Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen

Mute Monday- ‘H’ is for HEELS

“When I wear high heels I have a great vocabulary and I speak in paragraphs. I’m more eloquent. I plan to wear them more often.”  ~Meg Ryan

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Okay.  So someone needs to send me some *!%*&%$ sun and soon.  We haven’t had any sort of a trace of sun since Thurs.  It’s been raining and drizzly and overcast and foggy and cold and we’ve been socked in for three. days. straight.  I better see some freakin’ sun Monday or I may seriously have a manic depressive breakdown.  Seriously.  Sun.  NOW.  *sigh*

Well.  One thing about the weather being shitty and not feeling like doing much of anything other than remain snuggled up in bed….is the amount of movies you can watch. 

Leatherheads- ~groan~  Dumb. Booooooooring.  Stupid.  George Clooney and Renee Zellweger did an awesome job sucking hugely.  We ALL fell asleep during it.
88 Minutes- VERY good, loved it.  *Great* suspense/thriller.
Then She Found Me-  I can’t stand Mathew Broderick and the way he talks all nasaly, it annoys the crap out of me.  Luckily he’s not in it a ton but still…  I kept thinking I didn’t like it but I also kept getting sucked into it and it was pretty good.  Kind of, eh.
City of Ember- SUPER good.  The kids and I loved it.  A bit like Journey to the Center of the Earth.  Good plot and action packed.

Fuck me if our big dog hasn’t been sprayed by a skunk not once, but twice this week.  It’s her own damn fault too.  Yuck.  Thank god for vinegar.

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~xo

1. What do you feel is the difference between sexy and erotic?
Hmm…  If you look both up, they almost basically have the same definitions.  But *TO ME*- Sexy tends to seem more to describe ‘appealing’ or ‘attractiveness’ in a way that grabs you, strikes you.  Where as Erotic provokes more sexual arousal, more visual appeal.  I consider it to be beyond ’sexy’.  Erotic seems a step further. 

2. Do you believe there is one right person (i.e. soul mate) for you out there in the world, or that there can be many different potential mates that you could live blissfully with?
Wow. Um… No. I think there might be several or many compatible people out there. But I *DO* think there is one perfect person that you will click with ‘the best’. So yeah. I do believe in soul mates. But I also believe you can find other pple you can be compatible with that can ’seem’ like your soul mate, unless/until you find that ’someone’ you seem MORE compatible with. I’m talking in circles, lol. 

What I mean is I thought my ex was supposed to be my soul mate.  It felt he was for years.  If you had asked me ten years ago I probably would have said- YES, he WAS.  But over the years things fell apart, things became more apparent.  And then I met PC.  And he is who I wished for.  :)

3. Do you need to hear “I love you” or similar words on a regular basis from your partner?
Yes. I do. But not only hear it, FEEL it. PC and I are very affectionate with each other and show and tell each other this *very* often. But on the same (but kind of different note) we do the same with the children. I think it’s important to remind the pple you care about/love most know on a regular basis.  There is a level of security and comfort in being reminded of it.

4. What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing?
Ooo! Good question. I think I have difficulty standing up for myself. But is that a feeling???  Hmm….  I have no clue.  I am quite an emotional person, I show my emotions/feelings probably too well.  LOL

5. What is worse - physical, mental or cyber cheating?
Mental. Having a physical or cyber ‘relationship’ with another person is on the surface. Building/forming a mental bond/relationship/connection with another person is pretty significant.

Bonus (as in optional): The Kinsey scale attempts to describe a person’s sexual history or episodes of their sexual activity at a given time. It uses a scale from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to 6, meaning exclusively homosexual. Where are you - TODAY - on the scale?
Um…  5?  LOL!  That would describe me me pretty accurately.

HappyTMI!!!

Mute Monday- F is for FETISH (models)

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Absolutely fabulously perfect weekend away.  It was hot and beautiful, we had an awesome time.    And we ate.  A LOT.  And drank.  A LOT.  Doh.  Somewhere in between the eating and drinking we also enjoyed the giant bubbble bath spa, made our way down to Newport Beach (which was overcast and freezing chilly) for some shopping, sunned/gossiped by the pool (back inland where it was like, WARM) and spent our last evening at a romantic little winery.
 
