and maybe will have time to do this)
Ms. I
Elisa (have you done this???)
Covert Lover (when she gets all moved in and maybe has more time)


Happy Monday Hookers!!!

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~xo

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Fluff, Cuff, Love…..

posted by: Vixen

Your result for The What’s your sexual style?

TYPE O

You scored 75 imagination, 58 confidence, 50 dominance, and 38 generosity!

You are a KINKY, CONFIDENT, DOMINANT lover who prefers to RECEIVE.

This means that:

You like relatively kinky sex, and you have the great imagination that will always keep your partner guessing and excited! There’s no getting bored with you around, you could never settle for dull sex, you want something fun and new all the time. You aren’t afraid to try out anything you hear about. You might just be an intelligent lover who needs to be mentally engaged, or perhaps you have some dirty dark secret kinky desires, but either way, you’re never boring.

You are pretty confident in bed. This means that you know you can please your lover. Maybe you’ve read a lot of sex manuals, or have the experience from previous lovers, or just tend to be skilled at whatever you get your hands on, but you’re good and you know it. You can really get results and know that you have pure talent, so you won’t be hiding away shy, pretending to be all innocent. Your partners love your naughty self assurance, you don’t hesitate and this makes you a sensational lover.

You tend to be dominant in bed, so you prefer to be the one giving the orders than taking them. Maybe you like the power, or just like controlling the pace, perhaps your partner likes to be dominanted, or maybe you get a kick out of the whole master/slave relationship, it could be something as small as liking to be on top during sex and tie up your lover to tease them, or it could be as kinky as them having to ask your permission to do anything at all. Either way, you are firm and you enjoy it!

You would rather Receive than Give. This usually applies more to Oral sex than anything else, and other types of foreplay. This could be for a number of reasons. Maybe you are just very hooked on the sensation of orgasm, maybe you feel you deserve to be treated like a god/goddess, maybe you just aren’t confident about your skills when it comes to returning the favour. Maybe you are lazy. Or maybe your partner loves to give and that suits you fine, so everyone is happy. Either way, remember to be a giver sometimes too, as long as your partner likes it.

WE SUGGEST YOU TRY:
Fluffy handcuffs, soft whips. You have the kinky factor that will mean you’ll enjoy playing games in bed, and using these fluffy cuffs rather the metal sort of the just a silk scarf means you will be tied firmly, but comfortably. You can’t get away, but you wont be in any pain. However, we know you’d rather do this to your lover than be tied up yourself, so feel free, or take turns! Enjoy some light flogging with a soft whip, just to see if you like being spanked, or use your hand. Nothing too heavy, but a little bit kinky.

Take The What’s your sexual style? Test at HelloQuizzy

That’s right Baby!  ~wink~
(actually I think I have a fairly low ‘kink’ level….but have a high level of willingness to try….)

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The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs less. (CQW…kind of)

posted by: Vixen

My insomnia is kicking. my. ASS.  Gah.  Combine PC being out of town (in Vegas no less, lucky duck! *pffbbt!*), horrible high anxiety dreams/nightmares (there seems to be pattern when PC is out of town), dogs who see dead people (seriously, they had *issues* last night….in a serious way)….  I got an accumulative of *maybe* an hour of sleep Monday night.  I’m exhausted and running on fucking fumes.  …:::sigh:::...  So.  My lazy ass version of CQW this week is a sex meme that piqued my interest last week.  What better time to post filler fluff!  (lol)
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(click for more info, email me if you have ideas or topics!)

This is Isabella’s Sex Meme that I stole from Biscuit.  Her answers were fun to read so I thought I would snag it too.  Anyone is welcome to steal it but you must post this rules blurb at the beginning of the meme:

1. You must include this link to Sex Talk: Sex Advice for Men
2. You must answer every question! If you don’t have a good answer, you are strongly encouraged to make up something good; we like to be entertained.
3. You must tag 3 people.


1. Sex in the Morning or Sex at Night?

Both please.  Sex at night is usually unadulterated, no holding back, anything goes, many/most/sometimes all inhibitions left behind…. HOT HOT HOT.  Morning sex is yummy.  Warm, snuggy bodies intertwined, sweet dreams still lingering…

2. Better Sex Music: Sade or Marvin Gaye?

Um.  No thanks.  Just not my thang.  If I have to chose, I guess I go with Sade.  But like I said, no thanks.

3. Naughty Pics or Naughty Home Video?

Home videos creep me out.  I do NOT want to traumatize myself with watching ME in motion.  When I’m having sex I feel sexy and sultry and like I have it going on.  …I don’t want to see different.  LOL  Naughty pics are the best.  I’m all about that.  Anyone who reads my blog knew that’s what I would pick.   ~wink~

4. Fabulous Sex With: Dr. Doug Ross or Dr. Greg House?

Wow…neither are my type, like *at all*…  I guess I’ll say Dr. Doug Ross.

5. Vibrator or Dildo?
Vibrator!!!  More specifically a multi speed waterproof one.  *ahem*

6. Bedroom Sex: Lights Off or Lights On?
Off at night.  The dark is a HUGE turn on.  Daytime, in the light.  I don’t mind the light.  But the dark definitely creates an atmosphere that further encourages an ‘anything goes/inhibition free’ atmosphere.

7. Word preference: Pussy or Cunt?

The C word is not ok.  There are few words that offend or bother me as much as that one.  No no no.  Pussy is ok, I guess.  But only if used in dirty, hot sex talk.  If you are randomly talking to me and referring yours, mine or any body’s vajayjay, let’s not use that word (pussy)LOL

8. Spanking Over the Knee or Spanking Only During Sex?

No thanks.  PC can vouch bc man has he tried to convince me (lolol).  But it’s a turn off to me.  There are many things I can get into and am willing to try but that just isn’t one of them.  (again, sorry PC *giggle*)

9. More Exciting: Sex in an Elevator or Sex in an Airplane?

Eh, an airplane.  Sounds crowded but I guess would be cool to be able to say I did.  But an elevator?  HOT!!!  HUGE long time fantasy of mine.  Pc and I have been known to make out hot and heavy, everything but, bwtn floors….  But so far no sex.  But wow, yum-my!!!

10. Ron Jeremy or Peter Nort
h?
………
I have never been more turned off men then when I looked up those two dudes.  *barf, gag, hurl*  There is a reason I swing on the mostly lesbian side.  ;)

11. Word preference: Cock or Dick?
Dick.  Cock.  IDK.  I had to think about this. I think cock.  Dick is a word I use to refer to some dude that pissed me off.  LOL   Or how sarcastic I’m feeling at the moment.

12. Linda Lovelace or Jenna Jameson?
Jenna, baby!  Esp since she cut her hair.  She’s the fucking cat’s meow in my book.  (although she obviously has some issues going on….poor girlie)

13. Rope Bondage or Bondage Tape?
Wow. I’m feeling so left out.  Neither.  I guess if I have to choose, rope.  I have issues with claustrophobia and the idea of ‘tape’ raises my anxiety. 

14. Give a Rim Job or Receive Anal Sex?
Oh…..  Nothing wrong with anal sex when done the right way.  IYKWIM.  ;)

15. Get Rich Stripping in a Skanky Bar or Get Rich as a Call Girl for Celebs?

I think it would be way more up my alley and ‘me’ to strip on a regular basis (hell, I’m all about that!  lol) then to have to have sex on a regular basis with people I don’t choose to.  No thanks.

16. Which threesome: Boy/Girl/Girl or Boy/Boy/Girl?

Toughie….  Usually I would hands down say Boy/Girl/Girl.  BTDT with the B/B/G thing and it creates a weird situation (for me). I haven’t cared for my past experiences.  BUT, that said, it is something that has been up for discussion and there are some aspects that sound….appealing and hot to me.  I think it’s possible that it might work in the relationship and dynamic I have with PC. 

17. Flavored Oil or Tingling Oil?
Both are sticky and not my favorite thing.  But HELL NO to the tingling/heating shit.  One word- OUCH!!!

18. Pearl Necklace or Swallow?
*sigh*  I have swallowing issues.  I have given it a hellova try.  It’s not like I just decided I’m too good for that.  But, my gag reflex is so strong when it comes to that….the choice is I either do that for him and don’t swallow or I don’t at all.  His choice.  There you go…. 
So I guess I have to go with the pearl necklace.

19. Sex While Strangers Watch or Sex with a Stranger?
Yeah….I’m all about exhibitionism.  I’ll take strangers watching.  I’m picky who I will/would have sex with.