I don’t have all my pictures downloaded and I want to exchange them with SR first….but until then here is a couple teasers.  *grins*

(doesn’t SR look exotic and stunning here?!  HOT…..hehe)

Um…ouch. Apparently this happened in the spa???  When?  How?  Mysteriously woke up with it Sunday morning.  Warning:  Combining alcohol and cement spas may cause injury.  DOH.

More to come.  Between the two of us we got some fun ones. 

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There are so many shows I love to watch that have just started back up it’s retarded.  I’m in heaven!

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Hope everyone had a killer weekend.

HappyMonday!!!

Beautiful and depraved.
(via lovelypanties)

Do you get the feeling that God is playing a practical joke?

Friday Favorites-

Mariposa…..

Lilly…This Could Be Dangerous…..

Evening…..

Silken Bonds…..

Phaedra Fallen…..


Biscuit…..
I *suck*  I loved, loved, loved this picture from last week and I completely forgot to include it in my FF last week…until I was visiting this week and had a “DOH!” moment.  So.  Here it is.  :)
(sorry Biscuit!)_

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“We grow neither better or worse as we get old, but more like ourselves….”
Well.  It seems I’ve managed to make it further into my mid *cough* thirties.  Today.  ~grins~

Because PC travels so much for business he earns some pretty wicked perks.  Such as free airline tickets.  Last year SR and her hottie hubby came here for a super fun wkend to celebrate my birthday.  Seeing they were just out here for the wedding, it seemed only fair that we use PC’s rewards to go out there to celebrate. 

So…..the kiddos are going to their grandparents and PC and I are catching a mid day flight to Ca for the wkend.  I think the plan is to spend time with good friends, drink, relax, drink, let loose, drink and just have a kick ass time (drinking….lol).  This is us we are talking about here, most likely nakedness will be involved sometime in this agenda.  Hehe…  SR and I have agreed that we need to take many, many pictures.  I promise to share upon my return.

PC and the kids took me out for an early birthday dinner at Carraba’s Tuesday night.  It was completely yummy and *TDF* as usual.  I thoroughly enjoyed my giant carafe of White Zin (it’s some of the best, I swear).  Oh, the food and dessert that I shared with the kiddos was good too.  ;)

Seriously though, bwtn PC’s bday last weekend with the super fun we had then, then dinner out with the kiddos and now going out of town…it’s been a little bit like a birthday WEEK.  *giggle*

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Several things I wanted to mention real quick before I head out of town. 

TFT goes up late Monday night in time for it’s Tuesday post.  That gives you four more days to get a pic in if you are wanting to contribute.  Hey, you know you are.  The best part about contributing is you can do it anonymously or to plug your blog and/or cause or just even if you want your name and no link.  I’m easy people, just tell me how you want it.  (God I’m a perv.. *snort*…)  ~wink~  That site is designed to show support for the men and women of our troops by boosting their moral.  But it’s nothing with out contributors, girls and guys.  So if you haven’t yet and you want to, send them HERE.  You can send in as many pics as you want and as often as you want.  (see! I told you I was easy!)

The other thing is that October is Breast cancer awareness month.  The first week of October kicks off the Boobie-Thon.  Which when you look into it, is a really cool idea.  Go check it out.  I’ll be talking more about it next week as the first day of October approaches.

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TGIF loverlies!  Have a kick ass wkend!!!

Forum Voissa -> eat me  Bendmeover

~xo

1. What is the strangest thing you have ever inserted or seen inserted (in a sexual manner) in person?
Um…yeah….  Pass. 
I suppose I could answer this honestly and really portray my ‘kink’ side.  But, I’m not really in the mood.  Sorry.

2. Have you ever had sex anyone whose name started with a J?
Doh. My high school, long term boyfriend (bwtn my ex in Jr high and senior year of HS- AH) was named James.  And yes, we had lots (ahem) of sex.

3. Have you ever been outside completely naked?
Hahahahaha…..  Oh.  *snort*  Yes.  Yes I have.  Which time are we talking about?  ;)

4. Do you prefer music, tv, or other noise in the background when you have sex?
Eh.  It really doesn’t matter to me.  I think during the night time PC and I tend to have some kind of TV background noise on.  I’m not sure for any reason really….I’m sure it helps ‘disguise’ some ‘noise’ that emits from our room though, if nothing else. 