20. Tied to the Bed or Tied to a St. Andrew’s Cross?
The bed.  The Cross freaks me out.  A lot.

Hmm….I’m supposed to tag people.  I always feel badly doing that.  But so if I tag you and you don’t feel like it, pass.  But if you do, I’d love to read your answers.  And anyone out there who would like to play along, have at it!  (but let me know you played so I can stalk read your answers)

  • Stealth
  • Bunny
  • Mojito

HappyHumpDay!!!

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~xo

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The greatest thing in the world is not so much where we are, but in what direction we are moving

posted by: Vixen

I graciously stole this from i smile too much….
MUAH*


1. Did the last person you held hands with mean anything?

Yes.  Very much so.  We are very affectionate with each other.    ~grins~

2. Do you sleep with the TV on?

I didn’t used to.  But PC does/likes to.  So yeah.  I’ve gotten used to it.  *shrug*


4. Do you think you’re old?

No.  Shhh!  I am not old.  *humpf*

5. Are you afraid of the dark?
Depends. I definitely CAN be. 

6. Do you like your life right now?
MmmHmm……  ...:::happy sigh:::…

7. When’s the last time you chose a bath over a shower?
Probably last winter when I had the flu.  Blech.  I prefer showers.  Unless we are talking about the hot tub….  Then I prefer long soaks, which lead to hot umm, sex.  (when I’m lucky)

8. Do you knock on wood?

When the mood strikes me.  Yes.  ;)

9. Do you have good vision?
When I’m wearing my glasses, you’re damn straight I do!  Hahaha…..  *ahem*

11. Could you ever forgive a cheater?
I honestly don’t know.  The cheater I knew?  No.  And yes.  Could I forgive him for cheating for fucking years on end?  Yes.  Could I be with him again?  Nooooooooooooooooooooo……………….  Circumstances differ in every situation and with every person. You can’t compare one to another.  So.

12. Do you have a job?
Do you think keeping up this website and the TFT is easy?!  *pppfffbbt*
For serious though, I’m a full time mom.  Chauffeur.   Sex addict.  Flirter.  And internet whore.  Come summer, you can add pool betch to my resume ~wink~

13. Who’s your best friend…..sss?

My sister, Mojito, Stealth, hottie little miss Sarah…PC.

15. Have you ever been suspended or expelled from school?

Nope.  I did amazingly well in school.  It was after school that the issues arose.

16. Have you ever crawled through a window?

Umm…yes.  The night I lost my virginity I climbed through the window of AH’s bedroom.   There have been other times since.  But let’s leave it at that.  Gah.

17. What should you really be doing right now?
Drinking beer…catching up on Tivo’d shit…  What I’m doing now.


18. Can you handle the truth?

Can I handle it?  Eh.  Do I want it?  Absofuckinglutely. I’ll get over being told what I might not necc want to hear better than being strung on and lied to.

19. What was the most recent thing you bought?

Coach heels that fucking rock.  Me personally????  …..Nonfat, extra hot, honey latte from Starbucks  YUM!

20. Are you listening to music?

“The Way I Am” -Ingrid Michaelson (my project playlist)

21. Where are you?
On my computer.  Duh….  ;)

22. How often do you talk on the phone?

Not very often.  Unless it’s my sister. I don’t care for the phone or talking on it.

23. Do you have a boyfriend?
Why?  Who’s asking???  LOL
Yes!  More specifically a fiancee.

26. Do you hate more than 3 people?

Eww.  That is such a strong word.  Gah.  Dislike…possibly. 

27. Have you ever tripped someone?
What?!  NO.  (that is a really fucked up question)


28. Name one thing that is always on your mind.

SEX.  Nakedness.  SEX.  Shoes.  SEX.  Running. SEX.  Clothes.  SEX.  Flirting.

32. Have you made a prank phone call?

Possibly in junior high?????

33. Are you sarcastic?

*snort* …uh, yeah………

34. Have you ever slapped someone?

*thinking*
No.  Ok.  Wait.  Possibly a long time ago in a bar.  And another time in junior high. Oh.

36. Do you use chapstick?
Yes!  Vanilla Mint Moisterizer Chapstick.  But in addition Sephora lip stain and plumper/gloss.