5. Have you ever used ice for sexual purposes?
Yes.  OH yes.  Numerous ways… *GRINS* It can be highly erotic.  Although, still have to say I prefer popsicles.  [wink]

Bonus: Have you ever been propositioned for group sex?
Yes.  And yes. I have agreed.  Only once with a group of members from the opposite sex that I agreed (long story, for another time).  Numerous times with the same sex.  Fun, fun times!

HappyTMI!!!

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1. Ever been stalked an ex? Stalked an ex? Or stalked ‘a you’d like to be’?
Not an ex .  My ex did a pretty good job stalking me while we were still together though.  But that’s a different thing, lol.

2. How often do you reach orgasm during sex?
OMG….numerous times.  I am a multiple O girly.  I can’t even keep track.  Usually there is at least one really, really, really big blow my mind one and then the back to back leave me weak in the knees, legs shaking type of ones thrown through out.  I seriously.  SERIOUSLY.  Love sex.

Has then historically been true?
Nope.  It’s PC.  He is the answer to my super happy, stimulating multi-O sex life.  ~grins~

3. Teeth when used during oral stimulation, good or bad?
Well……NO.  NO NO NO NOoooooooooo  DO not put your teeth anywhere near my vajayjay!  Although…..I know PC will answer quite differently when it comes to me doing it to him.  *ahem*
~wink~

4. How many times is the most you have ever had sex in a 24 hour period?
Um….  *thinking*…..
Back in ‘the day’ I’d say probably….8?  More recently, I think the most PC and I have is 5 (or is it 4???).  Our honeymoon in Jamaica gave us ample opportunity to take advantage of ‘no kids, do what we want/when we want’ time.  *giggle*

How many different sexual partners have you had in a 24 hour period?
Two.  Not counting ones at the same time.  Doh.

5) Would you rather run naked through a crowded place or have someone email your deepest secret too all your friends?
Oh good lord, I would rather run naked than have my deepest secrest emailed out (not that I even have secrets that are that deep or dark)!  Bc….like, ‘friends’ is relative.  My true, BEST friends, already know my deepest darkest secrets.  So that wouldn’t matter.  But if you loosely say ‘friends’….that could include a random group.  So uh, yeah.

Bonus: Have you ever kissed your partner on the lips after oral sex without brushing teeth, nor washing/gargling/rinsing out mouth? Turn on or off?
Pffbbttt…YES.  HUGE. ASS. turn on.  I don’t get…otherwise.  If his/her mouth is on me or mine on him/her and they need to go gargle or brush their teeth (rolling eyes) before kissing me we have issues.  I love that taste/concept!

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Mute Monday- ‘C’ is for Corset

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Happy Monday!!!

P.S… TFT posts late Monday night, always by Tuesday morning. If you are dying to contribute (what!? You’re not?! …wink… ) email me. Whether you support the cause, our troops, appreciate the traffic or….hell, IDK…. It’s a great way to boost moral AND gain traffic. OR, you can always contribute anonymous as well. I’m not picky, all I ask is that you *SEND*. ~smirk~

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P.P.P.S… I was having issues last night with ScribeFire and in my frustration just threw up my post for today. But I failed to mention, Another Suburban Mom is running a contest with a super yummy prize. Basically she is asking for 30 people to submit to TFT for *this* week, just send me a boob pic with a note letting me know she sent you. The prize….well, you have to go check out her site to find out. ;)

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1. Describe the perfect date for YOURSELF… what you would enjoy most.
Being able to dress up…to the fucking NINES- heels, little black dress (that sort of outfit). Dinner at a super nice (BUT yummy restaurant)…lets say The Melting Pot. Sharing a bottle of good Champagne. Hot, heavy make out session in the car. Going out dancing afterwards. Possibly having sex, or at least super hot foreplay in the car after that. Finished with hot.HOT.hot sex upon getting home.

We’ve had that date. Several times over. And it *still* is my perfect date…..

2. Do you lean more toward being submissive or dominant?
Dominate. There is a time and place to be submissive, and when I want to be in that role, I love it. But it’s bc it was the right time for me. I love telling him what to do. ~wink~

That said though….I think in regards to another female, I tend to be more submissive.

3. What do you usually wear to bed?
Starts usually with a sexy/hot/nightie or PJ set from VS or Forever 21. Easy access… ;) But usually ends in nothing (being worn).