37. Are you too forgiving?
…”too”?  I don’t know about that.  “forgiving”, most definitely YES.

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Boys are great, Every Girl Should Own One.

posted by: Vixen

Hmm….not sure where TMI is… (Prof Fate???  Come out, come out where ever you are *tap, tap* …it’s Tuesday again…)

Anywhore.  Until then, I snagged this quiz from Kate.  The answers surprised me, but at the same time were pretty dead on.  Cooooool.  ~wicked grin~




Do you have an inclination for BDSM?
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You scored as Switch

(((Note: This quiz is not totally comprehensive because of the length such a quiz would be. I kept it sex-based because I felt that psychological profiles and motivations were too complicated and vary too greatly among people that practice BDSM.)))

You know what you want but it has nothing to do with your own role in the bedroom. You have the ability to be flexible in that area which can be useful for exploring you sexuality with your partner.


Switch


82%

Experimental


71%

Exhibitionist / Voyeur


68%

Dominant


64%

Submissive


54%

Bondage


54%

Sadist


32%

Degradation Lover


29%

Vanilla


18%

Masochist


7%

Happy Tuesday Hookers.  Tmi will be up when it’s up. (haha)
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~xo

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2007 Recap

posted by: Vixen

1) Where did you begin 2007?
Um. My house (???)

2) What was your status by Valentine’s Day?

Taken.  In love….happy sigh….

3) How did you earn your money?
My spellbounding beauty and flirtatiousness has gotten me far.  You’d be surprised… Or maybe you wouldn’t
*snort*

4) Did you have to go to the hospital?
Nope. (thank god)

5) Did you have any encounters with the police?
Well. No. Not this year.  Haha. (thankfuckinggod)

6) Where did you go on holiday/travel?

Iowa.  In early spring.  You should try it…it’s awesome. (shut up, it was worth it for my sister *GRIN*)  OH!  And then there was the “trip to Lake McConaughay that wasn’t”….  I think that is about as worldly as I was this past year.

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7) What did you purchase that was over $1000?
A divorce.

8) Did you know anybody who got married?
No.

10) Know anyone that passed away?

Yes.  :( ….AH’s grandfather.

11) Did you move anywhere?
No. I have deeply.  DEEPLY. Planted roots. I try not to move *anywhere*

12) What concerts/shows did you go to?

BLUE OCTOBER!!!!!  Snow Patrol!  The Fray!  We saw some *awesomely incredible* shows this past year!

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13) Are you registered to vote?
Yes.  But I only vote in Presidential elections or if something is really important to me.

14) Where do you live now?

Wouldn’t YOU all like to know!  Bloggerland.  DUH ~wink~

15) Describe your birthday-

Mmm….Stealth surprised with me the best thing EVER….  PC showered me with Starbucks in bed, pretty lingerie, new clothes….pitter patter.  It was the bestest birthday EVER.  *happy sigh*

16) What’s one thing you thought you wouldn’t do but did in 2007?

Come to an agreement with AH and have my divorce finalized- fuckingfinally.
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17) What has been your favorite moment/s?

PC’s son coming to visit us, my sister moving back, Mojito and her stud muffin hubby coming out for my bday, Stealth staying with us for most of the fall, the numerous concerts we went to, the HALLOWEEN EXOTIC BALL!!!!, Christmas ;) …

18) What’s something you learned about yourself?
That I AM stronger than I give myself credit for.
I can be assertive and stand up for myself.

19) Any new additions to your family?
Of the furry kind!  Mick Brumby- the puppy, Alley the kitten and two miniature horses.  Oh.  And I think Snowflake counts…of the NON furry kind, that is. ~smile~

20) What was your best month?

Wow.  That is HARD to choose…..I *love* the summer months.  But maybe it would be October….

21) What music will you remember 2007 by?
Blue Octobers newest album, The Last Goodnight, Le Disko, Ok Go….  I’m sure there is more. I’m a total music whore, but everything else I can think think of isn’t new to 2007.

22) Who has been your best drinking buddy?
Wow.  Stealth.  Here or there, lol.

23) Made new friends?

Totally!

24) Favorite Night out?
The Halloween Exotic ball….hands. down.

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I can see clearly now, the rain is gone,
I can see all obstacles in my way
Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
It’s gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-Shiny day.

I think I can make it now, the pain is gone
All of the bad feelings have disappeared
Here is the rainbow I’ve been prayin?for
It’s gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-Shiny day.

Look all around, there’s nothin?but blue skies
Look straight ahead, nothin?but blue skies

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone,
I can see all obstacles in my way
Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
It’s gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-Shiny day.
******

Here’s to another great year!