4. Have you ever seen a counselor?
Yes. Several times in my life I have. Most recently, I went through a period after my separation from my ex….where I was fucked. up. I couldn’t make a good decision to save my life and was on the road to fuckeupville *very* fast. Although I would never have chosen to go to the counselor…btwn her and PC, I got my life back on track.
*whew*

5. Lights on or off?
Off. That is when all the naughtiness can really be unleashed….hehe………

Bonus (as in optional): Bonus: Have you or a partner ever faked an orgasm?
I possibly did early on (in my life, not my relationship). But at this stage in my life, WHY!? Why would I pretend I ‘loved’ something I SO totally didn’t!?!?

HappyTMI!!!

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(reason #800 why I possibly should not post late at night after like…oh, 4 beers…. I just noticed the most stooooopidest spelling error. DOH!)

1. When was the last time someone hit on you? What went down?
I meet some interesting people on Flickr, lol….. Um, yeah. In person…*thinking*…probably the last time was in Jamaica. ~grins~

2. If you were single and could be with any one person, who would it be (thinking singer/actor or someone famous here, but whatever)?
“Be” with….as in have sex with or BE with them? Hmm. I don’t want to BE with anyone permanently other than PC. BUT if we are talking sex, then give me Megan Fox!

3. Have you ever had done anything sexual in your office or your place of employment?
All. the. fucking. time. (I’m a domestic goddess….remember? And my husband works out of our house. So…the bed. The couch. The bathroom. The kitchen. hehe….)
For serious though. I have when I worked outside the home.

4. Do you apologize when you make a mistake? How do you react when someone calls you out?
Oh yes. No one could ever accuse me of not apologizing pretty quickly and easily. I realize (I think for the most part) when I am wrong or have hurt or upset another person. An apology goes *A LONG WAYS* in my opinion.

5. Top or bottom?
How to choose?! On top I can have some fanfuckintabulous O’s. But I seriously think I have to go with bottom. He has the best depth and while the BIG O’s are while I’m on top usually, the back to back blow my mind ones are while he’s on top.

Bonus (as in optional): Bonus: How old were you when you first had a willing sexual experience?
With a guy. 15. It was the summer before I went into my sophomore year of high school.

HappyTMI!!!

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~xo

When you wish upon a star edition…..

*You find a fairy. With a wave of their wand they can change anything for you.

What is the one thing you would change about your body?
Anything I say here is going to be gaffaw-ed at by others I’m sure. But my thighs. I have to work *REALLY* hard to make them look even half way how I wished they did. It’s taken me into my mid-thirties to find the right caloric intake and running regimen to get them how they are and still most days that isn’t to a point where I love them.

What is the one personality trait you would change?
Um…my bitchiness? LOLOL Ok. Seriously. Things fly out of my mouth before I think much. too. often. And it only takes less than half a second to think “fuck!” and I find myself back peddling to respond in way I wished I had in the first place. My mouth responds faster than my brain. Doh.

What is the one thing about your job you would change?
I wouldn’t. Domestic Goddess (so what if I suck at cleaning house), world’s best mommy (snort…play along with me people!), internet whore….. Ah….I have the perfect life thanks to PC and I try really hard to always make sure he knows how grateful I am. ~grin~

What is the one thing about your home you would change?
Oh LORD. I currently have 3″ of standing water in a portion of my basement. Let’s start there. But to be more accurate, the better question would be what *wouldn’t I* change about our home. Gah…..

What is the one thing about your Significant Other you would change?
Okay….. Maybe his clutter? While I am a total pack rat. I am an organized pack rat. I firmly believe if I didn’t DEclutter portions of our house every so often we might not even be able to get in our front door bc the boxes of computer parts…or just empty boxes, and papers and actual computer parts would be blocking it…. (he knows I love him, we are good for each other….*MUAH* Honey)

Who is the one person you would poof out of your life and why?
Oh. Well if this isn’t a loaded question or what. Yikes. Lets just say I already took care of that problem.
*wipes hands off*
Good riddance.

Who is the one person you would poof back in and why?
Hmm…. I can’t think of anyone. I’m quite happy with the friends/family/people in my life currently. Yep.

HappyTMI!!!

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(Hey I just realized, my birthday is a month from today! Plan accordingly ~wink~)