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Tag teaming it on a Sunday

posted by: Vixen

Oh yeah Baby….  ;)

It’s very simple.
When this is passed on to you, copy the whole thing, skim the list and put a * star beside those that you like.
(Check out especially the * starred ones.)
Add the next number (1. 2. 3. 4. 5., etc.)
and write your own blogging tip for other bloggers.
Try to make your tip general.
After that, tag 10 other people.


Link some friends!  Just think– if 10 people start this, the 10
people pass it onto another 10 people, you have 100 links already!

1. Look, read, and learn. *-http://www.neonscent.com/
2. Be, EXCELLENT to each other. ***-http://www.bushmackel.com/
3. Don’t let money change ya! -http://www.therandomforest.info/
4. Always reply to your comments. -http://chattiekat.com/
5. Develop your own “voice” don’t “borrow” someone else’s. **-Mizmouthy
6. If you don’t have something to say, don’t worry your loyal readers will wait. -Oldfashionmomma-
7. Be yourself, don’t be afraid to share who you really are. *-http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com

8. “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind”

(After MUCH thought I decided to use one of my all time favorite quotes….it fits me, my attitude and how I blog perfectly)- http://www.blue-eyedvixen.com/

Alrighty…..
So now I’m supposed to tag people and believe me, I’ve been around the block enough times to know that not many people like to be tagged (me aside, I actually think it can be FUN, lol!~).  *snort*  So if I list ya, please don’t feel obligated to do so, just use it as possible posting material if you feel inclined.  *muah*

(oh and I’m not tagging 10 people….that’s just crazy talk!)

*Madame X
*Charlie
*Stealth
*Tequila Girl
*Sarah (but the sucky thing is you have to drop my link…so do it if you want, otherwise, no worries Babe)
*Jeannie

Have a great day Sunshines!  :)
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Ooo, I love a good tag team!

posted by: Vixen

Mrs.ZigZagman and Charlie tagged me this past week.  I suppose if I were creative enough I would come up with 16 things…but, well, I’m not.  *snort*   I kept these pretty clean, maybe I’ll post 8 random naughty things about me next!  ;)  So, here ya go:

8 things about me….

8 Random Facts MEME
# I have to post these rules before I give you the facts.
# Each player starts with eight random facts/habits about themselves.
# People who are tagged need to write their own blog about their eight things and post these rules.
# At the end of your blog, you need to choose eight people to get tagged and list their names.
# Don’t forget to leave them a comment telling them they’re tagged, and to read your blog.

1.  I LOVE pictures.  To take them BUT most especially, I can spend hours cropping, editing, messing with them.  Hours…….(lol)

2. You all know what a girlie girl I am.  I get my nails done weekly (toes every other week).  I’m down right GIDDY when they are freshly done and all pretty and perfect.  [happy sigh]

3. I hate to be cold.  Hate, hate, HATE it.  In my perfect world it’s 80 plus degrees all.the.fucking.time.

4. I suffered from an eating disorder (specifically anorexia) through my teenage years, basically 13yro on.  I am in a much healthier mind frame in regards to my weight and am able to recognize my ‘unhealthy’ self images, but when I get stressed, depressed, upset…..that’s what rears it’s ugly head.  It’s where I find comfort and what is effected first.  *sigh*

5.  I am a vegetarian.  That stems from my meat ‘issues’.  It began with steak when I was a child and continued to grow….adding more and more things to the list of things “I couldn’t fathom eating” because the look, smell, texture, taste just nauseated(s) me.

6. My father (unknowingly) forced me to drink spoiled milk when I was nine.  I haven’t drank milk since.  The very thought of drinking it is utterly revolting.

7. I am a complete klutz. (That’s probably obvious in the what, five plus times, I’ve burnt myself with my curling iron in the past 8months, lol)  Combined with the fact that I bruise easily….doh!  I should do a post on it.  You guys would be astounded, it’s mind boggling how much of a freak I am, lol.

8.  I hate to clean.  I like to be organized and neat.  Once upon a time I kept my house spotless, in perfect order.  I was a *clean freak*.  And then I had LP….  It became a bit more difficult but I still with a bit more effort was able to maintain a neat and tidy home.  Then LM came along….  My incredibly high maintenance child that demanded he be attached to me 24/7 for the first, oh, three years.  And the summer he was born, and I felt like I might just go insane bc AH was never home, both children were my sole responsibility, as well as all the outside and inside household responsibilities…  Something had to give.  And my clean house was it.  So while I admit to my house being somewhat embarassingly not so clean….my mental health (on most days ;) is in tact.

Sweet!  Now it’s time to tag 8 peeps!  Let’s see….trying to think of people who haven’t been tagged yet….

Composer
James (Letters from the Sanitarium)
Me (My Scattered Thoughts)
Mike (honey, I know you are hellacrazy busy, but ya gotta blog something, sometime!  ;)
Sarah (Babe you too…ya gotta blog SOMETIME!)
Nympho (Celibate Nympho, I know this is kind of a step away from your usual posting….but I would love to read your answers)
Madame X  (Madame X Files)
ATLLG (Ramblings of the Male Mind)

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So, what are you?

posted by: Vixen

This is a very cute little meme that I stole from Jean. Go through it, check off the things that apply to you and then tally it all up at the bottom. Are you Prep, Goth? Punk? Emo? Find out! Its pretty accurate….my score didn’t surprise me really, ESPECIALLY the ‘being Prep’ part.  *snort!*
Self Assessment

PREP
[] You go tanning.
[x] You own a cell phone.
[x] You own something from Abercrombie.
[x] You own something from Pacsun.
[x] You own something from Hollister.
[x] You own something from American Eagle.
[x] You love/like going to the mall.
[x]You own an iPod/MP3 player.
[x] You love Starbucks.
[x] You have been called a brat.
[] You hate buying things that are on sale.
[] You have more than one house.
Total: 9
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GOTHIC

[] Black is one of your favorite colours
[x] You have thought about death.
[] You wear chains.
[] You like heavy metal.
[] You’ve shopped at Hot Topic.
[] You have worn black lipstick
[] Your hair was/is dark.
[] You dislike preps.
[] You’re an athiest/ satanist/agnostic/Pagan
Total: 1
goth

PUNK
[] You can skateboard.
[] You wear plaid.
[] You like Converse.
[] You hate MTV
[] You have/had/want blue, pink, red, purple, or green hair.
[] You dislike pink.
[] You hate/dislike preps.
[] You wear/wore skateboarding shoes.
Total: 0
punk!

GEEK
[x] You love the computer.
[] You like Harry Potter
[x] You are supposed to wear glasses/contacts.
[x] You get/got straight A’s.
[x] You love/like reading.
[] You were/are in band.
[] You don’t care what you look like.
[] You have a curfew.
[x] You always do/did your homework.
[] You never miss school unless you’re sick.
Total: 5
You Are a Geek Girl

EMO
[x] You are/were depressed.
[] You have black rimmed glasses.
[] You like the band Taking Back Sunday.
[x] You cry easily.
[] You like emo music.
[] You hate being called emo.
[x] You keep a journal/diary.
[x] You have written a sad poem.
[] You have/had a sad MySpace layout.
[] You think emo chicks/Guys are hot
[] you wear your hood alot
Total: 3
emo.

GHETTO/GANSTA

[] You like rap.
[] You are in a gang.
[] You wear/wore rubberbands in your pants.
[x] You swear once in a while or alot.
[] You have freestyled.
[] You have worn high tops with the tongue flipped out.
[] You can break dance.
Total: 1
ghetto

HARDCORE
[x] You like loud music
[] You love/loved the Ninja Turtles
[] You never walk anywhere.
[x] You wear slip-on shoes.
[] You love Norma Jean.
[] You wear band t-shirts.
[x] People have called you a freak and meant it.
[] You love to “hardcore” dance
[] Your hair has been dyed more than one color at a time.
Total: 3
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ATHLETIC

[] You watch/watched the Superbowl.
[x] You own track shoes or other sports related shoes.
[] You collect your jerseys.
[x] You have/had had a special shelf for trophies and awards.
[] You have posters or plaques of famous athletes.
[] Your garage consists of sports equipment
[] You belong/belonged to a school team.
[] You are going/did go to a sports summer camp.
[] You have a specific number preferred for your jersey.
Total: 2

PREP: 9
GOTHIC: 1
PUNK: 0
GEEK: 5
EMO: 3
GHETTO/GANGSTA: 1
HARDCORE: 3
ATHLETIC: 2

Hmm…..what are YOU?!  ;)